{"id":44237,"date":"2019-10-03T12:54:12","date_gmt":"2019-10-03T12:54:12","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=44237"},"modified":"2021-08-11T11:52:13","modified_gmt":"2021-08-11T11:52:13","slug":"7-coisas-de-que-precisa-e-que-um-narcisista-nunca-sera-capaz-de-fazer-por-si","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/7-coisas-de-que-precisa-e-que-um-narcisista-nunca-sera-capaz-de-fazer-por-si\/","title":{"rendered":"7 coisas que voc\u00ea precisa e que um narcisista nunca ser\u00e1 capaz de fazer por voc\u00ea"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">If you\u2019ve ever been around a narcissist in any capacity, you probably know how self-indulgent, manipulative and deceiving they are. And how little shit they give about anyone but themselves.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Portanto, esperar alguma coisa de um narcisista \u00e9 basicamente como esperar que a chuva n\u00e3o nos molhe. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">It\u2019s just not going to happen. And deep down<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u2014<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">tu sabes disso.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">If there\u2019s one thing a narcissist is an expert at, it\u2019s how to manipulate women into letting down their guard and winning them over with the fake mask they put on just for the sake of making you his.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">And if you\u2019ve been romantically involved with <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/relationship\/todas-as-raparigas-ja-perderam-um-homem-narcisista\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">um homem narcisista<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> but managed to break free from him, give yourself a high five. Because that\u2019s some tough shit to accomplish.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-44243\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/shutterstock_529510297.jpg\" alt=\"Jovem d\u00e1 uma rosa \u00e0 sua amada dentro de casa, casal apaixonado \" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/shutterstock_529510297.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/shutterstock_529510297-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/shutterstock_529510297-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">You\u2019ve probably realized that a narcissist will never be able to do much for you. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Ele nunca satisfar\u00e1 nenhuma das vossas necessidades b\u00e1sicas e nunca ir\u00e1 \u00e0 guerra por v\u00f3s. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Com ele, a \u00fanica coisa que importa \u00e9 que ele receba o seu.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">So if you\u2019ve ever considered <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/relationship\/5-maneiras-de-se-magoar-a-si-proprio-ao-voltar-para-o-seu-ex-toxico\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">voltar a<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> um homem narcisista, pense em todas as coisas que precisa e merece e que ele nunca poder\u00e1 fazer por si.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">E aqui est\u00e3o alguns dos mais importantes de que nunca se deve esquecer:<\/span><\/p>\n<h2><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">1. <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Um narcisista nunca ter\u00e1 em conta os seus sentimentos<\/span><\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-44250\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/shutterstock_287911256.jpg\" alt=\"Homem e mulher bonitos em roupas de noite elegantes em apartamentos cl\u00e1ssicos vintage. Glamour, moda. Conceito de amor\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/shutterstock_287911256.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/shutterstock_287911256-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/shutterstock_287911256-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Encara-o. Ele nunca se vai importar com o que sentes. Ele nunca vai dar import\u00e2ncia \u00e0s tuas opini\u00f5es. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">And at those times when it feels like he does, you know it\u2019s just a ploy to get something out of you.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Um narcisista s\u00f3 se preocupa consigo pr\u00f3prio. O que tu fazes ou dizes n\u00e3o o incomoda. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">So don\u2019t think for a second your emotions are going to matter if you ever go out with him. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Ele vai fazer-te sentir pequeno, insignificante e n\u00e3o <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/relationship\/10-boas-razoes-para-ela-ser-suficientemente-boa\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">suficientemente bom<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">. E tudo isto com um sorriso no rosto.<\/span><\/p>\n<h2><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">2. <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Um narcisista nunca se preocupar\u00e1 o suficiente para o confortar em momentos de necessidade<\/span><\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-44252\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/shutterstock_630563408.jpg\" alt=\"Mulher solit\u00e1ria e triste\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/shutterstock_630563408.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/shutterstock_630563408-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/shutterstock_630563408-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Qual \u00e9 uma das coisas mais importantes para se ter na vida? Um bom e s\u00f3lido sistema de apoio e um ombro amigo. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">And with a narcissist, you\u2019ll have anything but! <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Ele n\u00e3o se vai importar com o facto de teres perdido o teu querido animal de estima\u00e7\u00e3o depois de tantos anos maravilhosos com ele.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">He is not going to care that your parents\u2019 divorce is causing you anxiety. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Unless it affects him in any way, he couldn\u2019t give two fucks. And this stings like a mother****.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Quando precisamos de uma m\u00e3o amiga e de uma palavra am\u00e1vel, ele abandona-nos num abrir e fechar de olhos. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">E isso vai parecer uma dor f\u00edsica real que ningu\u00e9m merece sentir.<\/span><\/p>\n<h2><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">3. <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">A narcissist will never ever say that he\u2019s sorry<\/span><\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-44253\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/shutterstock_281520980.jpg\" alt=\"Homem atraente com um charuto e um copo de vinho nas m\u00e3os\" width=\"800\" height=\"507\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/shutterstock_281520980.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/shutterstock_281520980-300x190.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/shutterstock_281520980-768x487.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Podes esquecer que ele alguma vez vai pedir desculpa por qualquer merda que te fa\u00e7a. Isso \u00e9 uma coisa desconhecida para ele. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Whatever he did, in his mind,you had it coming. So basically, it\u2019s always going to be your fault.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Being able to say you\u2019re sorry is key to a functioning relationship. And with a narcissistic man, you can say goodbye to that. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Tudo o que ele sabe \u00e9 como funcionar da forma mais disfuncional poss\u00edvel (para si). <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Ele, por outro lado, vai prosperar no caos que provoca.<\/span><\/p>\n<h2><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">4. <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Um narcisista nunca nos far\u00e1 sentir que somos importantes<\/span><\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-44254\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/shutterstock_787237513.jpg\" alt=\"M\u00e3os de mulher despem homem rico sexy e machista\" width=\"800\" height=\"551\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/shutterstock_787237513.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/shutterstock_787237513-300x207.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/shutterstock_787237513-768x529.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">In his eyes, you\u2019re just a means to an end. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Ele precisa de aumentar o seu ego, de satisfazer as suas necessidades f\u00edsicas ou de melhorar o seu estatuto. E tu serves como um mero catalisador para todas essas coisas.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">To a narcissist, you\u2019re just a piece of meat. He doesn\u2019t see your value, your strength or your perseverance. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">He doesn\u2019t see a woman who\u2019s been through a lot but is still standing. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">All he sees is somebody he can use until he decides you\u2019re no longer good enough.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">And then, he\u2019ll just leave, without so much as a goodbye. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">And you\u2019ll feel smaller than you ever have, thanks to <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/amor\/todas-as-raparigas-ja-perderam-um-homem-toxico\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">um homem t\u00f3xico<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> who didn\u2019t deserve you in the first place.<\/span><\/p>\n<h2><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">5. <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Um narcisista nunca o apoiar\u00e1 em qualquer \u00e1rea da sua vida<\/span><\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-44255\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/shutterstock_636183893.jpg\" alt=\"Mulher jovem solit\u00e1ria, deprimida e stressada, sentada com a cabe\u00e7a nas m\u00e3os num quarto escuro\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/shutterstock_636183893.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/shutterstock_636183893-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/shutterstock_636183893-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">He may publicly pretend like he\u2019s your number one cheerleader. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">But when you two are alone, he couldn\u2019t care less about any of your accomplishments. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">You could get a huge promotion at work and he\u2019ll be unfazed.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">You might need help with a minor medical issue, he\u2019s not going to be there. He is always going to have better shit to do. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Don\u2019t you see? Unless it\u2019s about HIM, he just won\u2019t even care to pretend he cares.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">The people around you might be fooled but you\u2019ll always feel that void when it\u2019s just the two of you. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">E ser\u00e1 que ele vale mesmo a pena?<\/span><\/p>\n<h2><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">6. <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Um narcisista nunca apreciar\u00e1 o que faz por ele nem lhe dir\u00e1 obrigado<\/span><\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-44256\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/shutterstock_525808639.jpg\" alt=\"Rapariga morena, bonita e desiludida, a discutir com o seu namorado em segundo plano\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/shutterstock_525808639.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/shutterstock_525808639-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/shutterstock_525808639-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Narcissists feel entitled to everything they\u2019ve got so therefore, they will never say thank you to anyone. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">And if you do a lot for him and expect some gratitude, you\u2019re not going to get it. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Por isso, poupa-te \u00e0 desilus\u00e3o e deixa de esperar isso de um homem da sua esp\u00e9cie.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Numa mente narcisista, deve estar grata por ele a deixar fazer coisas para ele. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Tem um sentido grandioso de si pr\u00f3prio e todos os que o rodeiam devem sentir-se privilegiados. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">You\u2019ll never hear a <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/relationship\/obrigado-por-te-teres-afastado-porque-de-outra-forma-nao-te-teria-deixado-ir\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">obrigado<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> or even a nod to show his appreciation. It\u2019s not his style!<\/span><\/p>\n<h2><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">7. <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Um narcisista nunca o amar\u00e1<\/span><\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-44258\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/shutterstock_643805656.jpg\" alt=\"Mulher ador\u00e1vel e elegante a seduzir o seu belo namorado\" width=\"800\" height=\"485\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/shutterstock_643805656.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/shutterstock_643805656-300x182.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/shutterstock_643805656-768x466.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">And ultimately, a narcissist will never ever know how to love you. And quite frankly, he won\u2019t care to.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> O amor \u00e9 um territ\u00f3rio desconhecido para ele. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">He\u2019s an expert at manipulation, deceit and getting what he wants but genuine feelings is not something he\u2019s interested in.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Don\u2019t fall for his tricks and his fake words. Narcissists don\u2019t feel love the way you and I do. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">He might act lovey-dovey for a moment to make you let your guard down but other than that, he\u2019ll never love you the way you deserve to be loved.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">E, por esta altura, espero que saibas que mereces muito, muito mais do que as migalhas da sua aten\u00e7\u00e3o! <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Because with a narcissist, that\u2019s the best you\u2019re ever going to get.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-large wp-image-44262\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/Never-Change-For-A-Man-Unless-These-5-Things-Start-Happening-2-683x1024.jpg\" alt=\"7 coisas que voc\u00ea precisa e que um narcisista nunca ser\u00e1 capaz de fazer por voc\u00ea\" width=\"683\" height=\"1024\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/Never-Change-For-A-Man-Unless-These-5-Things-Start-Happening-2-683x1024.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/Never-Change-For-A-Man-Unless-These-5-Things-Start-Happening-2-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/Never-Change-For-A-Man-Unless-These-5-Things-Start-Happening-2.jpg 735w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 683px) 100vw, 683px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>If you\u2019ve ever been around a narcissist in any capacity, you probably know how self-indulgent, manipulative and deceiving they are. And how little shit they give about anyone but themselves. So expecting anything from a narcissist is basically like expecting the rain not to make you wet. It\u2019s just not going to happen. And deep&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":21,"featured_media":44271,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29633],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-44237","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-narcissism"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29633,"label":"narcissism"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/08\/shutterstock_657236170-1.jpg",800,534,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Maria Parker","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/maria\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29633,"name":"narcissism","slug":"narcissism","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29633,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Mind games and manipulations are narcissist's favorite controlling tactics. 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