{"id":44881,"date":"2019-10-14T11:02:00","date_gmt":"2019-10-14T11:02:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=44881"},"modified":"2022-02-11T04:14:31","modified_gmt":"2022-02-11T04:14:31","slug":"e-por-isso-que-um-narcisista-nao-pode-deixar-de-o-trair","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/e-por-isso-que-um-narcisista-nao-pode-deixar-de-o-trair\/","title":{"rendered":"\u00c9 por isso que um narcisista n\u00e3o consegue evitar trair-te"},"content":{"rendered":"

If you\u2019ve ever had the displeasure of being involved <\/span>com um narcisista<\/span><\/a>, I\u2019m sure by now you\u2019re aware that nothing good can come out of it. <\/span><\/p>\n

S\u00e3o como uma doen\u00e7a que vai tirando bocados da nossa alma at\u00e9 estar pronta para se agarrar a uma nova v\u00edtima.<\/span><\/p>\n

Estar com um narcisista \u00e9 exaustivo, desgastante, doloroso e intermin\u00e1vel. <\/span><\/p>\n

They charm the shit out of you, whip their claws into you (metaphorically), and don\u2019t let go until THEY decide to.<\/span><\/p>\n

N\u00e3o s\u00e3o bons em rela\u00e7\u00f5es, para dizer o m\u00ednimo. <\/span><\/p>\n

A sua falta de empatia e considera\u00e7\u00e3o por qualquer pessoa para al\u00e9m de si pr\u00f3pria \u00e9 frustrante. <\/span><\/p>\n

Por vezes, tem-se a sensa\u00e7\u00e3o de que h\u00e1 mais para <\/span>o seu narcisista<\/span><\/a> than his manipulation and deceit \u2013 and then he proves you wrong.<\/span><\/p>\n

\"Mulher<\/p>\n

And it\u2019s endless cycles of misery, false hopefulness and lies that keep shocking you even though don\u2019t even know why. <\/span><\/p>\n

A \u00fanica coisa chocante seria exatamente o seu oposto.<\/span><\/p>\n

And this is why cheating is almost like second nature to them. One woman simply won\u2019t do. <\/span><\/p>\n

And while this is not a fact for every single narcissist out there \u2013 it is for the majority of them.<\/span><\/p>\n

Fazer batota d\u00e1-lhes uma sensa\u00e7\u00e3o de al\u00edvio, controlo e realiza\u00e7\u00e3o. Coloca-os acima de si e d\u00e1-lhes a viagem de poder de uma vida. <\/span><\/p>\n

Mas porque \u00e9 que precisam de fazer batota para se sentirem realizados?<\/span><\/p>\n

Porque \u00e9 que eles se sentem no direito de fazer batota? Porque \u00e9 que pensam que podem faz\u00ea-lo e safar-se facilmente? <\/span><\/i><\/p>\n

Em primeiro lugar, o que \u00e9 que a batota tem de t\u00e3o sedutor?<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n

Here, I\u2019ll break down some of the answers to those. Here are some of the most common reasons why narcissists resort to cheating.<\/span><\/p>\n

1. A narcissist needs attention and oftentimes, one woman simply isn\u2019t enough.<\/span><\/h2>\n

\"Homem<\/p>\n

One could say this about men in general almost, but with narcissists, it\u2019s more severe. A narcissist needs to feel adored and admired. <\/span><\/p>\n

He needs to be the object of everyone\u2019s attention, and that goes for his romantic relationships as well.<\/span><\/p>\n

One woman\u2019s attention rarely satisfies all of his needs. He needs more. He needs to feel like he\u2019s on top of the world. <\/span><\/p>\n

Ele precisa de ter o seu ego refor\u00e7ado e a sua mente explodida. E \u00e9 por isso que ele vai procurar a companhia de outras mulheres. <\/span><\/p>\n

Quanto mais a sua grandiosidade \u00e9 admirada, mais inflacionado \u00e9 o seu sentido de si pr\u00f3prio.<\/span><\/p>\n

2. Um narcisista acredita genuinamente que tem direito a mais do que qualquer outra pessoa<\/span><\/h2>\n

\"Silhueta<\/p>\n

Um narcisista tem um complexo de superioridade, o que o faz acreditar que pode tirar o que quiser porque tem direito a isso. <\/span><\/p>\n

Ele acredita genuinamente que merece mais coisas do que tu e eu.<\/span><\/p>\n

And this includes romantic partners (even though there\u2019s really no romance there). To him, right or wrong doesn\u2019t play a part here. <\/span><\/p>\n

He is above anyone, and rules don\u2019t apply to him. He gets to take what he feels he has the right to, and he answers to nobody.<\/span><\/p>\n

\u00c9 por isso que <\/span>ele trai-te<\/span><\/a> e depois faz-nos sentir culpados por ficarmos zangados. <\/span><\/p>\n

Ele joga segundo um conjunto de regras completamente diferente, que justificam o seu comportamento moralmente repreens\u00edvel.<\/span><\/p>\n

3. A narcissist\u2019s ego doesn\u2019t let him play by the rules<\/span><\/h2>\n

\"Retrato<\/p>\n

His ego often gets the best of him. Even if he wanted to be faithful, his inflated ego wouldn\u2019t let him. <\/span><\/p>\n

Um narcisista coloca-se em muitas situa\u00e7\u00f5es em que se sente tentado, e f\u00e1-lo de prop\u00f3sito.<\/span><\/p>\n

He can\u2019t stay put, and he can\u2019t stay away from people (read: women). He needs his fix. <\/span><\/p>\n

So when he\u2019s in one of those situations, his ego won\u2019t let him restrain himself.  He\u2019ll never think of the woman waiting for him at home. <\/span><\/p>\n

He will welcome any opportunity he gets to get his fix, and he\u2019ll feel boastful about it. <\/span><\/p>\n

He simply doesn\u2019t care to do anything discreetly. It\u2019s not his style.<\/span><\/p>\n

4. Um narcisista tem um grande desejo sexual<\/span><\/h2>\n

\"Um<\/p>\n

Para um narcisista, o sexo \u00e9 uma droga. Ele precisa de o fazer tanto quanto poss\u00edvel para se sentir estimulado e para provar o seu valor aos outros. <\/span><\/p>\n

He has a stronger libido than most people which doesn\u2019t let him stay celibate for long. <\/span><\/p>\n

And if the sex with his partner doesn\u2019t satisfy his needs, he\u2019ll start looking elsewhere. You may believe that you have a good <\/span>vida sexual<\/span><\/a>e pode muito bem ser esse o caso. <\/span><\/p>\n

But unlike with a normal partner who would appreciate it and never think of straying, a narcissist isn\u2019t built that way. <\/span><\/p>\n

No matter how much you give him, he\u2019ll always need more. And that is entirely on him.<\/span><\/p>\n

5. Um narcisista sente-se em controlo quando trai<\/span><\/h2>\n

\"Retrato<\/p>\n

To him, cheating is like a power trip. He is showing you that he can (and will!) do as he pleases, and you\u2019ll just have to put up with it. <\/span><\/p>\n

Um narcisista gosta de<\/a> a persegui\u00e7\u00e3o. Ele gosta e alimenta-se da capacidade de seduzir mais uma mulher e lev\u00e1-la para a cama. <\/span><\/p>\n

It gives him control and a sense of accomplishment. And while he\u2019s with that other girl, he knows there\u2019s nothing you can do about it which gives him control over you. <\/span><\/p>\n

E o sexo, especialmente o proibido, \u00e9 para ele a derradeira forma de controlo. <\/span><\/p>\n

Being able to get away with it knowing you\u2019re stuck with him, gives him more control than a person could ever need.<\/span><\/p>\n

\"\u00c9<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

If you\u2019ve ever had the displeasure of being involved with a narcissist, I\u2019m sure by now you\u2019re aware that nothing good can come out of it.  They are like a disease that takes bits and pieces of your soul until they are ready to latch onto a new victim. Being with a narcissist is exhausting,…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":21,"featured_media":44888,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29633],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-44881","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-narcissism"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29633,"label":"narcissism"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/shutterstock_297442040.jpg",800,525,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Maria Parker","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/maria\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29633,"name":"narcissism","slug":"narcissism","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29633,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Mind games and manipulations are narcissist's favorite controlling tactics. Learn how their mind operates so that you can protect yourself. ","parent":22911,"count":233,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29633,"category_count":233,"category_description":"Mind games and manipulations are narcissist's favorite controlling tactics. Learn how their mind operates so that you can protect yourself. ","cat_name":"narcissism","category_nicename":"narcissism","category_parent":22911}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/44881","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/21"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=44881"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/44881\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/44888"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=44881"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=44881"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=44881"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}