{"id":44979,"date":"2019-10-14T18:20:31","date_gmt":"2019-10-14T18:20:31","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=44979"},"modified":"2022-02-21T19:06:29","modified_gmt":"2022-02-21T19:06:29","slug":"5-segredos-surpreendentes-que-o-seu-narcisista-espera-que-nunca-perceba","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/5-segredos-surpreendentes-que-o-seu-narcisista-espera-que-nunca-perceba\/","title":{"rendered":"5 segredos alucinantes que o seu narcisista espera que voc\u00ea nunca perceba"},"content":{"rendered":"

I\u2019m sure you\u2019d love to hear a few things that will come in really handy when lidar com <\/a>narcisistas no futuro, certo?<\/p>\n

Well, I\u2019ve got them.<\/p>\n

You\u2019re familiar with the fact that all narcissists use manipulation and tricks to fool even the smartest person in the room.<\/p>\n

They\u2019ve got a tactic in place for every situation they get themselves into.<\/p>\n

Todos n\u00f3s sabemos que eles confiam na sua capacidade de desempenhar um papel (e poderosamente bem) que se adapta a cada uma das pessoas que eles t\u00eam como alvo de manipula\u00e7\u00e3o atual.<\/p>\n

Podem facilmente adaptar-se a quem est\u00e3o a enganar para tirar o melhor partido deles e depois deix\u00e1-los de rastos.<\/p>\n

\"casal<\/p>\n

Mas h\u00e1 alguns things you didn\u2019t know about narcissists<\/a>.<\/p>\n

Coisas que eles gostariam que nunca soubesses.<\/p>\n

Porque estes segredos s\u00e3o coisas que lhes permitem fazer grandes esfor\u00e7os nos seus jogos sem serem detectados.<\/p>\n

Estes segredos s\u00e3o a chave do seu jogo.<\/p>\n

And now you\u2019ll have a way out the next time a narcissist plagues your life and tries to get his way with you.<\/p>\n

Desta forma, ser\u00e1 mais f\u00e1cil descobri-los, cham\u00e1-los \u00e0 raz\u00e3o e deix\u00e1-los a sentir-se vulner\u00e1veis e expostos.<\/p>\n

Que \u00e9 exatamente o que fazem a todas as suas v\u00edtimas.<\/p>\n

I\u2019m not saying it\u2019s going to be a piece of cake every single time, but it\u2019s definitely going to make them question everything they thought they knew.<\/p>\n

Jogar o jogo dele<\/a> aprendendo estes 5 segredos que o seu narcisista nunca quis que soubesse!<\/p>\n

1. Fazer-se de parvo far\u00e1 com que ele tire a m\u00e1scara muito mais depressa<\/h2>\n

\"homem<\/p>\n

Enfrentar um narcisista manipulador vai acabar de forma dolorosa para si.<\/p>\n

Conhecem demasiado bem o seu of\u00edcio para deixarem que algu\u00e9m os apanhe desprevenidos.<\/p>\n

But I\u2019ve got something better for you anyway. Play dumb.<\/p>\n

Act as if you were the na\u00efve girl he wishes you were.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t let him see that there\u2019s more to you than meets the eye.<\/p>\n

The more he thinks you\u2019re dumb and na\u00efve, the less he\u2019s going to try to cover up his real self, and this will give you an incredible insight into who he really is.<\/p>\n

He is not going to try to hide himself if he believes you\u2019re not smart or paying attention.<\/p>\n

Meanwhile, you\u2019ll be observing in silence and watching his every move, studying his tricks and learning what sets him off.<\/p>\n

Play the slow game and eventually you\u2019ll end up knowing him better than he knows himself.<\/p>\n

2. Keep a record of his misdeeds \u2013 being found out is their biggest fear<\/h2>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

Um narcisista \u00e9 um predador. E todos os predadores t\u00eam medo de serem descobertos e de verem os seus actos il\u00edcitos \u00e0 luz do dia.<\/p>\n

This is why it\u2019s important that you document every form of abuse he puts you through.<\/p>\n

Tente faz\u00ea-lo da forma mais discreta poss\u00edvel.<\/p>\n

Tire uma fotografia de uma n\u00f3doa negra, se ele alguma vez lhe fez uma.<\/p>\n

Grave secretamente as suas explos\u00f5es violentas e manipuladoras com o seu telem\u00f3vel escondido no bolso.<\/p>\n

Film him from a safe distance if he\u2019s engaged in a misdeed you believe could be used against him.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t let him know about this and when the time comes, use all of this evidence in the best way you see fit, and get rid of him once and for all with solid evidence even his evil charm can\u2019t get him out of.<\/p>\n

3. Ficar indiferente \u00e9 o seu maior problema<\/h2>\n

\"homem<\/p>\n

They feed off their victims\u2019 reaction. It gives them fuel to keep going and work at their tricks twice as hard.<\/p>\n

Mas o que os deixa absolutamente loucos \u00e9 n\u00e3o obterem a rea\u00e7\u00e3o que esperavam.<\/p>\n

\u00c9, de facto, o seu maior problema.<\/p>\n

Manter a calma perante as suas mentiras.<\/p>\n

Ficar em sil\u00eancio quando ele quer clara e desesperadamente que reaja de forma impulsiva.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t give him the satisfaction of doing exactly what he planned you\u2019d do.<\/p>\n

E depois v\u00ea-lo a co\u00e7ar a cabe\u00e7a (figurativamente) em descren\u00e7a.<\/p>\n

You\u2019ll leave him speechless for a second.<\/p>\n

And the more you do this, the less he\u2019ll need you because you\u2019ll no longer be of use to him.<\/p>\n

And just like that you\u2019ll win the battle.<\/p>\n

4. Make him see you don\u2019t think of yourself as inferior to him<\/h2>\n

\"senhora<\/p>\n

Os narcisistas tratam os seus parceiros rom\u00e2nticos como seres humanos inferiores.<\/p>\n

He doesn\u2019t even see you as a person, to him you\u2019re an object.<\/p>\n

E ele sente-se no direito de fazer o que quiser contigo.<\/p>\n

Por isso, quando lhe mostras que saiba o seu valor<\/a> despite his verbal abuse and all forms of manipulation, he\u2019ll see that he\u2019s doing a bad job.<\/p>\n

See, he wants you to feel like you\u2019re nothing.<\/p>\n

Ele precisa de fazer com que te vejas como um ser humano inferior para ficares sob o seu feiti\u00e7o.<\/p>\n

But showing him you\u2019re still the confident woman with your morals intact makes him a failure.<\/p>\n

In his eyes, it will paint him in a negative light and he\u2019ll be faced with his shortcomings, much to your delight and relief.<\/p>\n

5. Do not fall for their fake remorse \u2013 it\u2019s NEVER real<\/h2>\n

\"casal<\/p>\n

Os narcisistas podem desarmar at\u00e9 mesmo as for\u00e7as da lei com o seu desempenho impec\u00e1vel de um ser humilde que est\u00e1 verdadeiramente arrependido das suas ac\u00e7\u00f5es.<\/p>\n

Podem at\u00e9 ser capazes de chorar a pedido.<\/p>\n

E conseguem fazer qualquer um acreditar no seu lado suave e fr\u00e1gil.<\/p>\n

But it\u2019s crucial you know it\u2019s nothing but a performance.<\/p>\n

E deve nunca se apaixonar por<\/a> it. He\u2019ll say the right words and even shed a tear \u2013 let him.<\/p>\n

Faz com que ele pense que a compraste.<\/p>\n

But secretly know that it\u2019s all just a vicious, evil ploy created to play the victim card.<\/p>\n

Imaginem como uma pessoa deve ser cruel e sem emo\u00e7\u00f5es para chorar quando a situa\u00e7\u00e3o o exige e depois ir fazer exatamente a mesma merda com um sorriso arrogante na cara?<\/p>\n

Assustador.<\/p>\n

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