{"id":45488,"date":"2019-10-21T15:40:19","date_gmt":"2019-10-21T15:40:19","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=45488"},"modified":"2021-08-11T10:38:31","modified_gmt":"2021-08-11T10:38:31","slug":"7-fases-de-separacao-mais-comuns-pelas-quais-todas-as-raparigas-passam","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/7-fases-de-separacao-mais-comuns-pelas-quais-todas-as-raparigas-passam\/","title":{"rendered":"7 fases de separa\u00e7\u00e3o mais comuns pelas quais todas as raparigas passam"},"content":{"rendered":"

Uma separa\u00e7\u00e3o acontece num instante. <\/span><\/p>\n

The person you\u2019ve been dating leaves you, you leave them or you both agree that your relationship should come to an end.<\/span><\/p>\n

Parece-me f\u00e1cil, n\u00e3o \u00e9?<\/span><\/p>\n

Bem, a verdade \u00e9 bem diferente. O que vem depois da separa\u00e7\u00e3o \u00e9 um processo dif\u00edcil e duradouro que consiste em v\u00e1rias fases que s\u00e3o comuns \u00e0 maioria das pessoas e aqui est\u00e3o 7 delas.<\/span><\/p>\n

1. Recusa<\/h2>\n

\"Mulher<\/p>\n

Quando a pessoa de quem gostamos nos deixa pendurados, ao princ\u00edpio recusamo-nos a aceit\u00e1-lo. <\/span><\/p>\n

Fingimos que nada aconteceu e que as coisas v\u00e3o voltar a ser como eram.<\/span><\/p>\n

Espera-se que seja apenas uma fase e uma pequena discuss\u00e3o, em vez de ser uma rutura efectiva. <\/span><\/p>\n

The point is that your brain and heart can\u2019t process the amount of pain all of this caused so you choose to ignore it and pretend as if nothing happened.<\/span><\/p>\n

Em vez de processar essas emo\u00e7\u00f5es, subconscientemente come\u00e7a a reprimi-las. E isso \u00e9 perfeitamente normal<\/span>\u2014<\/span>if it\u2019s only a phase and not something permanent.<\/span><\/p>\n

2. Desejo de encerramento<\/h2>\n

\"Mulher<\/p>\n

When you finally accept it\u2019s really over, the normal reaction is to seek for answers. <\/span><\/p>\n

Pensas que as coisas ser\u00e3o mais f\u00e1ceis para ti se conseguires <\/span>encerramento total<\/span><\/a>antes de virares uma nova p\u00e1gina da tua vida.<\/span><\/p>\n

You\u2019re rewinding your entire relationship in your head, trying to think of all the situations that could have played out differently and all the mistakes both of you made.<\/span><\/p>\n

Isto \u00e9 especialmente dif\u00edcil se algumas das perguntas que tem ficarem sem resposta e se o homem que ainda ama se recusar a dar-lhe a conclus\u00e3o de que necessita desesperadamente.<\/span><\/p>\n

3. Negocia\u00e7\u00e3o<\/h2>\n

\"Mulher<\/p>\n

The next stage is bargaining. Now, you\u2019re ready to do whatever it takes just to have your loved one back.<\/span><\/p>\n

You\u2019re ready to change yourself and your ways. All of a sudden, you even think about doing something you would normally never do<\/span>\u2014<\/span>implorar a este tipo que te aceite de volta.<\/span><\/p>\n

The truth is that you\u2019re actually doing everything in your power to fix this relationship that is clearly doomed to fail. <\/span><\/p>\n

You\u2019re actually trying to rebuild what is broken beyond repair.<\/span><\/p>\n

4. Raiva<\/h2>\n

\"Mulher<\/p>\n

After this, there comes anger. You\u2019re angry for this man who dumped you, angry at yourself for not knowing better and angry at both of you for not making things work.<\/span><\/p>\n

Even if you\u2019re not to blame for this break-up, you start to think of yourself as guilty. <\/span><\/p>\n

Pensa em todas as formas como poderia ter evitado esta situa\u00e7\u00e3o e culpa-se por n\u00e3o ter feito nada para salvar a sua rela\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/span><\/p>\n

5. Luto<\/h2>\n

\"Mulher<\/p>\n

A fase seguinte \u00e9 o luto. Come\u00e7a-se a <\/span>sentir falta deste homem<\/span> <\/a>que fez parte da vossa vida durante tanto tempo.<\/span><\/p>\n

Come\u00e7amos a sentir falta de todas as oportunidades que perdemos e de tudo o que poder\u00edamos ter alcan\u00e7ado e nos tornado. <\/span><\/p>\n

Everything you could have been but didn\u2019t make it.<\/span><\/p>\n

Algumas pessoas pensam que chorar por uma separa\u00e7\u00e3o \u00e9 uma tolice e que h\u00e1 centenas de problemas mais importantes neste mundo.<\/span><\/p>\n

No entanto, a verdade \u00e9 que o luto \u00e9 sempre o mesmo, independentemente das circunst\u00e2ncias.<\/span><\/p>\n

After all, you\u2019ve lost someone who meant everything to you. <\/span><\/p>\n

This man is out of your life and you don\u2019t have him anymore the way you did so it is completely natural to be sad about this.<\/span><\/p>\n

O mais importante nesta fase \u00e9 n\u00e3o deixar que a dor o defina. <\/span><\/p>\n

Don\u2019t run away from it and don\u2019t pretend it\u2019s not there but don\u2019t let it become the only thing you identify with either.<\/span><\/p>\n

6. Aceita\u00e7\u00e3o<\/h2>\n

\"Modelo<\/p>\n

Finalmente, chega a aceita\u00e7\u00e3o. Chega-se \u00e0 fase em que se percebe que tudo acontece por uma raz\u00e3o e por uma causa maior.<\/span><\/p>\n

Que aquilo que mais nos fez chorar pode ser a melhor coisa que nos aconteceu.<\/span><\/p>\n

Que algumas coisas e pessoas s\u00e3o simplesmente <\/span>n\u00e3o \u00e9 para ser<\/span><\/a> and that you can\u2019t do anything about it.<\/span><\/p>\n

7. Esperan\u00e7a<\/h2>\n

\"momento<\/p>\n

Juntamente com a aceita\u00e7\u00e3o, vem a esperan\u00e7a. <\/span><\/p>\n

Slowly, you begin to grasp that tomorrow is a new day and that you won\u2019t forever feel the way you do.<\/span><\/p>\n

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