A chantagem emocional tamb\u00e9m pode acontecer fora de uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o rom\u00e2ntica, embora n\u00e3o seja t\u00e3o comum. <\/span><\/p>\n In this article, I\u2019m going to discuss ways in which men emotionally blackmail their women to get them where they want them.<\/span><\/p>\n It\u2019s important to note that even though a person may be an emotional blackmailer, that does not necessarily make them the worst person in the world. <\/span><\/p>\n Sim, est\u00e3o errados pelo que est\u00e3o a fazer, mas h\u00e1 diferentes tipos que variam em gravidade.<\/span><\/p>\n Some people use this tactic without even being aware. They know you really well so they always know where to \u201chit\u201d. <\/span><\/p>\n They don\u2019t necessarily always mean to cause pain, merely get their desired outcome (in a disturbing way nonetheless!)<\/span><\/p>\n Quais s\u00e3o os factores que influenciam a chantagem emocional?<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n Medo.<\/span><\/p>\n Fear is an occurrence that happens when you feel threatened and immediately engage \u2018\u2019fight or flight\u2019\u2019 response to help you protect yourself in dangerous situations. <\/span><\/p>\n Even more so, when you feel a loved one is threatened, there is most likely nothing you wouldn\u2019t do for them.<\/span><\/p>\n Fear isn\u2019t always about being in actual physical danger.<\/span><\/p>\n Manipuladores emocionais<\/span><\/a> know how to instil fear in you just enough to make you do whatever they want, even though they wouldn\u2019t actually cause you physical harm. They know fear itself is plenty enough.<\/span><\/p>\n Obriga\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/span><\/p>\n Para nos sentirmos parte de um grupo ou de uma comunidade, sentimos sempre uma certa obriga\u00e7\u00e3o para com os que nos rodeiam. \u00c9 uma necessidade natural de todos estarmos inclu\u00eddos e fazermos parte de algo, por isso, subconscientemente, alimentamos essa necessidade, que por vezes excede o que \u00e9 considerado normal.<\/span><\/p>\n A manipulator who knows you well will use this need against you by telling you if the roles were reversed, he\u2019d do that thing for you in a heartbeat. <\/span><\/p>\n He might even threaten to leave you if you decline because he\u2019ll try to make you see how bad that makes you look. <\/span><\/p>\n E a vossa obriga\u00e7\u00e3o para com ele como <\/span>o seu parceiro<\/span><\/a> ultrapassa qualquer senso comum.<\/span><\/p>\n Culpa.<\/span><\/p>\n A culpa \u00e9 um motivador extremamente poderoso para fazer praticamente qualquer coisa. Um homem que a esteja a chantagear emocionalmente utilizar\u00e1 o recurso \u00e0 culpa para obter o m\u00e1ximo de si. <\/span><\/p>\n He\u2019ll make you appear as a bad girlfriend if you don\u2019t indulge him. He will try to guilt-trip you for working a lot or for simply being happy.<\/span><\/p>\n However you turn it, you\u2019re the one who\u2019s being selfish and causing him pain, just by living your life the way you always have. <\/span><\/p>\n If things aren\u2019t his way, he\u2019ll make you pay for it by instilling this horrible sense of guilt that you shouldn\u2019t be feeling. <\/span><\/p>\n And this will make you do stuff for him that deep down you know isn\u2019t okay.<\/span><\/p>\n Let\u2019s not forget that we\u2019re talking about a man who knows you almost as well as you know yourself.<\/span><\/p>\n Ele sabe exatamente como te irritar e como te acalmar. Ele sabe o que te far\u00e1 sofrer e o que te deixar\u00e1 ansioso.<\/span><\/p>\n E \u00e9 assim que as palavras dele a v\u00e3o afetar profundamente. Ele amea\u00e7ar\u00e1 ir-se embora, negar-lhe afeto ou dar-lhe o tratamento do sil\u00eancio. <\/span><\/p>\n He knows that it\u2019ll affect you badly because he\u2019s familiar with your emotional states.<\/span><\/p>\n A chantagem emocional pode ser muito prejudicial para uma pessoa porque vem de algu\u00e9m que amamos e que est\u00e1 a usar a nossa vulnerabilidade e o nosso ponto fraco para obter algo de n\u00f3s.<\/span><\/p>\n Um chantagista emocional experiente saber\u00e1 que isso o far\u00e1 sofrer como nada mais. <\/span><\/p>\n The thought of hurting himself because of something you supposedly did will haunt you forever. And he\u2019ll use it for as long as you keep falling for it.<\/span><\/p>\n Esta inclui tanto a culpa como o medo. Culpa por ser a pessoa que lhe causa dor e medo de algu\u00e9m <\/span>tu amas<\/span><\/a> ser prejudicado. <\/span><\/p>\n So the next time you tell him you want to leave or something similarly serious, he\u2019ll use this against you.<\/span><\/p>\n You\u2019ll be the one culpable for his downfall and since he knows that\u2019s not something you can live with, he\u2019s sure you\u2019ll never really leave.<\/span><\/p>\n Este tipo vai fazer com que tudo o que acontece de mau seja culpa sua. <\/span><\/p>\n You didn\u2019t allow him to take your credit card and get a new suit for his job interview? Now it\u2019s your fault he\u2019s out of a job (utter BS).<\/span><\/p>\n Ou pode simplesmente sugerir que, se n\u00e3o fizer nada, ele sofrer\u00e1 as consequ\u00eancias. <\/span><\/p>\n Ele tornar\u00e1 tudo dez vezes mais grave e dram\u00e1tico do que \u00e9 na realidade, com o objetivo de o levar a sentir-se culpado ao m\u00e1ximo.<\/span><\/p>\n The worst part is that if you don\u2019t do it, he\u2019ll imply you don\u2019t really love him. Because if you did, there\u2019s nothing you\u2019d ever say no to, right? NOT.<\/span><\/p>\n This is the least severe method. With this, he isn\u2019t actually doing you as much emotional harm as with the previous three methods. <\/span><\/p>\n Desta forma, ele vai seduzir-vos para dizer sim a algo<\/a> prometendo-lhe uma coisa em troca que ou n\u00e3o \u00e9 uma troca justa ou n\u00e3o vai acontecer de todo.<\/span><\/p>\n![\"Mulher](\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/shutterstock_635030279.jpg\")
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<\/p>\n1. Ao castigar-te<\/span><\/h2>\n
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<\/p>\n2. Amea\u00e7ando fazer mal a si pr\u00f3prio<\/span><\/h2>\n
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<\/p>\n3. Ao fazer-te sentir culpado<\/span><\/h2>\n
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<\/p>\n4. <\/span>Prometendo-lhe algo de extraordin\u00e1rio<\/span><\/h2>\n
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