{"id":45258,"date":"2020-06-17T17:20:26","date_gmt":"2020-06-17T17:20:26","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=45258"},"modified":"2022-06-08T16:59:10","modified_gmt":"2022-06-08T16:59:10","slug":"a-unica-forma-de-fazer-com-que-um-narcisista-se-arrependa-de-a-ter-deixado","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/a-unica-forma-de-fazer-com-que-um-narcisista-se-arrependa-de-a-ter-deixado\/","title":{"rendered":"A \u00fanica forma de fazer com que um narcisista se arrependa de o ter deixado"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Depois de <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/relationship\/apos-o-namoro-com-um-narcisista\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">namorar um narcisista<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Depois do choque inicial que se sente quando ele nos derruba, tudo o que queremos \u00e9 fazer com que esse sacana passe por tudo o que pass\u00e1mos. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Queres v\u00ea-lo em baixo, ver o seu cora\u00e7\u00e3o esmagado e faz\u00ea-lo sentir toda a dor que sentiste por causa dele.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">E quem \u00e9 que a pode culpar? Afinal de contas, este homem matou-a espiritualmente, destruiu a sua f\u00e9 no amor e marcou-a para o resto da vida, por isso, porque \u00e9 que ele mereceria outra coisa sen\u00e3o que lhe fizesse o mesmo?<\/span><\/p>\n<p><b>Porque \u00e9 que ele mereceria a sua simpatia, se nunca se importou com a forma como a fazia sentir? <\/b><\/p>\n<p><b>Por que raz\u00e3o mereceria ele a tua bondade, quando foi cruel para contigo?<\/b><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Por que raz\u00e3o seria ele poupado \u00e0 tua vingan\u00e7a impiedosa, quando nunca pensou nas consequ\u00eancias que os seus actos te deixariam?<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">You\u2019re convinced that the only thing that could make you feel better is to get even. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">V\u00ea-lo sofrer como tu sofreste e v\u00ea-lo de joelhos, a implorar o teu perd\u00e3o.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Por isso, continua a procurar formas de obter o seu <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/relationship\/7-maneiras-de-obter-uma-doce-vinganca-do-ex\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">doce vingan\u00e7a<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Para saber como destruir um narcisista e faz\u00ea-lo pagar por cada l\u00e1grima que chorou por ele.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-92675\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/black-and-white-photo-of-woman-touching-mirror.jpg\" alt=\"fotografia a preto e branco de uma mulher a tocar no espelho\" width=\"800\" height=\"548\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/black-and-white-photo-of-woman-touching-mirror.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/black-and-white-photo-of-woman-touching-mirror-300x206.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/black-and-white-photo-of-woman-touching-mirror-768x526.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Qual seria a melhor op\u00e7\u00e3o? Fingir que ainda acredita nas mentiras dele e depois dar-lhe&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">e come\u00e7ar a trat\u00e1-lo como ele o tratou desde o in\u00edcio?<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Ou seria mais eficaz se falasse mal dele em todo o lado? Se revelares todos os seus segredos sujos e tornares a sua vida num inferno?<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Como podes fazer com que esse idiota se arrependa de te ter partido o cora\u00e7\u00e3o e de te ter deixado, como se tudo fosse culpa tua? Como podes fazer com que ele se arrependa?<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Well, I hate to be the one to burst your bubble but I have to tell you that you\u2019ll never change his ways. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">You\u2019ll never open his eyes and have him faced with all of his misdeeds.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><b>As much as you try, you\u2019ll never beat the narcissist at his own game. And you know why?<\/b><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Because you\u2019re not the manipulative, self-centered, egotistic piece of shit he is. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">So, please don\u2019t try becoming one because that would mean he won and succeeded in bringing you to the dark side.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><b>A verdade \u00e9 que a \u00fanica maneira de magoar um narcisista \u00e9 afastar-se dele. Mas estou a falar de o abandonar de vez.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-92676\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/woman-walking-alone-beside-sea.jpg\" alt=\"mulher a caminhar sozinha junto ao mar\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/woman-walking-alone-beside-sea.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/woman-walking-alone-beside-sea-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/woman-walking-alone-beside-sea-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><strong>Relacionadas: <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/como-fazer-com-que-um-narcisista-tenha-medo-de-si\/\">Como fazer com que um narcisista tenha medo de si: 19 maneiras \u00e0 prova de idiotas<\/a><\/strong><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">It\u2019s to stop giving him any attention whatsoever and to make him feel irrelevant. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">It\u2019s to make him see that he didn\u2019t have the slightest impact on your personality or on your future and it\u2019s to make him feel like he doesn\u2019t matter.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">It is to leave him hanging and to show him that he didn\u2019t break you, as much as he tried doing so.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> That he didn\u2019t manage to destroy you completely, despite all of his efforts.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">I know this might sound like a clich\u00e9 now but trust me: <\/span><b>a melhor maneira de magoar um narcisista \u00e9 ser verdadeiramente feliz sem ele.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">This is the only thing that will show him that you don\u2019t need him and that you can make it without him just fine.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><b>That is exactly what will destroy his ego and, consequently, spiritually kill him, knowing that he didn\u2019t leave a trace.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Knowing that he wasn\u2019t important to you, like he thought he was.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">It will show him that he is replaceable and that the earth doesn\u2019t revolve around him.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-92677\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/sad-bearded-man-sitting-at-home.jpg\" alt=\"homem triste de barba sentado em casa\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/sad-bearded-man-sitting-at-home.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/sad-bearded-man-sitting-at-home-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/sad-bearded-man-sitting-at-home-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">That his manipulations weren\u2019t fruitful and that his toxicity has been defeated.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Mostrar-lhe-\u00e1 que a tua bondade venceu a sua maldade e que a tua luz venceu as suas trevas.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Mais importante ainda<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u2014<\/span><b>mostrar-lhe-\u00e1 que, apesar de todas as probabilidades, ainda <\/b><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/amor\/estou-farto-de-te-amar-mais-do-que-a-mim-proprio\/\"><b>ame-se mais<\/b><\/a><b> do que alguma vez o amaste. <\/b><\/p>\n<p><b>E isso \u00e9 um murro na garganta que nenhum narcisista consegue aguentar.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Por isso, por favor, seja a pessoa maior e melhor e ponha todos os seus esfor\u00e7os para come\u00e7ar de novo e nunca mais voltar atr\u00e1s.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><b>Don\u2019t forget what he did to you but forget about meaningless revenge. <\/b><\/p>\n<p><b>Don\u2019t do it because he deserves it<\/b><b>\u2014<\/b><b>do it because you deserve it, after everything you\u2019ve been through.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-92672\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/The-Only-Way-To-Make-A-Narcissist-Regret-Leaving-You-Pinterest.jpg\" alt=\"A \u00fanica forma de fazer com que um narcisista se arrependa de o ter deixado\" width=\"683\" height=\"1024\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/The-Only-Way-To-Make-A-Narcissist-Regret-Leaving-You-Pinterest.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/The-Only-Way-To-Make-A-Narcissist-Regret-Leaving-You-Pinterest-200x300.jpg 200w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 683px) 100vw, 683px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>After dating a narcissist, after the initial shock you go through when he knocks you down, all you want is to make this bastard go through everything you went through. You want to see him down, to see his heart crushed and to make him feel all the pain you felt because of him. And&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":21,"featured_media":92673,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29633],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-45258","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-narcissism"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29633,"label":"narcissism"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/The-Only-Way-To-Make-A-Narcissist-Regret-Leaving-You.jpg",800,532,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Maria Parker","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/maria\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29633,"name":"narcissism","slug":"narcissism","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29633,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Mind games and manipulations are narcissist's favorite controlling tactics. 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