{"id":44604,"date":"2019-10-08T15:19:31","date_gmt":"2019-10-08T15:19:31","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=44604"},"modified":"2021-08-11T11:15:51","modified_gmt":"2021-08-11T11:15:51","slug":"a-solteirice-e-a-magia-dos-novos-comecos","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/a-solteirice-e-a-magia-dos-novos-comecos\/","title":{"rendered":"Um brinde a ser solteiro e \u00e0 magia dos novos come\u00e7os"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Ei, tu!&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>I know you\u2019re scared as hell right now.<\/p>\n<p>De facto, tremes e o medo consome-te ao ponto de teres dificuldade em respirar.<\/p>\n<p>You\u2019re afraid of having to leave your comfort zone, having to start over, and living your life alone.<\/p>\n<p>Afinal, passaste tanto tempo ao lado de algu\u00e9m, ao lado de um homem com quem podias contar, com algu\u00e9m do outro lado da cama.<\/p>\n<p>E agora, de repente, tudo desapareceu.<\/p>\n<p>Perdeste a pessoa que pensavas ser a tua outra metade, que estavas convencido que te daria a m\u00e3o em todos os teus problemas e que acreditavas que te amaria para sempre.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-44607\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/shutterstock_6061211901.jpg\" alt=\"Mulher jovem deprimida perto de uma janela \" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/shutterstock_6061211901.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/shutterstock_6061211901-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/shutterstock_6061211901-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><b>You didn\u2019t just lose a boyfriend or a husband, you also lost your best friend, closest family member, confidant, adviser, and <\/b><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/amor\/e-assim-que-sabes-que-encontraste-o-teu-parceiro-no-crime\/\"><b>parceiro no crime<\/b><\/a><b>. <\/b><\/p>\n<p><b>You lost the person you could trust your life with \u2013 your rock, safe haven, anchor \u2013 the man who was the wind to your wings for so long.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>Por isso, \u00e9 perfeitamente normal que tenhas medo.<\/p>\n<p>It is perfectly natural for you to feel like you don\u2019t know what you\u2019re doing and you have to learn to live again.<\/p>\n<p>I\u2019m not here to tell you that you\u2019re weak for having all those emotions.<\/p>\n<p>I\u2019m not planning on telling you that your worries and fears are silly, nor am I here to judge you for feeling the way you do.<\/p>\n<p>Instead, I\u2019m here to support you and tell you that you can do it (yes, I know you probably heard this empty phrase a million times, but you really can).<\/p>\n<p>Here to reassure you that you will overcome this \u2013 you will make it.<\/p>\n<p><b>I\u2019m here to tell you that you\u2019re not alone. <\/b><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-44608\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/shutterstock_3245584011.jpg\" alt=\"Duas amigas afectuosas de v\u00e1rias etnias abra\u00e7am-se enquanto est\u00e3o sentadas num caf\u00e9\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/shutterstock_3245584011.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/shutterstock_3245584011-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/shutterstock_3245584011-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><b>Muitas mulheres passaram exatamente por estas dificuldades.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><b> E adivinhem: todos eles sobreviveram.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>Cada um deles saiu desta situa\u00e7\u00e3o como um vencedor, mais forte e mais poderoso do que nunca.<\/p>\n<p>Cada uma delas ergueu-se das cinzas e conseguiu reconstruir-se.<\/p>\n<p><b>Por isso, um brinde a todas essas mulheres que nos podem servir de exemplo.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><b> Um brinde a si e ao seu novo come\u00e7o.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>Um brinde a tornar-se finalmente a mulher que est\u00e1 destinada a ser.<\/p>\n<p>Por te fazeres feliz e te pores em primeiro lugar.<\/p>\n<p><b>Here\u2019s to all the smiles that\u2019ll replace those tears falling down your cheeks now. <\/b><\/p>\n<p>To all the optimism that\u2019ll replace the negative thoughts and all the happiness that\u2019ll replace the sadness.<\/p>\n<p><b>To the relief that\u2019ll come instead of anger and resentment and to the freedom that\u2019ll take the place of your chains.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>Here\u2019s to the fact that you got rid of your <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/relationship\/7-habitos-que-as-mulheres-tem-nas-relacoes-toxicas\/\">rela\u00e7\u00e3o t\u00f3xica<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>A ti que te recusas a contentar-te com menos e que finalmente te apercebes do quanto mereces.<\/p>\n<p><b>\u00c0 vossa incr\u00edvel for\u00e7a para deixarem tudo para tr\u00e1s e partirem para o desconhecido. <\/b><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-44609\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/shutterstock_3215712381.jpg\" alt=\"Jovens amigas felizes e exuberantes a darem cinco estalos umas \u00e0s outras\" width=\"800\" height=\"548\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/shutterstock_3215712381.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/shutterstock_3215712381-300x206.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/shutterstock_3215712381-768x526.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>A ser suficientemente inteligente e s\u00e1bio para fazer o que era correto para si, apesar dos desejos do seu cora\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/p>\n<p><b>\u00c0 sua coragem de dar um salto para o seu futuro, sem nunca olhar para tr\u00e1s. <\/b><\/p>\n<p><b>To your bravery in turning a new page and burning the entire book you\u2019ve already written.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>Um brinde ao recome\u00e7o.<\/p>\n<p>A todas as novas amizades que vos esperam.<\/p>\n<p>A todas as coisas que sempre quiseste fazer e experimentar, mas que nunca tiveste oportunidade de fazer.<\/p>\n<p><b>A todos os amores que surgir\u00e3o na tua vida quando menos os esperares. <\/b><\/p>\n<p><b>E, acima de tudo, ao homem que ser\u00e1 a pessoa certa.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>Here\u2019s to all the mistakes and all the lessons you learned from them.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/relationship\/5-cicatrizes-invisiveis-que-as-mulheres-emocionalmente-negligenciadas-levam-para-os-relacionamentos\/\">Todas as cicatrizes<\/a> that serve as a reminder of everything you\u2019ve been through.<\/p>\n<p>Toda a dor que te moldou para te tornares nesta nova e melhorada vers\u00e3o de ti mesmo.<\/p>\n<p>A n\u00e3o permitir que a vossa dor vos defina ou esmague.<\/p>\n<p>A todas as batalhas que venceste e a todos os obst\u00e1culos que conseguiste ultrapassar.<\/p>\n<p><b>Here\u2019s to choosing yourself over everyone else and loving yourself, without expecting someone else to do it for you. <\/b><\/p>\n<p><b>Um brinde \u00e0 magia de ser voc\u00ea!<\/b><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-large wp-image-44606\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/Here\u2019s-To-Being-Single-And-The-Magic-Of-New-Beginnings-683x1024.jpg\" alt=\"Um brinde a ser solteiro e \u00e0 magia dos novos come\u00e7os\" width=\"683\" height=\"1024\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/Here\u2019s-To-Being-Single-And-The-Magic-Of-New-Beginnings-683x1024.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/Here\u2019s-To-Being-Single-And-The-Magic-Of-New-Beginnings-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/Here\u2019s-To-Being-Single-And-The-Magic-Of-New-Beginnings.jpg 735w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 683px) 100vw, 683px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Hey, you!&nbsp; I know you\u2019re scared as hell right now. In fact, you tremble and fear consumes you to the point where you have trouble breathing. You\u2019re afraid of having to leave your comfort zone, having to start over, and living your life alone. After all, you spent so much time next to someone,&nbsp; beside&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":22,"featured_media":44605,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29645],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-44604","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-being-single"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29645,"label":"being single"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/shutterstock_1950678741.jpg",800,533,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tina Navarro","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/tatiana\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29645,"name":"being single","slug":"being-single","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29645,"taxonomy":"category","description":"How to rock being single? 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