{"id":43848,"date":"2020-09-15T12:14:08","date_gmt":"2020-09-15T12:14:08","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=43848"},"modified":"2021-08-12T09:06:24","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T09:06:24","slug":"o-verdadeiro-amor-nunca-te-tornaria-substituivel","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/o-verdadeiro-amor-nunca-te-tornaria-substituivel\/","title":{"rendered":"O verdadeiro amor nunca te tornaria substitu\u00edvel"},"content":{"rendered":"

No mundo dos encontros de hoje, tudo acontece a uma velocidade incr\u00edvel.<\/p>\n

You meet someone new, you give them some short time to impress you, and if you don\u2019t like them, you move on to the next victim.<\/p>\n

N\u00e3o existe lutar por uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o<\/a> ser bem sucedido, fazer um esfor\u00e7o ou chegar a um compromisso.<\/p>\n

N\u00e3o se adapta \u00e0 outra pessoa e n\u00e3o encontra um meio-termo.<\/p>\n

It seems as if most people forgot that healthy relationships aren\u2019t built overnight and that they require a lot of hard work. <\/b><\/p>\n

Como se toda a gente tivesse perdido a paci\u00eancia para p\u00f4r alguma energia nas coisas antes de esperar o resultado final. <\/b><\/p>\n

Today, things are pretty simple: if a guy doesn\u2019t like something about you (even if we\u2019re talking about little things), he will immediately dump you and go on a hunt for a new girl who can give him exactly what he\u2019s looking for at that moment.<\/p>\n

\"o<\/p>\n

Afinal, o mercado dos encontros \u00e9 enorme e ele acha que ficar ao seu lado seria uma perda de tempo, quando poderia estar a saltar de uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o para outra, em busca de uma mulher que satisfizesse cada um dos seus padr\u00f5es imposs\u00edveis.<\/p>\n

Porque \u00e9 que ele se daria ao trabalho de a conquistar quando h\u00e1 muitas raparigas que ele pode ter num piscar de olhos, sem fazer o m\u00ednimo esfor\u00e7o?<\/p>\n

Por que raz\u00e3o passaria ele, por exemplo, semanas ou mesmo meses \u00e0 espera que se sentisse suficientemente \u00e0 vontade para ter sexo com ele, quando pode ter sorte na primeira discoteca em que entrar esta noite?<\/p>\n

Porque \u00e9 que ele iria gastar toda a sua energia a cortej\u00e1-la quando pode conseguir o que quer de uma forma muito mais f\u00e1cil com outra pessoa?<\/p>\n

So naturally, if you\u2019re involved with a guy like this, you can\u2019t help yourself from feeling threatened and insecure.<\/p>\n

You keep on comparing yourself with other girls, making sure you\u2019re always the one who captures his undivided attention.<\/p>\n

Para simplificar: when you\u2019re involved with a guy like this, you live in constant fear that you might be replaced with a newer, shinier model, if the opportunity arises.<\/b><\/p>\n

Don\u2019t get me wrong\u2014I\u2019m not here to blame other women for this situation.<\/p>\n

\"uma<\/p>\n

After all, everyone has the right to do whatever they want, and we\u2019re no one to judge.<\/p>\n

I\u2019m just pointing out the fact that nos encontros modernos, \u00e9 quase imposs\u00edvel sentirmo-nos especiais e \u00fanicos em rela\u00e7\u00e3o \u00e0 pessoa que est\u00e1 ao nosso lado, o que \u00e9 bastante triste e dececionante.<\/b><\/p>\n

Em vez disso, sente-se constantemente descart\u00e1vel e substitu\u00edvel. <\/b><\/p>\n

Bem, deixem-me dizer-vos uma coisa: o verdadeiro amor nunca vos far\u00e1 sentir assim.<\/p>\n

It will never give you the need to compete, to hide your flaws or to pretend you\u2019re someone you\u2019re not just for the other person to like you more. <\/b><\/p>\n

You see, when a guy loves you, he doesn\u2019t think of you as a perfect woman.<\/p>\n

He isn\u2019t blind, and he sees your imperfections very well.<\/p>\n

No entanto, ele ama-te, n\u00e3o apesar dos vossos defeitos<\/a>, but because of them and because he knows you wouldn\u2019t be the same without them.<\/p>\n

\"um<\/p>\n

He loves you for who you are, just the way you are, and he wouldn\u2019t change a thing about you, even if he had the chance to.<\/p>\n

I won\u2019t lie to you: your man is aware that there exist girls who might be prettier, smarter or more interesting than you.<\/p>\n

No entanto, ele nunca pensaria sequer em avan\u00e7ar para qualquer uma delas porque tu \u00e9s a \u00fanica de quem ele realmente gosta.<\/p>\n

When a real man loves you, he chooses you every day, and he doesn\u2019t make you question his feelings for a second.<\/p>\n

Instead, he uses every opportunity to prove that you\u2019re the only woman he could ever be with.<\/p>\n

When a real man loves you, he never fails to remind you that you\u2019re one of a kind and that he would rather be alone with you than with anyone else.<\/p>\n

E que melhor prova da sua devo\u00e7\u00e3o honesta \u00e9 necess\u00e1ria?<\/p>\n

He doesn\u2019t look at you as if you\u2019re a piece of meat or a toy he\u2019ll play with for a while, until he gets bored and decides to throw it away.<\/b><\/p>\n

\"um<\/p>\n

Pelo contr\u00e1rio, respeita-a o suficiente para n\u00e3o a humilhar, fazendo-a sentir-se descart\u00e1vel. <\/b><\/p>\n

Em vez de alimentar as suas inseguran\u00e7as, ele aumenta constantemente a sua confian\u00e7a, certificando-se de que sabe sempre que \u00e9 amada e desejada.<\/p>\n

Em vez de a comparar com as suas ex-mulheres ou com outras raparigas, ele garante que voc\u00ea sabe que n\u00e3o tem concorr\u00eancia no seu cora\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/p>\n

Parece demasiado bom para ser verdade, certo?<\/b><\/p>\n

Well, let me tell you that this type of man really does exist\u2014you just have to be pretty damn lucky to run into one. <\/b><\/p>\n

So, the next time someone tells you to settle for modern dating practices or says that you\u2019re asking for too much (when you just want basic respect and appreciation), remember what amor verdadeiro<\/a> deve sentir-se como.<\/p>\n

Lembrem-se do que merecem e continuem solteiros at\u00e9 o conseguirem!<\/p>\n

\"O<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

In today\u2019s dating pool, everything happens at an incredible speed. You meet someone new, you give them some short time to impress you, and if you don\u2019t like them, you move on to the next victim. There is no such things as fighting for a relationship to succeed, putting in effort or reaching a compromise….<\/p>","protected":false},"author":53,"featured_media":118392,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29614],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-43848","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-love-talks"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29614,"label":"love talks"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/True-Love-Would-Never-Make-You-Replaceable-1024x684.jpg",1024,684,true],"author_info":{"display_name":"Ariel Quinn","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/ariel\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29614,"name":"love talks","slug":"love-talks","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29614,"taxonomy":"category","description":"What is love? How does it affect us? How to know someone loves you or show someone you love them? What types of love are there? Learn all that and much more.","parent":38,"count":426,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29614,"category_count":426,"category_description":"What is love? How does it affect us? How to know someone loves you or show someone you love them? What types of love are there? Learn all that and much more.","cat_name":"love talks","category_nicename":"love-talks","category_parent":38}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/43848","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/53"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=43848"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/43848\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/118392"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=43848"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=43848"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=43848"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}