{"id":43632,"date":"2019-09-27T12:26:12","date_gmt":"2019-09-27T12:26:12","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=43632"},"modified":"2021-08-11T12:08:38","modified_gmt":"2021-08-11T12:08:38","slug":"nunca-envie-uma-mensagem-ao-seu-ex-de-merda-mas-se-o-fizer-envie-lhe-uma-destas-5-mensagens","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/nunca-envie-uma-mensagem-ao-seu-ex-de-merda-mas-se-o-fizer-envie-lhe-uma-destas-5-mensagens\/","title":{"rendered":"Nunca mandes mensagens ao teu ex de merda, mas se o fizeres, envia-lhe um destes 5 textos"},"content":{"rendered":"

Now, let\u2019s be honest. How many times have you thought of texting your (shitty) ex to tell him everything that\u2019s on your mind and make him feel sorry for not treating you right?<\/p>\n

Demasiadas vezes, certo?<\/p>\n

But at the last second, you decided not to do so because you didn\u2019t have any idea of what to specifically text him because all the words in your head were screaming and you couldn\u2019t pick out the right ones.<\/p>\n

No dia seguinte, a vontade de lhe enviar uma mensagem de texto voltou a aparecer e tornou-se ainda mais forte do que antes e, apesar de j\u00e1 ter lido imensos artigos que real\u00e7am the importance of the \u2018no contact\u2019 rule<\/a>, you still can\u2019t help but imagine what a relief it would be to make him feel at least a bit of pain that he caused you.<\/p>\n

Compreendo-vos perfeitamente porque j\u00e1 fui como v\u00f3s.<\/p>\n

Estava sentado ao lado do meu telem\u00f3vel, a escrever e a apagar mensagens de texto repetidamente.<\/p>\n

I couldn\u2019t decide which one to send or whether should I send one at all.<\/p>\n

Depois, ganhei coragem e escrevi uma mensagem perfeitamente razo\u00e1vel que o fez sentir-se mal e que o fez perceber o idiota que era para mim.<\/p>\n

Naquele momento, senti que tinha finalmente terminado a minha vida e que podia continuar a viver a minha vida em paz.<\/p>\n

Por isso, se queres fazer com que o teu ex de merda sinta o mesmo e encontre a tua paz interior, considera enviar-lhe um destes 5 textos:<\/p>\n

1. Para fazer com que ele sinta pena de a ter tomado como garantida<\/a><\/h2>\n

\"homem<\/p>\n

Caro ex,<\/i><\/p>\n

S\u00f3 queria que soubesses que estava ciente de todas as merdas que me fizeste, mas mesmo assim fiquei. <\/i><\/p>\n

I stayed because I\u2019m not a coward who gives up at the first obstacle.<\/i><\/p>\n

I believe that there is good in all of us and I wanted to believe that you\u2019d change. But you never did.<\/i><\/p>\n

And even though you replaced my smile with tears, you left me waiting for hours and you broke my heart, I\u2019m still happy with myself that I stayed.<\/i><\/p>\n

I\u2019m happy that I still see good in others and at the same time, I\u2019m sad for you because you\u2019ll never be able to do the same.<\/i><\/p>\n

2. To show him that you\u2019ve never been happier (without him)<\/h2>\n

\"Retrato<\/p>\n

Caro ex,<\/i><\/p>\n

Quando ia a descer a rua, reparei no teu restaurante preferido e decidi pedir algo como nos velhos tempos, mas desta vez sozinho.<\/i><\/p>\n

Antes, nunca me atreveria a fazer tal coisa porque tinha sempre medo de me sentir s\u00f3 e de que tudo me fizesse lembrar de n\u00f3s.<\/i><\/p>\n

I was surprised that this didn\u2019t happen! I\u2019ve realized that <\/i>I\u2019ve actually never been happier<\/i><\/a>.<\/i><\/p>\n

I won\u2019t lie, the first few days I felt horrible but today I can say for sure that this was the best decision of my life and I\u2019ve never felt calmer or more blissful in my life. <\/i><\/p>\n

Obrigado!<\/i><\/p>\n

3. To remind him of all the shitty things he\u2019s said or done to you<\/h2>\n

\"jovem<\/p>\n

Caro ex,<\/i><\/p>\n

As I\u2019m writing this, you\u2019re probably devising a plan of how to destroy another innocent human being like you did to me.<\/i><\/p>\n

You\u2019re probably devising the perfect plan of how to steal another human being\u2019s happiness and feed on their selfless love and innocence.<\/i><\/p>\n

I will not tell you not to do it because I know you\u2019d never listen to me but I want you to imagine how it feels to be broken inside, how it feels to be left on your own knowing that tears and sleepless nights are the only friends you have.<\/i><\/p>\n

Can you imagine how it feels to be convinced that you\u2019re <\/i>indigno de amor<\/i><\/a> and that you don\u2019t deserve better treatment than a toxic one?<\/i><\/p>\n

Consegue imaginar um cora\u00e7\u00e3o a desfazer-se em milhares de peda\u00e7os min\u00fasculos que se dispersam por todo o lado?<\/i><\/p>\n

That\u2019s what you did to me and that\u2019s what you\u2019ll probably to do someone else again. <\/i><\/p>\n

But before doing it, think about these words that might save another innocent human\u2019s life.<\/i><\/p>\n

4. Para que ele saiba que outra pessoa est\u00e1 agora a trat\u00e1-la como merece<\/h2>\n

\"Cavalheiro<\/p>\n

Caro ex,<\/i><\/p>\n

I have to admit to you that I was scared that I\u2019d never meet anyone else like you.<\/i><\/p>\n

Pensei que eras a melhor coisa que me tinha acontecido e que nunca ningu\u00e9m te poderia substituir.<\/i><\/p>\n

Pensava tudo isso apesar de me tratares como um peda\u00e7o de merda.<\/i><\/p>\n

I\u2019ve realized that I was blind and a fool to believe that I deserved the treatment you gave me. <\/i><\/p>\n

Enganei-me redondamente. E sabem como \u00e9 que eu percebi isso?<\/i><\/p>\n

I\u2019ve realized it because someone else is treating me the way I deserve.<\/i><\/p>\n

Someone else is showing me what real love really is and I have to admit that I\u2019ve never been happier in my life.<\/i><\/p>\n

Por isso, obrigada por n\u00e3o me tratarem bem, porque finalmente vejo a diferen\u00e7a entre um homem que \u00e9 digno de estar na minha vida e um que n\u00e3o \u00e9.<\/i><\/p>\n

5. Para o informar de que ele foi apenas um erro<\/a> sob a forma de uma li\u00e7\u00e3o dolorosa<\/h2>\n

\"Mulher<\/p>\n

Caro ex,<\/i><\/p>\n

No momento em que acab\u00e1mos, pensei que o meu mundo se estava a desmoronar perante os meus pr\u00f3prios olhos.<\/i><\/p>\n

Acho que precisei de algum tempo para perceber que tu foste apenas um erro e uma li\u00e7\u00e3o dolorosa que precisei de aprender para abrir os olhos e perceber que todo este tempo, <\/i>I\u2019d been taking my own happiness for granted<\/i><\/a>.<\/i><\/p>\n

Por muito estranho que pare\u00e7a, quero agradecer-te por todas as merdas que me fizeste, porque isso tornou-me mais forte e corajoso do que era antes. <\/i><\/p>\n

Obrigado!<\/i><\/p>\n

Ver tamb\u00e9m: Podes perdo\u00e1-lo, mas n\u00e3o o deixes voltar a entrar na tua vida<\/a><\/p>\n

\"Nunca<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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