{"id":46460,"date":"2019-11-07T02:05:12","date_gmt":"2019-11-07T02:05:12","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=46460"},"modified":"2022-06-25T09:50:46","modified_gmt":"2022-06-25T09:50:46","slug":"10-etapas-para-tentar-convencer-um-jogador-a-comprometer-se","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/10-etapas-para-tentar-convencer-um-jogador-a-comprometer-se\/","title":{"rendered":"10 fases para tentar convencer um jogador a comprometer-se"},"content":{"rendered":"

Sabe aquele rapaz bonito que lhe d\u00e1 borboletas e que torna a sua vida muito mais excitante? <\/span><\/p>\n

O tipo com quem sabe que n\u00e3o tem futuro, o tipo que nunca teve uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o s\u00e9ria antes de si e o tipo que, obviamente, tem problemas profundos de compromisso?<\/span><\/p>\n

Olhando para as coisas desta perspetiva, a primeira pergunta que qualquer pessoa com um pouco de sanidade mental faria \u00e9 porque \u00e9 que algu\u00e9m assim seria atraente para as mulheres?<\/span><\/p>\n

Well, the fact is there doesn\u2019t exist a woman who hasn\u2019t run into <\/span>um jogador<\/span><\/a> pelo menos uma vez na vida. <\/span><\/p>\n

To make things even worse\u2013there probably doesn\u2019t exist a woman who hasn\u2019t tried converting this player into a decent man (but failed).<\/span><\/p>\n

On the other hand, if you\u2019re a woman who hasn\u2019t been through this pointless voyage just yet and you\u2019re still convinced that you can get a player to commit, here are 10 stages you\u2019ll definitely go through!<\/span><\/p>\n

1. You think you\u2019re also playing<\/h2>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

No in\u00edcio, quando se conhece um homem que se recusa a comprometer-se e que gosta de jogos modernos de encontros, engana-se a si pr\u00f3prio<\/a> that you\u2019re playing along. <\/span><\/p>\n

You see this arrangement as fun and exciting and you think you\u2019re enjoying yourself.<\/span><\/p>\n

What you don\u2019t see is that you\u2019re in no way participating in all of this voluntarily. <\/span><\/p>\n

Instead, you\u2019re just a puppet in his toxic hands and before you know it, you\u2019re dragged into his games.<\/span><\/p>\n

2. V\u00ea-o como um desafio<\/h2>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

A fase seguinte consiste em encarar a situa\u00e7\u00e3o como um desafio. O seu objetivo \u00e9 ser o \u00fanico a mudar os seus h\u00e1bitos e a abrir o seu cora\u00e7\u00e3o ao amor.<\/span><\/p>\n

After all, who could do it, if not you? What other girl would be worthy of him becoming a mature man who doesn\u2019t have any trouble committing and dedicating himself to a serious relationship?<\/span><\/p>\n

You decide to put all of your efforts in to achieving your goal and you don\u2019t see failure as an option.<\/span><\/p>\n

3. You hope that he\u2019ll change<\/h2>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

Juntamente com tudo isto, as suas esperan\u00e7as aumentam. Apesar da realidade \u00f3bvia, come\u00e7a a viver numa terra de sonho onde um dia este homem se tornar\u00e1 o homem que quer e precisa que ele seja.<\/span><\/p>\n

You completely disregard everything happening around you, all the clear signals he\u2019s been sending and all the bandeiras vermelhas que dizem para correr pela sua vida<\/a>. Em vez disso, baseia todos os seus planos futuros numa simples esperan\u00e7a, que n\u00e3o tem qualquer fundamento.<\/span><\/p>\n

4. Esfor\u00e7a-se ao m\u00e1ximo para<\/h2>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

Depois disso, come\u00e7a a tentar o seu melhor para <\/span>fazer com que este tipo se comprometa<\/span><\/a>. You\u2019re putting in maximum effort and trying out different options and tactics.<\/span><\/p>\n

On the one hand, you decide to show him that you\u2019re the only woman in this world who deserves a place in his heart. <\/span><\/p>\n

You decide to make him realize that true love is beautiful and something he shouldn\u2019t be running away from.<\/span><\/p>\n

No entanto, por outro lado, \u00e0s vezes pensamos que o melhor seria dar-lhe a provar do seu pr\u00f3prio rem\u00e9dio. <\/span><\/p>\n

Tamb\u00e9m tenta fazer-se de dif\u00edcil, esperando que ele venha ter consigo.<\/span><\/p>\n

5. Sofre<\/h2>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

Quando damos por isso, acabamos por ficar presos neste c\u00edrculo intermin\u00e1vel em que nos esfor\u00e7amos e ele n\u00e3o d\u00e1 a m\u00ednima, num c\u00edrculo em que tentamos que ele venha at\u00e9 n\u00f3s e nos perdemos no processo.<\/span><\/p>\n

You feel this inevitable pain because you see you\u2019re the only one fighting, the only one trying and the only one trying to build something out of this relationship which is doomed to fail.<\/span><\/p>\n

Quer queiras admitir ou n\u00e3o, o teu cora\u00e7\u00e3o est\u00e1 lentamente a partir-se em milh\u00f5es de peda\u00e7os. <\/span><\/p>\n

A tristeza domina-nos ao ponto de se tornar a \u00fanica coisa que sentimos.<\/span><\/p>\n

6. Come\u00e7a a perder a esperan\u00e7a<\/h2>\n

\"rapariga<\/p>\n

After a while, you start to lose hope. You admit to yourself that this isn\u2019t going anywhere and that all of your efforts were actually in vain.<\/span><\/p>\n

Apesar de ser a \u00faltima coisa que queres fazer e por muito que te doa, come\u00e7as a olhar a verdade nos olhos. <\/span><\/p>\n

7. Desiste<\/h2>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

Finally, after all the pain and everything you\u2019ve been through, you accept the harsh and brutal truth: this <\/span>o homem nunca mudar\u00e1<\/span><\/a> e que ele nunca te amou como tu querias que ele amasse. <\/span><\/p>\n

In the end, it doesn\u2019t matter whether he\u2019s emotionally damaged or if he is just not that into you, the bottom line is that he will never commit and that it\u2019s time to give up<\/a> sobre ele.<\/span><\/p>\n

That is exactly what you do\u2013you kick him out of your life, finally understanding it is the only real option you have.<\/span><\/p>\n

8. Tentas curar<\/h2>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

However, just because you face things the way they really are for the first time ever, it doesn\u2019t mean that you are perfectly fine. <\/span><\/p>\n

Pelo contr\u00e1rio, este \u00e9 apenas o in\u00edcio do seu processo de recupera\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/span><\/p>\n

This is the stage in which you\u2019re <\/span>curar e magoar<\/span><\/a> ao mesmo tempo. <\/span><\/p>\n

There are days when you feel like you\u2019ll die without him, when you feel like you\u2019ll miss him forever and days when you regret not taking another chance. <\/span><\/p>\n

On the other hand, there are also days when you know you did the right thing, days when your smile doesn\u2019t have anything to do with him and days when you know you\u2019ll be better.<\/span><\/p>\n

9. Aprendes com os teus erros<\/h2>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

Ao mesmo tempo, aprende algumas li\u00e7\u00f5es valiosas. V\u00ea que tudo acontece por uma raz\u00e3o e at\u00e9 fica grato a Deus por t\u00ea-lo salvo deste homem a tempo.<\/span><\/p>\n

You learn that you can\u2019t change anyone and you decide never to try doing anything similar. <\/span><\/p>\n

Aprende-se que nunca se deve p\u00f4r todos os esfor\u00e7os na repara\u00e7\u00e3o de um homem destro\u00e7ado e, entretanto, ficar \u00e0 margem.<\/span><\/p>\n

10. Avan\u00e7a<\/h2>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

Finalmente, seguimos em frente! Sim, ouviu bem: esquece-se o tipo, perdoa-se-lhe e a vida continua, como se ele nunca tivesse feito parte dela.<\/span><\/p>\n

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