{"id":45596,"date":"2019-10-22T19:21:26","date_gmt":"2019-10-22T19:21:26","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=45596"},"modified":"2022-02-27T14:29:42","modified_gmt":"2022-02-27T14:29:42","slug":"uma-carta-aberta-ao-meu-coracao-desculpa-por-nao-ter-cuidado-melhor-de-ti","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/uma-carta-aberta-ao-meu-coracao-desculpa-por-nao-ter-cuidado-melhor-de-ti\/","title":{"rendered":"Uma carta aberta ao meu cora\u00e7\u00e3o: Desculpa por n\u00e3o ter tomado melhor conta de ti"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Passei a minha vida inteira a fazer o meu melhor para n\u00e3o magoar ningu\u00e9m.<\/p>\n<p>However, in the process, I forgot about my most valuable possession\u2014I forgot about you, my heart.<\/p>\n<p><b>Olhando para as coisas desta perspetiva, vejo agora que foi a si que causei mais danos. <\/b><\/p>\n<p><b>A que negligenciei, a que pus em \u00faltimo lugar e a que raramente cuidei bem.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>That is why I\u2019m begging you to forgive me for all the pain I put you through, even though I probably don\u2019t deserve it and even though I know that at this point, you\u2019re damaged beyond repair.<\/p>\n<p>First and foremost, I\u2019m sorry for giving you away so easily to all those wrong people.<\/p>\n<p>A todas as pessoas que te tra\u00edram, que brincaram contigo, que usaram a tua bondade, que se aproveitaram das tuas vulnerabilidades e que continuaram a esmagar-te, sem nunca pensar nas consequ\u00eancias permanentes que isso te poderia deixar.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-45599\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/shutterstock_3448517422.jpg\" alt=\"Rapariga descontra\u00edda e pensativa no inverno\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/shutterstock_3448517422.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/shutterstock_3448517422-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/shutterstock_3448517422-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><b>Desculpa por todo o inferno que te fiz passar. <\/b><\/p>\n<p><b>Por toda a dor, desilus\u00e3o e humilha\u00e7\u00e3o que sofreste por minha causa.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>Forgive me for all the battles we didn\u2019t win and for all the pointless fights I should have never put you through.<\/p>\n<p>Desculpa por todos os ferimentos que te causei, por todas as feridas que te magoaram e por todas as <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/amor\/que-resta-do-amor-o-coracao-cicatrizado-e-desagradavel\/\">cicatriz desagrad\u00e1vel<\/a> Nunca poderei apagar.<\/p>\n<p>Pe\u00e7o desculpa por te ter obrigado a deixar entrar todos aqueles homens t\u00f3xicos e manipuladores que acabaram por te destruir e que nunca gostaram de ti.<\/p>\n<p>For those selfish men who never thought of your well-being and who didn\u2019t give a damn whether they\u2019d crush you into pieces.<\/p>\n<p><b>I\u2019m sorry for not appreciating you enough, for making you believe that you were too weak just for being emotional, for judging you for being your true self and for not fighting harder for you.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>Desculpa n\u00e3o ter confiado em ti quando continuavas a enviar-me sinais para fugir de algu\u00e9m que n\u00e3o era bom para mim.<\/p>\n<p>Por repetir os mesmos erros vezes sem conta, sem nunca aprender com eles.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-45600\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/shutterstock_2926788801.jpg\" alt=\"Vista horizontal de uma jovem deprimida a chorar\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/shutterstock_2926788801.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/shutterstock_2926788801-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/shutterstock_2926788801-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Por favor, perdoa-me por ter permitido que narcisistas e psicopatas abusassem de ti de todas as formas poss\u00edveis, que te abandonassem quando mais precisavas deles, s\u00f3 para te deixarem desorientado e perdido.<\/p>\n<p>Lamento ter-vos levado a acreditar nas suas promessas v\u00e3s e nas suas falsas desculpas e a dar-lhes infinitas <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/amor-proprio\/girl-power\/life-got-way-better-stopped-giving-second-chances\/\">segundas oportunidades<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p><b>Desculpa por te ter feito contentar com menos do que mereces e desculpa por n\u00e3o veres o teu verdadeiro valor.&nbsp;<\/b><\/p>\n<p>Pe\u00e7o desculpa por n\u00e3o o ter ouvido com aten\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/p>\n<p><b>Pelo facto de ter continuado a seguir os teus desejos sem nunca prestar aten\u00e7\u00e3o \u00e0s tuas necessidades reais.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>I\u2019m sorry for rushing you and for not giving you enough time to heal when you obviously needed it.&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>I\u2019m sorry for the times when I didn\u2019t see you weren\u2019t ready for another defeat and nevertheless for putting you through the risk of getting hurt again.<\/p>\n<p>Por te obrigar a saltar de um campo de batalha para outro, sem verificar se tinhas completado<a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/para-a-rapariga-que-nunca-recuperou-verdadeiramente-do-seu-ultimo-desgosto\/\"> recuperado dos seus \u00faltimos ferimentos<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>Not only that\u2014I\u2019m also sorry for not allowing you to be harsher on me when I was the one who deserved it.<\/p>\n<p>Por n\u00e3o ter deixado que me ensinasses algumas li\u00e7\u00f5es valiosas e me fizesses ganhar ju\u00edzo.<\/p>\n<p><b>Perdoa-me por n\u00e3o te ter avisado, mesmo quando vi que se aproximava uma tempestade.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><b> Por n\u00e3o vos ter dado um escudo e por n\u00e3o ter cuidado de v\u00f3s.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-45601\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/shutterstock_5896834821.jpg\" alt=\"Retrato de uma mulher bonita e cansada\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/shutterstock_5896834821.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/shutterstock_5896834821-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/shutterstock_5896834821-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><b>I\u2019m sorry for not cherishing you.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><b> Por n\u00e3o ver como \u00e9s delicado, sens\u00edvel, insubstitu\u00edvel e precioso.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>Pe\u00e7o desculpa por vos ter mentido e n\u00e3o vos ter deixado ver a verdade, mesmo quando a sabia muito bem.<\/p>\n<p>Por vos enganar e dar-vos esperan\u00e7a, mesmo quando j\u00e1 n\u00e3o havia nenhuma.<\/p>\n<p><b>Most of all\u2014I\u2019m sorry for all those situations in which <\/b><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/amor\/ser-suficientemente-corajoso-para-partir-o-seu-proprio-coracao\/\"><b>Fui eu que te parti<\/b><\/a><b>.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><b> Por todas as escolhas e julgamentos errados que fiz, sem pensar nas consequ\u00eancias dos meus actos.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>I\u2019m sorry for all those times I promised never to crush you again and for each time I let you down and for putting you out there even when you clearly needed a break.<\/p>\n<p><b>Desculpa por n\u00e3o te ter protegido, por n\u00e3o te ter protegido e por n\u00e3o ter cuidado bem de ti.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><b> Desculpa por n\u00e3o te respeitar ou amar o suficiente e por colocar todos os outros \u00e0 tua frente.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><b>I\u2019m sorry for not knowing and not being better.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-large wp-image-45598\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/organized-by-St.-Jude-Chapel59-724x1024.jpg\" alt=\"Uma carta aberta ao meu cora\u00e7\u00e3o:\" width=\"724\" height=\"1024\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/organized-by-St.-Jude-Chapel59-724x1024.jpg 724w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/organized-by-St.-Jude-Chapel59-212x300.jpg 212w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/organized-by-St.-Jude-Chapel59-768x1086.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/organized-by-St.-Jude-Chapel59.jpg 794w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 724px) 100vw, 724px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>You see, I\u2019ve spent my entire life doing my best not to hurt anyone. However, in the process, I forgot about my most valuable possession\u2014I forgot about you, my heart. Looking at things from this perspective, now I see that you were the one I caused the most harm. The one I neglected, the one&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":40,"featured_media":45597,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29619],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-45596","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-stories-love"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29619,"label":"stories"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/shutterstock_6565755341.jpg",800,533,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tara Brown","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/tara-brown\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29619,"name":"stories","slug":"stories-love","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29619,"taxonomy":"category","description":"To all the souls struggling with complicated love experiences: These heartfelt stories about love, heartbreak, and moving on will be your voice of wisdom.","parent":38,"count":424,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29619,"category_count":424,"category_description":"To all the souls struggling with complicated love experiences: These heartfelt stories about love, heartbreak, and moving on will be your voice of wisdom.","cat_name":"stories","category_nicename":"stories-love","category_parent":38}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/45596","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/40"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=45596"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/45596\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/45597"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=45596"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=45596"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=45596"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}