{"id":43604,"date":"2019-09-26T21:52:47","date_gmt":"2019-09-26T21:52:47","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=43604"},"modified":"2021-08-11T12:09:45","modified_gmt":"2021-08-11T12:09:45","slug":"so-porque-estas-apaixonada-nao-quer-dizer-que-ele-seja-a-pessoa-certa","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/so-porque-estas-apaixonada-nao-quer-dizer-que-ele-seja-a-pessoa-certa\/","title":{"rendered":"S\u00f3 porque est\u00e1s apaixonada, n\u00e3o quer dizer que ele seja a pessoa certa"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Desde pequena que sonhava em encontrar o verdadeiro amor.<\/p>\n<p>Nevertheless, you didn\u2019t want an ordinary kind of love.<\/p>\n<p>Queriam um amor que consumisse tudo, um amor intemporal que durasse uma vida inteira.<\/p>\n<p>Um tipo de amor que tem o poder de derrotar todos os obst\u00e1culos e enfrentar todos os desafios.<\/p>\n<p>O tipo de amor que se v\u00ea nos filmes e se l\u00ea nos contos de fadas.<\/p>\n<p>You wanted your Prince Charming \u2013 someone who will rock your world and never fail to remind you <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/amor\/obrigada-por-me-lembrares-sempre-como-sao-as-borboletas\/\">como \u00e9 que as borboletas se sentem<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>And you weren\u2019t ready to settle for less.<\/p>\n<p>Querias fogo de artif\u00edcio e paix\u00e3o, n\u00e3o uma vida aborrecida com algu\u00e9m que mal suportas mas que \u00e9 bom para ti no papel.<\/p>\n<p><b>Recusaste-te a deixar que a tua mente te conduzisse nestes assuntos do cora\u00e7\u00e3o e nunca duvidaste dos teus caminhos.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-43609\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/09\/shutterstock_572245714_800x.jpg\" alt=\"Um homem est\u00e1 a segurar duas metades de um cora\u00e7\u00e3o de papel\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/09\/shutterstock_572245714_800x.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/09\/shutterstock_572245714_800x-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/09\/shutterstock_572245714_800x-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Agora, depois de todo este tempo, sente finalmente tudo aquilo com que sonhava.<\/p>\n<p>You\u2019ve finally found a man who rocks your world and has awakened every possible emotion inside of you.<\/p>\n<p>At last you\u2019ve met a man who makes you tremble every time you see him \u2013 one who moves the floor beneath you every time he looks at you and you\u2019re convinced you\u2019ll love for the rest of your life.<\/p>\n<p><b>There\u2019s no doubt \u2013 you\u2019re head over heels for this guy. <\/b><\/p>\n<p><b>He makes you feel more alive than ever and you don\u2019t want this sensation to ever stop.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>However, you\u2019re not a little girl anymore and real life is nothing like a fairytale.<\/p>\n<p>Sim, n\u00e3o querer aceitar nada menos do que o amor verdadeiro e procurar o romance \u00e9 fant\u00e1stico, mas a dura verdade \u00e9 que, por vezes, <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/amor\/por-vezes-o-amor-nao-e-suficiente\/\">o amor simplesmente n\u00e3o \u00e9 suficiente<\/a>, as much as we\u2019d like it to be.<\/p>\n<p><b>Just because you\u2019re in love with a man, it doesn\u2019t make him the right one for you.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><b> It doesn\u2019t necessarily make him your soulmate or forever person.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-43610\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/09\/shutterstock_258682850_800x.jpg\" alt=\"Rejei\u00e7\u00e3o de proposta quando um homem feliz pede em casamento\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/09\/shutterstock_258682850_800x.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/09\/shutterstock_258682850_800x-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/09\/shutterstock_258682850_800x-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>That isn\u2019t to say that the two of you will automatically have a happy life together just because you share strong chemistry and intense emotions, nor does it mean that he\u2019s someone you could grow old next to or that you would get along with.<\/p>\n<p>Detesto ter de vos estragar a cabe\u00e7a, mas h\u00e1 coisas mais importantes a ter em conta quando se planeia um futuro com algu\u00e9m.<\/p>\n<p>H\u00e1 muitas outras qualidades que o seu homem certo deve ter para al\u00e9m de ser ador\u00e1vel.<\/p>\n<p>O que precisa de fazer \u00e9 tirar os seus \u00f3culos de sol cor-de-rosa e come\u00e7ar a ver este homem como ele realmente \u00e9.<\/p>\n<p>\u00c9 o seu melhor amigo para al\u00e9m do seu amante? \u00c9 fi\u00e1vel e digno de confian\u00e7a?<\/p>\n<p>Realisticamente, ser\u00e1 ele um homem que a merece e que lhe pode dar tudo o que precisa?<\/p>\n<p>O tipo de homem com quem gostaria que a sua filha ou irm\u00e3 casasse?<\/p>\n<p>Don\u2019t get me wrong, I\u2019m not telling you to look for perfection because something like that doesn\u2019t exist and, let\u2019s face it, you also have your share of flaws.<\/p>\n<p>That said, your feelings can\u2019t be the only criteria when it comes to choosing your forever person.<\/p>\n<p>No, you shouldn\u2019t settle for a loveless relationship either just because you think someone is a good catch or he\u2019d suit you well.<\/p>\n<p>To be honest, a man can be the greatest guy in the world, but if you don\u2019t love him, you\u2019ll never be happy beside him.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-43611\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/09\/shutterstock_1129246370_800x.jpg\" alt=\"Jovem casal com cora\u00e7\u00e3o de papel rasgado\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/09\/shutterstock_1129246370_800x.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/09\/shutterstock_1129246370_800x-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/09\/shutterstock_1129246370_800x-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><b>However, if a man doesn\u2019t respect you as a woman and as his partner, doesn\u2019t appreciate your sacrifices, doesn\u2019t make you feel safe, doesn\u2019t treat you as his equal and, most importantly, if you two aren\u2019t compatible and can\u2019t seem to reach a compromise regarding important life issues, all of your emotions mean nothing because they won\u2019t be able to defeat your differences.&nbsp;<\/b><\/p>\n<p>Basicamente, <b>love is crucial \u2013 nobody can argue with that \u2013 but it can\u2019t make up for everything else.&nbsp;<\/b><\/p>\n<p>Therefore, if you love a man but don\u2019t have all of the above, I hate to disappoint you, but it\u2019s time to <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/amor\/saber-tempo-dar\/\">desistir dele<\/a>.<b> <\/b><\/p>\n<p><b>I know it\u2019s not easy to go against your heart, but trust me, it\u2019s better to do it in time before it becomes too late.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>Even though it doesn\u2019t seem that way at this moment, I assure you that you will manage to overcome these emotions you\u2019re having right now.<\/p>\n<p>Not only that, sometime in the future, you\u2019ll be grateful to yourself for making the right choice, if you come to the conclusion that this is not the guy for you.<\/p>\n<p>And once you find a man with whom you experience both love and compatibility, you\u2019ll be proud of the fact that you were strong enough to defeat yourself, despite it being one of the hardest things you ever had to do.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-large wp-image-43643\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/09\/organized-by-St.-Jude-Chapel18-724x1024.jpg\" alt=\"S\u00f3 porque est\u00e1s apaixonada, n\u00e3o quer dizer que ele seja a pessoa certa\" width=\"724\" height=\"1024\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/09\/organized-by-St.-Jude-Chapel18-724x1024.jpg 724w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/09\/organized-by-St.-Jude-Chapel18-212x300.jpg 212w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/09\/organized-by-St.-Jude-Chapel18-768x1086.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/09\/organized-by-St.-Jude-Chapel18.jpg 794w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 724px) 100vw, 724px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Ever since you were a little girl, you dreamt of finding true love. Nevertheless, you didn\u2019t want an ordinary kind of love. You wanted an all-consuming, timeless love that lasts a lifetime. A kind of love that has the power to defeat every obstacle and face every challenge. The type of love you saw in&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":53,"featured_media":43641,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29614],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-43604","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-love-talks"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29614,"label":"love talks"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/09\/shutterstock_573172159_800x.jpg",800,533,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Ariel Quinn","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/ariel\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29614,"name":"love talks","slug":"love-talks","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29614,"taxonomy":"category","description":"What is love? 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