{"id":45207,"date":"2019-10-16T21:43:54","date_gmt":"2019-10-16T21:43:54","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=45207"},"modified":"2021-08-11T10:52:31","modified_gmt":"2021-08-11T10:52:31","slug":"5-maneiras-de-a-infidelidade-emocional-ser-mais-dolorosa-do-que-a-fisica","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/5-maneiras-de-a-infidelidade-emocional-ser-mais-dolorosa-do-que-a-fisica\/","title":{"rendered":"5 maneiras pelas quais a infidelidade emocional \u00e9 mais dolorosa do que a f\u00edsica"},"content":{"rendered":"

Tenho quase a certeza de que quando ouvimos a palavra \"infidelidade\" a primeira coisa que nos vem \u00e0 cabe\u00e7a \u00e9 um caso sexual, n\u00e3o \u00e9 verdade?<\/p>\n

E, de certa forma, \u00e9 compreens\u00edvel.<\/p>\n

Ter rela\u00e7\u00f5es sexuais com uma pessoa que n\u00e3o \u00e9 o seu parceiro pode ser visto como a derradeira forma de trai\u00e7\u00e3o e uma forma dif\u00edcil de ultrapassar.<\/p>\n

But here\u2019s what I\u2019m struggling to understand.<\/p>\n

How come we live in a world where physical touch (at times completely innocent and purely platonic) can be considered more damaging than sharing your innermost thoughts and feelings with a person who\u2019s not o seu parceiro<\/a>?<\/p>\n

How is seeing your partner touch another person more infuriating to you than, let\u2019s say, finding out they have formed an extremely close friendship with another woman who can potentially detach him from you?<\/p>\n

Now, I\u2019m not implying that physical cheating is something you should EVER condone.<\/p>\n

All I\u2019m trying to say is that emotional infidelity can be just as heartbreaking, if not more!<\/p>\n

\u00c9 consigo que o seu parceiro deve partilhar a parte mais vulner\u00e1vel de si pr\u00f3prio.<\/p>\n

\"rapariga<\/p>\n

You are the one he should vent to and air his frustrations with when he\u2019s at his lowest.<\/p>\n

Se ele encontrou outra mulher<\/a> que, de certa forma, lhe d\u00e1 todo o apoio emocional de que uma pessoa pode precisar, ent\u00e3o onde \u00e9 que isso o deixa?<\/p>\n

Como \u00e9 que isso afecta a sua rela\u00e7\u00e3o com ele?<\/p>\n

What\u2019s important to understand here is that finding out there\u2019s another woman who is giving your partner everything he needs (other than sex) that he should be getting from you can create a wedge between you.<\/p>\n

E com o passar do tempo, ele pode perceber que j\u00e1 n\u00e3o pertence ao vosso lado<\/a>.<\/p>\n

And you can\u2019t even be mad because it\u2019s not like he had sex with her or anything, right?<\/p>\n

And that\u2019s the hardest part about being emotionally cheated on.<\/p>\n

Estes s\u00e3o os 5 exemplos mais dolorosos de como a infidelidade emocional pode ser mais prejudicial do que a f\u00edsica.<\/p>\n

1. Est\u00e3o a perder lentamente o n\u00facleo da vossa rela\u00e7\u00e3o<\/h2>\n

\"casal<\/p>\n

A vossa rela\u00e7\u00e3o costumava basear-se na confian\u00e7a, na honestidade e na total transpar\u00eancia.<\/p>\n

Respeitavam-se mutuamente, partilhavam absolutamente tudo um com o outro e amavam-se durante todo o processo.<\/p>\n

E agora continua a ver desculpas da parte dele para n\u00e3o estar mais perto de si.<\/p>\n

You know he\u2019s lying but you don\u2019t confront him because there is nothing actually going on, right? Only there is.<\/p>\n

Agora, ele partilha com ela os seus pensamentos e medos mais \u00edntimos.<\/p>\n

Agora, ele passa cada vez mais tempo a ter conversas profundas com ela e a estabelecer liga\u00e7\u00f5es a todos os n\u00edveis.<\/p>\n

A forma como ele costumava estar ligado a si.<\/p>\n

E agora, a vossa liga\u00e7\u00e3o est\u00e1 a definhar e a dela est\u00e1 a prosperar.<\/p>\n

2. You constantly feel that you\u2019re competing with her and losing the battle<\/h2>\n

\"homem<\/p>\n

You just can\u2019t keep up anymore.<\/p>\n

Ela parece ser tudo o que o seu parceiro precisa e quer.<\/p>\n

Ele est\u00e1 sempre a falar dela.<\/p>\n

He doesn\u2019t even see how torturous this is for you.<\/p>\n

He doesn\u2019t understand that by constantly mentioning her, he is making you feel less and less significant.<\/p>\n

\u00c9 consigo que ele devia passar o s\u00e1bado \u00e0 noite, enrolado no sof\u00e1 com uma garrafa de vinho e um filme, e n\u00e3o com ela.<\/p>\n

And yet, somehow, he\u2019s not by your side.<\/p>\n

And you\u2019re supposed to be okay because they\u2019re \u2018just friends\u2019.<\/p>\n

You keep feeling like you\u2019re in a competition with her and you seem to be losing battle after battle.<\/p>\n

Ele pode n\u00e3o se aperceber agora, mas ao passar tanto tempo de qualidade com ela, est\u00e1 a enganar-vos<\/a> de uma forma que uma mulher nunca deve ser tra\u00edda.<\/p>\n

3. You are slowly realizing that you don\u2019t know him the way she does<\/h2>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

As coisas que tu (e s\u00f3 tu) sabias sobre ele j\u00e1 n\u00e3o s\u00e3o s\u00f3 tuas.<\/p>\n

Agora, ela tamb\u00e9m os conhece.<\/p>\n

They\u2019re so close that suddenly she knows his embarrassing vacation story from last year.<\/p>\n

Now she knows that he didn\u2019t learn how to swim until high school, which used to be a secret only you knew.<\/p>\n

Todas as pequenas coisas que tornaram a vossa rela\u00e7\u00e3o bonita e especial s\u00e3o agora dela tamb\u00e9m.<\/p>\n

Como \u00e9 que ele n\u00e3o v\u00ea que isto \u00e9 doloroso para ti?<\/p>\n

How does he not understand that just because there is no physical intimacy it doesn\u2019t mean it\u2019s not wrong?<\/p>\n

Ele devia saber isto e, no fundo, provavelmente sabe.<\/p>\n

4. His head is always in the clouds and you know it\u2019s not because of you<\/h2>\n

\"satisfeito<\/p>\n

Chega sempre a casa com um sorriso brilhante no rosto.<\/p>\n

Whenever he\u2019s texting, you can just see how chipper he is.<\/p>\n

He may try to downplay it but it\u2019s too obvious.<\/p>\n

Sometimes you\u2019ll be calling his name and it\u2019s like he\u2019s not even there.<\/p>\n

Physically he is but in his mind, he\u2019s probably having the time of his life with her.<\/p>\n

And you don\u2019t even want to bring him back to real life because you know he\u2019d rather be with her.<\/p>\n

And that\u2019s the most hurtful part.<\/p>\n

J\u00e1 n\u00e3o \u00e9s a raz\u00e3o do seu sorriso.<\/p>\n

J\u00e1 n\u00e3o \u00e9 a pessoa com quem ele passa horas ao telefone a falar de tudo e de nada.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s her. She\u2019s the one making him happy and she\u2019s the one he goes to.<\/p>\n

Tu n\u00e3o.<\/p>\n

 5. It makes you feel you\u2019re not enough<\/h2>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

Depois de ter passado por tudo o que foi dito acima, sentimo-nos in\u00fateis.<\/p>\n

It makes you feel like you don\u2019t have what it takes para manter um homem<\/a>.<\/p>\n

If you did, he wouldn\u2019t go to another woman, would he?<\/p>\n

You\u2019re left feeling deserted and insufficient.<\/p>\n

Aquele com quem partilhou a mais profunda liga\u00e7\u00e3o emocional afastou-se de si um dia de cada vez.<\/p>\n

Viste o que aconteceu e n\u00e3o pudeste fazer nada.<\/p>\n

E o que \u00e9 suposto pensar agora? Como \u00e9 suposto sentires-te?<\/p>\n

O seu caso emocional f\u00ea-la sentir-se insuficiente e ele n\u00e3o consegue imaginar o quanto a magoou e o tempo que vai demorar a recuperar.<\/p>\n

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I\u2019m pretty sure that when you hear the word \u2018infidelity\u2019 the first thing that comes to your mind is a sexual affair, am I right? And in a way, it is understandable. Having sex with a person who is not your partner can be seen as the ultimate form of cheating and one that is…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":40,"featured_media":45208,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29626],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-45207","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-affair"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29626,"label":"affair"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/shutterstock_14930964111.jpg",800,533,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tara Brown","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/tara-brown\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29626,"name":"affair","slug":"affair","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29626,"taxonomy":"category","description":"If you want to learn more about affairs, here you'll learn about different types of infidelity, how affairs happen, how to recognize a cheater, and more.","parent":29620,"count":132,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29626,"category_count":132,"category_description":"If you want to learn more about affairs, here you'll learn about different types of infidelity, how affairs happen, how to recognize a cheater, and more.","cat_name":"affair","category_nicename":"affair","category_parent":29620}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/45207","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/40"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=45207"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/45207\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/45208"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=45207"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=45207"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=45207"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}