{"id":46148,"date":"2019-11-04T15:45:25","date_gmt":"2019-11-04T15:45:25","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=46148"},"modified":"2021-08-11T10:04:41","modified_gmt":"2021-08-11T10:04:41","slug":"baixar-os-seus-padroes-nao-aumenta-as-suas-hipoteses-de-felicidade","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/baixar-os-seus-padroes-nao-aumenta-as-suas-hipoteses-de-felicidade\/","title":{"rendered":"Baixar os seus padr\u00f5es n\u00e3o vai aumentar as suas hip\u00f3teses de felicidade"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>\u00c9 uma mulher forte e autossuficiente que sabe o que quer - ningu\u00e9m pode contestar isso.<\/p>\n<p>Sabe que tipo de parceiro merece e precisa mas, infelizmente, n\u00e3o tem sorte em encontrar um homem que lhe sirva.<\/p>\n<p>It is not that you\u2019re looking for a flawless Mr. Perfect who will make of your wildest fantasies come true\u2014you just want a man who will have the ability to keep up with you, a man who will see your worth and most importantly, a man who will give you back all the love he\u2019s getting from you.&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>So why does everyone keep telling you that you\u2019re asking for too much?<\/p>\n<p>Porque \u00e9 que toda a gente o acusa de ser <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/relationship\/6-sinais-de-que-e-demasiado-exigente-quando-se-trata-de-homens\/\">demasiado exigente quando se trata de homens<\/a> E porque \u00e9 que toda a gente continua a aconselh\u00e1-lo a baixar os seus padr\u00f5es?<\/p>\n<p><b>Let me tell you one thing: It is always better to remain single than to be with someone who doesn\u2019t fit your criteria and with someone who doesn\u2019t match your requirements. <\/b><\/p>\n<p><b>So, cut the bullshit and don\u2019t even think of lowering your standards because I can assure you that this won\u2019t increase your chances of happiness.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>You see, it is not enough to find a man you&#8217;re just comfortable with, a man who is convenient at a given time and who has the potential to save you from dying alone.<\/p>\n<p>You shouldn\u2019t settle on spending the rest of your life with a dude who looks good on paper but doesn\u2019t make you feel deep love.<\/p>\n<p>With a nice guy who probably won\u2019t turn into an asshole over time but who is not likely to dump you when he gets tired of you.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-46151\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/sandra-seitamaa-0nM3mFNuAaI-unsplash1.jpg\" alt=\"rapariga com cabelo loiro comprido a caminhar na natureza\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/sandra-seitamaa-0nM3mFNuAaI-unsplash1.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/sandra-seitamaa-0nM3mFNuAaI-unsplash1-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/sandra-seitamaa-0nM3mFNuAaI-unsplash1-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><b>It is not enough to be with a man who won\u2019t cheat on you, who won\u2019t abuse you in any way and who\u2019ll have the decency to return your phone calls and take you out a few times a week.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><b> You shouldn\u2019t consider yourself lucky just for running into a guy who puts some effort into your relationship, who buys you flowers and chocolate for Valentine\u2019s Day, who doesn\u2019t forget your birthday or who doesn\u2019t put you last.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><b>None of this is a privilege you should be thankful for\u2014it is the bare minimum and something that should be implied in every normal relationship.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><b> N\u00e3o \u00e9 o tipo de rela\u00e7\u00e3o que se deva perseguir, por medo de ficar sozinho.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><b>So, please, don\u2019t lower your standards because by doing so, you\u2019ll also decrease your happiness.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><b>You\u2019ll betray all of your principles, you\u2019ll ruin your future and you\u2019ll sentence yourself to a miserable, loveless life.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><b>Besides, lowering your standards won\u2019t magically invite everlasting love into your life.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><b> Yes, it might help you get a temporary boyfriend but it definitely won\u2019t make you any happier in the long run.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>Don\u2019t get me wrong\u2014I\u2019m not saying that you should have unrealistic expectations or that you should concentrate on finding a rich, handsome model who will nod his head to every word you say.<\/p>\n<p>However, don\u2019t lower your standards just because you can\u2019t find what you\u2019re looking for or because someone accused you of asking for too much.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-46150\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/max-ilienerwise-YvWJOXHNJ94-unsplash1.jpg\" alt=\"rapariga loira na natureza\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/max-ilienerwise-YvWJOXHNJ94-unsplash1.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/max-ilienerwise-YvWJOXHNJ94-unsplash1-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/max-ilienerwise-YvWJOXHNJ94-unsplash1-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Em vez disso, <b>procura mais porque mereces mais. <\/b><\/p>\n<p>Procure um homem que a fa\u00e7a sentir-se viva e calma ao mesmo tempo, um homem que a fa\u00e7a sentir-se amada e protegida e um homem que seja o seu verdadeiro companheiro para toda a vida.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/romantic-love\/love-advice\/por-favor-nao-te-contentes-com-alguem-com-quem-nao-era-suposto-estares\/\"><b>Don\u2019t settle<\/b><\/a><b> para um homem que apenas satisfa\u00e7a as suas necessidades f\u00edsicas ou emocionais nesta altura.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><b> Em vez disso, procure algu\u00e9m que o fa\u00e7a sentir completo e que preencha todos os seus vazios para o resto da sua vida. <\/b><\/p>\n<p>Someone you\u2019ll love, someone who will be your perfect match and someone you can see yourself growing old next to.&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>Sim, eu sei que esperar por este tipo de homem pode ser cansativo e desgastante.<\/p>\n<p>Sei que ser solteira e ficar sentada \u00e0 espera que ele apare\u00e7a n\u00e3o \u00e9 f\u00e1cil.<\/p>\n<p>However, spending the rest of your life regretting the choices you\u2019ve made out of despair would be even more difficult.<\/p>\n<p>Wishing you could go back in time and not give a chance to that someone who didn\u2019t deserve it is much more devastating and something you should never put yourself through.<\/p>\n<p><b>So please, don\u2019t give up on finding <\/b><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/relationship\/7-sinais-alarmantes-de-que-ele-e-um-sr-agora-e-nao-o-sr-certo\/\"><b>O Sr. Certo<\/b><\/a><b> ainda n\u00e3o. <\/b><\/p>\n<p><b>Don\u2019t lose hope or settle for less than you deserve.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-large wp-image-46155\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/organized-by-St.-Jude-Chapel91-724x1024.jpg\" alt=\"Baixar os seus padr\u00f5es n\u00e3o vai aumentar as suas hip\u00f3teses de felicidade\" width=\"724\" height=\"1024\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/organized-by-St.-Jude-Chapel91-724x1024.jpg 724w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/organized-by-St.-Jude-Chapel91-212x300.jpg 212w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/organized-by-St.-Jude-Chapel91-768x1086.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/organized-by-St.-Jude-Chapel91.jpg 794w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 724px) 100vw, 724px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>You\u2019re a strong, self-sufficient woman who knows what she wants\u2014nobody can argue with that. You know what type of partner you deserve and need but sadly, you have no luck in finding a man who would suit you. It is not that you\u2019re looking for a flawless Mr. Perfect who will make of your wildest&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":42,"featured_media":46149,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29648],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-46148","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-dating-tips"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29648,"label":"dating tips"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/zachary-staines-JMKkm3leBKE-unsplash1.jpg",800,533,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Selma June","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/selmajune\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29648,"name":"dating tips","slug":"dating-tips","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29648,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Learn to date like a pro and avoid making some of the biggest mistakes in texting, flirting, winning a man's heart, and commitment. 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