{"id":43822,"date":"2019-10-01T11:01:42","date_gmt":"2019-10-01T11:01:42","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=43822"},"modified":"2022-02-20T23:27:06","modified_gmt":"2022-02-20T23:27:06","slug":"5-lacos-emocionais-que-podem-marcar-te-para-o-resto-da-vida","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/5-lacos-emocionais-que-podem-marcar-te-para-o-resto-da-vida\/","title":{"rendered":"5 la\u00e7os emocionais que podem marcar-te para o resto da vida"},"content":{"rendered":"

As emo\u00e7\u00f5es s\u00e3o como combust\u00edvel para a nossa alma e, sem elas, n\u00e3o nos chamar\u00edamos humanos. <\/span><\/i><\/p>\n

But sometimes our emotions can deceive us and trick us to believe that what we\u2019re doing is good for us.<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n

We\u2019re all programmed to bond with others, we all have a desire to be liked by others and we all crave to be protected and loved. <\/span><\/p>\n

E, por vezes, o nosso desejo de viver tudo isto torna-nos cegos \u00e0 realidade.<\/span><\/p>\n

Sometimes we unknowingly decide to live in an illusion, thinking that our love is real and what we\u2019re feeling is real. <\/span><\/p>\n

Escolhemos ficar demasiado pr\u00f3ximos demasiado cedo porque queremos sentir o poder do amor. <\/span><\/p>\n

We want to feel like we\u2019re important to someone and we want it at any cost.<\/span><\/p>\n

But we\u2019re not aware of any of it. We\u2019re just aware of this strong urge for emotional attachment and that is why we choose to do anything to make it happen. <\/span><\/p>\n

We choose to live in an illusion that we\u2019ve <\/span>encontr\u00e1mos a nossa alma g\u00e9mea<\/span><\/a> even though we\u2019ve known each other for less than a week.<\/span><\/p>\n

Este tipo de liga\u00e7\u00f5es emocionais pouco saud\u00e1veis pode marcar-nos para toda a vida e \u00e9 por isso que devemos estar sempre atentos a elas antes que seja tarde demais!<\/span><\/p>\n

1. Tornar-se demasiado pr\u00f3ximo demasiado cedo<\/h1>\n

\"Casal<\/p>\n

Tornar-se demasiado \u00edntimo demasiado cedo significa desenvolver sentimentos por algu\u00e9m novo em tempo recorde e estar convencido de que essa pessoa \u00e9 a sua alma g\u00e9mea e que o vosso lugar \u00e9 juntos. <\/span><\/p>\n

Sometimes this might be the case because it\u2019s possible to meet your soulmate and develop strong feelings for them earlier than usual.<\/span><\/p>\n

But if this happens often, it means it\u2019s an unhealthy emotional attachment because of the strong urge to experience love no matter what. <\/span><\/p>\n

That is why our brain convinces us that that a specific person is our soulmate and that we\u2019re in love with them even though we\u2019ve known them for two days.<\/span><\/p>\n

Este tipo de comportamento tem normalmente origem na nossa inf\u00e2ncia. <\/span><\/p>\n

If our parents didn\u2019t give us enough love during our childhood, we turn into adults who are thirsty for the feeling of being loved and accepted. <\/span><\/p>\n

And that is why our brain tricks us to believe that we\u2019ve found \u2018the one\u2019<\/a> embora a realidade seja totalmente diferente.<\/span><\/p>\n

Ver tamb\u00e9m: <\/span>7 sinais de que voc\u00ea tem um estilo de apego inseguro<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n

2. Ser pegajoso em vez de amoroso<\/span><\/h2>\n

\"Um<\/p>\n

Ser pegajoso significa basicamente ser carente e se sente que precisa de uma pessoa espec\u00edfica na sua vida e n\u00e3o consegue viver com essa pessoa, isso n\u00e3o tem nada a ver com amor. <\/span><\/p>\n

Este combina com o anterior.<\/span><\/p>\n

Becoming too close too soon and thinking that you can\u2019t live without that person is an unhealthy attachment style and not true love.<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n

Healthy love is developed over time and it\u2019s not dependent on physical appearance, style or similar. <\/span><\/p>\n

Healthy love consists of getting to know each other\u2019s fears, wishes, dreams and personality and developing your feelings gradually over time.<\/span><\/p>\n

3. Identifica\u00e7\u00e3o excessiva com estranhos<\/span><\/h2>\n

\"Casal<\/p>\n

Esta \u00e9 sobre pessoas que se sentem fortemente ligadas \u00e0queles que lhes demonstram a m\u00ednima aten\u00e7\u00e3o, como um sorriso, um elogio, uma oferta de ajuda e coisas do g\u00e9nero. <\/span><\/p>\n

When a stranger does something nice for such individuals, they immediately link this with a stranger\u2019s affection for them because they exaggerate the importance of it. <\/span><\/p>\n

Fazem-no devido \u00e0 sua forte necessidade de estabelecer uma liga\u00e7\u00e3o emocional por terem sido negligenciados nesse aspeto durante a inf\u00e2ncia ou mais tarde. <\/span><\/p>\n

These individuals tend to develop strong feelings for strangers and they are convinced that they feel the same about them, even though it\u2019s all just an illusion.<\/span><\/p>\n

4. Sentir-se demasiado ligado a pessoas que det\u00eam algum tipo de poder<\/span><\/h2>\n

\"Jovem<\/p>\n

This unhealthy emotional attachment is about wanting something that you yourself don\u2019t have. <\/span><\/p>\n

It\u2019s about feeling overly connected to people who hold some kind of power because you idolize them for their certain abilities, good looks and similar.<\/span><\/p>\n

Por exemplo, ficam demasiado ligados aos actores porque estes s\u00e3o vistos como positivos pelas massas e t\u00eam algo poderoso que os torna dignos aos olhos do p\u00fablico. <\/span><\/p>\n

Estes indiv\u00edduos est\u00e3o convencidos de que podem receber amor deles e pensam que eles s\u00e3o as \u00fanicas pessoas que os podem compreender e fazer com que eles <\/span>sentir-se novamente digno<\/span><\/a>.<\/span><\/p>\n

5. Procura constante de algum tipo de valida\u00e7\u00e3o relacional<\/span><\/h2>\n

\"Casal<\/p>\n

Devido \u00e0 falta de confian\u00e7a e de amor-pr\u00f3prio, algumas pessoas come\u00e7am a seguir cegamente as \u00faltimas tend\u00eancias, ficam obcecadas com as estrelas e os seus corpos perfeitos e afins. <\/span><\/p>\n

They start thinking that they should fix all of their \u2018flaws\u2019 and look like their idols to be worthy of love and admiration.<\/span><\/p>\n

Esta atitude faz com que acabem por ter uma liga\u00e7\u00e3o emocional pouco saud\u00e1vel por pensarem que o seu corpo, cabelo e tudo o resto tem de ser perfeito e reconhecido pelos outros como tal e que s\u00f3 assim ser\u00e3o dignas de estar com aquela pessoa que admiramos e apoiamos.<\/span><\/p>\n

This behavior forces people to pretend that they\u2019re something they\u2019re really not and it destroys their initial personality. <\/span><\/p>\n

A constante <\/span>busca da perfei\u00e7\u00e3o<\/span><\/a> e a valida\u00e7\u00e3o dos outros \u00e9 um ciclo vicioso que pode destruir o nosso bem-estar e marcar-nos para o resto da vida.<\/span><\/p>\n

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Emotions are like fuel to our soul and without them, we wouldn\u2019t be called humans. But sometimes our emotions can deceive us and trick us to believe that what we\u2019re doing is good for us. We\u2019re all programmed to bond with others, we all have a desire to be liked by others and we all…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":53,"featured_media":43837,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29614],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-43822","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-love-talks"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29614,"label":"love talks"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/shutterstock_520394380.jpg",800,533,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Ariel Quinn","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/ariel\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29614,"name":"love talks","slug":"love-talks","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29614,"taxonomy":"category","description":"What is love? How does it affect us? How to know someone loves you or show someone you love them? What types of love are there? Learn all that and much more.","parent":38,"count":426,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29614,"category_count":426,"category_description":"What is love? How does it affect us? How to know someone loves you or show someone you love them? What types of love are there? Learn all that and much more.","cat_name":"love talks","category_nicename":"love-talks","category_parent":38}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/43822","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/53"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=43822"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/43822\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/43837"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=43822"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=43822"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=43822"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}