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<\/p>\nTalvez tenha visto a fotografia dele nas redes sociais e tenha come\u00e7ado imediatamente a rebobinar todos os momentos felizes que passaram juntos.<\/p>\n
Perhaps the teddy bear he gave you is still on your bed and every time you look at it, you can\u2019t help but feel instant warmth through your whole body.<\/p>\n
Ou talvez o tenha visto hoje a descer a rua com aquele seu sorriso especial que o deixou louco.<\/p>\n
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His grin instantly forces you to start thinking about his life and whether he\u2019s already met someone new because he seems happy and content.<\/p>\n
Or maybe you want to text him because you\u2019re sentir-se aborrecido ou solit\u00e1rio<\/a> e sentimos falta das nossas velhas e longas conversas at\u00e9 adormecermos.<\/p>\n Or perhaps you\u2019ve had a couple of drinks and now you\u2019re convinced that breaking up with him was a total mistake; you want to turn back time to the moment of your first meeting and change everything.<\/p>\n Seja qual for a raz\u00e3o, tem uma vontade incontrol\u00e1vel de lhe enviar uma mensagem, perguntar-lhe como \u00e9 a vida dele, falar sobre o que tiveram e talvez convenc\u00ea-lo de que a separa\u00e7\u00e3o foi um erro.<\/p>\n It seems almost impossible to resist the temptation and write a simple \u201cHey,\u201d only to receive another \u201cHey\u201d in return and wait for the conversation to finally start flowing.<\/p>\n A simple \u201cHey\u201d from him would mean so much to you because it would make you feel as if nothing has changed.<\/p>\n Iria fazer-te sentir como nos velhos tempos, quando esperavas ansiosamente pela sua resposta e, no momento em que a visses, a tua impaci\u00eancia seria instantaneamente substitu\u00edda por um grande sorriso.<\/p>\n Queres voltar a sentir essa felicidade.<\/p>\n You want to feel that same smile on your face, because it\u2019s the only thing that can make you feel better in the moment.<\/p>\n Mas ser\u00e1 que mandar-lhe uma mensagem \u00e9 realmente uma coisa inteligente a fazer?<\/b><\/p>\n Enviar-lhe uma mensagem de texto \u00e9 digno do teu \u00fanico sorriso que ser\u00e1 seguido de milhares de l\u00e1grimas e de uma confus\u00e3o sem fim?<\/b><\/p>\n Is it really smart to text him even though you know you shouldn\u2019t?<\/p>\n Apesar de algo dentro de si lhe dizer que a sua rela\u00e7\u00e3o, rela\u00e7\u00e3o-situa\u00e7\u00e3o ou quase rela\u00e7\u00e3o terminou h\u00e1 muito tempo, mesmo antes de terem terminado oficialmente? <\/p>\n The main reason you want to text him is not because you think he\u2019s o \u00fanico certo para si<\/a>.<\/p>\n It\u2019s because you want to revive the memories you once had.<\/p>\n It\u2019s because you feel lonely at the time and you think that texting them will help you feel alive again, forget about everything, and cheer you up.<\/p>\n You don\u2019t want to text him because you think that he\u2019s the one for you.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n You want to text him because you want to convince yourself that this is the truth, even though you know it\u2019s not.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n Queres enviar-lhe uma mensagem porque a sua presen\u00e7a significou muito para ti e porque te sentiste segura nos seus bra\u00e7os.<\/p>\n Riam-se juntos, faziam amor e gostavam de passar tempo juntos.<\/p>\n You were like one and now you\u2019re missing that part of you.<\/p>\n You don\u2019t really miss him, you\u2019re missing how you felt when you were with him.<\/p>\n Sente falta da sensa\u00e7\u00e3o de calor quando ele a abra\u00e7ava e da forma como a beijava.<\/p>\n But, sometimes even the strongest of relationships don\u2019t last a lifetime. <\/p>\n Sometimes, we realize too late that we\u2019re not meant to be together for some reason and that breaking up is the only smart thing to do.<\/p>\n Reconheceste tudo isto h\u00e1 muito tempo e foi por isso que decidiste seguir em frente.<\/p>\n E agora queres enviar-lhe uma mensagem s\u00f3 porque algo te fez lembrar da sua exist\u00eancia; algo te fez recordar momentos felizes passados juntos.<\/p>\n And this is completely normal. It\u2019s totally okay to feel lonely, to doubt your decisions, and to have the uncontrollable urge to text him.<\/b><\/p>\n But, for your own good, you shouldn\u2019t do it!<\/b><\/p>\n You shouldn\u2019t do it because you know that texting him will not change anything.<\/p>\n Sabes que enviar-lhe mensagens s\u00f3 vai prolongar o teu sofrimento, prolongar os dias da tua cura.<\/p>\n Sabes que enviar-lhe uma mensagem de texto seria apenas um segundo de felicidade falsa que j\u00e1 morreu h\u00e1 muito tempo.<\/p>\n![\"mulher](\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/shutterstock_1734513771.jpg\")
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