{"id":45180,"date":"2020-10-16T16:12:09","date_gmt":"2020-10-16T16:12:09","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=45180"},"modified":"2022-02-26T11:39:37","modified_gmt":"2022-02-26T11:39:37","slug":"6-textos-que-te-vais-arrepender-de-lhe-ter-enviado-depois-da-separacao","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/6-textos-que-te-vais-arrepender-de-lhe-ter-enviado-depois-da-separacao\/","title":{"rendered":"6 Textos que vais arrepender-te de lhe ter enviado depois da separa\u00e7\u00e3o"},"content":{"rendered":"

Quantas vezes j\u00e1 esticou a m\u00e3o para pegar no telem\u00f3vel desde que se separou do seu ex?<\/p>\n

Quantas vezes pensaste que era uma boa ideia enviar-lhe uma mensagem, pensando que isso te faria sentir melhor?<\/p>\n

Deve faz\u00ea-lo? Deve enviar-lhe uma mensagem de texto <\/a> ou \u00e9 melhor deixar as coisas como est\u00e3o?<\/p>\n

Well, let me tell you that you\u2019re not alone.<\/p>\n

Quase todas as raparigas que est\u00e3o a passar por uma separa\u00e7\u00e3o recente<\/a> tinha os mesmos pensamentos a passar-lhe pela cabe\u00e7a.<\/p>\n

That is why we\u2019re bringing you a collection of post-break-up texts you shouldn\u2019t even think of sending him, as much as you\u2019d like to.<\/p>\n

\u2018I miss you\u2019<\/h2>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

Yes, there are moments when you can\u2019t handle your emotions, as much as you try to.<\/p>\n

Moments in which they overwhelm you to the point where you can\u2019t breathe or function properly.<\/p>\n

No entanto, essa n\u00e3o \u00e9 sequer a pior parte.<\/p>\n

O pior \u00e9 pensar que a \u00fanica forma de se sentir melhor \u00e9 partilhar a saudade com quem a provocou.<\/p>\n

You think you will feel better the moment you send your ex a text that you can\u2019t make it without him. Well, guess what? You won\u2019t.<\/p>\n

In fact, you\u2019ll be even worse when he doesn\u2019t reply.<\/p>\n

Or even if he does, you\u2019ll regret going back to square one and annulling all the progress you\u2019ve made so far.<\/p>\n

Sei que tens saudades dele. Afinal, este era o homem com quem partilhava tudo e de quem gostava muito.<\/p>\n

It wouldn\u2019t be natural if you didn\u2019t miss him and it would mean that you never loved him. However, it doesn\u2019t mean he has to know this.<\/p>\n

Especialmente n\u00e3o a meio da noite, alguns dias depois de terem acabado. Ou nunca.<\/p>\n

\u2018Hey, remember that song?\u2019<\/h2>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

There doesn\u2019t exist a couple who doesn\u2019t have their song.<\/p>\n

A can\u00e7\u00e3o de amor rom\u00e2ntica <\/a> que ouviram juntos ou as letras que melhor descrevem o seu romance.<\/p>\n

E tu e o teu ex n\u00e3o s\u00e3o exce\u00e7\u00e3o. Sempre que ouves esta can\u00e7\u00e3o, todas as tuas mem\u00f3rias passam pela tua cabe\u00e7a.<\/p>\n

Lembra-se de tudo o que passou e, por um momento, deseja que tudo isso volte.<\/p>\n

Durante esses minutos, parece que n\u00e3o passou tempo nenhum e sentimos todo o espetro de emo\u00e7\u00f5es que est\u00e1vamos a sentir enquanto ouv\u00edamos esta melodia com ele.<\/p>\n

So, naturally, you want to share all of this with the person this song reminds you of \u2014 your ex-boyfriend.<\/p>\n

You want him to feel the same nostalgia you\u2019re feeling and you want to be important to him again, at least for a while.<\/p>\n

Nevertheless, this doesn\u2019t mean sending him this text wouldn\u2019t be a mistake.<\/p>\n

Because as soon as the moment is gone, you\u2019ll wish you hadn\u2019t done it.<\/p>\n

As soon as you get back to reality, you\u2019ll figure out that something like this is completely unnecessary and that you don\u2019t actually miss him as much as you thought you did while the song was playing.<\/p>\n

After all, he must have heard the same song since the two of you split, so why wasn\u2019t he the one who reminded you of it?<\/p>\n

\u2018Your new girl sucks\u2019<\/h2>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

Por muito ciumenta que seja do facto de o seu ex ter mudado de casa antes de si, n\u00e3o h\u00e1 desculpa para comentar a nova namorada dele.<\/p>\n

It doesn\u2019t matter whether you want to tell him that you were better than her, if you want to satirically say that she\u2019s cute or even if you think that he\u2019s searching for you in her \u2014 sending any text regarding his new life is a huge mistake.<\/p>\n

Besides, you\u2019ll only boost his ego and he\u2019ll think of you as a lunatic who continues stalking him.<\/p>\n

\u2018Hey, sorry, I texted you by accident\u2019<\/h2>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

Admita: quantas vezes j\u00e1 quis enviar pelo menos um emoji ao seu ex e depois dizer-lhe que foi um acidente e que na verdade queria enviar uma mensagem a outra pessoa?<\/p>\n

Telefonar-lhe e depois desligar, justificando a si pr\u00f3prio que o seu telem\u00f3vel o fez sozinho?<\/p>\n

Claro que o ideal seria que, depois de quebrarem o gelo, continuassem a conversa, que era o vosso plano inicial desde o in\u00edcio.<\/p>\n

Bem, adivinha? Ningu\u00e9m compra essa merda.<\/p>\n

In fact, even if something like this happens by accident, he\u2019ll always think you did it on purpose and that you were just looking for an excuse to get in touch with him.<\/p>\n

So please, don\u2019t even try these childish tricks because they won\u2019t work.<\/p>\n

\u2018I moved on\u2019<\/h2>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

OK, you obviously won\u2019t send this literal text but any message which is implying that you\u2019ve j\u00e1 o esqueci <\/a> is a message you shouldn\u2019t send.<\/p>\n

Let\u2019s be real: if you have the need to tell someone you\u2019ve forgotten about them, you clearly haven\u2019t. Otherwise, they wouldn\u2019t be in the back of your head.<\/p>\n

\u2018Want to come over?\u2019<\/h2>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

Uma das piores coisas que se pode fazer depois de terminar uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o \u00e9 transform\u00e1-la num caso casual.<\/p>\n

I\u2019m not telling you this because your ex will think of you as a slut (because who cares what he thinks and what is the difference between you and him if you two voluntarily sleep together?)<\/p>\n

I\u2019m telling you this because something like this would crush even the pieces of your heart which luckily remained unbroken and because an affair like this is impossible to sustain without further emotional damage.<\/p>\n

Este era o homem por quem tinhas sentimentos profundos, por isso o que te faz pensar que agora podes ter sexo com ele sem compromissos?<\/p>\n

What makes you think that all of your emotions won\u2019t come back and that you won\u2019t want to have him back?<\/p>\n

Assim, enviar um texto que \u00e9, na verdade, um engate <\/a> nunca \u00e9 uma boa ideia.<\/p>\n

If you really want to have some meaningless sex but don\u2019t want a relationship, it\u2019s better to find someone else for the job than to reopen your old wounds.<\/p>\n

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