{"id":45783,"date":"2020-10-25T20:16:45","date_gmt":"2020-10-25T20:16:45","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=45783"},"modified":"2021-08-11T09:52:38","modified_gmt":"2021-08-11T09:52:38","slug":"4-formas-comprovadas-de-sair-com-sucesso-com-um-homem-com-problemas-de-intimidade","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/4-formas-comprovadas-de-sair-com-sucesso-com-um-homem-com-problemas-de-intimidade\/","title":{"rendered":"4 maneiras comprovadas de sair com sucesso com um homem com problemas de intimidade"},"content":{"rendered":"

Quando a maioria das pessoas ouve a palavra intimidade, a primeira coisa em que pensa \u00e9 nos seus aspectos f\u00edsicos.<\/p>\n

The same goes with intimacy issues \u2013 many connect it with bedroom problems between a couple.<\/p>\n

No entanto, a verdade \u00e9 que a intimidade \u00e9 muito mais do que sexo. \u00c9 um la\u00e7o mais profundo que inclui uma liga\u00e7\u00e3o intelectual, espiritual e liga\u00e7\u00e3o emocional<\/a> entre duas pessoas.<\/p>\n

So, having a partner with intimacy issues basically means that you\u2019re dealing with someone who has trouble opening up, letting you in, and devoting himself to your relationship all the way.<\/p>\n

Colocando as coisas desta forma, sair com um homem com problemas de intimidade parece bastante cansativo.<\/p>\n

No entanto, embora esteja longe de ser f\u00e1cil, pode ser feito e eis como.<\/p>\n

Descobrir o fundo do seu problema<\/h2>\n

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As pessoas t\u00eam diferentes raz\u00f5es para desenvolver problemas de intimidade e o seu parceiro n\u00e3o \u00e9 exce\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/p>\n

\u00c9 poss\u00edvel que ele tenha algum trauma de inf\u00e2ncia ou que ainda carregue uma bagagem emocional pesada de uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o passada que o fez ficar assim.<\/p>\n

\u00c9 prov\u00e1vel que este homem nunca tenha sido suficientemente amado ou nunca tenha visto que podia abrir-se completamente a algu\u00e9m, por isso, com o tempo, aprendeu a guardar todas as suas emo\u00e7\u00f5es para si pr\u00f3prio e a lidar com elas sozinho.<\/p>\n

Ou talvez tenha sido t\u00e3o gravemente ferido que, subconscientemente, decidiu fechar-se e nunca mais deixar ningu\u00e9m entrar no seu interior.<\/p>\n

Either way, it is your job to get to the bottom of this problem before acting on it because you can\u2019t work on curing the consequences without knowing the cause.<\/p>\n

However, in this kind of situation, you can\u2019t expect him to straightforwardly tell you what\u2019s going on. In fact, he is probably not aware of what made him become this way \u2013 otherwise, he\u2019d change.<\/p>\n

Por isso, \u00e9 preciso ser um verdadeiro detetive.<\/p>\n

I\u2019m not advising you to snoop around his life \u2013 just listen carefully to what he has to say about his life because every little detail may be crucial.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t push him too hard<\/h2>\n

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O primeiro impulso que tem quando conhece um homem com problemas de intimidade \u00e9 fazer o seu melhor para o mudar.<\/p>\n

Trata-se de tentar fazer com que ele ultrapasse o seu problema e se torne mais aberto e aberto em rela\u00e7\u00e3o a si e \u00e0 sua rela\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/p>\n

No entanto, a \u00faltima coisa que deve fazer \u00e9 pression\u00e1-lo demasiado, porque isso s\u00f3 seria contraproducente.<\/p>\n

By forcing him to miraculously change over night just to please you, you\u2019ll just succeed in perseguindo-o<\/a>.<\/p>\n

If your partner sees that you\u2019re crossing and not respecting his personal boundaries, he\u2019ll probably get scared that you might break his walls completely.<\/p>\n

He\u2019ll perceive your love for him as a threat and see you as an intruder who is about to invade his personal space.<\/p>\n

And that is the last thing he wants \u2013 otherwise, he wouldn\u2019t have these intimacy issues.<\/p>\n

Criar um ambiente seguro<\/h2>\n

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Por isso, em vez de pedir diretamente ao seu homem que se abra consigo e exigir que ele se livre dos seus problemas profundamente enraizados sem mais nem menos, seja sensata e mostre-lhe subtilmente que ele pode confiar em si o suficiente para baixar a guarda. <\/p>\n

Show him that your relationship is his safe haven \u2013 that you won\u2019t take advantage of his vulnerabilities nor will you use him in any other way.<\/p>\n

Show him that you\u2019re there for him, that he can count on you no matter what, and that you\u2019re his friend before being his lover.<\/p>\n

Of course, it is not enough to tell him all these things because he surely won\u2019t believe a word you say.<\/p>\n

Instead, you have to prove to this guy that you\u2019re really someone worthy of his emotions and of tearing his emotional walls down.<\/p>\n

Abrir-se a ele<\/h2>\n

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Sabe como \u00e9 que as crian\u00e7as aprendem pelo exemplo?<\/p>\n

Bem, n\u00f3s, adultos, n\u00e3o somos muito diferentes.<\/p>\n

Therefore, the best way to heal a guy\u2019s intimacy issues is to show him your devotion and commitment.<\/p>\n

\u00c9 para o fazer perceber que n\u00e3o h\u00e1 nada de errado em expor o seu lado fraco a algu\u00e9m que ama e, certamente, nada de errado em colocar todo o seu cora\u00e7\u00e3o nas m\u00e3os do seu parceiro rom\u00e2ntico, sem guardar nenhuma parte dele. <\/p>\n

Faz com que este tipo compreenda que n\u00e3o h\u00e1 nada a temer.<\/p>\n

Mostre-lhe que confia nele o suficiente para se expor e que nada de mal acontecer\u00e1 se ele fizer o mesmo.<\/p>\n

Fale com este homem sobre as suas pr\u00f3prias imperfei\u00e7\u00f5es e partilhe as suas traumas passados<\/a> com ele.<\/p>\n

Be emotionally naked in front of your boyfriend and I assure you that he\u2019ll follow your lead in no time.<\/p>\n

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When most people hear the word intimacy, the first thing they think of are its physical aspects. The same goes with intimacy issues \u2013 many connect it with bedroom problems between a couple. However, the truth is that intimacy is much more than sex. It is a deeper bond that includes an intellectual, spiritual, and…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":42,"featured_media":124126,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29648],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-45783","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-dating-tips"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29648,"label":"dating tips"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/4-Proven-Ways-To-Successfully-Date-A-Man-With-Intimacy-Issues-1024x684.jpg",1024,684,true],"author_info":{"display_name":"Selma June","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/selmajune\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29648,"name":"dating tips","slug":"dating-tips","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29648,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Learn to date like a pro and avoid making some of the biggest mistakes in texting, flirting, winning a man's heart, and commitment. ","parent":29643,"count":442,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29648,"category_count":442,"category_description":"Learn to date like a pro and avoid making some of the biggest mistakes in texting, flirting, winning a man's heart, and commitment. ","cat_name":"dating tips","category_nicename":"dating-tips","category_parent":29643}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/45783","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/42"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=45783"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/45783\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/124126"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=45783"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=45783"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=45783"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}