{"id":46985,"date":"2019-11-11T16:01:43","date_gmt":"2019-11-11T16:01:43","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=46985"},"modified":"2021-08-11T09:49:36","modified_gmt":"2021-08-11T09:49:36","slug":"5-defeitos-que-o-tornam-mais-amavel","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/5-defeitos-que-o-tornam-mais-amavel\/","title":{"rendered":"5 \"defeitos\" que na verdade te tornam mais ador\u00e1vel"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Tenho a certeza de que n\u00e3o h\u00e1 nenhuma rapariga por a\u00ed que n\u00e3o tenha sido insegura em rela\u00e7\u00e3o a um defeito (ou tr\u00eas!), n\u00e3o \u00e9 verdade?<\/p>\n<p>Como seres humanos, nascemos todos imperfeitos (mas suficientemente perfeitos para <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/amor\/tenha-fe-que-deus-lhe-enviara-a-pessoa-certa-no-momento-certo\/\">a pessoa certa<\/a>) e, por isso, lutar por uma exist\u00eancia sem falhas parece realmente in\u00fatil.<\/p>\n<p>If you didn\u2019t have your little \u2018flaws\u2019, you would never learn your lessons along the way.&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>If not for your \u2018flaws\u2019,\u2019 you would be just like any other person out there.<\/p>\n<p>And what\u2019s so appealing about blending in with the crowd?<\/p>\n<p>Wouldn\u2019t you rather proudly <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/life\/10-coisas-que-as-mulheres-apaixonadas-fazem-para-se-destacarem-das-outras\/\">destacar-se dos outros<\/a> e ser o seu \"eu\" \u00fanico e dur\u00e3o?&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>Wouldn\u2019t you rather OWN your \u2018flaws\u2019 and be confident in your own skin, while everyone else is trying to be a replica of an already existing individual?<\/p>\n<p>Cada imperfei\u00e7\u00e3o que sente que tem \u00e9 o que faz de si VOC\u00ca.<\/p>\n<p>Cada ruga, cada rea\u00e7\u00e3o exagerada e todas as suas falhas de comportamento s\u00e3o o que o torna t\u00e3o incr\u00edvel.<\/p>\n<p>E o melhor \u00e9 que a maior parte das coisas que vemos como defeitos, outras pessoas acham-nas cativantes e bonitas!&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s true, I promise!<\/p>\n<p>I\u2019ve asked a ton of people, as I have been extremely insecure about a gazillion things and I feel so relieved to be able to say this and actually mean it.<\/p>\n<p>There are 5 \u2018flaws\u2019 you have that actually make you lovable!<\/p>\n<p>Aposto que n\u00e3o estavas \u00e0 espera de ouvir isso, certo?<\/p>\n<p>Check it out and hopefully, you\u2019ll find the beauty in every little imperfection that has bothered you for a long time.<\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s not that bad, I promise!<\/p>\n<p>Aqui est\u00e3o algumas imperfei\u00e7\u00f5es ador\u00e1veis que s\u00e3o mais uma raz\u00e3o para <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/amor\/o-amor-nao-merece\/\">amo-te<\/a>.<\/p>\n<h2>1. O facto de te embara\u00e7ares muito facilmente<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-46990\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/shutterstock_3539963301.jpg\" alt=\"mulher envergonhada\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/shutterstock_3539963301.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/shutterstock_3539963301-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/shutterstock_3539963301-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>N\u00e3o \u00e9 preciso sentir-se mal por isso!<\/p>\n<p>It means you\u2019re humble and down to earth. It shows you\u2019re not full of yourself and you\u2019re not condescending.<\/p>\n<p>And let\u2019s face it, the world is FULL of people with those traits, so isn\u2019t it actually awesome to be the opposite?<\/p>\n<p>Being in a situation that makes you feel embarrassed (even though it\u2019s not as bad as you think it is) makes you seem more approachable, reliable and generous.<\/p>\n<p>Deixa uma impress\u00e3o muito agrad\u00e1vel nas pessoas e d\u00e1 uma imagem bonita de si.<\/p>\n<p>Por isso, deixe de se preocupar com isto e assuma-o!<\/p>\n<h2>2. The way your dimples look when you can\u2019t stop laughing<\/h2>\n<p>I know so many people who don\u2019t like their dimples but I really can\u2019t figure out why?<\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s such a cute thing to see!<\/p>\n<p>I promise you, everyone I\u2019ve asked has said the same thing.<\/p>\n<p>When you can\u2019t stop laughing which causes your dimples to really stand out, it\u2019s a really sweet thing to see.<\/p>\n<p>Don\u2019t try to make yourself not laugh simply because you feel insecure about those dimples.<\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s a fact that people LOVE them and the more you let go and laugh freely, the cuter you look.<\/p>\n<p>Em vez de for\u00e7ar esse sorriso a diminuir, deixe-o brilhar e seja voc\u00ea mesmo!<\/p>\n<h2>3. A sua personalidade sem filtros<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-46992\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/shutterstock_11166155931-1.jpg\" alt=\"mulher a trabalhar \" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/shutterstock_11166155931-1.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/shutterstock_11166155931-1-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/shutterstock_11166155931-1-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Esta \u00e9 uma quest\u00e3o com que eu costumava debater-me, mas j\u00e1 n\u00e3o o fa\u00e7o.<\/p>\n<p>Quer saber porqu\u00ea?<\/p>\n<p>Because I\u2019ve realized that the only way to connect with people and find my favorite humans is by sharing what I want with whomever I want and not caring what anyone thinks about it!<\/p>\n<p>How else are you supposed to find a mutual interest with a perfect stranger when you\u2019re stuck in a room with them for whatever reason?<\/p>\n<p>Don\u2019t feel bad about being a chatterbox!<\/p>\n<p>Na realidade, as pessoas ADORAM isto porque lhes retira a press\u00e3o!<\/p>\n<p>A sua capacidade de falar com qualquer pessoa sobre qualquer assunto faz com que pare\u00e7a acess\u00edvel e ador\u00e1vel, por isso nunca mais o questione.<\/p>\n<h2>4. Ser desastrado<\/h2>\n<p>Girl\u2026 if I had a middle name, it would be \u2018klutz\u2019!<\/p>\n<p>Juro por Deus!<\/p>\n<p>Give me a tray and I\u2019ll accidentally knock it over.<\/p>\n<p>Ask me to hold your beer and I\u2019ll probably spill it.<\/p>\n<p>I\u2019ve come to embrace the fact that I\u2019m simply not the person to be in charge of anything breakable.<\/p>\n<p>Mas adivinha que mais?<\/p>\n<p>Esta minha qualidade peculiar \u00e9 um in\u00edcio de conversa MUITO divertido.<\/p>\n<p>When I start sharing about my little clumsy \u2018adventures\u2019 there isn\u2019t a dry eye in the house from crying with laughter!<\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s what makes me human and instead of fighting it, I\u2019ve embraced it.<\/p>\n<p>If you\u2019re a klutz like myself, find the fun side of it.<\/p>\n<p>Ser capaz de se rir de si pr\u00f3prio.<\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s not an actual flaw, it\u2019s simply a funny part of you that makes for a great topic of conversation and people are naturally drawn to those they can relate to!<\/p>\n<h2>5. A tua honestidade brutal<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-46993\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/shutterstock_3076261221.jpg\" alt=\"casal a conversar\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/shutterstock_3076261221.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/shutterstock_3076261221-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/shutterstock_3076261221-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Nunca se desculpem por serem verdadeiros e nunca deixem que ningu\u00e9m vos fa\u00e7a sentir mal por isso.<\/p>\n<p>Num mundo cheio de <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/relationship\/finalmente-a-afastar-se-manipulador-toxico\/\">manipuladores t\u00f3xicos<\/a> and deceitful jerks, it\u2019s refreshing to meet a person who will always tell you how it is!<\/p>\n<p>Aposto que os teus amigos adoram ouvir a tua honestidade refrescante.<\/p>\n<p>I bet it makes them feel like there\u2019s at least one person out there who will tell them they are about to do something really shitty and face them with the facts.<\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s not a flaw, it\u2019s actually an admirable trait!<\/p>\n<p>Don\u2019t let people make you feel otherwise.<\/p>\n<p>If somebody can\u2019t handle your truth, it means they don\u2019t deserve it and that\u2019s it.<\/p>\n<p>Garanto que aqueles que te s\u00e3o pr\u00f3ximos est\u00e3o extremamente gratos por te terem por perto.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-large wp-image-46989\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/organized-by-St.-Jude-Chapel109-724x1024.jpg\" alt=\"5 &quot;defeitos&quot; que na verdade te tornam mais ador\u00e1vel\" width=\"724\" height=\"1024\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/organized-by-St.-Jude-Chapel109-724x1024.jpg 724w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/organized-by-St.-Jude-Chapel109-212x300.jpg 212w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/organized-by-St.-Jude-Chapel109-768x1086.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/organized-by-St.-Jude-Chapel109.jpg 1414w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 724px) 100vw, 724px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I\u2019m sure that there isn\u2019t a girl out there who hasn\u2019t been insecure about a flaw (or three!), am I right? As humans, we are all born imperfect (yet perfectly enough for the right person) and therefore, striving for a flawless existence really seems pointless. If you didn\u2019t have your little \u2018flaws\u2019, you would never&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":22,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29644],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-46985","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-self-love"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29644,"label":"self-love"}]},"featured_image_src_large":false,"author_info":{"display_name":"Tina Navarro","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/tatiana\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29644,"name":"self-love","slug":"self-love","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29644,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Self-love is not an option but a necessity. 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