{"id":44705,"date":"2020-05-09T20:44:24","date_gmt":"2020-05-09T20:44:24","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=44705"},"modified":"2022-09-02T09:01:50","modified_gmt":"2022-09-02T09:01:50","slug":"porque-e-que-o-meu-ex-me-esta-a-ignorar-6-maneiras-de-fazer-com-que-ele-repare-em-si-novamente","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/porque-e-que-o-meu-ex-me-esta-a-ignorar-6-maneiras-de-fazer-com-que-ele-repare-em-si-novamente\/","title":{"rendered":"Porque \u00e9 que o meu ex me est\u00e1 a ignorar? 6 maneiras de fazer com que ele te note novamente"},"content":{"rendered":"

I know this won’t make you feel a whole lot better right now, but the reasons why o teu ex-namorado <\/a>is ignoring you could very well be the things that you’re doing completely inadvertently!<\/p>\n

Deixem-me explicar melhor. First, it’s important to note that sometimes it’s honestly not you<\/b>.<\/p>\n

Guys have this peculiar brain that only the male species can truly comprehend at times and therefore, you shouldn’t be taking it personally at all.<\/p>\n

S\u00f3 Deus sabe as coisas estranhas que lhes passam pela cabe\u00e7a e porque \u00e9 que, por vezes, escolhem comportar-se de uma forma t\u00e3o perversa.<\/p>\n

But we’re not here to delve into that, because that\u2019s a topic only a true professional can psycho-analyze (if you catch my drift).<\/p>\n

What I’m here to do is discuss things that you can actually control and change.<\/b><\/p>\n

Coisas que afectam o <\/b>poss\u00edveis raz\u00f5es<\/b> porque \u00e9 que o seu ex a pode estar a ignorar e como pode fazer com que ele fale consigo <\/b>cara a cara<\/b> e, em \u00faltima an\u00e1lise, obter o seu <\/b>namorado de volta<\/b>!<\/b><\/p>\n

Recuperar um ex n\u00e3o \u00e9 uma miss\u00e3o assim t\u00e3o dif\u00edcil se jogarmos bem as cartas.<\/p>\n

Atrav\u00e9s da utiliza\u00e7\u00e3o de mensagens de texto, redes sociais<\/a>e uma utiliza\u00e7\u00e3o inteligente da regra de n\u00e3o contacto, pode virar completamente a mesa e evitar os jogos mentais perversos para conseguir que ele deixe de a ignorar.<\/p>\n

Once you’ve thoroughly read this article, you’ll have a very different outlook on his behavior and what exactly brought you two here.<\/p>\n

Perhaps, you’ll finally stop being ”the ex girlfriend” and climb your way back to his mind and heart.<\/p>\n

Sometimes, in order to get a clear perspective on things, guys simply need some time and space to figure out the real reasons behind this possibly big mistake they’re making.<\/p>\n

\u00c9 certo que tamb\u00e9m contribu\u00edram para esta separa\u00e7\u00e3o, mas, enquanto indiv\u00edduos, ambos poderiam utilizar este tempo de forma sensata para fazerem um exame de consci\u00eancia e perceberem o que realmente querem.<\/p>\n

Erros mais comuns ap\u00f3s uma separa\u00e7\u00e3o<\/h2>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

Esta \u00e9 a parte crucial. Depois de a rutura<\/a>, it’s important NOT to do any of the following activities that I’m about to list here.<\/p>\n

All of these will make you seem desperate, needy, and clingy, and I know that’s the last thing you want to have happen.<\/p>\n

Os homens conseguem sentir estas coisas a quil\u00f3metros e quil\u00f3metros de dist\u00e2ncia.<\/p>\n

They know when you’ve reached your breaking point and will do pretty much anything to get their attention.<\/p>\n

And they’re not fans of it! Never let your ex-partner see the effect this breakup has had on you.<\/p>\n

A primeira vez que tiver not\u00edcias dele ap\u00f3s a separa\u00e7\u00e3o pode ser o fator decisivo, por isso, mantenha a classe (mas atrevida) e guarde os telefonemas desesperados para mais tarde, quando a sua cabe\u00e7a estiver num espa\u00e7o melhor.<\/p>\n

These are the most common reasons guys don’t want to give you uma segunda oportunidade<\/a> depois de fazer uma pausa, porque pintam uma imagem perturbadoramente errada de si.<\/p>\n

Cuidado com estes:<\/p>\n

1. Exagerar nas mensagens de texto<\/h2>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

The relationship is over (for now). He doesn’t want to be with you right now, and you need to respect it and learn to accept it as your new reality.<\/p>\n

Don’t overdo it with the texting! Don’t keep bothering him and proving to him that he was right to break up with you.<\/p>\n

Show him you’re mature enough to accept this and once you’ve gathered your thoughts, you can work out a plan on how to recuper\u00e1-lo<\/a>.<\/p>\n

Mas enviar-lhe demasiadas mensagens, demasiado cedo, vai ter o efeito contr\u00e1rio.<\/p>\n

Para come\u00e7ar, porque \u00e9 que queres mandar mensagens a um ex-namorado? Respeite o que o seu ex quer e d\u00ea um tempo ao seu cora\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/p>\n

Ficar sem contacto ap\u00f3s a separa\u00e7\u00e3o \u00e9 a melhor forma de sarar e, eventualmente, estar pronta para o enfrentar novamente.<\/p>\n

2. Declarar excessivamente o seu amor<\/h2>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

Querida, eu sei que \u00e9 uma merda e compreendo o quanto d\u00f3i, e estou a dizer-te isto do lugar mais genu\u00edno do meu cora\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/p>\n

Gritar o seu amor dos telhados quando a rela\u00e7\u00e3o acaba \u00e9 a forma mais contraproducente de recuperar o seu ex.<\/p>\n

If your ex says he needs enough time, please don’t make it harder on both of you.<\/p>\n

Mesmo que ele ainda sinta algo por si, isso s\u00f3 vai tornar a decis\u00e3o muito mais dif\u00edcil para ele.<\/p>\n

Ele pode ser uma pessoa nova na sua vida e se continuar a sufoc\u00e1-lo com o seu amor, pode muito bem ser a \u00faltima vez.<\/p>\n

This is real life; it’s not a movie. He isn\u2019t magically going to change his mind if you keep being persistent. <\/p>\n

Pergunte a si pr\u00f3prio o seguinte: O que \u00e9 que <\/i>fa\u00e7o eu fa\u00e7o<\/i> se eu quiser mesmo que ele o fa\u00e7a <\/i>amar-me<\/i>? <\/i><\/p>\n

Continuo a empurr\u00e1-lo para o limite com a minha persist\u00eancia, ou dou-lhe <\/i>tempo suficiente<\/i> e rezar para que ele me escolha no final?<\/i><\/p>\n

<\/i>And I believe you’ll know what to do.<\/p>\n

3. Falar mal dele aos teus amigos<\/h2>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

Geralmente, criticar as pessoas \u00e9 a minha qualidade menos favorita. Acredito que o karma vai resolver essa merda (eventualmente).<\/p>\n

A coisa mais simples a fazer \u00e9 guardar os maus pensamentos para si pr\u00f3prio.<\/p>\n

Why? Because during your moments of anger and bitterness, you\u2019re extremely likely to share things that you know you shouldn’t and probably over-exaggerate. One day, you will come to regret this, but then it will ser demasiado tarde<\/a>.<\/p>\n

Por isso, o melhor \u00e9 n\u00e3o falar mal dele a ningu\u00e9m, porque ser\u00e1 apenas uma quest\u00e3o de tempo at\u00e9 ele saber disso.<\/p>\n

E quando isso acontecer, pode dizer adeus \u00e0 reconcilia\u00e7\u00e3o. As pessoas cometem erros, e isso inclui-o a si e ao seu ex.<\/p>\n

Mantenham os vossos problemas pessoais privados e resolvam tudo entre voc\u00eas.<\/p>\n

Ver tamb\u00e9m: Porque \u00e9 que o meu amigo me est\u00e1 a ignorar? 20 raz\u00f5es e solu\u00e7\u00f5es<\/a><\/strong><\/p>\n

6 maneiras de fazer com que o teu ex deixe de te ignorar<\/h2>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

Now that we’ve covered the basic mistakes girls tend to to after the breakup, you’re ready to actually start doing something about it.<\/p>\n

When your ex ignores you, the smartest thing to do is to lay low for a while, until you’ve figured out what you want and the best way to get it. The point of this is for him to see you as a new person.<\/p>\n

Uma mulher que est\u00e1 disposta e pronta a resolver os seus problemas e a respeitar a santidade de uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o. Uma mulher pela qual vale a pena lutar.<\/p>\n

And when he sees you the next day (and all the following casual run-ins that will likely occur), he needs to see that breaking up with you was the biggest mistake he’s ever made. In other words, you need to fazer com que ele se arrependa de a ter perdido<\/a>. <\/p>\n

E seguir as 6 regras abaixo \u00e9 a forma exacta de o fazer.<\/p>\n

1. Respeitar os seus limites<\/h2>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

Se ele disser que precisa de espa\u00e7o e tempo para resolver as coisas, d\u00ea-lho.<\/p>\n

If he shares with you a painful reason for his sudden pulling away, try to put yourself in his shoes, and understand where he’s coming from.<\/p>\n

Try to flip the situation. Let’s say you were the one who initiated the breakup.<\/p>\n

Tu \u00e9 que precisavas de te recompor e encontrar uma sa\u00edda para a tua situa\u00e7\u00e3o dif\u00edcil.<\/p>\n

N\u00e3o se importaria que o seu ex-parceiro o atormentasse com perguntas?<\/p>\n

Isso f\u00e1-lo-ia parecer mais atraente para si ou sentir-se-ia mais distante dele do que nunca?<\/p>\n

I think you get the gist! Prove to him you’re an understanding ex girlfriend, and don’t pry!<\/p>\n

Respect his wishes and give him his much needed time. If it’s destinado a ser<\/a> between you two, eventually it’s going to happen \u2013 don’t rush it.<\/p>\n

2. Explore a sua nova independ\u00eancia<\/h2>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

Na minha opini\u00e3o, a qualidade mais atractiva que uma pessoa pode ter \u00e9 a capacidade de encontrar pelo menos um pouco de bem em todas as situa\u00e7\u00f5es de merda.<\/p>\n

It’s no easy task, but if you’re adamant, you’re going to succeed! And right now, you get to explore the lengths of your newfound independence!<\/p>\n

Podes fazer o que quiseres e com quem quiseres!<\/p>\n

Go out to that new club you’ve been DYING to go to (but never did because it’s mostly for singles) and dance the night away with hot strangers.<\/p>\n

Sleep in on the weekends knowing you’ve got nobody to see now, therefore no reason to annoy yourself with setting the alarm!<\/p>\n

Take a trip by yourself. Find new hobbies. Explore the parts of yourself that you’ve been neglecting for months!<\/p>\n

Once you understand how enriching and profound this can be, you’re going to thrive in your independence and learn to appreciate life more than ever!<\/p>\n

And once your ex sees you living your best life with NO regrets, he’s going to want to reconnect with you! And it’s completely up to you how you handle it from then on.<\/p>\n

3. Passar tempo de qualidade com os seus amigos comuns<\/h2>\n

\"vista<\/p>\n

Esta \u00e9 uma forma infal\u00edvel de chamar a aten\u00e7\u00e3o dele e n\u00e3o parecer desesperado.<\/p>\n

If you’ve got friends in common, that’s the perfect opportunity to subtly let him know how easy, breezy, and chill you are!<\/p>\n

Mostra-lhe que ele deixou de uma captura total<\/a> por se divertirem ao m\u00e1ximo com os vossos amigos, e n\u00e3o se esque\u00e7am de tirar uma ou duas fotografias!<\/p>\n

They are for sure going to talk to him eventually and you can bet your ass he’s going to ask about you.<\/p>\n

And all they’ll have to say is that you’ve been absolutely thriving and they’re enjoying this new, awesome girl you’ve become since the breakup. He will then have two options.<\/p>\n

Either to keep playing it cool and pretend that he doesn’t care, OR he’ll actually admit to himself what an ass he was for letting you go and shoot you a text, asking you to meet up.<\/p>\n

Certifique-se apenas de que est\u00e1 despreocupado e descontra\u00eddo como sempre quando isso acontecer.<\/p>\n

You want him to notice you at your best! And then \u2013 the ball is in his court.<\/p>\n

And I just hope he’s smart enough not to let you go twice.<\/p>\n

4. ”Accidentally” run into him<\/h2>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

This is the guy you’ve been dating for a while, right? So you pretty much know him to his core.<\/p>\n

Therefore, running into him ”by accident” should be a piece of cake! You pretty much know everything there is to know about him, and it’s almost too easy.<\/p>\n

Sabe onde \u00e9 que ele sai e onde vai buscar comida. Talvez possa dar um passeio pela vizinhan\u00e7a quando sabe que ele costuma l\u00e1 ir e, claro, com o seu melhor aspeto!<\/p>\n

If you know where he’s going to be the following weekend (courtesy of mutual friends) go get your girls and make a night of it!<\/p>\n

Deixe que ele a veja completamente feliz, sem preocupa\u00e7\u00f5es e no melhor dos estados de esp\u00edrito.<\/p>\n

Finge que te esqueceste completamente que ele tamb\u00e9m vai a esse s\u00edtio e come\u00e7a a falar de forma completamente casual.<\/p>\n

O objetivo \u00e9 que ele tenha a oportunidade de a ver e de falar consigo num ambiente sem stress e quando j\u00e1 tiver passado tempo suficiente.<\/p>\n

That way, he’ll have had time to figure his shit out and seeing you could resolve all of his doubts!<\/p>\n

5. Come\u00e7ar a sair com um novo rapaz<\/h2>\n

\"casal<\/p>\n

Of course, this shouldn’t be anything serious and meaningful. Just a cute guy to spend some time with and get your fix when you’re in need.<\/p>\n

After all, you’re only human. But the trick here is to get your ex to somehow find out in order to gauge his reaction.<\/p>\n

See, when a guy lets you go, he doesn’t really know what he just gave up until he sees you in the company of another man.<\/p>\n

Bem, d\u00ea-lhe essa oportunidade! D\u00eaem a conhecer o vosso pequeno caso, mas nunca sejam demasiado vistosos. <\/p>\n

Ele pode n\u00e3o se importar, mas o mais prov\u00e1vel \u00e9 que fique com ci\u00fames e comece a questionar a sua decis\u00e3o de a ignorar.<\/p>\n

One thing is for sure, though: you’ll have his attention, and that’s a great start.<\/p>\n

6. Utilizar as redes sociais a seu favor<\/h2>\n

\"grupo<\/p>\n

Since you two are currently not together, he doesn’t really have an insight into your life anymore.<\/p>\n

And in the beginning that’s totally okay, for the sake of both of you healing.<\/p>\n

But after a while, you’ll both be wondering what the other one is up to. And therein comes social media!<\/p>\n

If you want him to know where you are and what exciting thing you’re doing today, be sly about it and post a cute pic with a location of course on Instagram, or tweet about that new place you just went to that’s absolutely bananas.<\/p>\n

That’s the easiest way for him to see what you’ve been up to and casually run into you \u2013 if he wants to, of course.<\/p>\n

But even if he doesn’t, at least he’ll know you’re still enjoying your life and that you’ve been doing fantastic after the breakup!<\/p>\n

Ver a sua cara regularmente pode fazer com que ele comece saudades tuas<\/a> e isso pode levar a que ele te mande uma mensagem!<\/p>\n

You never know what might happen, so never count anything out. Use the tools you have to get your ex to stop ignoring you and you’ll know you did your best! Either way, you’ll be just fine, trust me.<\/p>\n

You’ve survived worse things, and you’ll certainly get through this, no matter the outcome!<\/p>\n

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