{"id":44903,"date":"2019-10-14T11:57:31","date_gmt":"2019-10-14T11:57:31","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=44903"},"modified":"2021-08-31T08:17:59","modified_gmt":"2021-08-31T08:17:59","slug":"sou-solteira-porque-quero-5-coisas-que-so-um-homem-de-verdade-pode-dar","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/sou-solteira-porque-quero-5-coisas-que-so-um-homem-de-verdade-pode-dar\/","title":{"rendered":"Estou solteira porque quero 5 coisas que s\u00f3 um homem de verdade pode dar"},"content":{"rendered":"

Depois de ter sa\u00eddo com tantas causas perdidas, comecei realmente a acreditar que havia algo de errado comigo. <\/span><\/p>\n

Era a minha apar\u00eancia, a minha maneira de falar ou o meu estranho sentido de humor?<\/span><\/p>\n

Como \u00e9 que uma pessoa pode ter tanto azar quando se trata de homens? <\/span><\/p>\n

A \u00fanica coisa em comum com todos esses fracassos era nada mais nada menos do que eu! Foi essa a conclus\u00e3o a que cheguei depois da minha \u00faltima rela\u00e7\u00e3o de merda.<\/span><\/p>\n

E agora posso dizer honestamente que j\u00e1 n\u00e3o me culpo mais. <\/span><\/p>\n

I <\/span>suportar <\/span><\/a>much less than I should have because I didn\u2019t believe that one man could fulfill all of my (perfectly reasonable) needs.<\/span><\/p>\n

But you know what? Just any man can\u2019t. But <\/span>um homem de verdade<\/span><\/a> pode!<\/span><\/p>\n

\"Um<\/p>\n

And as rare of a species as they seem these days, I\u2019m sure that somewhere there\u2019s a man who won\u2019t find my needs and wants too much to ask for.<\/span><\/p>\n

A man who will happily provide me with everything I need (emotionally) and not complain that I\u2019m being overbearing.<\/span><\/p>\n

A man who won\u2019t run away when it gets hard and who will be there in person<\/span>\u2014<\/span>e n\u00e3o apenas por texto. At\u00e9 agora<\/span>\u2014<\/span>n\u00e3o teve essa sorte. <\/span><\/p>\n

And this is why I choose to be single. And I\u2019m totally okay with that.<\/span><\/p>\n

I don\u2019t need a man who\u2019ll only make me half happy. I don\u2019t need a man who needs ME to take care of him. <\/span><\/p>\n

In a relationship, it goes both ways and I\u2019m done taking on the mother role to immature boys who can\u2019t take care of themselves, let alone a woman.<\/span><\/p>\n

At\u00e9 encontrar um homem que me possa proporcionar estas 5 coisas que todas as mulheres devem ter no seu parceiro, opto por permanecer felizmente solteira.<\/span><\/p>\n

1. Quero um homem que acredite numa comunica\u00e7\u00e3o aberta<\/span><\/h2>\n

\"Um<\/p>\n

This honestly doesn\u2019t seem too much to ask. It\u2019s like when did conversation go out of style? <\/span><\/p>\n

Sigh… I really need a man who will communicate with me about the good stuff AND the bad. It\u2019s easy to have a conversation when it\u2019s all peachy.<\/span><\/p>\n

Preciso de um homem que me chame \u00e0 aten\u00e7\u00e3o para as minhas merdas, em vez de ficar amuado em sil\u00eancio e de as usar contra mim mais tarde. <\/span><\/p>\n

That\u2019s childish AF! Be a man and tell me what\u2019s wrong. <\/span><\/p>\n

Digam-me quando tiverem um problema com algo que eu tenha feito e mostrem-me que se preocupam, estando dispostos a trabalhar connosco!<\/span><\/p>\n

2. Quero um homem que assuma a responsabilidade pelos seus actos<\/span><\/h2>\n

\"Hora<\/p>\n

I don\u2019t want to play the \u2018blame game\u2019. I don\u2019t want to have to wonder if I\u2019ll be hearing a bunch of ridiculous excuses when you do something wrong. <\/span><\/p>\n

It\u2019s not the end of the world, so talk to me and own up to your shit!<\/span><\/p>\n

I\u2019ll love you twice as much if you can be a man and admit when you\u2019re at fault. <\/span><\/p>\n

I\u2019ll appreciate it more than you know if you can say you\u2019re sorry to my face and mean it! <\/span><\/p>\n

Being honest when it\u2019s hard is what relationships are all about. Take responsibility for your actions and we won\u2019t have a problem!<\/span><\/p>\n

3. Quero um homem que seja de confian\u00e7a e leal<\/span><\/h2>\n

\"casal<\/p>\n

Be my safe harbor. Be my rock when I have no one to turn to. Don\u2019t take my trust <\/span>como garantido.<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n

Don\u2019t make me regret opening up to you. That\u2019s not easy for me, you know?<\/span><\/p>\n

If you tell me you\u2019re going to do something, do it. If you promise me you\u2019ll pick me up for our date night, do it. <\/span><\/p>\n

Don\u2019t make me think I can\u2019t trust you. The one person I should be able to trust with my life is you! And I do. So don\u2019t make me question your loyalty.<\/span><\/p>\n

If I realize that I can trust you with anything, our relationship is going to blossom. I promise I\u2019ll be the same with you. <\/span><\/p>\n

Basta retribuir o favor e podemos ser aquele casal que toda a gente aspira a ser!<\/span><\/p>\n

4. Quero um homem com empatia e compaix\u00e3o<\/span><\/h2>\n

\"encontro<\/p>\n

I really need you to understand when I\u2019m going through something and know how to be there for me. <\/span><\/p>\n

I need a man who can hold my hand even though I may seem like I don\u2019t want it (hint: I always do!).<\/span><\/p>\n

Se me acontecer alguma coisa dolorosa, preciso que estejas presente em todos os passos do caminho. N\u00e3o porque sintas que tens de o fazer, mas porque queres. <\/span><\/p>\n

Preciso que <\/span>ama-me o suficiente<\/span><\/a> to be sad when I\u2019m sad. I don\u2019t mean this to come out the wrong way but I think you know what I mean.<\/span><\/p>\n

Quando amamos algu\u00e9m, a sua felicidade \u00e9 a nossa felicidade e a sua tristeza \u00e9 a nossa tristeza. E \u00e9 isso que eu desejo mais do que tudo. <\/span><\/p>\n

Sentir-me genuinamente destro\u00e7ado quando estou a sofrer. O meu cora\u00e7\u00e3o parte-se quando algu\u00e9m que amo est\u00e1 a sofrer. <\/span><\/p>\n

\u00c9 assim t\u00e3o dif\u00edcil pedir isso a um homem?<\/span><\/p>\n

5. Quero um homem que seja emocionalmente maduro e solid\u00e1rio<\/span><\/h2>\n

\"Casal<\/p>\n

A maturidade emocional \u00e9 uma carater\u00edstica que nunca encontrei num homem. Por isso, s\u00f3 posso sonhar em encontrar um assim. Mas encaro isto como um bom sinal. <\/span><\/p>\n

Todos os rapazes com quem andei antes eram muito imaturos e agora sei o que procurar!<\/span><\/p>\n

And when I find it, I\u2019ll know that I\u2019ve found myself a real man. A man who doesn\u2019t get irrationally mad if I want to go out with my friends. <\/span><\/p>\n

A man who won\u2019t throw a fit if he sees me talking to a guy friend.<\/span><\/p>\n

Um homem que me apoia e confia em mim. Um homem que sabe que o meu cora\u00e7\u00e3o bate por ele e por mais ningu\u00e9m. <\/span><\/p>\n

Algu\u00e9m que seja suficientemente maduro para nunca deixar que um ci\u00fame idiota estrague o que temos. E esse homem est\u00e1 algures por a\u00ed. <\/span><\/p>\n

I know this. And I\u2019ll remain single until I meet somebody exactly like that.<\/span><\/p>\n

\"Estou<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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