{"id":46312,"date":"2020-10-05T22:33:54","date_gmt":"2020-10-05T22:33:54","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=46312"},"modified":"2021-08-11T12:07:22","modified_gmt":"2021-08-11T12:07:22","slug":"10-pensamentos-que-um-narcisista-mantem-escondidos-antes-de-revelar-o-seu-verdadeiro-eu","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/10-pensamentos-que-um-narcisista-mantem-escondidos-antes-de-revelar-o-seu-verdadeiro-eu\/","title":{"rendered":"10 pensamentos que um narcisista esconde antes de revelar o seu verdadeiro eu"},"content":{"rendered":"<h2>&#8220;What\u2019s the best way for me to get attention?&#8221;<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-46314\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/sergio-souza-Sxm8FK0xc3Q-unsplash1.jpg\" alt=\"casal a olhar-se nos olhos\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/sergio-souza-Sxm8FK0xc3Q-unsplash1.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/sergio-souza-Sxm8FK0xc3Q-unsplash1-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/sergio-souza-Sxm8FK0xc3Q-unsplash1-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Um narcisista est\u00e1 sempre \u00e0 espreita e sempre a precisar de aten\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/p>\n<p>If he isn\u2019t getting it with his current victim, he\u2019s on the lookout for the next one.<\/p>\n<p>He needs attention for his &#8220;emotional supply&#8221; and &#8220;narcissistic supply.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>O seu ego nunca est\u00e1 totalmente refor\u00e7ado, pelo que nunca descansam.<\/p>\n<p>E este \u00e9 um pensamento que eles mant\u00eam sempre escondido \u00e0 frente de <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/relationship\/35-micro-tacticas-que-os-narcisistas-utilizam-para-controlar-as-suas-vitimas\/\">as suas v\u00edtimas<\/a>embora seja precisamente isso que os leva a agir da forma que agem.<\/p>\n<p>Attention is their number one ego-enhancer, so it\u2019s no shock that they\u2019re forever contemplating it.<\/p>\n<h2>&#8220;I don\u2019t give a shit&#8221;<\/h2>\n<p>In case you didn\u2019t already know, a narcissist <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/relationship\/nao-e-complicado-ele-apenas-nao-se-preocupa-o-suficiente\/\">just doesn\u2019t care<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>He doesn\u2019t care about his actions, he doesn\u2019t care about what he\u2019s doing to you, and he certainly doesn\u2019t care how it makes you feel.<\/p>\n<p>He is not capable of empathizing and he doesn\u2019t give a damn about a single person out there.<\/p>\n<p>As he\u2019s watching you go through your daily motions and pretending to care, all he actually thinks about is how he just couldn\u2019t possibly care less and can\u2019t wait for you to leave so he can stop pretending to <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/relationship\/o-gajo-7-coisas-nao-quer-saber\/\">n\u00e3o quero saber de nada.<\/a><\/p>\n<h2>&#8220;I\u2019m always right&#8221;<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-46315\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/karl-fredrickson-DsAjH9B24G8-unsplash21.jpg\" alt=\"homem bonito\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/karl-fredrickson-DsAjH9B24G8-unsplash21.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/karl-fredrickson-DsAjH9B24G8-unsplash21-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/karl-fredrickson-DsAjH9B24G8-unsplash21-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Por mais errado que esteja, na sua mente, ele tem sempre raz\u00e3o.<\/p>\n<p>He can do so much shit to you and you can be suffering due to his actions, and he\u2019ll still think he was right to do that and you\u2019re merely overreacting.<\/p>\n<p>Para ele, s\u00f3 existe o seu caminho e o caminho errado.<\/p>\n<p>You can try to convince him otherwise all you want, but we both know it\u2019ll be with zero success.<\/p>\n<p>Your narcissist is &#8220;Mr Always Right.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>E esse \u00e9 o seu h\u00e1bito mais torturante para aqueles que t\u00eam de o suportar.<\/p>\n<h2>&#8220;Deep down, I have no self-confidence&#8221;<\/h2>\n<p>A narcissist can pretend to be the most self-assured man you\u2019ve ever encountered.<\/p>\n<p>He\u2019ll make you believe it as well.<\/p>\n<p>Mas, no fundo, ele n\u00e3o tem auto-confian\u00e7a.<\/p>\n<p>Acredita-se que os narcisistas aprenderam a reconfigurar os seus c\u00e9rebros como um mecanismo de sobreviv\u00eancia.<\/p>\n<p>So they can exhibit behavior that presents them as the most powerful man you\u2019ll ever see, but in reality, he\u2019s just overcompensating for his many insecurities that are secretly plaguing him.<\/p>\n<p>The strangest thing is, he convinces himself of this as well, so you\u2019re not the only one he\u2019s fooling!<\/p>\n<h2>&#8220;I\u2019m entitled to everything I want&#8221;<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-46316\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/zachary-nelson-DVkR3DnRQiY-unsplash1.jpg\" alt=\"homem perto da janela\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/zachary-nelson-DVkR3DnRQiY-unsplash1.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/zachary-nelson-DVkR3DnRQiY-unsplash1-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/zachary-nelson-DVkR3DnRQiY-unsplash1-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Um narcisista \u00e9 verdadeiramente como uma crian\u00e7a de cinco anos quando se trata de algo que deseja.<\/p>\n<p>It doesn\u2019t matter that he can\u2019t have it or how hard it is to obtain it. In his mind, he is fully entitled to everything that he wants.<\/p>\n<p>Um narcisista n\u00e3o tem qualquer no\u00e7\u00e3o de m\u00e9rito, o que o leva a considerar-se superior a toda a gente e, portanto, com direito a tudo.<\/p>\n<p>And he won\u2019t hear no for an answer.<\/p>\n<p>Ser\u00e1 como lidar com um mi\u00fado imaturo que, por acaso, \u00e9 manipulador e um pouco mau.<\/p>\n<h2>&#8220;How dare you defy me?&#8221;<\/h2>\n<p>Quando um narcisista \u00e9 confrontado, o seu verdadeiro eu est\u00e1 muito perto de se revelar.<\/p>\n<p>On the outside, he\u2019ll seem as this cool, collected man, but when he\u2019s criticized, all he can think about is how anyone dares defy something he said.<\/p>\n<p>He is very insecure (which is something he\u2019ll never show), so he can\u2019t fathom the concept of being confronted.<\/p>\n<p>O que ele diz \u00e9 v\u00e1lido. N\u00e3o h\u00e1 outra op\u00e7\u00e3o.&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>Ele precisa de ter sempre o que quer.<\/p>\n<p>If you confront, doubt, or criticize him, you\u2019re taking away his power.<\/p>\n<h2>&#8220;What an idiot!&#8221;<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-46317\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/quin-stevenson-QPE5988qVoM-unsplash1.jpg\" alt=\"homem com barba\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/quin-stevenson-QPE5988qVoM-unsplash1.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/quin-stevenson-QPE5988qVoM-unsplash1-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/quin-stevenson-QPE5988qVoM-unsplash1-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>\u00c9 bem sabido que os narcisistas pensam que s\u00e3o mais inteligentes do que qualquer outra pessoa.<\/p>\n<p>They\u2019ve deluded themselves into truly believing this, so they look down on everyone around them.<\/p>\n<p>You can be saying something that is completely factual, but if he disagrees, he is going to deem you an idiot in his mind (perhaps even out loud if he\u2019s feeling ballsy).<\/p>\n<h2>&#8220;I\u2019m in desperate need of something&#8221;<\/h2>\n<p>Precisam de valida\u00e7\u00e3o, poder, dinheiro e sexo.<\/p>\n<p>Procuram sempre a v\u00edtima mais f\u00e1cil para lhes proporcionar tudo isso.<\/p>\n<p>Often, they don\u2019t get every single thing from just one person, so they keep looking for more sources.<\/p>\n<p>Para eles, as pessoas s\u00e3o um est\u00edmulo para o ego.<\/p>\n<p>Se ele se sente com pouco poder, vai encontrar algu\u00e9m fraco para mudar isso.<\/p>\n<p>If he needs sex, he\u2019s going seduce the next na\u00efve girl he stumbles upon.<\/p>\n<p>As suas necessidades n\u00e3o t\u00eam fim e a sua busca tamb\u00e9m n\u00e3o.<\/p>\n<h2>&#8220;You\u2019ve just made an enemy&#8221;<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-46318\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/forrest-cavale-sok0YssrV5g-unsplash1.jpg\" alt=\"homem na madeira\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/forrest-cavale-sok0YssrV5g-unsplash1.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/forrest-cavale-sok0YssrV5g-unsplash1-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/forrest-cavale-sok0YssrV5g-unsplash1-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Um narcisista \u00e9 um tipo de pessoa passivo-agressiva.<\/p>\n<p>He won\u2019t go off on you when he\u2019s mad, but he\u2019ll secretly plan his revenge.<\/p>\n<p>Unless he is extremely distressed and you happen to be nearby, that may change, but in any other situation, he\u2019s quietly plotting his payback.<\/p>\n<h2>&nbsp;&#8220;I need to find the next victim&#8221;<\/h2>\n<p>When the one he\u2019s using at the moment stops being of use to him, he immediately thinks about his next step.<\/p>\n<p>Onde \u00e9 que ele vai procurar o pr\u00f3ximo?<\/p>\n<p>Como \u00e9 que ele vai fazer com que ela <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/life\/7-dicas-para-as-mulheres-de-stand-fazerem-o-outono\/\">cair para<\/a> ele?<\/p>\n<p>Demora algum tempo a organizar as suas t\u00e1cticas, pelo que pensa sempre com anteced\u00eancia.<\/p>\n<p>He may seem like he\u2019s happy with what you\u2019re giving him (or better yet: what he\u2019s taking from you), but he\u2019s already started planning his next quest.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-large wp-image-46319\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/organized-by-St.-Jude-Chapel98-724x1024.jpg\" alt=\"10 pensamentos que um narcisista esconde antes de revelar o seu verdadeiro eu\" width=\"724\" height=\"1024\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/organized-by-St.-Jude-Chapel98-724x1024.jpg 724w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/organized-by-St.-Jude-Chapel98-212x300.jpg 212w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/organized-by-St.-Jude-Chapel98-768x1086.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/organized-by-St.-Jude-Chapel98.jpg 1414w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 724px) 100vw, 724px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>&#8220;What\u2019s the best way for me to get attention?&#8221; A narcissist is always on the prowl and always in need of attention. If he isn\u2019t getting it with his current victim, he\u2019s on the lookout for the next one. He needs attention for his &#8220;emotional supply&#8221; and &#8220;narcissistic supply.&#8221; Their ego is never fully boosted,&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":21,"featured_media":46313,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29633],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-46312","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-narcissism"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29633,"label":"narcissism"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/neonbrand-MeddGCgzfnQ-unsplash1.jpg",800,533,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Maria Parker","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/maria\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29633,"name":"narcissism","slug":"narcissism","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29633,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Mind games and manipulations are narcissist's favorite controlling tactics. 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