{"id":45806,"date":"2020-08-28T15:57:40","date_gmt":"2020-08-28T15:57:40","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=45806"},"modified":"2022-08-10T07:16:32","modified_gmt":"2022-08-10T07:16:32","slug":"como-o-narcisista-engana-as-pessoas-para-que-acreditem-que-ele-e-o-bom-da-fita","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/como-o-narcisista-engana-as-pessoas-para-que-acreditem-que-ele-e-o-bom-da-fita\/","title":{"rendered":"Como o narcisista engana as pessoas para que acreditem que ele \u00e9 o bom da fita"},"content":{"rendered":"

By now, we\u2019re all familiar with the drill. I\u2019m sure you know how the narcissist\u2019s world works and how they prey on those who are most likely to be swayed and destroyed. <\/span><\/p>\n

Primeiro vem o processo de sele\u00e7\u00e3o. O narcisista escolhe um alvo. <\/span><\/p>\n

Essa pessoa \u00e9 normalmente algu\u00e9m com belas qualidades<\/a> como a bondade, a empatia, a capacidade de perdoar e a abund\u00e2ncia de compreens\u00e3o (que acaba por ser a mais fatal de todas).<\/span><\/p>\n

They don\u2019t just pick a person on a whim. There is lots of preparation and thought that go into it. <\/span><\/p>\n

O alvo tem de ser perfeito para que o seu trabalho seja feito na perfei\u00e7\u00e3o absoluta.<\/span><\/p>\n

Ele precisa que penses que tudo est\u00e1 a acontecer espont\u00e2nea e lentamente. Ele precisa que fiquemos deslumbrados com ele, da\u00ed as suas muitas <\/span>m\u00e1scaras enganadoras<\/span><\/a>. <\/span><\/p>\n

You never really know who you\u2019re dealing with because he changes his mask with each new stage of your \u2018relationship\u2019.<\/span><\/p>\n

And by the time you figure out how you fell into a bottomless pit of manipulation, evil tactics and betrayal, his job is done and he\u2019s onto the next one. <\/span><\/p>\n

You were used and you didn\u2019t even realize what was happening until it was done.<\/span><\/p>\n

Mas a coisa mais peculiar de todas \u00e9 isto: Como \u00e9 que ele consegue tratar-te t\u00e3o mal e parecer o bom da fita?<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n

Como \u00e9 que ele consegue fazer com que as pessoas gostem tanto dele, enquanto secretamente nos esgota de tudo o que nos faz querer viver? <\/span><\/i><\/p>\n

Poder\u00e1 ele ser assim t\u00e3o bom no seu of\u00edcio?<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n

This is what I\u2019m here to get to the bottom of. <\/span><\/p>\n

Continue a ler porque pode esclarecer como \u00e9 que o narcisista consegue enganar toda a gente \u00e0 sua volta (exceto voc\u00ea) para que acreditem que ele \u00e9 o tipo simp\u00e1tico da porta ao lado.<\/span><\/p>\n

1. Ele \u00e9 h\u00e1bil em manter as apar\u00eancias falsas<\/span><\/h2>\n

\"homem<\/p>\n

O seu narcisista<\/span><\/a> n\u00e3o ter\u00e1 qualquer problema em gritar consigo em privado, humilh\u00e1-la e us\u00e1-la, para depois sair de casa em cinco minutos com um sorriso na cara, oferecendo-se para ajudar a vizinha idosa com as compras.<\/span><\/p>\n

That\u2019s what\u2019s so scary about them. They have the perfect mask for when they need to be perceived as the good guy by others. <\/span><\/p>\n

The narcissist doesn\u2019t have any problems covertly mistreating you and then publicly offering a helping hand to a perfect stranger.<\/span><\/p>\n

That\u2019s his most dominant personality trait\u2014duplicity. <\/span><\/p>\n

You\u2019ll be shocked seeing him in public because the person YOU know is anything but that. And the worst part? No one will ever know.<\/span><\/p>\n

2. Ele trata os outros com gentileza porque pode precisar de os usar no futuro<\/span><\/h2>\n

\"homem<\/p>\n

You never know when someone might come in handy; that\u2019s the narcissist\u2019s mantra. <\/span><\/p>\n

Nunca mostra a sua verdadeira cara \u00e0s pessoas, porque pensa que pode vir a precisar de algo delas mais tarde.<\/span><\/p>\n

Por isso, comporta-se como um anjo na terra cuja \u00fanica miss\u00e3o \u00e9 corrigir todos os erros do planeta. <\/span><\/p>\n

E tu (a sua v\u00edtima) \u00e9s a \u00fanica que conhece o seu lado negro escondido que ele guarda s\u00f3 para ti.<\/span><\/p>\n

Gostava de poder avisar as pessoas sobre ele, mas como \u00e9 que o poderia fazer? <\/span><\/p>\n

He controls your every move and if he finds out you did something like that behind his back, he\u2019d make sure to punish you like hell. So you just suffer in silence and pray it all ends soon.<\/span><\/p>\n

3. O seu charme enganador desarma imediatamente as pessoas<\/span><\/h2>\n

\"homem<\/p>\n

You can say what you want about the narcissist but damn it, he\u2019s nothing if not charming. <\/span><\/p>\n

Trata-se simplesmente de uma capacidade inata com a qual ele nasceu (ou aprendeu numa idade precoce) e que \u00e9 extremamente \u00fatil.<\/span><\/p>\n

It doesn\u2019t take a lot for him to disarm the most suspicious person. <\/span><\/p>\n

Pode ter as suas suspeitas no in\u00edcio e pode at\u00e9 pensar em confront\u00e1-lo, mas tenha a certeza de que ele a tranquilizar\u00e1 e apagar\u00e1 todas as suas d\u00favidas assustadoramente depressa.<\/span><\/p>\n

You\u2019ll find yourself buying his lies and eating out of his hand within minutes. <\/span><\/p>\n

He\u2019ll make you think you were insane to have such <\/span>quest\u00f5es de confian\u00e7a<\/span><\/a> com ele. Afinal de contas, \u00e9 um jovem cavalheiro, com maneiras perfeitas e uma personalidade extrovertida.<\/span><\/p>\n

What\u2019s not to like? (Other than absolutely everything).<\/span><\/p>\n

4. Ele tem sempre um plano para se fazer passar pela v\u00edtima inocente<\/span><\/h2>\n

\"homem<\/p>\n

Os narcisistas est\u00e3o SEMPRE preparados. H\u00e1 sempre um plano B e um plano muito s\u00f3lido. <\/span><\/p>\n

He knows that he\u2019s always at risk of being exposed and he is prepared to defend himself should such a thing happen because he has many abuso narc\u00edsico<\/a> t\u00e1cticas na manga. <\/span><\/p>\n

Seria tolice pensar que descobrir as suas mentiras seria t\u00e3o f\u00e1cil como se espera. Ele sabe como culpar o seu alvo. <\/span><\/p>\n

He is perfect at using the victim card. He knows just how to assure people that it\u2019s not him\u2014it\u2019s you.<\/span><\/p>\n

Trust me, I\u2019ve been there. <\/span><\/p>\n

It\u2019s baffling how quick they are on their feet and how (despite your genuine intentions and zero guilt) they always make you the fall guy for their every misdeed.<\/span><\/p>\n

It\u2019s infuriating and disappointing and completely destroys your psyche. I\u2019ve experienced this so many times first-hand. <\/span><\/p>\n

E a parte mais dolorosa de tudo isto \u00e9 que eles acreditam de facto nas suas mentiras e gostam de o criticar.<\/span><\/p>\n

Their evil ALWAYS prevails and there is rarely anything one can do to stop them. It\u2019s mind-blowingly atrocious.<\/span><\/p>\n

\"Como<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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