{"id":44332,"date":"2019-10-04T10:52:39","date_gmt":"2019-10-04T10:52:39","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=44332"},"modified":"2022-03-16T02:01:00","modified_gmt":"2022-03-16T02:01:00","slug":"mereces-uma-mensagem-de-volta-e-estas-6-outras-coisas-se-ele-estiver-mesmo-interessado-em-ti","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/mereces-uma-mensagem-de-volta-e-estas-6-outras-coisas-se-ele-estiver-mesmo-interessado-em-ti\/","title":{"rendered":"Voc\u00ea merece uma mensagem de volta e estas 6 outras coisas se ele estiver realmente interessado em voc\u00ea"},"content":{"rendered":"

Olhar para um ecr\u00e3 vazio, \u00e0 espera daquela mensagem que pode ou n\u00e3o chegar, \u00e9 uma das piores coisas dos encontros e devia ser a melhor.<\/span><\/p>\n

It should be the easiest part of all but it turns out it\u2019s the most complicated one. <\/span><\/p>\n

For some reason, we\u2019ve all been in situations where we would look at our phone about a million times per second, hoping the screen would light up and show his name. <\/span><\/p>\n

Our heart gets bruised and our feelings hurt when that doesn\u2019t happen. <\/span><\/p>\n

Por isso, se o rapaz com quem anda tem dificuldade em responder \u00e0s suas mensagens, corte-lhe a conversa sem pensar duas vezes. <\/span><\/p>\n

N\u00e3o estou a dizer que ele tem de enviar mensagens de texto a todas as horas do dia, mas ver como est\u00e1s uma ou duas vezes por dia deve ser o m\u00ednimo que ele pode fazer.  <\/span><\/p>\n

Tu mereces muito mais. Deixe-me lembr\u00e1-la de algumas outras coisas b\u00e1sicas que um homem que realmente quer fazer parte da sua vida deve fazer: <\/span><\/p>\n

1. Planear com anteced\u00eancia<\/h2>\n

\"Romance<\/p>\n

Esta \u00e9 uma das coisas mais importantes que separa um homem que est\u00e1 a falar a s\u00e9rio de um jogador que s\u00f3 a est\u00e1 a enganar. <\/span><\/p>\n

You don\u2019t need someone who will call you the last minute and drop by when he finds it convenient. <\/span><\/p>\n

J\u00e1 tiveste o suficiente desse mau comportamento no passado. <\/span><\/p>\n

A homem que a quer na sua vida<\/a> vai certificar-se de que passam tempo juntos, vai convid\u00e1-la para sair com pelo menos um ou dois dias de anteced\u00eancia e n\u00e3o no pr\u00f3prio dia ou quando j\u00e1 estiver pronta para dormir. <\/span><\/p>\n

2. Fazer com que se sinta seguro<\/h2>\n

\"Jovem<\/p>\n

Mereces saber qual \u00e9 a tua posi\u00e7\u00e3o. Mereces saber que \u00e9s a \u00fanica mulher na vida dele. <\/span><\/p>\n

Mereces saber que ele far\u00e1 o seu melhor para que as coisas funcionem. Mereces algu\u00e9m que esteja l\u00e1 para ti. <\/span><\/p>\n

It\u2019s nothing he won\u2019t get back from you. Living in uncertainty is no way to live, so don\u2019t settle for it. <\/span><\/p>\n

Tens de saber em que ponto est\u00e3o e n\u00e3o passar os dias a decifrar os sinais contradit\u00f3rios dele.  <\/span><\/p>\n

3. Pousar o telem\u00f3vel quando est\u00e3o juntos<\/h2>\n

\"Casal<\/p>\n

Bem, pelo menos durante a maior parte do tempo que passam juntos. <\/span><\/p>\n

Significar\u00e1 muito ter algu\u00e9m que esteja disposto a ter uma conversa a s\u00e9rio. <\/span><\/p>\n

Parece uma coisa b\u00e1sica, mas se olharmos para as nossas rela\u00e7\u00f5es passadas, n\u00e3o havia espa\u00e7o para conversas profundas; fal\u00e1vamos de coisas superficiais quando os telem\u00f3veis o permitiam. <\/span><\/p>\n

You don\u2019t need that again. That\u2019s why you should value a man who puts down his phone, asks you about your day and other things that interest you and shares his own thoughts with you. <\/span><\/p>\n

4. Ser digno de confian\u00e7a<\/h2>\n

\"Um<\/p>\n

Sem confian\u00e7a, a vossa rela\u00e7\u00e3o n\u00e3o vai a lado nenhum rapidamente. Mereces algu\u00e9m em quem possas confiar plenamente.<\/span><\/p>\n

You need a man with integrity, who stands behind his words and never tells you lies. You certainly don’t need a man who will constantly make you question his intentions and make you wonder about things like Why won’t he text me back?<\/em><\/a><\/span><\/p>\n

Escusado ser\u00e1 dizer que tamb\u00e9m \u00e9 preciso ser algu\u00e9m de confian\u00e7a para o exigir. <\/span><\/p>\n

T\u00eam de ser verdadeiros um com o outro, sem fingimentos, se querem uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o de amor e compromisso. <\/span><\/p>\n

5. Promover um ambiente sem dramas<\/h2>\n

\"Jovem<\/p>\n

You don\u2019t need his ex meddling in your life. You don\u2019t need him to make a fuss out of nothing. <\/span><\/p>\n

You don\u2019t need to be reproached for petty things. <\/span><\/p>\n

What you need is a man who wouldn\u2019t even think of creating unnecessary drama in your relationship or dating life, someone who is more interested in chilling with you and having fun than bringing tension into your life. <\/span><\/p>\n

6. Criar momentos doces e pirosos<\/h2>\n

\"conceito<\/p>\n

He doesn\u2019t need to reach for the stars and place them under your feet but he needs to sweeten your life. <\/span><\/p>\n

Ele pode ter o romance nos ossos e a vossa vida pode parecer um filme, mas mesmo que ele n\u00e3o seja nada rom\u00e2ntico, ele sair\u00e1 da sua zona de conforto e ser\u00e1 um verdadeiro amoroso se estiver apaixonado. <\/span><\/p>\n

Watching a romantic movie while cuddling on the couch, welcoming you with a hug, giving you a pet name, making you dinner, giving you a shy compliment\u2026 something sweet and corny has to happen if he is the one for you. <\/span><\/p>\n

\"Voc\u00ea<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Staring at an empty screen, waiting for that one text that may or may not come, is one of the absolute worst things about dating and it should be the best. It should be the easiest part of all but it turns out it\u2019s the most complicated one.  For some reason, we\u2019ve all been in…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":25,"featured_media":44343,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29621],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-44332","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-healthy-relationship"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29621,"label":"healthy relationship"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/fatured.jpg",800,533,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Amy Nicholson","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/amy\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29621,"name":"healthy relationship","slug":"healthy-relationship","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29621,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Explore this part of our site to learn how to recognize and nourish healthy patterns in your relationships and let go of the negative ones with ease.","parent":29620,"count":254,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29621,"category_count":254,"category_description":"Explore this part of our site to learn how to recognize and nourish healthy patterns in your relationships and let go of the negative ones with ease.","cat_name":"healthy relationship","category_nicename":"healthy-relationship","category_parent":29620}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/44332","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/25"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=44332"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/44332\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/44343"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=44332"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=44332"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=44332"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}