{"id":45614,"date":"2019-10-22T23:01:52","date_gmt":"2019-10-22T23:01:52","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=45614"},"modified":"2021-08-24T13:20:42","modified_gmt":"2021-08-24T13:20:42","slug":"porque-e-que-a-paciencia-e-a-chave-para-o-seu-sucesso-e-como-a-conseguir","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/porque-e-que-a-paciencia-e-a-chave-para-o-seu-sucesso-e-como-a-conseguir\/","title":{"rendered":"Porque \u00e9 que a paci\u00eancia \u00e9 a chave para o seu sucesso e como a conseguir"},"content":{"rendered":"<h2>O efeito da cultura moderna<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-45615\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/shutterstock_4581312341.jpg\" alt=\"Assinar para receber o seu pacote\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/shutterstock_4581312341.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/shutterstock_4581312341-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/shutterstock_4581312341-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>In today&#8217;s ever-growing and ever-evolving society where high-tech gadgets and super fast delivery systems are enhancing the quality of our life, it is hard to practice patience, because everything is teaching us the exact opposite.<\/p>\n<p>You order clothes from Amazon and you&#8217;ll likely receive it in record time.<\/p>\n<p>Food delivery chains are at the top of their game with extremely fast and effective systems in place that, due to their competitive nature, keep upping their game (much to the customers&#8217; delight).<\/p>\n<p>There&#8217;s a lot of hard work taking place all over the world&#8217;s factories that are aiming to make the difficult situations as stress-free as possible, and their service is constantly improving because nobody can afford to be an impatient person anymore.<\/p>\n<p>Porqu\u00ea? Porque a nossa cultura aprendeu a esperar resultados em poucos minutos ap\u00f3s os nossos pedidos.<\/p>\n<p>Human beings have forgotten that the key to everything is in fact patience and that happy life isn&#8217;t achieved by getting everything when they request it.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/amor\/6-licoes-de-vida-importantes-que-a-dor-quebra\/\">Li\u00e7\u00f5es de vida<\/a> n\u00e3o pode ser aprendido a menos que as pessoas <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/relationship\/5-razoes-para-deixar-de-lado-um-homem-que-nao-tem-a-certeza-sobre-si\/\">deixar de<\/a> a sua falta de paci\u00eancia e abrandar o seu ritmo.<\/p>\n<p>Patience is one of the most important traits a person can possess and I\u2019m going to share with you why I strongly stand by this.<\/p>\n<h2>Here&#8217;s Why Impatience Is Dangerous<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-45616\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/shutterstock_5390809511.jpg\" alt=\"mulher bonita olha para o rel\u00f3gio \" width=\"800\" height=\"532\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/shutterstock_5390809511.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/shutterstock_5390809511-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/shutterstock_5390809511-768x511.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Imagine this scenario. You&#8217;re sitting in a traffic jam, with hundreds of cars surrounding you.<\/p>\n<p>Toda a gente est\u00e1 atualmente im\u00f3vel e bate impacientemente com as buzinas para que os outros se mexam, mas isso s\u00f3 faz com que as pessoas fiquem mais frustradas.<\/p>\n<p>So what do you do as you&#8217;re impatiently waiting for the traffic to clear out? You take out your little gadget and immediately Google stuff and check your <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/relationship\/e-por-isso-que-devem-manter-a-vossa-relacao-fora-das-redes-sociais\/\">redes sociais<\/a> accounts to see if perhaps you&#8217;ve got some new comments.&nbsp;&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>You might even tweet something to your co-workers or high school friends as you just can&#8217;t bring yourself to sit there with your hands tied for five whole minutes and not do something on your mobile phone.<\/p>\n<p><i>And if you don&#8217;t get an instant reply or a desired &#8220;like&#8221; on something you tweeted, you get irrationally annoyed and frustrated because how dare they?&nbsp;<\/i><\/p>\n<p><i>Sabe que a maioria deles est\u00e1 online.<\/i><\/p>\n<p><i> So why wouldn&#8217;t they react and boost your ego by sharing that funny <\/i><i>tweet<\/i><i> que t\u00e3o inteligentemente pensaste?<\/i><\/p>\n<p><i>Why wouldn&#8217;t that person <\/i><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/relationship\/o-seu-ex-ainda-lhe-manda-mensagens-8-razoes-mais-comuns-para-isso\/\"><i>enviar-lhe uma mensagem<\/i><\/a><i> e, assim, mostrar-vos como sois importantes para eles?<\/i><\/p>\n<p>Mas pensem nisto. O que \u00e9 que isso diz de si e de n\u00f3s como povo?<\/p>\n<p>Que tipo de mensagem \u00e9 que isso transmite aos nossos filhos?<\/p>\n<p>Ser\u00e1 que, em \u00faltima an\u00e1lise, isso os tornar\u00e1 melhores pessoas ou os levar\u00e1 ao fracasso?<\/p>\n<p>If you don&#8217;t get instant results on something you crave, consider yourself a failure?<\/p>\n<p>Always make sure you&#8217;re doing something instead of just enjoying the beautiful moment you&#8217;re in?<\/p>\n<p>Isto est\u00e1 a criar um precedente perigoso para os vossos futuros descendentes.<\/p>\n<p>Mostra-lhes que a beleza \u00e0 sua volta \u00e9 irrelevante e indigna de ser apreciada.<\/p>\n<p>It shows them that being in touch with everyone at all times trumps being present in your life and taking care of what&#8217;s in front of you.<\/p>\n<p><i>Ensina-os a testar o <\/i><i>Lord&#8217;s patience<\/i><i>.<\/i><\/p>\n<p><i> E para qu\u00ea? A <\/i><i>de curto prazo<\/i><i> gratifica\u00e7\u00e3o porque algu\u00e9m aben\u00e7oou o seu feed das redes sociais com um coment\u00e1rio atrevido?<\/i><\/p>\n<p><i> Um momento de felicidade porque a sua encomenda chegou incrivelmente r\u00e1pido?<\/i><\/p>\n<p>\u00c9 muita alegria evasiva e de curto prazo que o est\u00e1 a afastar da dire\u00e7\u00e3o certa.<\/p>\n<p>Aquela que nos ensina a apreciar as pequenas coisas e a deixar de esperar que as coisas aconte\u00e7am num estalar de dedos.<\/p>\n<h2>A paci\u00eancia \u00e9 o caminho a seguir<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-45617\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/shutterstock_14436332691.jpg\" alt=\"Jovem mulher de neg\u00f3cios indiana, calma e atenta, a meditar no trabalho\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/shutterstock_14436332691.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/shutterstock_14436332691-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/shutterstock_14436332691-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Here&#8217;s my two cents.&nbsp; During my many years on this earth, I&#8217;ve been known to have a severe lack of patience for most of my life.<\/p>\n<p>Por vezes, penso que isso fez de mim uma pessoa dif\u00edcil de conviver (o que nunca foi a minha inten\u00e7\u00e3o).&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>I believed in all those get-rich-quick schemes that clearly didn&#8217;t work.<\/p>\n<p>Esperava que as coisas viessem at\u00e9 mim sem dar muito em troca.<\/p>\n<p>I tested my parents&#8217; patience on more than one occasion and if I didn&#8217;t get my way, I&#8217;d throw a fit.<\/p>\n<p>See, I believed in the power of &#8220;now.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>Por que raz\u00e3o haveria eu de perder o meu precioso tempo \u00e0 espera de algo se o posso obter de uma forma muito mais r\u00e1pida?<\/p>\n<p>Why would I believe my parents when they said if I always got what I wanted, I&#8217;d never learn the importance of hard work and sacrifice?<\/p>\n<p>Mas eles tinham raz\u00e3o. Aprendi uma ou duas coisas desde a minha juventude.<\/p>\n<p>Substitu\u00ed os meus incessantes desejos e necessidades por paci\u00eancia e gratid\u00e3o.<\/p>\n<p><i>I no longer go the fast route. I take my time. I enjoy what&#8217;s in front of me.<\/i><\/p>\n<p><i> Se eu ficar preso numa <\/i><i>engarrafamento<\/i><i>em vez de olhar para o meu telem\u00f3vel, observo a natureza \u00e0 minha volta<\/i><i>.<\/i><\/p>\n<p><i> Sorrio para o c\u00e3o que est\u00e1 no banco de tr\u00e1s do carro ao meu lado.<\/i><\/p>\n<p><i>I put on some music and jam on my own while people around me watch, probably thinking I&#8217;ve gone mad.<\/i><\/p>\n<p>But you know what? I don&#8217;t really care. I don&#8217;t need that instant gratification anymore.<\/p>\n<p>I don&#8217;t crave everything in the palm of my hand.<\/p>\n<p>Agora, o que eu mais quero \u00e9 ter filhos que cres\u00e7am a apreciar o que t\u00eam.<\/p>\n<p>Crian\u00e7as que saber\u00e3o o significado do trabalho \u00e1rduo e do esfor\u00e7o.<\/p>\n<p>I don&#8217;t want to live in a world where people are nervous and go crazy at each other for the most insanely ridiculous reasons.<\/p>\n<p>Do you know what I tell myself now, when I&#8217;m in a situation that would normally drive me mad?<\/p>\n<p>I repeat to myself: if you&#8217;re stuck here waiting for the traffic to clear out in order to get to work, so is everybody else!<\/p>\n<p>If your photo didn&#8217;t get a hundred &#8220;likes&#8221; within an hour, so what?<\/p>\n<p>Do I really care about all these virtual people&#8217;s opinions?<\/p>\n<p>N\u00e3o!<\/p>\n<p>If I didn&#8217;t have time to make dinner at 7 pm sharp, does it really matter?<\/p>\n<p>It honestly doesn&#8217;t. We can eat just as well at 8.<\/p>\n<p><i>Viver o momento. Observe a vida \u00e0 sua volta.<\/i><\/p>\n<p><i> Don&#8217;t let <\/i><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/amor\/apesar-de-tudo-o-que-puseste-a-prova-lembra-te-das-coisas-boas-2\/\"><i>coisas boas<\/i><\/a><i> pass you by while you&#8217;re impatiently expecting things to arrive to you.<\/i><\/p>\n<p><i> Assim que se desvia o foco dos seus desejos e necessidades constantes, <\/i><b><i>you\u2019ll finally realize that the moment you&#8217;re in right now is what life is all about!<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-large wp-image-45619\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/organized-by-St.-Jude-Chapel61-724x1024.jpg\" alt=\"Porque \u00e9 que a paci\u00eancia \u00e9 a chave para o seu sucesso e como a conseguir\" width=\"724\" height=\"1024\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/organized-by-St.-Jude-Chapel61-724x1024.jpg 724w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/organized-by-St.-Jude-Chapel61-212x300.jpg 212w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/organized-by-St.-Jude-Chapel61-768x1086.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/organized-by-St.-Jude-Chapel61.jpg 794w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 724px) 100vw, 724px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>The Effect Of Modern Culture In today&#8217;s ever-growing and ever-evolving society where high-tech gadgets and super fast delivery systems are enhancing the quality of our life, it is hard to practice patience, because everything is teaching us the exact opposite. You order clothes from Amazon and you&#8217;ll likely receive it in record time. Food delivery&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":20,"featured_media":45618,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29637],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-45614","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-life-hacks"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29637,"label":"life hacks"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/shutterstock_11097237111.jpg",800,534,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Christine Keller","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/christine\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29637,"name":"life hacks","slug":"life-hacks","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29637,"taxonomy":"category","description":"When life gives you lemons - make lemonade, and allow these life hacks to remind you of your strength, potential, and the right to be happy.","parent":22911,"count":281,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29637,"category_count":281,"category_description":"When life gives you lemons - make lemonade, and allow these life hacks to remind you of your strength, potential, and the right to be happy.","cat_name":"life hacks","category_nicename":"life-hacks","category_parent":22911}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/45614","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/20"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=45614"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/45614\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/45618"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=45614"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=45614"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=45614"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}