{"id":44214,"date":"2019-10-03T12:23:33","date_gmt":"2019-10-03T12:23:33","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=44214"},"modified":"2022-02-10T12:27:26","modified_gmt":"2022-02-10T12:27:26","slug":"nunca-mudam-para-um-homem-a-nao-ser-que-estas-5-coisas-comecem-a-acontecer","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/nunca-mudam-para-um-homem-a-nao-ser-que-estas-5-coisas-comecem-a-acontecer\/","title":{"rendered":"Nunca mude para um homem a menos que estas 5 coisas comecem a acontecer"},"content":{"rendered":"

Apaixonar-se<\/span><\/a> significa passar muito tempo com essa nova pessoa. <\/span><\/p>\n

E passar muito tempo com algu\u00e9m faz-nos imitar inconscientemente o seu comportamento e os seus h\u00e1bitos, mesmo nas mais pequenas coisas.<\/span><\/p>\n

Esta mudan\u00e7a n\u00e3o \u00e9 algo com que se deva preocupar. <\/span><\/p>\n

Como seres humanos, estamos constantemente a aprender e a explorar-nos como indiv\u00edduos e a descobrir toda esta coisa do amor.<\/span><\/p>\n

It is perfectly normal to start speaking similarly to your partner after a while because after all, he\u2019s the one you spend the majority of your time with.<\/span><\/p>\n

And it\u2019s totally fine if some of his habits rub off on you. It\u2019s something you don\u2019t have a lot of power over. <\/span><\/p>\n

And for as long as it\u2019s not something that\u2019s causing you any unhappiness or unpleasantness, you\u2019re in the clear.<\/span><\/p>\n

But if your man is subtly asking you to change in a way that isn\u2019t something you\u2019re okay with, you should definitely feel free to say no.<\/span><\/p>\n

\"Rapariga<\/p>\n

Se ele quiser que mude coisas em si com as quais est\u00e1 perfeitamente satisfeita, deve falar.<\/span><\/p>\n

You are amazing exactly the way you are. And if your man cannot accept you in all of your adorable messiness, maybe he\u2019s not the one for you after all?<\/span><\/p>\n

Because a person who loves you unconditionally and irrevocably embraces all of you \u2013 flaws and all. A person who loves you, only pushes you to become an even better version of yourself.<\/span><\/p>\n

Nunca lhe pedir\u00e3o propositadamente para mudar por motivos ego\u00edstas. <\/span><\/p>\n

Um homem de verdade <\/span><\/a>aprecia e aceita uma mulher pelo que ela \u00e9, n\u00e3o pelo que ele quer que ela seja!<\/span><\/p>\n

So if you\u2019re thinking about changing for a man, don\u2019t do it unless these 5 things start happening:<\/span><\/p>\n

1. <\/span>Never change for a man unless you feel like it\u2019s making you grow as a person<\/span><\/h2>\n

\"Retrato<\/p>\n

Cada um tem uma ideia diferente do que significa crescer e amadurecer. <\/span><\/p>\n

So you\u2019re the only one who can decide whether being with him is making you grow or not. <\/span><\/p>\n

S\u00f3 tu sabes o efeito que ele tem em ti e nos teus pensamentos.<\/span><\/p>\n

N\u00e3o vale a pena mentir a si pr\u00f3prio. <\/span><\/p>\n

If you\u2019re feeling yourself become more compassionate, open-minded and kind, that\u2019s a good sign that his presence is helping you improve as a person. <\/span><\/p>\n

If you feel more liberated and more secure in yourself, you\u2019re with <\/span>a pessoa certa.<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n

If him being near you makes you feel like you no longer care about the BS that used to bother you, it means you\u2019ve hit the boyfriend jackpot! <\/span><\/p>\n

Qualquer pessoa cuja simples presen\u00e7a tenha um efeito t\u00e3o reconfortante e fortalecedor \u00e9 uma \u00f3ptima pessoa para se manter pr\u00f3ximo.<\/span><\/p>\n

2. <\/span>Never change for a man unless you\u2019re learning about new and amazing things<\/span><\/h2>\n

\"Vista<\/p>\n

There is something extraordinary about people who are able to expand our horizons and help us learn so many amazing new things in a fun and kind way\u2014not in that conceding \u2018\u2019told you so\u2019\u2019 way that makes you feel dumb.<\/span><\/p>\n

Mas sim de uma forma que o ajude a ver at\u00e9 que ponto est\u00e1 interessado e curioso sobre o mundo que o rodeia. <\/span><\/p>\n

E quando essa pessoa \u00e9 capaz de o ajudar a descobrir esse novo lado seu que tem um profundo gosto pelo conhecimento, deve ficar com ela, aconte\u00e7a o que acontecer.<\/span><\/p>\n

Life is all about learning and discovering. Whether it\u2019s about yourself or about the world around you, it makes no difference. <\/span><\/p>\n

Se a sua mente est\u00e1 aberta e a sua alma anseia por novas experi\u00eancias, est\u00e1 de facto com uma boa pessoa.<\/span><\/p>\n

3. <\/span>Nunca mude para o seu homem, a n\u00e3o ser que isso signifique perder os seus maus h\u00e1bitos (pouco saud\u00e1veis)<\/span><\/h2>\n

\"Retrato<\/p>\n

If you\u2019re a smoker, your partner might ask you to reconsider it. If you like to drink a lot, your partner might ask to cut down just a little bit. <\/span><\/p>\n

And he would be totally within his rights to do that. Why? Because it\u2019s for your own good.<\/span><\/p>\n

Se o teu homem te quer para perder h\u00e1bitos t\u00f3xicos<\/a> que n\u00e3o est\u00e3o de forma alguma a melhorar a sua vida, mas sim a diminuir a qualidade da mesma, deve considerar vivamente a possibilidade de o ouvir.<\/span><\/p>\n

Ele tem boas inten\u00e7\u00f5es. Quer que tenhas uma vida longa e feliz. <\/span><\/p>\n

E se fuma 2 ma\u00e7os de cigarros por dia e bebe independentemente do dia da semana, deve ouvi-lo e simplesmente reduzir o consumo. <\/span><\/p>\n

You\u2019ll be thankful later, I promise.<\/span><\/p>\n

4. <\/span>Nunca mude por um homem, a n\u00e3o ser que isso a fa\u00e7a abordar os conflitos de uma forma saud\u00e1vel<\/span><\/h2>\n

\"Casal<\/p>\n

\u00c9 <\/span>quem \u00e9s<\/span><\/a>. And the way you\u2019ve always done things is the way you\u2019re probably always going to do them. <\/span><\/p>\n

Mas quando se trata de discutir com o seu parceiro, h\u00e1 sempre algo a aprender nessa frente.<\/span><\/p>\n

If your partner has taught you a new and possibly healthier way to approach conflict, that\u2019s actually a great thing. <\/span><\/p>\n

Se ele a ajudou a compreender que h\u00e1 duas pessoas nesta rela\u00e7\u00e3o, ambas com igual direito \u00e0s suas opini\u00f5es, deve apoi\u00e1-lo.<\/span><\/p>\n

N\u00e3o s\u00e3o muitas as pessoas que o v\u00e3o ajudar a lutar com eles de forma mais produtiva! Mas, brincadeiras \u00e0 parte.<\/span><\/p>\n

I<\/span>t would be so easy just proving you wrong and diminishing you. But if instead he helps you see other points of view, maybe he\u2019s one of the good ones after all?<\/span><\/p>\n

 5. <\/span>Never change for a man unless your friends tell you how much happier you seem since you\u2019ve been with him<\/span><\/h2>\n

\"Casal<\/p>\n

H\u00e1 algumas mudan\u00e7as que podem perfeitamente ser implementadas se essa pessoa realmente tornar o seu mundo mais brilhante. <\/span><\/p>\n

After all \u2013 compromise is key to any good relationship.<\/span><\/p>\n

And if you\u2019ve had friends tell you multiple times how much happier and healthier you seem ever since you started seeing him, trust them! <\/span><\/p>\n

Eles dir-lhe-\u00e3o sempre como \u00e9! Por isso, se ele lhe pedir para passar um pouco mais de tempo com ele antes de sair com as suas filhas, talvez possa ceder.<\/span><\/p>\n

If it\u2019s a tiny little thing that does no harm to anyone (on the contrary!) don\u2019t even think about it. Trust your gut and trust your friends. That way \u2013 you can do no wrong.<\/span><\/p>\n

 <\/p>\n

\"Nunca<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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