{"id":47033,"date":"2020-11-11T18:12:13","date_gmt":"2020-11-11T18:12:13","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=47033"},"modified":"2021-10-29T15:36:57","modified_gmt":"2021-10-29T15:36:57","slug":"6-razoes-obscuras-pelas-quais-o-seu-ex-narcisista-quer-continuar-a-ser-seu-amigo","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/6-razoes-obscuras-pelas-quais-o-seu-ex-narcisista-quer-continuar-a-ser-seu-amigo\/","title":{"rendered":"6 raz\u00f5es obscuras pelas quais o seu ex narcisista quer continuar a ser seu amigo"},"content":{"rendered":"

Ele quer usar-te para os seus jogos doentios<\/h2>\n

\"casal<\/p>\n

Mesmo que o teu ex narcisista <\/a>j\u00e1 n\u00e3o faz parte da sua vida, ele far\u00e1 tudo o que estiver ao seu alcance para estar perto de si.<\/p>\n

You see, you may have ended your relationship but he doesn\u2019t accept that. <\/p>\n

He doesn\u2019t accept the fact that you are no longer his victim he will use as he wants.<\/p>\n

He can\u2019t cope with the fact that he can\u2019t suck all your energy out and make you feel miserable just so he could feel better. He can\u2019t accept that you decided to move on. <\/p>\n

That\u2019s why he will act like a person you don\u2019t recognize just to crawl back to you. Since he is good at psychology, he won\u2019t do it right away.<\/p>\n

Ele deixa-te durante alguns dias para que comeces a pensar mais nele. <\/p>\n

E quando est\u00e1s mais vulner\u00e1vel, quando est\u00e1s sozinha a meio da noite, ele manda-te uma mensagem a dizer que tem saudades tuas.<\/p>\n

Ele inventar\u00e1 uma hist\u00f3ria t\u00e3o triste que a sua alma emp\u00e1tica provavelmente cair\u00e1 nela. <\/p>\n

But what he is doing is just leading you on and getting what he wants. He doesn\u2019t want to love you, he wants to suck you dry and once he finishes with you, just move on to another victim. <\/p>\n

He can\u2019t stand the fact that YOU ended the relationship <\/h2>\n

\"casal<\/p>\n

Ele foi sempre o dominador na vossa rela\u00e7\u00e3o, enquanto voc\u00eas obedeciam a todas as suas regras.<\/p>\n

Your voice couldn\u2019t be heard and you did exactly what he wanted. <\/p>\n

Eras tudo o que ele queria que fosses mas, de repente, algo mudou. Decidiu p\u00f4r um ponto final na vossa rela\u00e7\u00e3o. <\/p>\n

Acordaste de um sonho e recusaste ser maltratada pelo homem que mais amavas.<\/p>\n

Arruinaste todos os planos dele ao deix\u00e1-lo e essa \u00e9 a principal raz\u00e3o pela qual ele te vai perseguir sempre. <\/p>\n

He won\u2019t give you any peace because he has nobody to abuse anymore.<\/p>\n

Feriu o ego dele, o que \u00e9 mais importante para ele, e isso \u00e9 algo que ele nunca lhe perdoar\u00e1. <\/p>\n

That\u2019s why he will always be there, wherever you go. He will try to do everything in his power to ruin your life just because things didn\u2019t work out like he wanted.<\/p>\n

So, when he comes and tells you he wants to be your friend, don\u2019t buy it. <\/p>\n

Please don\u2019t buy it because giving him a chance to be close to you again is like giving him another bullet to kill you because he missed the first time. <\/p>\n

Ele quer manter-te por perto para poder acabar contigo<\/h2>\n

\"casal<\/p>\n

Se terminar uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o com um narcisista, \u00e9 prov\u00e1vel que ele a persiga mais tarde.<\/p>\n

You see, he can\u2019t stand the fact that you got all that power all of a sudden and that you decided to assert yourself with him. <\/p>\n

Ele era o mais forte na vossa rela\u00e7\u00e3o, enquanto que tu eras a submissa. Mas tu mudaste e isso aconteceu sem a aprova\u00e7\u00e3o dele. <\/p>\n

And surprising him in this way is definitely not what he wanted. That\u2019s why he will do anything to stay friends with you.<\/p>\n

Se continuar a ser teu amigo, ele ter\u00e1 mais uma oportunidade para te magoar. <\/p>\n

Ele ter\u00e1 outra oportunidade de vos fazer uma lavagem cerebral e, se for suficientemente bom, acreditar\u00e3o nele.<\/p>\n

Se ele agir bem, voltar\u00e1 para ele e sofrer\u00e1 de novo. Se ele te contar as mentiras perfeitas, tudo voltar\u00e1 a ser como dantes. <\/p>\n

That\u2019s why you shouldn\u2019t let him come close to you. You shouldn\u2019t believe what he has to say.<\/p>\n

You should run as soon as you see him because he won\u2019t waste any time. <\/p>\n

Ele vai agir rapidamente. Aproveitar\u00e1 cada momento para vos enganar. Tentar\u00e1 agarrar-te com as suas garras mais uma vez.<\/p>\n

Please be strong and don\u2019t let that happen. <\/p>\n

He can\u2019t stand seeing you be happy <\/h2>\n

\"Jovem<\/p>\n

Your narcissistic ex can\u2019t stand seeing you be happy without him. He knows that you will recover with your friends and that you will forget all about him. <\/p>\n

That\u2019s why he will use every single moment to be close to you so he can brainwash you again.<\/p>\n

Ele dir-te-\u00e1 algo doce, algo que ele sabe que te vai apaixonar, para te conquistar de novo. <\/p>\n

No in\u00edcio, vai parecer que mudou, mas se lhe der outra oportunidade, ele vai continuar de onde parou.<\/p>\n

Ele vai us\u00e1-la e abusar de si assim que vir que lhe deu novamente todo o controlo. <\/p>\n

That\u2019s why you should be persistent and not allow him to come into your life again.<\/p>\n

Ele arruinou a tua vida uma vez e f\u00e1-lo-\u00e1 de novo se o deixares. <\/p>\n

Por isso, fa\u00e7as o que fizeres, afasta-te dele e concentra-te na tua cura. A sua \u00fanica forma de salva\u00e7\u00e3o \u00e9 estar o mais longe poss\u00edvel dele. <\/p>\n

Ele quer ter acesso sexual <\/h2>\n

\"Casal<\/p>\n

Outra raz\u00e3o pela qual o seu ex narcisista quer que sejam amigos \u00e9 porque ele quer ter acesso sexual.<\/p>\n

Se continuar a ser seu amigo<\/a>Se ele n\u00e3o se importa, vai acabar por aproveitar a situa\u00e7\u00e3o para tentar dormir consigo. <\/p>\n

And that is definitely not what you need right now. After you have gained the strength to walk away from him, don\u2019t ruin everything by going back to him and his abuso narc\u00edsico<\/a> t\u00e1cticas. <\/p>\n

Ele vai apenas usar-te e deitar-te fora, tal como fez da \u00faltima vez.<\/p>\n

Acabar\u00e1s com o cora\u00e7\u00e3o partido, sem saber o que fazer a seguir. A sua cabe\u00e7a vai estar uma confus\u00e3o e vai arrepender-se tanto de ter voltado para ele. <\/p>\n

That\u2019s why you shouldn\u2019t accept his invitation, no matter how cute or sweet he might be. Don\u2019t give him boyfriend benefits if he is not your boyfriend. <\/p>\n

Because once you enter that hell again, you won\u2019t be able to come out of it. Stay strong and don\u2019t go back to him anymore.<\/p>\n

Confia em mim, \u00e9 a melhor maneira.  <\/p>\n

Ele quer voltar a ter controlo sobre ti <\/h2>\n

\"homem<\/p>\n

Ele j\u00e1 teve controlo sobre ti e sentiu-se todo-poderoso. Mas quando o deixaste, o mundo dele desmoronou-se.<\/p>\n

He couldn\u2019t believe you were strong enough to do something like that. <\/p>\n

Mas tu fizeste-o e ele \u00e9 como um lobo ferido, a lamber as feridas e a tentar arranjar um plano para te reconquistar.<\/p>\n

Because he doesn\u2019t miss you, he misses having control over you. <\/p>\n

O seu dist\u00farbio de personalidade torna imposs\u00edvel que ele aja como uma pessoa normal.<\/p>\n

Ele precisa de magoar algu\u00e9m para se sentir bem. <\/p>\n

E a maneira mais f\u00e1cil foi magoar-te, a ti que o amou at\u00e9 \u00e0 lua e de volta. Ele tinha todo o controlo que queria e quer t\u00ea-lo de volta. <\/p>\n

That\u2019s why he will try to use any means necessary to win you over again.<\/p>\n

He will tell you that he has changed and that he will treat you better. He will lie that he loves you and that he doesn\u2019t want to lose you. <\/p>\n

But the real truth is that he is just trying to find a good way to sneak back into your life again so he can abuse you both mentally and physically. Please don\u2019t let him get away with this and stay away from him.<\/p>\n

D\u00ea a si pr\u00f3pria uma oportunidade para uma nova vida e esque\u00e7a-o. <\/p>\n

Outra pessoa saber\u00e1 valorizar todo o amor e afeto que tem. Outra pessoa vai amar-te como o teu ex nunca soube amar.<\/p>\n

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