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<\/p>\nA qu\u00edmica \u00e9 real, os sentimentos est\u00e3o l\u00e1, a conversa \u00e9 direta e a lux\u00faria \u00e9 impar\u00e1vel. Parece que tem tudo... tudo menos ele.<\/p>\n
He says he\u2019s not ready for a relationship. He\u2019s giving you crumbs and he\u2019s always keeping you at arm\u2019s length.<\/p>\n
He hasn\u2019t let you all in and is keeping his options open.<\/p>\n
On the other hand, he can\u2019t stand the thought of you with somebody else.<\/p>\n
He wants commitment from you, but he can\u2019t offer the same in return. And it\u2019s time you put a stop to it.<\/p>\n
Cut off boyfriend benefits if he\u2019s not your boyfriend.<\/b><\/p>\n
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Yes, I mean sex primarily. You don\u2019t sleep with your friends, now do you?<\/p>\n
If you have greater feelings for him than he has for you, you don\u2019t want him to consider you as something casual.<\/p>\n
Think about it. Why would he be interested in a relationship when he\u2019s getting everything for free?<\/p>\n
A liga\u00e7\u00e3o emocional que tens com ele pode ser a tua morte. <\/b><\/p>\n
Talvez n\u00e3o a morte real, mas o massacre emocional \u00e9 garantido.<\/p>\n
O cora\u00e7\u00e3o parte-se t\u00e3o facilmente quando h\u00e1 r\u00f3tulos como quando n\u00e3o h\u00e1.<\/p>\n
Passamos tempo com algu\u00e9m, as emo\u00e7\u00f5es evoluem, ficamos ligados para al\u00e9m dos nossos sonhos mais loucos.<\/p>\n
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You text regularly, you hang out often, you have your inside jokes, you know each other\u2019s thoughts and the way you smell in the morning.<\/p>\n
It\u2019s not just about sex; it\u2019s so much more. That\u2019s why the situation you find yourself in hurts just as breaking up would.<\/p>\n
D\u00e1 por si a querer mais e a realidade \u00e9 que ele pode n\u00e3o ter mais para dar.<\/p>\n
Por isso, seja ele a dar as ordens.<\/p>\n
Tear him down from that pedestal you placed him on if he isn\u2019t ready to treat you like a queen. <\/b><\/p>\n
He is your priority, your number one, the center of your universe, your king, but if he can\u2019t treat you the same, then he\u2019s not worthy of you.<\/p>\n
If he\u2019s not ready to step up and make you completely his, he\u2019s not worthy of your time.<\/p>\n
Don\u2019t allow more months or years to pass without being truly happy. <\/b><\/p>\n
A felicidade vai e vem da nossa vida, mas nunca fica muito tempo.<\/p>\n
You feel like he has power over it and all he\u2019s giving you are mere moments of unbelievable joy, only to spoil them with much larger periods of uncertainty.<\/p>\n
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There are days where there\u2019s nothing he wouldn\u2019t do for you, and then there are others where a text back, a simple \u201cHow are you?\u201d and making plans to see you are too much effort.<\/p>\n
His mind and his heart are inconsistent, and they\u2019re making a mess out of your life. <\/b><\/p>\n
Ele d\u00e1-lhe dicas de que as coisas podem mudar. Fala dos seus sentimentos por si. Fala sobre o futuro e voc\u00eas fazem planos juntos.<\/p>\n
Then, out of the blue, he\u2019s nowhere to be found. He\u2019s \u201ctoo busy,\u201d he\u2019s with his friends night after night, he has no time for you until it\u2019s convenient for him.<\/p>\n
It\u2019s disrespectful, to say the least, and it has to stop.<\/p>\n
O que tens de te lembrar \u00e9 que mereces mais dele, da vida, de ti pr\u00f3pria.<\/b><\/p>\n
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From yourself primarily because it\u2019s all in your hands. You have to have standards.<\/p>\n
You can\u2019t put up with someone\u2019s crappy behavior and low investments.<\/p>\n
Ame-se a si pr\u00f3prio tanto quanto gostaria que algu\u00e9m o amasse e tudo se encaixar\u00e1 no seu devido lugar.<\/p>\n
You deserve things from him if he\u2019s expecting relationship benefits. You deserve to be labeled as his girlfriend.<\/p>\n
Mereces respeito, lealdade e esfor\u00e7o. Mereces mais do que metade do seu cora\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/p>\n
A vida tamb\u00e9m vos deve uma ou duas coisas. Deve-lhe paz no seu cora\u00e7\u00e3o e amor na sua vida. S\u00f3 precisa de os alcan\u00e7ar.<\/p>\n
You deserve a committed relationship where all your efforts are reciprocated and you aren\u2019t the only one making them.<\/p>\n
Mereces ser amada de volta e n\u00e3o ser a pessoa que ama por dois.<\/p>\n
So, if he isn\u2019t ready to be in a relationship, cut off all the benefits and inform him you\u2019re not ready for a non-relationship either.<\/p>\n
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