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<\/p>\nSe pudesse dar-vos um conselho rom\u00e2ntico, dir-vos-ia para nunca olharem para tr\u00e1s, para aqueles que n\u00e3o souberam dar-vos valor. <\/p>\n
Why? Because if they did, you wouldn\u2019t have to look back in the first place. They\u2019d still be by your side!<\/p>\n
If at this very moment, you\u2019re struggling, know that you\u2019re not alone. Know that I\u2019ve got you.<\/p>\n
I know exactly how shitty it feels suffering over an ex who wasn\u2019t worthy of a single one of your tears.<\/p>\n
This didn\u2019t stop me from crying a river every night I dreamed about his face, and every day I missed having his sense of humor around.<\/p>\n
But that doesn\u2019t make me weak, it makes me human.<\/p>\n
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E em toda essa mis\u00e9ria, apercebi-me de algumas coisas.<\/i><\/p>\n
Em primeiro lugar, \u00e9 preciso o mais baixo dos baixos para chegar \u00e0quele lugar saud\u00e1vel e revelador onde tudo come\u00e7a subitamente a fazer sentido<\/a>.<\/p>\n Todas as l\u00e1grimas que choraste, todas as discuss\u00f5es que tiveste e todos os momentos de raiva que te fizeram explodir.<\/p>\n Todas as oportunidades perdidas para resolver as coisas e todos os tratamentos silenciosos que lhe deu ou que ele lhe deu. <\/p>\n Com o tempo, todas essas pequenas coisas come\u00e7am finalmente a pintar o quadro geral que, em \u00faltima an\u00e1lise, lhe mostra que a forma como as coisas est\u00e3o agora \u00e9 exatamente como devem ser.<\/p>\n As hard as it may be to comprehend this now, I promise it\u2019s going to make so much sense in a few short weeks. <\/p>\n Unfortunately, you need to go through all the stages of grief before getting to that good place \u2013 but it\u2019s going to happen.<\/p>\n What I\u2019m here to tell you is this. If deep down in your heart you KNOW that the breakup was the best decision for you, be proud of yourself and don\u2019t waver.<\/p>\n After all, you\u2019re a smart ass lady. <\/i><\/p>\n You know that if the guy cared, he never would\u2019ve left you.<\/i><\/p>\n If he was worried about how you were, he would\u2019ve called to ask!<\/i><\/p>\n And if your feelings mattered to him, he would\u2019ve tried to fix it, not break it off!<\/i><\/p>\n <\/i><\/b>Don\u2019t give him the satisfaction of looking back. <\/p>\n There\u2019s nothing to see! Your past is there for good reason.<\/p>\n He served you as a great lesson, and now you\u2019re ready to face your present and your future.<\/p>\n Uma coisa que podes fazer \u00e9 mostrar-lhe o que ele perdeu!<\/p>\n Faz\u00ea-lo arrepender-se tomar-te por garantido<\/a> e a perder-te por seres a mulher confiante, forte e positiva que \u00e9s.<\/p>\n You don\u2019t have to parade a new man around to show him that. <\/i><\/p>\n Basta viver a sua vida como sempre viveu, e tudo isso com um sorriso confiante no rosto.<\/i><\/p>\n Show him your spirit isn\u2019t broken by remaining a good friend to your girls and dancing the night away, which will show him you are open to new beginnings.<\/i><\/p>\n Revenge is for the weak. The only way he\u2019ll see what he lost is by you living your authentic life to the best of your ability.<\/p>\n He didn\u2019t crush you. You haven\u2019t lost your zest for life.<\/p>\n Agora, est\u00e1 mais aberto a novas oportunidades do que nunca. E porqu\u00ea?<\/p>\n Because you\u2019ve been burned, and you\u2019re ready to let someone new in.<\/p>\n Mas desta vez, algu\u00e9m cujo amor nunca te deixar\u00e1 magoado.<\/p>\n Ningu\u00e9m pode dizer quando \u00e9 que isso vai acontecer. Isso est\u00e1 nas m\u00e3os de Deus. <\/p>\n But one thing I do know is that when you believe you deserve the best and never lose faith in yourself, that\u2019s when you\u2019ll do a 180 and start seeing what you never noticed before.<\/p>\n You\u2019ll finally see that you feel so much more liberated now than you ever did com o seu ex<\/a>.<\/i><\/p>\n![\"mulher](\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/09\/woman-in-black-dress-1.jpg\")
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