{"id":44771,"date":"2019-10-10T19:24:46","date_gmt":"2019-10-10T19:24:46","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=44771"},"modified":"2022-01-05T15:49:00","modified_gmt":"2022-01-05T15:49:00","slug":"5-frases-de-despedida-brutalmente-honestas-para-o-deixar-de-vez","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/5-frases-de-despedida-brutalmente-honestas-para-o-deixar-de-vez\/","title":{"rendered":"5 frases de separa\u00e7\u00e3o brutalmente honestas para o deixar de vez"},"content":{"rendered":"

Sometimes when you\u2019re eager romper com<\/a> someone, the lines are so blurred that you just don\u2019t know if he REALLY got the picture.<\/p>\n

De alguma forma, ele acaba sempre por gravitar de volta para si.<\/p>\n

You may not want to break up in the first place, but you\u2019re mature enough to know that is simply isn\u2019t working any longer.<\/p>\n

Sabes no teu cora\u00e7\u00e3o que tens de acabar com isto, para bem da tua sanidade mental.<\/p>\n

You\u2019re not good for each other anymore.<\/p>\n

You\u2019re both clinging to a relationship that\u2019s no longer there, but you\u2019re desperately trying to recreate it into what it used to be.<\/p>\n

Only, it\u2019s not working and you\u2019re suffering like hell.<\/p>\n

There\u2019s still lots of love there. You still want to see his face each morning.<\/p>\n

\"casal<\/p>\n

But it\u2019s become toxic and you can\u2019t do this to yourself anymore.<\/p>\n

So how do you break up with the guy you don\u2019t really want to break up with?<\/p>\n

How do you convince him that it\u2019s over for GOOD this time and not sound like you\u2019re trying to convince yourself of that?<\/p>\n

It\u2019s hard. Breaking up really does take its toll on you.<\/p>\n

But sometimes, you just have to put on your grown-up pants and do the thing you\u2019re dreading because you know it\u2019s the best thing in the long run.<\/p>\n

In a few weeks, you\u2019ll be halfway on your healing path.<\/p>\n

You\u2019ll be able to look back at this moment and be grateful that you had the courage to leave the man who was causing you so much hurt, even though you ainda o amava.<\/a><\/p>\n

Aqui est\u00e3o 5 coisas brutalmente honestas linhas de separa\u00e7\u00e3o<\/a> que n\u00e3o deixar\u00e1 nada ao acaso.<\/p>\n

He will finally understand that you are serious about this and he\u2019ll be on his way.<\/p>\n

(And with time, I promise it\u2019s going to be okay for you too.)<\/p>\n

1. “I don\u2019t like the person I\u2019ve become when I\u2019m with you.”<\/h2>\n

\"casal<\/p>\n

This one goes straight to the gut. It\u2019s raw, honest, and it paints a crystal clear picture.<\/p>\n

Por muito que ainda o queiras, este amor transformou-te numa pessoa que j\u00e1 n\u00e3o reconheces.<\/p>\n

And you don\u2019t like it.<\/p>\n

You don\u2019t know how it got to this point and you\u2019re so saddened that it\u2019s come this far, but in order to be that girl you used to be, you need to distance yourself from him.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t be afraid to be brutally honest.<\/p>\n

Soon, it\u2019ll end up being your saving grace.<\/p>\n

2. “I am doing what I know in my heart is right for me.”<\/h2>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

This is it. And don\u2019t sway from this.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t let him convince you that HE is the one who\u2019s adequado para si<\/a>.<\/p>\n

S\u00f3 tu podes decidir isso!<\/p>\n

And if you feel it in your bones that this is not good for you anymore, you\u2019ve got your right to break it off.<\/p>\n

It doesn\u2019t mean he\u2019s a bad person.<\/p>\n

It doesn\u2019t mean he seeks to do you harm.<\/p>\n

Significa simplesmente que a vossa uni\u00e3o como casal rom\u00e2ntico j\u00e1 n\u00e3o vos serve de nada.<\/p>\n

You desperately wish it would, but you don\u2019t want to lie to yourself or to him for one second longer.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s over and you\u2019re out.<\/p>\n

3. “I\u2019m begging you \u2013 don\u2019t call me anymore, we\u2019re done.”<\/h2>\n

\"separa\u00e7\u00e3o<\/p>\n

Acabar uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o \u00e9 sempre uma chatice porque sabemos que basta uma noite de bebedeira para que o nosso parceiro ache por bem ligar-nos \u00e0s duas da manh\u00e3 e implorar que o aceitemos de volta.<\/p>\n

Sabe que \u00e9 muito prov\u00e1vel que isto aconte\u00e7a, e provavelmente j\u00e1 aconteceu no passado.<\/p>\n

And by saying this, you are letting him know that you\u2019re not okay with that.<\/p>\n

You don\u2019t want to be the bitch who breaks his drunken heart again for a second time over the phone.<\/p>\n

Iria magoar-te tanto quanto a ele.<\/p>\n

E precisas que ele n\u00e3o te coloque nessa posi\u00e7\u00e3o nunca mais.<\/p>\n

4. “I am not in love with you anymore.”<\/h2>\n

\"separa\u00e7\u00e3o<\/p>\n

You don\u2019t want to hurt him, it\u2019s the last thing on your mind.<\/p>\n

Mas tu PRECISAS que ele saiba que desta vez est\u00e1s a falar a s\u00e9rio.<\/p>\n

Even if there are some residual feelings there, it\u2019s better to just rip off the band aid and make it clear.<\/p>\n

He\u2019ll be hurt and you\u2019ll be suffering in silence, but this is what needs to happen for him to not make this any harder than it has to be.<\/p>\n

Precisas que esta rela\u00e7\u00e3o acabe porque a toxicidade da mesma se tornou demasiado<\/a> para tratar.<\/p>\n

O amor simplesmente n\u00e3o \u00e9 suficiente e apercebeu-se dolorosamente disso com ele.<\/p>\n

5. “I don\u2019t see a future with you by my side.”<\/h2>\n

\"casal<\/p>\n

Perhaps you\u2019re just on opposite paths? Perhaps your hopes and dreams don\u2019t collide?<\/p>\n

And as much as you would love to be compatible with him, you\u2019re just not.<\/p>\n

Ele quer concentrar-se no trabalho e viajar para o estrangeiro e tu queres ficar perto da tua fam\u00edlia e ser m\u00e3e num futuro n\u00e3o muito distante.<\/p>\n

\u00c9 preciso conciliar o trabalho com o facto de ser pai e m\u00e3e, e ele tem uma opini\u00e3o muito forte sobre o facto de a sua mulher ser uma m\u00e3e que fica em casa.<\/p>\n

Todas estas s\u00e3o quest\u00f5es muito s\u00e9rias que t\u00eam de ser tratadas a tempo.<\/p>\n

You can\u2019t just bury them and hope they never resurface.<\/p>\n

They will, and it will suck. Show him that you\u2019re only trying to save you both from future pain.<\/p>\n

Your ideas for what awaits are completely different and it\u2019s simply not possible to make it work anymore.<\/p>\n

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