{"id":43594,"date":"2019-09-26T20:32:35","date_gmt":"2019-09-26T20:32:35","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=43594"},"modified":"2021-08-11T12:10:11","modified_gmt":"2021-08-11T12:10:11","slug":"a-unica-coisa-boa-que-fizeste-por-mim-foi-sair-da-minha-vida","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/a-unica-coisa-boa-que-fizeste-por-mim-foi-sair-da-minha-vida\/","title":{"rendered":"A \u00fanica coisa boa que fizeste por mim foi ter sa\u00eddo da minha vida"},"content":{"rendered":"

Ainda me lembro da sensa\u00e7\u00e3o de desespero total quando te foste embora. <\/span><\/p>\n

I thought I was going to die from crying on that first night. I was sobbing, and I couldn\u2019t catch my breath. <\/span><\/p>\n

Fizeste mais do que partir o meu cora\u00e7\u00e3o, fizeste <\/span>partiu-me a alma<\/span><\/a>. <\/span><\/p>\n

You turned your back on everything that we had built. You gave up on us, and I couldn\u2019t make my peace with that. <\/span><\/p>\n

Nessa altura, pensei que tinha perdido o amor da minha vida, o meu primeiro e \u00fanico amor, e que passaria o resto dos meus dias privado do verdadeiro amor. <\/span><\/p>\n

I was wrong, of course, but I couldn\u2019t grasp that at the time. <\/span><\/p>\n

\"Jovem<\/p>\n

Losing you made me physically ill. I couldn\u2019t eat. I couldn\u2019t sleep. I couldn\u2019t breathe properly. I felt like I was slowly sinking into depression. <\/span><\/p>\n

I was living my life in slow motion, and I thought it would go on forever. I couldn\u2019t believe what had happened. <\/span><\/p>\n

N\u00e3o fazia sentido para mim. Estava preso a reviver aquele momento e todas aquelas mem\u00f3rias que partilh\u00e1mos dia ap\u00f3s dia. <\/span><\/p>\n

S\u00f3 te queria por perto. Queria que me abra\u00e7asses, me beijasses e me dissesses que tudo vai ficar bem. <\/b><\/p>\n

Mas tu nunca foste esse tipo, pois n\u00e3o?  <\/b><\/p>\n

Nunca soubeste consolar-me e acalmar-me. <\/span><\/p>\n

You never knew how to do that or you never wanted to do that\u2014I don\u2019t know anymore. <\/span><\/p>\n

Acho que demorei mais de um ano para come\u00e7ar a sair da dor profunda em que tinha ca\u00eddo.<\/span><\/p>\n

\"Grande<\/p>\n

Estava finalmente a curar-me. Finalmente levantei a venda que tinha posto durante toda a nossa rela\u00e7\u00e3o. <\/span><\/p>\n

I used to look at you with my eyes full of love. That\u2019s why I never saw you clearly. I never saw the real you. <\/b><\/p>\n

You weren’t as perfect as I made you out to be. <\/span><\/p>\n

You were so wrong for me, but I couldn\u2019t admit it to myself. <\/span><\/p>\n

Foi <\/span>nunca a minha pessoa para sempre<\/span><\/a>nunca foste o tal. Eu sei disso agora. <\/span><\/p>\n

Sei que o facto de me teres abandonado foi a melhor coisa que podia ter acontecido. <\/span><\/p>\n

You covered all the bad things you\u2019d done with beautiful ones, so I would forgive quickly and forget even quicker. <\/b><\/p>\n

Deixaste de fazer esfor\u00e7os assim que te apercebeste que eu estava completamente apaixonada por ti. <\/span><\/p>\n

Tudo era mais importante do que eu, e eu ficava sempre em \u00faltimo lugar. Nunca fui o teu n\u00famero um. <\/span><\/p>\n

Cancelar os nossos planos \u00e0 \u00faltima hora, esquecer-se de enviar mensagens, esquecer-se de telefonar, esquecer-se de mim, faziam parte da tua rotina habitual. <\/span><\/p>\n

Claro que havia dias em que me enchias de amor, carinho e aten\u00e7\u00e3o, mas esses dias eram raros. <\/span><\/p>\n

Perseguias-me quando sentias que eu estava prestes a desistir. <\/span><\/p>\n

\"Mulher<\/p>\n

Tu mexeste com a minha mente e com os meus sentimentos o tempo todo, e eu n\u00e3o sabia de nada. <\/b><\/p>\n

I still can\u2019t believe how clueless I was. I basically allowed you to get away with treating me badly. <\/span><\/p>\n

Do you remember all the patronizing stories of how you knew what\u2019s best for me and all those times you made me feel small and insignificant? <\/span><\/p>\n

Sabias como me irritar e falavas sempre das coisas que me incomodavam ou me faziam sentir constrangida.<\/span><\/p>\n

Whenever I confronted you, you would turn the tables on me, and I would end up apologizing for the things I hadn\u2019t done. <\/span><\/p>\n

Sempre que eu dizia que esperava certas coisas de ti ou te pedia para me dares o teu apoio, dizias que eu era carente. <\/span><\/p>\n

Depois pedias desculpa, beijavas as feridas que tu pr\u00f3prio tinhas infligido no meu cora\u00e7\u00e3o, fazias o teu melhor para me provar que te preocupavas e, antes que eu pudesse desfrutar plenamente da felicidade s\u00fabita, est\u00e1vamos novamente a desmoronar. <\/b><\/p>\n

Dito isto, com a imagem clara de ti e do teu comportamento perante os meus olhos, posso dizer honestamente que a tua sa\u00edda da minha vida foi a melhor coisa que podias ter feito por mim. <\/span><\/p>\n

\"Mulher<\/p>\n

If you hadn\u2019t, I would still be stuck in that vicious circle of emotional abuse I was not even aware of. It took my completely falling apart to build myself up again. <\/span><\/p>\n

I am happy now. Happier than I\u2019ve ever been. Thank you for that. <\/span><\/p>\n

In the end, all I can say is our story wasn\u2019t all in vain. It served its purpose, and now all that\u2019s left to say about you and what we once had is: <\/span><\/p>\n

Era uma vez, pensei que eras o amor da minha vida. <\/span><\/i><\/p>\n

Agora \u00e9s apenas um estranho, uma mem\u00f3ria distante, uma li\u00e7\u00e3o valiosa que s\u00f3 serve para me lembrar de n\u00e3o voltar a repetir o mesmo erro.<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n

\"A<\/p>\n

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I still remember that feeling of complete despair when you walked away. I thought I was going to die from crying on that first night. I was sobbing, and I couldn\u2019t catch my breath.  You did more than just break my heart; you broke my soul. You turned your back on everything that we had…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":40,"featured_media":43599,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29618],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-43594","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-moving-on"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29618,"label":"moving on"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/09\/shutterstock_285613940.jpg",800,533,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tara Brown","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/tara-brown\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29618,"name":"moving on","slug":"moving-on","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29618,"taxonomy":"category","description":"When nothing else works - inspiring stories about moving on are bound to help you let go of people and situations you never thought you could live without.\r\n","parent":38,"count":200,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29618,"category_count":200,"category_description":"When nothing else works - inspiring stories about moving on are bound to help you let go of people and situations you never thought you could live without.\r\n","cat_name":"moving on","category_nicename":"moving-on","category_parent":38}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/43594","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/40"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=43594"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/43594\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/43599"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=43594"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=43594"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=43594"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}