For instance, someone accusing their partner of cheating when they\u2019re actually the one engaging in the scandalous act is projecting. <\/span><\/i><\/p>\n A jealous co-worker who accuses everyone else in the office of being jealous is projecting; secretly, they\u2019re jealous of just about everyone with a modicum of success. And so on.\u2019\u2019 <\/span><\/i>\u2013 Unknown<\/span><\/p>\n Now that we\u2019ve covered exactly what projection is, let\u2019s discuss how narcissists use this devious tactic to get <\/span>as suas v\u00edtimas<\/span><\/a> exatamente onde eles os querem.<\/span><\/p>\n Firstly, it\u2019s important to note that narcissists aren\u2019t the only people in the world who use this tactic.<\/span><\/p>\n I\u2019m sure you have engaged in this to some mild degree as well, just like I have and a bunch of other perfectly \u2018normal\u2019 people out there.<\/span><\/p>\n But the difference is this: You and I don\u2019t make a habit out of doing this and afterward we usually feel a sense of guilt about it. <\/span><\/p>\n But a narcissist doesn\u2019t. A narcissist uses this on a regular basis and it\u2019s his weapon of choice, which he uses gladly and frequently.<\/span><\/p>\n O narcisista utiliza a proje\u00e7\u00e3o para fazer com que a sua v\u00edtima se sinta desvalorizada e inferiorizada. <\/span><\/p>\n \u00c9 a sua t\u00e1tica para os tornar indefesos e impotentes, de modo a tirar o m\u00e1ximo partido deles. <\/span><\/p>\n And while he\u2019s doing it, there is not an ounce of guilt about it. <\/span>Apenas maldade pura e satisfa\u00e7\u00e3o de vos ver a contorcer. <\/span><\/p>\n A sua falta de empatia e o seu sentido de grandiosidade fazem-no sentir-se superior a si e a sua autoestima inflacionada f\u00e1-lo sentir que tem todo o direito de lhe impor isso.<\/span><\/p>\n <\/p>\n H\u00e1 muitas raz\u00f5es para os narcisistas usarem a proje\u00e7\u00e3o nas pessoas. Algumas delas s\u00e3o as seguintes:<\/b><\/p>\n E aqui est\u00e3o todas as formas de um narcisista usar a proje\u00e7\u00e3o para o manipular, para o levar onde ele quer e como pode p\u00f4r fim a isso.<\/i><\/p>\n Um narcisista cham\u00e1-lo-\u00e1 \u00e0 aten\u00e7\u00e3o por algumas raz\u00f5es. A primeira raz\u00e3o pode ser o facto de ele querer que voc\u00ea fa\u00e7a algo por ele. <\/span><\/p>\n Em vez de lhe pedir como uma pessoa normal, ele vai usar o sentimento de culpa para o levar a faz\u00ea-lo com certeza.<\/span><\/p>\n A outra raz\u00e3o pode ser o facto de ele querer que se sinta atacada e esta \u00e9 a melhor forma de o conseguir. <\/span><\/p>\n Sometimes they just feel like doing it out of boredom or pure malice and there\u2019s nothing you can do about it. <\/span><\/p>\n If you don\u2019t respond, he\u2019s going to get really frustrated and resort to <\/span>abuso verbal<\/span><\/a>.<\/span><\/p>\n Eis o que deve fazer<\/span>: After a while, it\u2019s going to become easy to recognize the patterns and see his behavior for what it is<\/span>\u2014<\/span>uma tentativa desesperada de o rebaixar para aumentar o seu ego. <\/span><\/p>\n If you don\u2019t take the bait and instead resist the urge to respond, he\u2019s going to have nothing left to do but find other ways to feed his ego and leave you be.<\/span><\/p>\n Since a narcissist feels zero empathy, all he can do is observe you and learn how to behave like you and trick you into thinking he\u2019s got emotions that aren\u2019t really there. <\/span><\/p>\n \u00c9 a sua maneira de se misturar e de fingir que \u00e9 apenas um cidad\u00e3o comum.<\/span><\/p>\n This is all successful for a while, because he is an expert at mimicking other people\u2019s behavior and hiding behind a facade but after a while, he\u2019s going to need to take the mask off and show his true colors and that\u2019s when his whole ploy will start <\/span>a desmoronar-se<\/span><\/a>.<\/span><\/p>\n Eis o que deve fazer<\/span>: Estar atento. Mantenha os olhos bem abertos e aceite tudo com um gr\u00e3o de sal. <\/span><\/p>\n Sooner or later, everybody\u2019s true colors rise to the surface. And he is no exception. <\/span><\/p>\n One day, he\u2019ll get tired of pretending and you\u2019ll see exactly what he\u2019s doing.<\/span><\/p>\n Se um narcisista utiliza esta t\u00e1tica de proje\u00e7\u00e3o, deve ter fortes sentimentos de desd\u00e9m por si, sem que isso seja culpa sua, claro. <\/span><\/p>\n Assassinating one\u2019s character is a deeply personal matter that stems from feelings of powerful jealousy and hate.<\/span><\/p>\n He is either trying to get even with you for whatever reason he tells himself or he wants to gain people\u2019s sympathy through slandering you and showing you in a deeply negative light.<\/span><\/p>\n Eis o que deve fazer<\/span>: Firstly, don\u2019t go into anxiety mode. He is clearly desperate if he\u2019s going after you this way. <\/span><\/p>\n Secondly, don\u2019t forget that those who know you won\u2019t doubt you for one second. <\/span><\/p>\n E se isto estiver a acontecer no seu local de trabalho, fale imediatamente com o seu supervisor e pe\u00e7a que sejam tomadas medidas.<\/span><\/p>\n Porqu\u00ea? Porque ele gosta de usar esta carta para explorar pessoas ing\u00e9nuas e de bom cora\u00e7\u00e3o. <\/span><\/p>\n![\"Jovem](\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/09\/shutterstock_287942738.jpg\")
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1. Ele vai chamar-te \u00e0 aten\u00e7\u00e3o, fazendo-te sentir culpado<\/h2>\n
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<\/p>\n2. <\/span>Ele imitar\u00e1 o seu comportamento<\/span><\/h2>\n
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<\/p>\n3. Ele caluniar-te-\u00e1<\/span><\/h2>\n
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<\/p>\n4. <\/span>Ele vai descaradamente jogar a carta da v\u00edtima<\/span><\/h2>\n
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