{"id":46121,"date":"2019-11-01T22:45:46","date_gmt":"2019-11-01T22:45:46","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=46121"},"modified":"2022-01-10T00:25:46","modified_gmt":"2022-01-10T00:25:46","slug":"para-o-tipo-que-era-suposto-ser-mais-do-que-um-capitulo","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/para-o-tipo-que-era-suposto-ser-mais-do-que-um-capitulo\/","title":{"rendered":"Para o tipo que era suposto ser mais do que um cap\u00edtulo"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Quando algu\u00e9m nos deixa, o simples ato de passar por uma <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/relationship\/5-maneiras-de-se-reencontrar-depois-de-uma-separacao-devastadora\/\">rutura devastadora<\/a> \u00e9 normalmente a maior dor de cabe\u00e7a de tudo isto.<\/p>\n<p>O seu cora\u00e7\u00e3o fica destro\u00e7ado e, de repente, tem de aprender a viver sem o homem que era o centro do seu mundo e de quem tem imensas saudades.<\/p>\n<p>Tens de aceitar que esse homem deixou de te amar e que tens de continuar a tua vida sem ele.<\/p>\n<p>You\u2019re forced to come to terms with the fact that you have to move on without him who was the most important person to you.<\/p>\n<p>And yes, going through something like this is always difficult, but when it comes to us individually, it\u2019s actually the easiest part.<\/p>\n<p>Quando se trata de n\u00f3s os dois, a situa\u00e7\u00e3o \u00e9 bastante diferente.<\/p>\n<p>Sim, fiquei destro\u00e7ada por me teres abandonado, por <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/homem-das-cartas-abandonado-precisa-se\/\">abandonaste-me quando eu precisava de ti<\/a>e que me deixaste para tr\u00e1s sem nunca olhares para tr\u00e1s.<\/p>\n<p><b>No entanto, o que me magoa ainda mais \u00e9 o facto de teres sido apenas tempor\u00e1rio na minha vida.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><b> I\u2019m crushed that, at the end of the day, you didn\u2019t turn out to be my forever person, despite all of my hopes and desires.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-46122\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/raychan-bRoLBgaxnFg-unsplash1.jpg\" alt=\"rapariga de p\u00e9 perto de um rio\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/raychan-bRoLBgaxnFg-unsplash1.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/raychan-bRoLBgaxnFg-unsplash1-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/raychan-bRoLBgaxnFg-unsplash1-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Sim, agora posso finalmente diz\u00ea-lo em voz alta sem sentir que algu\u00e9m me est\u00e1 a apunhalar diretamente no cora\u00e7\u00e3o: <b>you and I were just chapters in each other\u2019s lives. <\/b><\/p>\n<p><b>E o pior \u00e9 que era suposto sermos muito mais.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>When I met you, I didn\u2019t think that you would storm right through my life the way you did.<\/p>\n<p>Desde o primeiro momento, amei-te tanto que nunca imaginei um dia em que a nossa hist\u00f3ria n\u00e3o seria mais do que uma parte da hist\u00f3ria antiga.<\/p>\n<p>Eu vi tudo em ti: um namorado, um amigo \u00edntimo e um <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/relationship\/futuro-marido-desculpa-me-coisas-punitivas-nunca\/\">futuro marido<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>Vi-o como o meu parceiro de vida, o homem com quem poderia envelhecer, a minha alma g\u00e9mea e o meu par feito no c\u00e9u.<\/p>\n<p>I was certain that you and I were meant to be together \u2013 that we both spent our entire lives preparing ourselves for our encounter.<\/p>\n<p>Pensava que as for\u00e7as divinas queriam que acab\u00e1ssemos juntos e que nada nem ningu\u00e9m nos poderia separar.<\/p>\n<p>Que parvo\u00edce a minha, n\u00e3o \u00e9?<\/p>\n<p>Acho que n\u00e3o passava de uma rapariga ing\u00e9nua e rom\u00e2ntica que esperava mais do que aquilo que poderia receber.<\/p>\n<p><b>Porque nunca me viste como o teu \"mais um\" para toda a vida, pois n\u00e3o? <\/b><\/p>\n<p><b>Nunca me consideraste mais do que algu\u00e9m que te encurtava os dias, te divertia e te mantinha quente \u00e0 noite.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-46123\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/priscilla-du-preez-Ls4_qixfBeQ-unsplash1.jpg\" alt=\"rapariga sozinha na cama\" width=\"800\" height=\"531\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/priscilla-du-preez-Ls4_qixfBeQ-unsplash1.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/priscilla-du-preez-Ls4_qixfBeQ-unsplash1-300x199.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/priscilla-du-preez-Ls4_qixfBeQ-unsplash1-768x510.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><b>Para ti, nunca fui mais do que uma rapariga tempor\u00e1ria que te serviu bem at\u00e9 aparecer algu\u00e9m melhor. <\/b><\/p>\n<p><b>Eu era conveniente e adequado apenas num determinado momento, mas, infelizmente, demorei demasiado tempo a aperceber-me disso.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><b>Para ti, eu era apenas um cap\u00edtulo, enquanto para mim, tu \u00e9s um livro inteiro.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><b> Despite the fact that we\u2019re over, you still remain the central character of my story, while you never gave me anything besides a supporting role in yours.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>Sim, admitir isto a mim pr\u00f3prio \u00e9 uma treta.<\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s not only an attack to my heart \u2013 it\u2019s a real ego destroyer.<\/p>\n<p>However, after a lot of thought, now I know that this situation doesn\u2019t decrease my value as a woman.<\/p>\n<p>It doesn\u2019t mean I\u2019m not enough, nor does it make me any less worthy.<\/p>\n<p>So, instead of lamenting the past, I\u2019ll do my best to start writing a new life chapter.<\/p>\n<p>I\u2019ll accept that this one is finished, leave you on the shelf of my heart, and treat you like a distant memory.<\/p>\n<p>I will wait for a man who won\u2019t have doubts about whether I\u2019m the one.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-46124\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/w-a-t-a-r-i-z7FKZpx0WSY-unsplash2.jpg\" alt=\"rapariga a olhar pela janela\" width=\"800\" height=\"505\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/w-a-t-a-r-i-z7FKZpx0WSY-unsplash2.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/w-a-t-a-r-i-z7FKZpx0WSY-unsplash2-300x189.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/w-a-t-a-r-i-z7FKZpx0WSY-unsplash2-768x485.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>A man who\u2019ll be <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/relationship\/5-razoes-para-deixar-de-lado-um-homem-que-nao-tem-a-certeza-sobre-si\/\">com certeza sobre mim<\/a> e ver-me como muito mais do que algu\u00e9m passageiro.<\/p>\n<p><b>I will wait for a man who\u2019ll make me the star of his movie.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><b> For one who\u2019ll never be in need of other actresses. <\/b><\/p>\n<p><b>Um homem que quer terminar o seu livro comigo ao seu lado.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-large wp-image-46126\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/organized-by-St.-Jude-Chapel86-724x1024.jpg\" alt=\"Para o tipo que era suposto\" width=\"724\" height=\"1024\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/organized-by-St.-Jude-Chapel86-724x1024.jpg 724w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/organized-by-St.-Jude-Chapel86-212x300.jpg 212w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/organized-by-St.-Jude-Chapel86-768x1086.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/organized-by-St.-Jude-Chapel86.jpg 794w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 724px) 100vw, 724px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>When someone leaves you, the mere act of going through a devastating breakup is usually the biggest pain about it all. Your heart is crushed and all of a sudden you have to learn to live without the man who was the centre of your world and whom you miss like hell. You have to&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":41,"featured_media":46125,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29653],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-46121","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-letters"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29653,"label":"letters"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/dmitry-schemelev-h5xANSOT2qY-unsplash2.jpg",800,533,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Martha Sullivan","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/martha-sullivan\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29653,"name":"letters","slug":"letters","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29653,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Regardless if you're looking for moving on, romantic, emotional, or open letters on various topics, you can be sure that you'll find it all here. 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