{"id":45603,"date":"2019-10-22T20:26:07","date_gmt":"2019-10-22T20:26:07","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=45603"},"modified":"2021-08-11T10:29:36","modified_gmt":"2021-08-11T10:29:36","slug":"5-sinais-de-que-os-amigos-dele-o-estao-a-manipular-e-a-vira-lo-contra-si","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/5-sinais-de-que-os-amigos-dele-o-estao-a-manipular-e-a-vira-lo-contra-si\/","title":{"rendered":"5 sinais de que os amigos dele est\u00e3o a manipul\u00e1-lo e a vir\u00e1-lo contra ti"},"content":{"rendered":"

Por mais forte que seja o car\u00e1cter de algu\u00e9m, quer queiramos admiti-lo ou n\u00e3o, todos somos influenciados pelas pessoas que nos rodeiam.<\/p>\n

O mesmo acontece com o seu namorado: os amigos mais pr\u00f3ximos s\u00e3o as pessoas em quem ele mais confia e cuja opini\u00e3o \u00e9 importante para ele.<\/p>\n

So, the problem occurs when these people don\u2019t approve your relationship, when they\u2019re convincing your boyfriend that you\u2019re no good, and when they\u2019re doing everything in their power to separate the two of you.<\/p>\n

However, when you\u2019re going through something similar, you can\u2019t help but wonder whether you\u2019re imagining things.<\/p>\n

Are you crazy or are your boyfriend\u2019s friends really turning him against you?<\/p>\n

Well, we\u2019re giving you some surefire signs that they\u2019re really destroying your relationship from the background.<\/p>\n

1. They don\u2019t respect your time together<\/h2>\n

\"um<\/p>\n

O primeiro sinal de que os amigos dele est\u00e3o a tentar vir\u00e1-lo contra si \u00e9 o facto de estarem sempre a interromper-vos quando est\u00e3o juntos.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s great that he\u2019s loyal to them and they can call him in the middle of the night in case of emergency, but it\u2019s something completely different when they\u2019re using that privilege just to disturb you.<\/p>\n

His friends don\u2019t respect the time he spends with you and expect him to bail them out every time they call him.<\/p>\n

They can\u2019t understand that you\u2019re his prioridade n\u00famero um<\/a> now and don\u2019t accept that they\u2019re not the only ones who matter anymore.<\/p>\n

2. They act like he\u2019s single<\/h2>\n

\"Velhos<\/p>\n

One of the biggest threats to your relationship lies in the fact that your partner\u2019s friends are actores<\/a>.<\/p>\n

O ponto alto da sua semana \u00e9 a noite de sexta-feira, quando v\u00e3o \u00e0 ca\u00e7a de uma nova v\u00edtima para fazer sexo e nunca mais telefonar.<\/p>\n

Por muito que provavelmente desaprove esta atitude, tenha em mente que o estilo de vida deles n\u00e3o \u00e9 da sua conta at\u00e9 come\u00e7ar a afetar a vossa rela\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/p>\n

Nevertheless, this is exactly what\u2019s going on \u2013 it seems that your boyfriend\u2019s friends can\u2019t grasp the idea that he is now taken and can\u2019t keep on living the same way he did while he was single.<\/p>\n

Por isso, continuam a trat\u00e1-lo como um solteiro.<\/p>\n

They keep calling him to hang out with other women and don\u2019t stop inviting him to activities that are not appropriate for a man in a relationship.<\/p>\n

3. Nunca te convidam para vires connosco<\/h2>\n

\"Feliz<\/p>\n

The last thing you want is to be one of those boring girlfriends who don\u2019t allow their men to breathe.<\/p>\n

You need to understand that your BF is a human being who has the need to socialize and you can\u2019t think of nagging him for spending time with his friends without you.<\/p>\n

However, if they never invite you to hang out, if they refuse your invitations, and if you see that you\u2019re not welcome even when they gather on special occasions, you have a serious problem and it\u2019s more than obvious they don\u2019t fancy you.<\/p>\n

These guys only met you once when your boyfriend introduced you to them and from that point onwards, they keep acting as if you don\u2019t exist.<\/p>\n

They don\u2019t see the two of you as a couple nor do they treat you as one of the most important people in their friend\u2019s life.<\/p>\n

4. Mencionam sempre a sua ex<\/h2>\n

\"Homem<\/p>\n

There\u2019s nothing wrong if your boyfriend\u2019s friends stayed on good terms with one of his exes.<\/p>\n

After all, he\u2019s the one who ended his relationship with this girl and that doesn\u2019t make them obligated to cut all ties with her as well.<\/p>\n

However, it\u2019s quite rude to mention her all the time in front of you or keep him updated about her life now when he\u2019s with you.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s especially awful if they compare you with his ex or bring up some past events from their relationship.<\/p>\n

This is exactly what his friends are doing: it\u2019s like they\u2019re trying to tell you that they\u2019d be happier if he had stayed with a sua ex<\/a> and make it clear that you\u2019ll never measure up to her. <\/p>\n

5. Aproveitam todas as oportunidades para o envergonhar e humilhar<\/h2>\n

\"<\/p>\n

It\u2019s not that these guys insult you directly when you all hang out, but they certainly do it in a sneaky way.<\/p>\n

Fazem piadas sobre si e apontam sempre as suas m\u00e1s qualidades.<\/p>\n

The worst part is that they never actually crossed the line of good manners, so even when you tell your boyfriend that they\u2019re taking it too far, he accuses you of being overly sensitive.<\/p>\n

Not only that \u2013 he also thinks you don\u2019t understand their sense of humor and asks you to be more relaxed.<\/p>\n

However, you\u2019re not a fool and you have the ability to recognize when someone is honestly joking around without any bad intentions and when someone is using their jokes to make you feel bad and embarrass you.<\/p>\n

E estes tipos est\u00e3o, sem d\u00favida, a fazer o segundo.<\/p>\n

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No matter how strong of a character someone has, whether we like to admit it or not, we\u2019re all influenced by the people around us. The same goes with your boyfriend: his closest friends are the people he trusts the most and whose opinion matters to him. So, the problem occurs when these people don\u2019t…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":42,"featured_media":45604,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29646],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-45603","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-understanding-men"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29646,"label":"understanding men"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/shutterstock_6585556931.jpg",800,534,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Selma June","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/selmajune\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29646,"name":"understanding men","slug":"understanding-men","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29646,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Wondering about what's going on inside his head? Or do you need explanations for his actions? Learn to understand men, and your life will become easier.","parent":29643,"count":570,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29646,"category_count":570,"category_description":"Wondering about what's going on inside his head? Or do you need explanations for his actions? Learn to understand men, and your life will become easier.","cat_name":"understanding men","category_nicename":"understanding-men","category_parent":29643}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/45603","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/42"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=45603"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/45603\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/45604"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=45603"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=45603"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=45603"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}