{"id":44692,"date":"2019-10-09T19:37:04","date_gmt":"2019-10-09T19:37:04","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=44692"},"modified":"2021-08-11T11:12:53","modified_gmt":"2021-08-11T11:12:53","slug":"ela-lutou-por-si-ate-perceber-que-estava-a-lutar-sozinha","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/ela-lutou-por-si-ate-perceber-que-estava-a-lutar-sozinha\/","title":{"rendered":"Ela lutou por ti at\u00e9 perceber que estava a lutar sozinha"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Lembras-te daquela rapariga que estava disposta a mover montanhas por ti, enquanto tu n\u00e3o conseguias mexer um dedo por causa dela?<\/p>\n<p>The girl who wasn\u2019t afraid to stand up in front of the entire world to protect you, despite the fact that you never gave her your support when she needed it the ksor?<\/p>\n<p>Lembras-te da rapariga que te amava mais do que a si pr\u00f3pria?<\/p>\n<p>A rapariga que sempre te apoiou, a rapariga que te empurrou para a frente e a rapariga que esteve ao teu lado, independentemente das circunst\u00e2ncias?<\/p>\n<p>A rapariga de quem nunca gostaste o suficiente?<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-44694 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/shutterstock_102184405021.jpg\" alt=\"casal de noivos \" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/shutterstock_102184405021.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/shutterstock_102184405021-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/shutterstock_102184405021-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>A rapariga que nunca p\u00f4de contar contigo, a rapariga que enfrentaste e tra\u00edste milh\u00f5es de vezes e a rapariga que pensaste que podias tratar como quisesses?<\/p>\n<p>Well, guess what: the thing you never imagined happening really happened\u2013this <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/amor-proprio\/girl-power\/foi-por-isso-que-ela-desistiu-de-si\/\">a rapariga finalmente desistiu de ti<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>After all these years, she opened her eyes and for the first time ever, she saw you for who you really are: a selfish jerk who was never worthy of all the sacrifices she\u2019s been making.<\/p>\n<p><b>Depois de todos estes anos, ela apercebeu-se de que todos os seus esfor\u00e7os eram in\u00fateis e aceitou que nunca te poderias tornar um homem a s\u00e9rio, por mais que tentasse inspirar-te a tornares-te um.&nbsp;<\/b><\/p>\n<p>Toda a gente previu isto.<\/p>\n<p>Everyone wondered why she was putting up with you and everyone was aware that sooner or later, she\u2019ll get sick and tired of your crap.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-44702\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/shutterstock_12289374791.jpg\" alt=\"mulher jovem e triste\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/shutterstock_12289374791.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/shutterstock_12289374791-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/shutterstock_12289374791-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Todos exceto tu.<\/p>\n<p>I don\u2019t know how but you thought that she\u2019ll never leave you, no matter how you treat her.<\/p>\n<p>Estavas convencido de que ela permaneceria sempre ao teu lado, apesar de tudo o que a fizeste passar.<\/p>\n<p>Pensou que n\u00e3o havia nada que pudesse fazer para a fazer <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/amor\/5-maneiras-duras-de-deixar-de-amar-alguem\/\">deixar de te amar<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>Que, por muito mal que lhe fa\u00e7as, ela continuar\u00e1 a ser para sempre o teu anjo da guarda e o teu bra\u00e7o de salva\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/p>\n<p>Well, now you see that you thought wrong because despite all of your expectations, she\u2019s had enough.<\/p>\n<p>Enough of being the only one trying, enough of putting you first while you treat her like your second choice, enough of not getting back any of the unconditional love she\u2019s been giving you\u2026&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><b>To put things simple, she\u2019s had enough of you.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-44696\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/shutterstock_14984807841.jpg\" alt=\"mulher triste\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/shutterstock_14984807841.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/shutterstock_14984807841-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/shutterstock_14984807841-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>A verdade \u00e9 que ela estava pronta para o amar at\u00e9 ao fim dos tempos.<\/p>\n<p>Que ela estava disposta a ultrapassar todos os obst\u00e1culos que a vida lhe colocava e que tinha o desejo de construir uma vida consigo.<\/p>\n<p>Tudo o que ela queria era que estivesses l\u00e1, a segurar-lhe a m\u00e3o, enquanto ela o fazia.<\/p>\n<p><b>She just wanted for you to take part in this process, for you to be her partner in crime and for you to put the same amount of effort she\u2019s putting.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>No entanto, at\u00e9 isso foi demasiado para si.&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>O facto \u00e9 que nunca se preocupou com o futuro da sua rela\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/p>\n<p>Nunca se preocupou com os desafios que enfrentava e nunca se preocupou com o facto de as coisas correrem bem ou n\u00e3o.<\/p>\n<p>Na verdade, foste tu que continuaste a destruir o teu amor e que continuaste a falhar nos testes que o destino te lan\u00e7ou.<\/p>\n<p>Aquele que afastou a rapariga, aquele que a deixou ir e aquele que a fez partir.<\/p>\n<p>Sim, demorou algum tempo, mas ela descobriu algumas coisas.<\/p>\n<p><b>She saw that you two weren\u2019t fighting on the same time together\u2013you were actually fighting against one another all along.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-44697\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/shutterstock_2632504671.jpg\" alt=\"homem a deixar mulher\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/shutterstock_2632504671.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/shutterstock_2632504671-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/shutterstock_2632504671-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><b>Durante todo este tempo, enquanto ela estava convencida de que era <\/b><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/amor\/ha-uma-grande-diferenca-entre-lutar-pelo-amor-e-implorar-por-ele\/\"><b>lutando pelo amor<\/b><\/a><b>ela estava mesmo a implorar-lhe. <\/b><\/p>\n<p><b>Durante todo este tempo, enquanto ela estava convencida de que estava a lutar pela vossa rela\u00e7\u00e3o, estava na verdade a persegui-lo para que ganhasse ju\u00edzo.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>Era quase como se estivesses a colocar todos os teus esfor\u00e7os para esmagar o amor dela, enquanto ela, do outro lado, colocava toda a sua for\u00e7a na tentativa de preservar o teu.<\/p>\n<p>Como se estivesse a fazer tudo para destruir a vossa rela\u00e7\u00e3o para al\u00e9m do ponto de repara\u00e7\u00e3o, enquanto ela fazia tudo o que estava ao seu alcance para a reconstruir.<\/p>\n<p>So basically, you got what you wanted all along, didn\u2019t you?<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-large wp-image-44860\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/10-Geheime-Zeichen-Dass-Er-Dich-Zur\u00fcckhaben-Will-Aber-Angst-Hat5-683x1024.jpg\" alt=\"Ela lutou por ti at\u00e9 perceber que estava a lutar sozinha\" 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The girl who wasn\u2019t afraid to stand up in front of the entire world to protect you, despite the fact that you never gave her your support when she needed it the ksor? Remember&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":56,"featured_media":44693,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29639],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-44692","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-understanding-women"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29639,"label":"understanding women"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/shutterstock_25487653311.jpg",800,533,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Katie Burns","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/katie\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29639,"name":"understanding women","slug":"understanding-women","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29639,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Women are not that complicated once you learn to understand them, seduce them and treat them the way they deserve. 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