{"id":44748,"date":"2019-10-10T17:51:34","date_gmt":"2019-10-10T17:51:34","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=44748"},"modified":"2021-08-11T11:11:12","modified_gmt":"2021-08-11T11:11:12","slug":"desta-vez-as-tuas-desculpas-nao-sao-suficientes","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/desta-vez-as-tuas-desculpas-nao-sao-suficientes\/","title":{"rendered":"Desta vez, as tuas desculpas n\u00e3o s\u00e3o suficientes"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>J\u00e1 pass\u00e1mos por isto antes. Quebraste-me, desapareceste da minha vida, fizeste-me sentir como se eu n\u00e3o valesse nada.<\/p>\n<p>Depois, voltaste com as tuas falsas palavras de desculpa e eu aceitei-te como se nada tivesse acontecido.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Desta vez n\u00e3o.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>You can\u2019t apologize for the same thing over and over again. It\u2019s pointless. That apology has no value.<\/p>\n<p>If you were genuinely sorry for something, you would never repeat the same mistake again. You wouldn\u2019t hurt me again and again.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-44751\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/shutterstock_11830941791.jpg\" alt=\"mulher triste no sof\u00e1\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/shutterstock_11830941791.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/shutterstock_11830941791-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/shutterstock_11830941791-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>I know you think I will forgive you. Why wouldn\u2019t you think that\u2014I did it so many times before? But you are wrong this time, and I\u2019m going to prove it.<\/p>\n<p><strong>There comes a point in every woman\u2019s life when enough is enough. When she can\u2019t handle any more bs. A point in which she realizes that it doesn\u2019t matter how much she loves a man, she has to love herself more.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>I do love myself enough not to stay with someone who double-crossed me so many times, who promised me the stars and gave me the dust. I am not falling for your sob stories anymore. I am done with being understanding about your needs, your \u201cbusy schedules\u201d and your painful history.<\/p>\n<p>Take a look around. Each and every one of us has their cross to bear and that doesn\u2019t give us an excuse to treat someone like crap.<\/p>\n<p>So enough with your excuses, I\u2019m sick of hearing them.<\/p>\n<p><strong>I\u2019ll be stronger than myself this time. I will be stronger than my feelings, than my loneliness because I was so lonely in this whole drama with you.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-44752\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/shutterstock_4428868061.jpg\" alt=\"homem arrepende-se do que fez\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/shutterstock_4428868061.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/shutterstock_4428868061-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/shutterstock_4428868061-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Eu mere\u00e7o mais do que isto, mere\u00e7o algu\u00e9m que n\u00e3o tenha nada de importante para pedir desculpa.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Eu mere\u00e7o problemas normais de relacionamento, n\u00e3o trag\u00e9dias \u00e9picas como as que me fizeste passar.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>I deserve someone who won\u2019t look at my heart as a stop along the way from which point he can drop by, make a mess, and leave. I deserve to be someone&#8217;s destination.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Can you get that a simple \u201cI\u2019m sorry\u201d can\u2019t erase everything you put me through?<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>It can\u2019t take back all those sleepless nights I spent crying and thinking about what I did to deserve your poor treatment. There is nothing you can do to undo the damage you caused.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-44753\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/shutterstock_5775318521.jpg\" alt=\"mulher recusa o namorado\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/shutterstock_5775318521.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/shutterstock_5775318521-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/shutterstock_5775318521-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>I know you might not agree with me. I know you always think you didn\u2019t screw up that badly. I know you diminish your mistakes. I know you blame half of it on me. I know you want another chance.<\/p>\n<p><strong><em>Outra oportunidade para o que vos pergunto?<\/em><\/strong><br \/>\n<strong><em>Para me fazerem as mesmas coisas outra vez? N\u00e3o, obrigado.<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Perdeste todas as tuas hip\u00f3teses comigo. Se estivesses verdadeiramente arrependido, j\u00e1 ter\u00edamos resolvido tudo com o teu primeiro pedido de desculpas h\u00e1 muito tempo. Tudo o que precisavas de fazer era p\u00f4r as tuas palavras em a\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/p>\n<p>But you didn\u2019t. You just broke me again, and it was worse than the last time.<\/p>\n<p>Your sorry wasn\u2019t honest the first time, and it will never be. That\u2019s why I accept your apology, but I don\u2019t accept you in my life.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-large wp-image-44755\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/Here\u2019s-To-Being-Single-And-The-Magic-Of-New-Beginnings19-1-683x1024.jpg\" alt=\"Desta vez, as tuas desculpas n\u00e3o s\u00e3o suficientes \" width=\"683\" height=\"1024\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/Here\u2019s-To-Being-Single-And-The-Magic-Of-New-Beginnings19-1-683x1024.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/Here\u2019s-To-Being-Single-And-The-Magic-Of-New-Beginnings19-1-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/Here\u2019s-To-Being-Single-And-The-Magic-Of-New-Beginnings19-1.jpg 735w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 683px) 100vw, 683px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>We\u2019ve been down this road before. You break me, disappear from my life, make me feel like I was worth nothing. Then you come back again with your fake words of apology, and I take you back as nothing happened. Not this time. You can\u2019t apologize for the same thing over and over again. It\u2019s&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":40,"featured_media":44749,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29619],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-44748","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-stories-love"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29619,"label":"stories"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/shutterstock_10697247261.jpg",800,533,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tara Brown","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/tara-brown\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29619,"name":"stories","slug":"stories-love","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29619,"taxonomy":"category","description":"To all the souls struggling with complicated love experiences: These heartfelt stories about love, heartbreak, and moving on will be your voice of wisdom.","parent":38,"count":424,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29619,"category_count":424,"category_description":"To all the souls struggling with complicated love experiences: These heartfelt stories about love, heartbreak, and moving on will be your voice of wisdom.","cat_name":"stories","category_nicename":"stories-love","category_parent":38}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/44748","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/40"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=44748"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/44748\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/44749"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=44748"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=44748"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=44748"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}