{"id":44411,"date":"2019-10-07T13:23:59","date_gmt":"2019-10-07T13:23:59","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=44411"},"modified":"2021-08-11T11:18:32","modified_gmt":"2021-08-11T11:18:32","slug":"depois-de-tudo-o-que-aconteceu-e-tao-bom-estar-sem-ti","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/depois-de-tudo-o-que-aconteceu-e-tao-bom-estar-sem-ti\/","title":{"rendered":"Depois de tudo o que aconteceu, \u00e9 t\u00e3o bom estar sem ti"},"content":{"rendered":"

Lembro-me de estar sentada na minha cama, a pensar em tudo o que aconteceu entre n\u00f3s.<\/p>\n

I remember feeling guilty for destroying such a \u2018perfect\u2019 relationship.<\/p>\n

Durante muito tempo, pensei que era eu o culpado de tudo o que acontecia de mau.<\/p>\n

For a long time, I couldn\u2019t imagine my life without you and I guess that is why I was so stubbornly looking for answers and reasons for our break-up.<\/p>\n

\"Linda<\/p>\n

I couldn\u2019t accept the fact that I would no longer see your face but now I\u2019m happy to say that it actually feels so good to be without you!<\/p>\n

It took me a while to finally open my eyes and realize how stupid I was to think that I wouldn\u2019t survive without you.<\/p>\n

A \u00fanica raz\u00e3o pela qual eu estava convencida de que a minha vida terminaria com a nossa separa\u00e7\u00e3o \u00e9 porque you made me believe that I\u2019m weak<\/a> e que preciso de ti para ser o meu salvador!<\/p>\n

But guess what? I don\u2019t need you and, in fact, I realized that I never did.<\/b><\/p>\n

Had someone told me that I would feel such bliss and happiness in my soul once you were gone, I wouldn\u2019t have believed them.<\/p>\n

Had someone told me that I would feel so much stronger after everything that happened, I wouldn\u2019t have believed them.<\/p>\n

I wouldn\u2019t have believed them because I didn\u2019t want to believe.<\/p>\n

I was just running in circles, thinking that I\u2019d lost a big part of my soul once you were gone.<\/p>\n

Mas a verdade \u00e9 que acabei de aprender uma li\u00e7\u00e3o valiosa!<\/p>\n

A verdade \u00e9 que n\u00e3o foste nem mais nem menos do que uma li\u00e7\u00e3o que me custou muitas l\u00e1grimas, espera e perd\u00e3o.<\/p>\n

\"Apelativas<\/p>\n

E depois de tudo isso, rapaz, sabe t\u00e3o bem estar sem ti!<\/p>\n

\u00c9 t\u00e3o bom n\u00e3o esperar pelo teu telefonema, \u00e9 t\u00e3o bom n\u00e3o esperar pelas tuas desculpas e \u00e9 t\u00e3o bom n\u00e3o fazer de ti a minha \u00fanica prioridade.<\/p>\n

\u00c9 t\u00e3o bom pensar em mim, para variar, e n\u00e3o ligar a nenhuma das vossas tretas!<\/b><\/p>\n

It feels so good to know that every time I waited for you to call or text me, you were teaching me not to waste my time on those who don\u2019t deserve it.<\/i><\/p>\n

\u00c9 t\u00e3o bom saber que cada vez que me fizeste chorar, estavas deliberadamente a aproximar-me daquele que me far\u00e1 sorrir.<\/i><\/p>\n

\u00c9 t\u00e3o bom saber que sempre que esperavas que eu comprasse as tuas tretas, estavas a ensinar-me que <\/i>s\u00f3 os verdadeiros homens se esfor\u00e7am por tratar as suas mulheres com respeito<\/i><\/a>.<\/i><\/p>\n

And I\u2019m sorry to tell you this but you\u2019re definitely not one of them and you never will be.<\/p>\n

\"Mulher<\/p>\n

Real men don\u2019t treat their women like shit and then expect them to stay.<\/p>\n

Lutam por eles do primeiro ao \u00faltimo segundo e nunca desistem, aconte\u00e7a o que acontecer.<\/p>\n

And it feels so good to finally realize that you\u2019re not that kind of man and you never will be.<\/p>\n

It feels so good to finally open my eyes and see the real truth that your heart doesn\u2019t have the capacity and it\u2019s simply not capable of loving anyone.<\/p>\n

A \u00fanica pessoa que alguma vez conseguir\u00e1 amar \u00e9 a si pr\u00f3prio e, quando finalmente se aperceber disso, ser\u00e1 demasiado tarde.<\/p>\n

Quando perceberes isso, provavelmente estarei longe de ti e nunca terei a oportunidade de ver a tua cara de arrependimento.<\/p>\n

Mas, ei, <\/b>o karma \u00e9 uma cabra<\/b><\/a>n\u00e3o \u00e9?<\/b><\/p>\n

\"Homem<\/p>\n

After everything that happened, it would be a shame if you didn\u2019t learn your lessons as well, just like I learned mine.<\/p>\n

And trust me, once you feel a taste of your own medicine, you will be delighted because no matter how bitter the truth is, it\u2019s the only thing that heals.<\/p>\n

No matter how painful our lessons are, they are the only things that can help us open our eyes and continue our cruise through life in a more balanced sea and with the person with whom we\u2019re meant to be.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

So, after everything that happened, I thank you for helping me realize that you were just a passenger through my journey called life and that one day I\u2019ll finally meet the one who will stay and teach me what love really is.<\/p>\n

Ver tamb\u00e9m: Foi assim que aprendi a viver sem ti<\/a><\/p>\n

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I remember sitting on my bed, thinking about everything that happened between us. I remember feeling guilty for destroying such a \u2018perfect\u2019 relationship. For a long time, I thought I was the one to blame for everything bad that happened. For a long time, I couldn\u2019t imagine my life without you and I guess that…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":40,"featured_media":44412,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29618],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-44411","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-moving-on"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29618,"label":"moving on"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/shutterstock_6920935991.jpg",800,533,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tara Brown","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/tara-brown\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29618,"name":"moving on","slug":"moving-on","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29618,"taxonomy":"category","description":"When nothing else works - inspiring stories about moving on are bound to help you let go of people and situations you never thought you could live without.\r\n","parent":38,"count":200,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29618,"category_count":200,"category_description":"When nothing else works - inspiring stories about moving on are bound to help you let go of people and situations you never thought you could live without.\r\n","cat_name":"moving on","category_nicename":"moving-on","category_parent":38}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/44411","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/40"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=44411"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/44411\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/44412"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=44411"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=44411"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=44411"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}