{"id":44678,"date":"2019-10-09T14:26:23","date_gmt":"2019-10-09T14:26:23","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=44678"},"modified":"2021-08-11T11:13:49","modified_gmt":"2021-08-11T11:13:49","slug":"e-alvo-de-um-sociopata-10-formas-de-o-descobrir","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/e-alvo-de-um-sociopata-10-formas-de-o-descobrir\/","title":{"rendered":"Voc\u00ea \u00e9 o alvo de um sociopata? 10 maneiras de descobrir"},"content":{"rendered":"

Normalmente, quando penso num sociopata, vem-me imediatamente \u00e0 cabe\u00e7a filmes de terror e programas de televis\u00e3o sobre assassinos em s\u00e9rie. <\/span><\/p>\n

But the frightening truth is, you\u2019ve probably encountered a sociopath more than once, without even being aware of it. Freaky, huh?<\/span><\/p>\n

It\u2019s a scary thought thinking that your next-door neighbor could be a sociopath in disguise or that <\/span>o teu ex-namorado<\/span><\/a> pode muito bem ter tend\u00eancias sociopatas graves e que tu n\u00e3o fazias ideia durante todo o tempo em que estiveram juntos.<\/span><\/p>\n

But it\u2019s perfectly plausible. Sociopaths learn to blend in and go about their lives unnoticed for the most part. <\/span><\/p>\n

O seu charme \u00e9 o que os ajuda a enganar-nos t\u00e3o bem e \u00e9 isso que realmente me assusta pessoalmente.<\/span><\/p>\n

Do you think you may have been involved with a sociopath? Or do you perhaps feel like you\u2019re being pursued (romantically) by one right now but are too scared to actually believe it?<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n

If your gut feeling is trying to tell you something, my advice is to listen to it. Don\u2019t wait until it\u2019s <\/span><\/i>demasiado tarde<\/span><\/i><\/a>! <\/span><\/i><\/p>\n

Your gut feeling is there for a reason and I\u2019m sure it hasn\u2019t failed you so far.<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n

Aqui est\u00e3o 10 sinais de que pode muito bem ser o alvo de um sociopata. N\u00e3o deve de forma alguma ignorar isto. <\/span><\/p>\n

Leia com aten\u00e7\u00e3o e fa\u00e7a o que \u00e9 melhor para si.<\/span><\/p>\n

1. Ele consegue facilmente encantar at\u00e9 o p\u00fablico mais dif\u00edcil<\/span><\/h2>\n

\"A<\/p>\n

Os sociopatas sabem como usar a lisonja para elogiar as pessoas para o seu maior prazer. <\/span><\/p>\n

Ele sabe o equil\u00edbrio perfeito para n\u00e3o exagerar, mas ainda assim empurrar a quantidade certa.<\/span><\/p>\n

You\u2019ve noticed him charm the pants off the most difficult people to impress. And not many can do that. <\/span><\/p>\n

And this is what\u2019s making you wonder if there\u2019s more to the story than what he\u2019s letting on. <\/span><\/p>\n

Mas aten\u00e7\u00e3o: o charme \u00e9 apenas um indicador de um sociopata, n\u00e3o \u00e9 uma certeza. H\u00e1 mais sinais a procurar.<\/span><\/p>\n

2. Ele p\u00f5e de lado os seus sentimentos<\/span><\/h2>\n

\"Problemas<\/p>\n

Sociopaths don\u2019t care about anyone\u2019s feelings because they lack empathy. <\/span><\/p>\n

If you express your dissatisfaction with a situation or inform him that he\u2019s causing you sadness, he\u2019s going to disregard it.<\/span><\/p>\n

He doesn\u2019t care and he most probably won\u2019t try to hide it, unless he\u2019s using it as leverage. <\/span><\/p>\n

And if you keep pushing him to feel something, he\u2019s going to put all the blame on you for trying to make him appear a certain way.<\/span><\/p>\n

3. Sometimes you get the feeling he doesn\u2019t even believe the shit he\u2019s saying<\/span><\/h2>\n

\"Casal<\/p>\n

The things he\u2019ll tell you and promise you will seem so implausible that you\u2019ll get the feeling he knows it as he\u2019s saying it but he just keeps going at it. <\/span><\/p>\n

He can lie his ass off, and while he\u2019s convincing for the most part, sometimes you just know he\u2019s not buying his own shit.<\/span><\/p>\n

4. A mentira faz parte da sua natureza<\/span><\/h2>\n

\"Um<\/p>\n

Ser mentiroso faz parte do pacote de um sociopata. <\/span><\/p>\n

It can be anything from those little white lies you wouldn\u2019t think twice about to those severe, problematic lies about relevant things.<\/span><\/p>\n

Apanhou-o muitas vezes a mentir, mas ele tinha sempre a desculpa perfeita, pela qual ca\u00eda completamente. <\/span><\/p>\n

Mas agora que pensas nisso, quem \u00e9 que mente assim tanto e <\/span>safa-se<\/span><\/a> todas as vezes com tanta facilidade?<\/span><\/p>\n

5. Nunca se pode ficar zangado com ele<\/span><\/h2>\n

\"Desfrutando<\/p>\n

E isso deve-se \u00e0 sua capacidade de manipula\u00e7\u00e3o! Ele sabe sempre o que dizer para o acalmar, para o fazer pensar que exagerou ou para lhe dar outra oportunidade. <\/span><\/p>\n

He\u2019s perfect at that. And even though you\u2019re aware of it, you just fall for it every time. Staying mad at him is almost impossible.<\/span><\/p>\n

6. He\u2019s ALWAYS there (you can\u2019t escape him)<\/span><\/h2>\n

\"Mulher<\/p>\n

You can\u2019t go anywhere without him. He\u2019s somehow always there. <\/span><\/p>\n

Quer acompanhar-te para onde quer que v\u00e1s, sob o pretexto de n\u00e3o se fartar de ti.<\/span><\/p>\n

But it\u2019s become a bit creepy. You can\u2019t shake the feeling he\u2019s somehow observing you, studying you and controlling you. <\/span><\/p>\n

You want to be able to go somewhere (anywhere!) without him but you can\u2019t and this is causing you major anxiety and fear.<\/span><\/p>\n

7. He\u2019s flaky and you can\u2019t count on him<\/span><\/h2>\n

\"Um<\/p>\n

Quase nunca faz o que promete. Quase nunca vem quando garante que vir\u00e1. <\/span><\/p>\n

There is always a prior engagement he couldn\u2019t say no to. There is always something at work that he just can\u2019t escape.<\/span><\/p>\n

Mas a verdade \u00e9 que, <\/span>he just doesn\u2019t care enough<\/span><\/a> para estar l\u00e1 para si. <\/span><\/p>\n

He needs you to be there by his side but when it comes to you, he\u2019ll always make excuses and do as he pleases.<\/span><\/p>\n

8. He\u2019s always in-between jobs<\/span><\/h2>\n

\"Homem<\/p>\n

This man can\u2019t hold on to a job to save his life. Sociopaths are most often unemployed due to getting fired because of their temper. <\/span><\/p>\n

He can blow up very easily and he doesn\u2019t know how to control himself when that happens.<\/span><\/p>\n

Sociopaths want everything their way or no way and they don\u2019t respond well to criticism. <\/span><\/p>\n

\u00c9 por isso que nunca duram num emprego mais do que algumas semanas. O facto de se inflamarem t\u00e3o facilmente faz com que seja imposs\u00edvel trabalharem com algu\u00e9m.<\/span><\/p>\n

9. You\u2019re always the one to blame<\/span><\/h2>\n

\"Marido<\/p>\n

Whatever he messes up, he\u2019ll find a way to pin it on you. If he has trouble with his attitude (which he does), he\u2019ll make you guilty for putting him in that situation. <\/span><\/p>\n

Whenever you get yelled at, you\u2019ll have had it coming because you\u2019re a bad partner and making him behave this way, when in fact it\u2019s in his nature, as is his need to assign blame.<\/span><\/p>\n

10. Ele sente-se com direito ao que \u00e9 seu<\/span><\/h2>\n

\"Foi<\/p>\n

Sociopaths don\u2019t care about what\u2019s his and what\u2019s yours. <\/span><\/p>\n

If he\u2019s dating you or courting you, he feels entitled to your money and possessions. And he\u2019ll have no problem letting you know.<\/span><\/p>\n

He\u2019ll ask to take your credit card or expect you to pick up the check at a restaurant. <\/span><\/p>\n

He won\u2019t feel obliged to partake in any expenses and this is the final sign that you are in fact dealing with a legit sociopath.<\/span><\/p>\n

\"Voc\u00ea<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Usually, when I think of a sociopath, my mind immediately goes to horror movies and TV shows about serial killers.  But the frightening truth is, you\u2019ve probably encountered a sociopath more than once, without even being aware of it. Freaky, huh? It\u2019s a scary thought thinking that your next-door neighbor could be a sociopath in…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":21,"featured_media":44689,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29632],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-44678","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-abuse-and-trauma"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29632,"label":"abuse & trauma"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/shutterstock_1081643894.jpg",800,533,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Maria Parker","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/maria\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29632,"name":"abuse & trauma","slug":"abuse-and-trauma","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29632,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Learn the signs of emotional and physical abuse and how to protect yourself from toxic patterns in relationships with your partner, friends or family.","parent":22911,"count":138,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29632,"category_count":138,"category_description":"Learn the signs of emotional and physical abuse and how to protect yourself from toxic patterns in relationships with your partner, friends or family.","cat_name":"abuse & trauma","category_nicename":"abuse-and-trauma","category_parent":22911}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/44678","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/21"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=44678"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/44678\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/44689"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=44678"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=44678"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=44678"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}