{"id":43665,"date":"2020-06-27T13:22:15","date_gmt":"2020-06-27T13:22:15","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=43665"},"modified":"2021-08-11T11:44:57","modified_gmt":"2021-08-11T11:44:57","slug":"a-verdade-sobre-a-rapariga-que-ama-sempre-mais-do-que-e-amada-de-volta","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/a-verdade-sobre-a-rapariga-que-ama-sempre-mais-do-que-e-amada-de-volta\/","title":{"rendered":"A verdade sobre a rapariga que ama sempre mais do que \u00e9 amada de volta"},"content":{"rendered":"

Sempre fui aquela rapariga que deu cento e dez por cento a algu\u00e9m que me deu menos de cem por cento deles. <\/span><\/p>\n

I\u2019ve always been that girl who had to find a little extra love to compensate for the lack of affection I was given in return.<\/span><\/p>\n

I\u2019m not saying I have never been loved, nor am I saying that I can\u2019t be loved.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

But what I\u2019ve come to realize recently is that I always have to be the one who gives more because otherwise I fear I would get <\/span>nada.<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n

And this is a hard thing to say out loud, which I\u2019m sure anyone who has struggled with this dreadful feeling can understand. <\/span><\/i><\/p>\n

I would never say this to anyone face-to-face. I\u2019m too ashamed that I feel this way.<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n

But it\u2019s my truth and I have to live with it.<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n

\"uma<\/p>\n

I don\u2019t know if there\u2019s something wrong with me that makes me difficult to love completely and irrevocably\u2026 but it sure as hell feels that way at times.<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n

Mesmo com o meu \u00faltimo namorado, senti-me exatamente assim. Eu sabia que ele se importava at\u00e9 certo ponto. Eu sabia que ele tinha sentimentos por mim. <\/span><\/p>\n

But I just wasn\u2019t enough. I wasn\u2019t <\/span>a sua prioridade<\/span><\/a>. I was never the one he\u2019d leave wherever he was in an instant and come to be by my side.<\/span><\/p>\n

Eu era mais uma op\u00e7\u00e3o decente, mas se houvesse algu\u00e9m com melhor aspeto e mais parecido com uma supermodelo, eu estava de certeza em segundo plano. <\/span><\/p>\n

E doeu imenso.<\/span><\/p>\n

Mas o meu problema era que nunca falava. <\/span>Eu nunca disse nada. <\/span><\/p>\n

Aceitei essa situa\u00e7\u00e3o de merda como ela era, porque achei que era melhor receber amor aos bocadinhos do que estar completamente sozinha.<\/span><\/p>\n

But the real truth about constantly being the girl who loves more than she is loved back is that she\u2019s <\/span>farto e cansado disso<\/span><\/a>.<\/span><\/p>\n

\"Mulher<\/p>\n

She no longer accepts only half of the attention and half of anyone\u2019s love.<\/span><\/p>\n

Ela quer tudo ou nada! Porque adivinha? <\/span><\/p>\n

Os idiotas que a consideram indigna de toda a sua aten\u00e7\u00e3o s\u00e3o os que t\u00eam problemas<\/span>\u2014<\/span>N\u00c3O ela.<\/span><\/p>\n

Those who treat the people they\u2019re supposed to cherish as an option are the ones who are eventually going to get stung.<\/span><\/p>\n

It\u2019s only a matter of time.<\/span><\/p>\n

Durante muito tempo, vivi com esta sensa\u00e7\u00e3o de comich\u00e3o dentro de mim, como se fosse defeituosa de alguma forma. <\/span><\/p>\n

Durante muito tempo senti que n\u00e3o era suficientemente bonita, inteligente ou interessante.<\/span><\/p>\n

For too long I accepted far less than I deserve and I know I\u2019m not alone in feeling this way.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

Sei que h\u00e1 muitas raparigas por a\u00ed que temem a rejei\u00e7\u00e3o ao ponto de aceitarem qualquer amor a que consigam deitar a m\u00e3o.<\/span><\/p>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

But the truth is that those who refuse to give you everything that you deserve and don\u2019t treat you with the utmost respect are nothing but assholes in disguise who are not worthy of a single tear of yours!<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n

Eles \u00e9 que deviam estar a sentir-se assim, N\u00c3O tu. <\/span><\/i><\/p>\n

\u00c9 uma mulher perfeitamente correcta, gentil, inteligente e bonita que vai encontrar o seu final feliz. <\/span><\/i><\/p>\n

And those jerks are going to end up alone because they can\u2019t give their whole heart to any one person.<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n

In a way, you should feel sorry for them. So what if that idiot couldn\u2019t give you all of his love?\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

E se ele s\u00f3 aparecesse metade das vezes quando precisavas dele? <\/span><\/p>\n

That doesn\u2019t mean you\u2019re at fault. It means he\u2019s a no-good type of idiot who couldn\u2019t see a good thing if it stared him right in the face!<\/span><\/p>\n

\u00a0<\/span>So don\u2019t worry about him and all those like him.<\/span><\/p>\n

\"Mulher<\/p>\n

S\u00e3o eles que v\u00e3o acabar por mendigar migalhas do seu amor um dia. Prometo-vos isso.<\/span><\/p>\n

Talvez n\u00e3o amanh\u00e3 e talvez n\u00e3o durante alguns anos. <\/span><\/p>\n

But when enough time has passed and he is still living that superficial single life that got him nowhere, he\u2019ll come crawling back.<\/span><\/p>\n

But the only difference is that this time, you\u2019ll be the one turning your back on him. <\/span><\/p>\n

You\u2019ll be the one who decides that he isn\u2019t <\/span>suficientemente bom<\/span><\/a> para si.<\/span><\/p>\n

And that is going to be one of the most satisfying feelings you\u2019ve ever felt.<\/span><\/p>\n

Looking him straight in the eye with a short and sweet, \u2018\u2019Nope!\u2019\u2019 while showing him the door.<\/span><\/p>\n

And then, you never have to think about him again. Because he\u2019s too big of a wuss to face you ever again.<\/span><\/p>\n

\"Retrato<\/p>\n

The truth is that being a girl who loves more isn\u2019t all that bad when you really think about it.\u00a0<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n

Porque nos ensina a ter paci\u00eancia e nos mostra a nossa capacidade de resist\u00eancia. <\/span><\/i><\/p>\n

You learn to be the best and strongest version of yourself and isn\u2019t that something to be thankful for?<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n

If you hadn\u2019t gone through all that, you wouldn\u2019t be aware of what you\u2019re capable of enduring.<\/span><\/p>\n

If all those jerks hadn\u2019t been such assholes, you probably wouldn\u2019t be able to appreciate the good in your life the way you do now.<\/span><\/p>\n

E \u00e9 isso que vos torna melhores do que eles. <\/span><\/p>\n

You learn and grow from this. And them? They stay the same immature boys who can\u2019t appreciate a good woman if their lives depended on it.<\/span><\/p>\n

And ultimately, you\u2019re the only one who comes out of this a winner<\/span>\u2014<\/span>em todos os aspectos que realmente importam.<\/span><\/p>\n

\"A<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

I\u2019ve always been that girl who gave a hundred and ten percent to somebody who gave me less than a hundred percent of them. I\u2019ve always been that girl who had to find a little extra love to compensate for the lack of affection I was given in return. I\u2019m not saying I have never…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":40,"featured_media":43671,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29619],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-43665","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-stories-love"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29619,"label":"stories"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/09\/shutterstock_572076700.jpg",800,533,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tara Brown","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/tara-brown\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29619,"name":"stories","slug":"stories-love","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29619,"taxonomy":"category","description":"To all the souls struggling with complicated love experiences: These heartfelt stories about love, heartbreak, and moving on will be your voice of wisdom.","parent":38,"count":424,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29619,"category_count":424,"category_description":"To all the souls struggling with complicated love experiences: These heartfelt stories about love, heartbreak, and moving on will be your voice of wisdom.","cat_name":"stories","category_nicename":"stories-love","category_parent":38}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/43665","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/40"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=43665"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/43665\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/43671"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=43665"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=43665"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=43665"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}