{"id":45219,"date":"2019-10-16T22:33:44","date_gmt":"2019-10-16T22:33:44","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=45219"},"modified":"2021-08-11T10:51:53","modified_gmt":"2021-08-11T10:51:53","slug":"existem-5-tipos-diferentes-de-batota-mas-este-e-o-pior","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/existem-5-tipos-diferentes-de-batota-mas-este-e-o-pior\/","title":{"rendered":"Existem 5 tipos diferentes de trai\u00e7\u00e3o, mas este \u00e9 o pior"},"content":{"rendered":"

Sinceramente, n\u00e3o h\u00e1 nada que se possa dizer que possa aliviar a dor da infidelidade.<\/p>\n

Deixa uma marca permanente em n\u00f3s e afecta-nos mais do que gostar\u00edamos.<\/p>\n

The most common question people have after being cheated on is “Why?\u201d<\/p>\n

Porque \u00e9 que esta pessoa em quem era suposto confiar mais do que ningu\u00e9m decidiu mago\u00e1-la desta forma?<\/p>\n

What goes through their mind as they\u2019re about to engage in this shameful act with another person?<\/p>\n

It\u2019s just hard to imagine your ente querido<\/a> dormir ao lado de algu\u00e9m que n\u00e3o fosse tu e, no entanto, aconteceu.<\/p>\n

And you\u2019re left dealing with it as best you know how.<\/p>\n

Perguntando-se como \u00e9 que as coisas chegaram a este ponto e porque \u00e9 que isto lhe aconteceu. Mas as pessoas fazem batota por v\u00e1rias raz\u00f5es.<\/p>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

E, muitas vezes, n\u00e3o tem nada a ver consigo.<\/p>\n

Not that it\u2019s any consolation (nor should it be), but it\u2019s important that you know that being cheated on says absolutely nothing about you, and everything sobre o seu parceiro.<\/a><\/p>\n

Foi ele que se aproveitou da sua confian\u00e7a e decidiu fazer de si um idiota.<\/p>\n

\u00c9 a pessoa que fez a \u00fanica coisa que nunca deveria ter feito e que o magoou para al\u00e9m de qualquer medida.<\/p>\n

Para o ajudar a perceber claramente porque \u00e9 que as pessoas traem e como chegam a esse ponto, eis 5 tipos de trai\u00e7\u00e3o que ocorrem e o \u00faltimo \u00e9 o pior. <\/p>\n

1. Batota situacional<\/h2>\n

\"grande<\/p>\n

Este tipo de trai\u00e7\u00e3o ocorre quando uma pessoa est\u00e1 comprometida com o seu parceiro e provavelmente ama-o muito, mas sempre que surge uma oportunidade, essa pessoa aproveita-a e trai-o.<\/p>\n

Let\u2019s say you\u2019re in a relationship with Mark.<\/p>\n

Now, he loves you and is a devoted partner, but whenever he goes on a business trip, he\u2019s in a situation where he gets to choose if he\u2019s about to cheat on you with his colleague or stay faithful.<\/p>\n

E Mark escolhe a infidelidade.<\/p>\n

He knows he\u2019s far from home; he\u2019s in a perfect situation to do this and not be found out.<\/p>\n

Quando chega a casa, d\u00e1-lhe muita aten\u00e7\u00e3o e amor porque sabe que a enganou e, muito provavelmente, continuar\u00e1 a faz\u00ea-lo enquanto a situa\u00e7\u00e3o for ideal.<\/p>\n

2. Fazer batota por necessidade de aprova\u00e7\u00e3o<\/h2>\n

\"casal<\/p>\n

H\u00e1 pessoas que s\u00e3o mais inseguras do que outras.<\/p>\n

E quero dizer, MUITO mais insegura.<\/p>\n

They are in a relationship, everything seems to be going fine, the sex life is great, but it isn\u2019t enough for them.<\/p>\n

This person needs to feel validated. No matter what you say, they don\u2019t feel suficientemente bom<\/a>.<\/p>\n

Precisam de ser vistos como bons pelos outros.<\/p>\n

And that\u2019s why they seek other opportunities to have sex \u2013 they need to feel good about themselves.<\/p>\n

This may seem silly, but it\u2019s a reality for some.<\/p>\n

Not everybody is confident and proud of their abilities, so they seek outside validation, and this time \u2013 at your expense.<\/p>\n

3. Trai\u00e7\u00e3o devido a uma rutura do v\u00ednculo afetivo com o parceiro<\/h2>\n

\"casal<\/p>\n

Isto n\u00e3o \u00e9, de forma alguma, uma imagem sua.<\/p>\n

Se existem problemas numa rela\u00e7\u00e3o, estes devem ser discutidos e resolvidos.<\/p>\n

And if fixing doesn\u2019t seem to help, you break up.<\/p>\n

You don\u2019t end up cheating.<\/p>\n

Mas h\u00e1 quem o fa\u00e7a.<\/p>\n

Some people feel emotionally disconnected from their partner and have a strong urge to have that connection with somebody else, even if it\u2019s not you.<\/p>\n

Eles est\u00e3o empenhados na vossa rela\u00e7\u00e3o e querem que ela resulte, mas precisam de se sentir ligados da mesma forma que j\u00e1 n\u00e3o se sentem a si.<\/p>\n

So they cheat. They try to fill that void that has started to plague their heart and make excuses to convince themselves they\u2019re doing the right thing.<\/p>\n

S\u00f3 precisam de voltar a sentir-se amadas. E em vez de falarem sobre isso consigo, procuram a satisfa\u00e7\u00e3o emocional noutro lugar.<\/p>\n

4. Trapa\u00e7a causada pela incapacidade de amar<\/h2>\n

\"casal<\/p>\n

Algumas pessoas n\u00e3o conseguem amar como tu e eu conseguimos.<\/p>\n

They wish they could and they desperately try, but it just doesn\u2019t happen.<\/p>\n

They form a relationship and they convince themselves that this is love. But deep down, they know it isn\u2019t.<\/p>\n

They don\u2019t want to magoar-vos<\/a>Mas tamb\u00e9m precisam de descobrir se s\u00e3o capazes de sentir amor, por isso dormem com outras pessoas na tentativa de sentir algo.<\/p>\n

They can\u2019t resist the urge to find the thing everyone else has.<\/p>\n

This is not a personal thing. They don\u2019t even see the extent of the damage they do to you.<\/p>\n

Tudo o que eles querem \u00e9 descobrir o que \u00e9 o amor e senti-lo no seu cora\u00e7\u00e3o da mesma forma que tu.<\/p>\n

E ao fazerem sexo com o maior n\u00famero poss\u00edvel de pessoas, est\u00e3o a abrir-se a essa possibilidade.<\/p>\n

5. Batota vingativa<\/h2>\n

\"casal<\/p>\n

Esta \u00e9 a mais dolorosa, porque vem de um s\u00edtio t\u00f3xico.<\/p>\n

As pessoas fazem batota para se vingarem.<\/p>\n

Sentem-se rancorosos e querem que se sintam como supostamente os fizeram sentir.<\/p>\n

Pode ter cometido um erro no passado que eles simplesmente nunca ultrapassaram.<\/p>\n

Podem ter mentido sobre o facto de estarem de acordo com algo, quando na verdade nunca estiveram, e agora decidiram bater-vos com o dobro da for\u00e7a.<\/p>\n

Some people are just toxic and hurtful and don\u2019t deserve to be with someone with an open mind and heart.<\/p>\n

Their mantra is \u201can eye for an eye\u201d and they take it way too far.<\/p>\n

Estes s\u00e3o os piores tipos de trapaceiros porque o seu \u00fanico objetivo \u00e9 mago\u00e1-lo o mais poss\u00edvel, n\u00e3o se importando com o qu\u00e3o desumano isso o torna.<\/p>\n

\"Existem<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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