{"id":46068,"date":"2019-11-01T15:43:08","date_gmt":"2019-11-01T15:43:08","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=46068"},"modified":"2021-08-11T10:08:40","modified_gmt":"2021-08-11T10:08:40","slug":"4-sinais-de-que-o-seu-homem-e-abusivamente-paranoico-e-4-formas-de-lidar-com-isso","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/4-sinais-de-que-o-seu-homem-e-abusivamente-paranoico-e-4-formas-de-lidar-com-isso\/","title":{"rendered":"4 sinais de que o seu homem \u00e9 abusivamente paranoico (e 4 maneiras de lidar com isso)"},"content":{"rendered":"

Uma pequena dose de ci\u00fames \u00e9 perfeitamente normal em qualquer rela\u00e7\u00e3o rom\u00e2ntica. <\/span><\/p>\n

It\u2019s even healthy to a degree because it proves <\/span>o seu parceiro<\/span><\/a>\u2019s loyalty and affection.<\/span><\/p>\n

When somebody is jealous, it means they care, otherwise they wouldn\u2019t even notice you talking to another guy.  <\/span><\/p>\n

Mas como determinar se os ci\u00fames dele o est\u00e3o a transformar lentamente num namorado abusivamente paranoico?<\/span><\/p>\n

Where is the line? How much jealousy is acceptable, and when is it time to consider doing something about it out of fear he\u2019s beginning to cross a line? <\/span><\/p>\n

Nunca aceite um comportamento abusivo s\u00f3 porque encontra desculpas na sua cabe\u00e7a.<\/span><\/p>\n

Seja honesto consigo pr\u00f3prio e ponha as suas necessidades em primeiro lugar, por uma vez! <\/span><\/i><\/p>\n

Aqui est\u00e3o alguns sinais claros de que os ci\u00fames dele est\u00e3o a transformar-se em paranoia abusiva, o que deve ajud\u00e1-la a determinar os seus pr\u00f3ximos passos.<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n

1. At first \u2013 he seems too good to be true<\/span><\/h2>\n

\"casal<\/p>\n

No in\u00edcio, investiu muito em <\/span>a sua rela\u00e7\u00e3o<\/span><\/a>. Ele deu-te tudo, tratou-te como uma rainha e n\u00e3o tinha olhos para mais ningu\u00e9m. <\/span><\/p>\n

You genuinely felt like he was a gift from God that never stopped giving\u2014until it all slowly started changing.<\/span><\/p>\n

2. He starts pointing out every little thing that\u2019s wrong with you<\/span><\/h2>\n

\"casal<\/p>\n

Pode variar de uma variedade de coisas. A forma como se veste \u00e9 demasiado provocante; deve mudar para algo menos revelador. <\/span><\/p>\n

Usa demasiada maquilhagem, o que far\u00e1 com que os homens se aproximem de si. <\/span><\/p>\n

You didn\u2019t cook dinner on time, and now he has to wait an extra hour to eat. It can be anything, really. Slowly but surely, he\u2019ll start complaining more and more.<\/span><\/p>\n

3. You\u2019re never honest enough according to him<\/span><\/h2>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

You tell him where you are, who you\u2019re with, and every little detail about everything\u2014and it STILL isn\u2019t enough. <\/span><\/p>\n

He always badgers you about hiding things and accuses you of lying. You know it\u2019s not true, but you just can\u2019t prove it to him, and it\u2019s becoming a problem.<\/span><\/p>\n

4. He doesn\u2019t forgive and forget<\/span><\/h2>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

Ele est\u00e1 sempre a lembrar-te de todas as pequenas coisas erradas que fizeste. Ele nunca mais se esquece. <\/span><\/p>\n

It\u2019s like he wants to keep punishing you for every misdeed so that you always know your place and never repeat any mistakes. <\/span><\/p>\n

He forgets that you\u2019re only human and making mistakes is our way of growing and evolving.<\/span><\/p>\n

Now that we\u2019ve covered the main signs of his worrisome behaviour, let\u2019s try to find a way to handle it in the best manner.<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n

Acredito que uma conversa honesta \u00e9 sempre um bom caminho a seguir.<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n

Try to talk to him. Confront him about it and see where it goes. If it doesn\u2019t work, here are 4 suggestions on how to handle his abusive paranoia and <\/span><\/i>cuidar de <\/span><\/i><\/a>por uma vez.<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n

1. Cortar o mal pela raiz<\/span><\/h2>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

\u00c9 assim que funciona. No momento em que ele exibir essa paranoia exagerada, responda imediatamente a ela. <\/span><\/p>\n

If he accuses you of not checking in with him and lying about your whereabouts, explain to him that it\u2019s simply not true. <\/span><\/p>\n

Dizemos-lhe sempre onde estamos e nunca escondemos nada. Mais ainda, pe\u00e7a-lhe um exemplo dessa suposta mentira e veja-o co\u00e7ar a cabe\u00e7a.<\/span><\/p>\n

2. Read between the lines and answer the BIG question (that\u2019s hiding in the little one)<\/span><\/h2>\n

\"casal<\/p>\n

Let\u2019s say he asks you about that new guy you\u2019re working with. He is clearly suspicious that there\u2019s something going on as he won\u2019t stop asking about him. <\/span><\/p>\n

He\u2019ll never ask straight up: <\/span>\u2018\u2019Are you fucking that dude?\u2019\u2019<\/span><\/i> but you\u2019ll know that\u2019s what he\u2019s insinuating. <\/span><\/p>\n

Por isso, da pr\u00f3xima vez que ele perguntar por ele, responde-lhe: <\/span>\u2018\u2019I know where you\u2019re going with this and NO, I\u2019m not unfaithful. <\/span><\/i><\/p>\n

The only guy I want to sleep with is standing in front of me.\u2019\u2019<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n

3. Don\u2019t let him test your love<\/span><\/h2>\n

\"casal<\/p>\n

Nunca concordo com nenhuma destas coisas <\/span>jogos mentais <\/span><\/a>ou provar o seu amor fazendo isto, aquilo ou aquilo outro. Isso \u00e9 para os fedelhos imaturos! <\/span><\/p>\n

Either he accepts you as you are or he can keep looking. True love doesn\u2019t need tests; it\u2019s strong enough to withstand jealousy spells. <\/span><\/p>\n

Let him know you won\u2019t stand for that. He can either accept it or move on. You\u2019re nobody\u2019s puppet, and it\u2019s time he finally realized that.<\/span><\/p>\n

4. Jogar o seu jogo<\/span><\/h2>\n

\"casal<\/p>\n

Se ele continuar a duvidar de si, a control\u00e1-la e a obrig\u00e1-la a provar a sua lealdade, fa\u00e7a o mesmo. <\/span><\/p>\n

Da pr\u00f3xima vez que ele te perguntar pelo teu paradeiro, pergunta-lhe pelo dele. E quando ele lhe disser, fa\u00e7a como o parceiro ciumento e pe\u00e7a-lhe provas. <\/span><\/p>\n

Mostre-lhe que dois podem jogar esse jogo. Esperemos que isto o fa\u00e7a perceber o qu\u00e3o paranoico se tornou e que o fa\u00e7a parar. <\/span><\/p>\n

Let him know clearly that if it doesn\u2019t, he\u2019s going to lose the best thing that\u2019s ever happened to him. <\/span><\/p>\n

O ci\u00fame \u00e9 aceit\u00e1vel at\u00e9 certo ponto, mas a paranoia n\u00e3o \u00e9 algo que nunca mais se tolerar\u00e1.<\/span><\/p>\n

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