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<\/p>\nQuando magoamos algu\u00e9m, n\u00e3o pensamos nas consequ\u00eancias dos nossos actos.<\/p>\n
You don\u2019t think about whether it\u2019s the right thing to do and whether you should be a little more considerate in your words and deeds.<\/p>\n
Don\u2019t get me wrong \u2013 I\u2019m not saying you should remain in a loveless relationship just for the sake of the other person.<\/p>\n
No entanto, h\u00e1 uma grande diferen\u00e7a entre acabar com o seu parceiro e partir-lhe o cora\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/p>\n
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And that\u2019s exactly what you did to your ex-girlfriend: esmagaste-lhe o cora\u00e7\u00e3o<\/a> num milh\u00e3o de peda\u00e7os.<\/p>\n Escolheu ser um idiota ego\u00edsta<\/a> who doesn\u2019t give a damn about her feelings and only looks after his own well-being.<\/p>\n Basically, you planned that you\u2019ll get out of all of this unharmed while her pain was none of your business.<\/p>\n Bem, foi a\u00ed que se enganou.<\/p>\n One of the first things you should have kept in mind before you decided to hurt this girl is that causing someone else pain doesn\u2019t heal yours.<\/p>\n It doesn\u2019t make you a badass or a player, and it\u2019s definitely not something you should be proud of.<\/p>\n Humiliating someone else won\u2019t wipe out your insecurities and it won\u2019t boost your fragile ego.<\/p>\n Thinking that you\u2019re above this girl won\u2019t make you think more of yourself and it certainly won\u2019t give you the self-confidence you desperately try to build in all the wrong ways.<\/p>\n It won\u2019t make you more appealing to other girls, nor will it cause envy in other guys.<\/p>\n Em vez disso, toda a gente o ver\u00e1 como o idiota que realmente \u00e9.<\/p>\n Most importantly \u2013 sooner or later, you\u2019ll start seeing yourself as a selfish person who doesn\u2019t care about other people\u2019s feelings.<\/p>\n Before you know it, you\u2019ll regret the fact that you were a jerk toward the last person who deserved it.<\/p>\n Quando abandonaste esta rapariga, ela pensou que perder-te era a pior coisa que lhe podia acontecer.<\/p>\n She was convinced she\u2019d never recover and the devastating pain would haunt her for as long as she breathes.<\/p>\n No entanto, \u00e9 \u00f3bvio que ambos se esqueceram de que foste tu que perdeste tudo, enquanto ela ganhou muito.<\/p>\n After all, she lost a man who never cared for her for real \u2013 a man who didn\u2019t deserve her unconditional love. <\/p>\n No entanto, perdeu o seu melhor amigo e amante, tudo num s\u00f3.<\/p>\n You\u2019re sentenced to a life without the only person you could trust, the only woman who was ready to make sacrifices for your sake, and the girl who amava-o mais do que a si pr\u00f3pria<\/a>.<\/p>\n Ent\u00e3o, quem \u00e9 o verdadeiro perdedor aqui?<\/p>\n Quem tem mais hip\u00f3teses de passar o resto dos seus dias a lamentar as suas escolhas e quem tem mais probabilidades de encontrar o seu \"felizes para sempre\"?<\/p>\n Um homem sem escr\u00fapulos que \u00e9 incapaz de amar?<\/p>\n Ou uma rapariga com um cora\u00e7\u00e3o altru\u00edsta que sabe lutar por aquilo que ama?<\/p>\n Despite all odds, when you crushed this girl\u2019s heart, you didn\u2019t manage to crush her entire being as well.<\/p>\n Em vez disso, s\u00f3 a tornaste mais forte e mais resistente.<\/p>\n Esta rapariga conseguiu reconstruir-se e colar o seu cora\u00e7\u00e3o despeda\u00e7ado.<\/p>\n Conseguiu sair desta dor mais poderosa do que nunca e utilizou-a em seu pr\u00f3prio benef\u00edcio.<\/p>\n I know you hoped that she\u2019d spend the rest of her life missing you and begging you to come back.<\/p>\n That she\u2019d forever remain hurt, in tears, and never really get over you.<\/p>\n Well, you thought wrong. Obviously, you forgot everything she\u2019s capable of and how much she can take.<\/p>\n And that is your biggest defeat: the fact that you\u2019re completely forgotten and that you haven\u2019t left a permanent mark on this girl, despite giving her a massive heartache.<\/p>\n A \u00faltima coisa que esta rapariga tem em mente \u00e9 a vingan\u00e7a.<\/p>\n No matter what you might expect, she doesn\u2019t plan on getting even with you.<\/p>\n However, this doesn\u2019t mean your sins are pardoned.<\/p>\n It doesn\u2019t mean you\u2019re absolved and forgiven or that you won\u2019t pay for all of your misdeeds.<\/p>\n This girl isn\u2019t a bitch, but karma is. And that is something you should\u2019ve remembered before acting like a jerk. <\/p>\n Garanto-vos que a vida vos far\u00e1 passar pelo mesmo desgosto que causaram a esta rapariga.<\/p>\n You\u2019ll feel all the humiliation, all the trauma, and all the pain she felt.<\/p>\n E s\u00f3 ent\u00e3o ver\u00e1 a magnitude das suas ac\u00e7\u00f5es.<\/p>\n S\u00f3 ent\u00e3o se aperceber\u00e1 de como \u00e9 m\u00e1 pessoa e se arrepender\u00e1 de tudo o que fez.<\/p>\n When you hurt someone, you don\u2019t think of the consequences of your actions. You don\u2019t think about whether it\u2019s the right thing to do and whether you should be a little more considerate in your words and deeds. Don\u2019t get me wrong \u2013 I\u2019m not saying you should remain in a loveless relationship just for…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":56,"featured_media":44392,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29639],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-44391","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-understanding-women"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29639,"label":"understanding women"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/shutterstock_5809748771.jpg",800,533,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Katie Burns","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/katie\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29639,"name":"understanding women","slug":"understanding-women","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29639,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Women are not that complicated once you learn to understand them, seduce them and treat them the way they deserve. 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It won\u2019t make you feel any better<\/h2>\n
![\"Dores](\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/shutterstock_10604491611.jpg\")
<\/p>\n2. It\u2019s your loss<\/h2>\n
![\"Homem](\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/shutterstock_13067085761.jpg\")
<\/p>\n3. You won\u2019t break her<\/h2>\n
![\"Mulher](\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/shutterstock_5200667741.jpg\")
<\/p>\n4. O karma \u00e9 uma cabra<\/a><\/h2>\n
![\"Jovem](\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/shutterstock_14926155291.jpg\")
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