{"id":47054,"date":"2019-11-11T20:38:07","date_gmt":"2019-11-11T20:38:07","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=47054"},"modified":"2022-02-26T11:39:02","modified_gmt":"2022-02-26T11:39:02","slug":"7-lembretes-de-poder-para-uma-rapariga-que-esta-a-recuperar-de-uma-separacao-toxica","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/7-lembretes-de-poder-para-uma-rapariga-que-esta-a-recuperar-de-uma-separacao-toxica\/","title":{"rendered":"7 Lembretes de poder para uma rapariga que est\u00e1 a curar-se de uma separa\u00e7\u00e3o t\u00f3xica"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Terminou uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o pouco saud\u00e1vel num passado recente? <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Are you in the middle of the recovery process? In the middle of an emotional crisis from which you think you\u2019ll never manage to get out?<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Well, you\u2019ve come to the right place because you\u2019re about to read some of the most important reminders <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/5-coisas-que-todas-as-raparigas-que-estao-a-passar-por-uma-separacao-devem-ouvir\/\">que todas as raparigas que est\u00e3o a passar por uma separa\u00e7\u00e3o dif\u00edcil deviam ouvir.<\/a><\/span><\/p>\n<h2>1. It\u2019s NOT your fault<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-47055\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/shutterstock_129090704.jpg\" alt=\"Grande plano do perfil de uma mulher bonita\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/shutterstock_129090704.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/shutterstock_129090704-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/shutterstock_129090704-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Honey, no matter what he might be telling you, you\u2019re not to blame for this. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">You gave your best to the man who didn\u2019t see it as enough and you tried your hardest to repair a relationship that was <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/relationship\/ela-esta-farta-de-se-esforcar-numa-relacao-que-esta-condenada-ao-fracasso\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">condenado ao fracasso<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">You\u2019re not stupid and you\u2019re not a fool. You were just a girl standing in front of a boy, asking him to love her.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">E n\u00e3o h\u00e1 nada de vergonhoso e humilhante nisso.<\/span><\/p>\n<h2>2. You\u2019re not alone<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-47056\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/shutterstock_594029558.jpg\" alt=\"Duas mulheres abra\u00e7am-se para consolar\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/shutterstock_594029558.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/shutterstock_594029558-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/shutterstock_594029558-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Let me tell you that almost every woman has been through all of the things you\u2019re going through.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Millions and millions of girls have fought the same battle you\u2019re fighting right now and experienced the same pain you\u2019re feeling.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">You\u2019re not alone in your suffering. You have your friends and your family. You have the people who truly love you and&nbsp; will help you.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Most importantly \u2013 you have yourself. You have a bright future and a better tomorrow that awaits you.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Tens o teu cora\u00e7\u00e3o carinhoso e gentil que te mostrar\u00e1 sempre o caminho. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Tens a tua f\u00e9 e tens Deus a segurar-te a m\u00e3o e a guiar-te.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">E que mais pode uma rapariga querer?<\/span><\/p>\n<h2>3. Perder este tipo foi a melhor coisa que te aconteceu<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-47057\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/shutterstock_585722153.jpg\" alt=\"Retrato de uma mulher de neg\u00f3cios no escrit\u00f3rio, de p\u00e9 junto a uma janela \" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/shutterstock_585722153.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/shutterstock_585722153-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/shutterstock_585722153-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Eu sei que, neste momento, v\u00eas esta separa\u00e7\u00e3o como a maior trag\u00e9dia da tua vida. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">You\u2019re convinced that this overwhelming pain will never end and you\u2019ll never recover.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Neste momento, v\u00ea a perda deste homem como a pior coisa que lhe poderia acontecer. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Well, I promise you that in no time, you\u2019ll realize that it was actually the best.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">You\u2019ll understand that this was not a curse but a <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/life\/para-a-rapariga-que-precisa-de-compreender-que-todas-as-suas-dificuldades-sao-na-verdade-bencaos\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">uma b\u00ean\u00e7\u00e3o disfar\u00e7ada<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Que este foi o momento mais feliz da sua vida e que deve estar grato por isso.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Don\u2019t think that I\u2019m telling you all of this just to comfort you.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">You don\u2019t have to trust me, but everything does happen for a reason and for some bigger cause, and time will show you that this man leaving your life is for your own good.<\/span><\/p>\n<h2>4. It\u2019s better to be single than with the wrong man<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-47058\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/shutterstock_261683597.jpg\" alt=\"Mulher loira feliz\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/shutterstock_261683597.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/shutterstock_261683597-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/shutterstock_261683597-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">You might see this as an empty phrase, but the truth is you\u2019re way better off single than beside a toxic man who keeps dragging you down to his level. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">It\u2019s always better to be alone than with someone who isn\u2019t cut out for you.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">So, instead of lamenting the fact that you\u2019re no longer a part of a couple, embrace your single life and make the best out of it.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> Sim, acertou em cheio: ser solteiro pode ser o melhor per\u00edodo da sua vida, se decidir encar\u00e1-lo dessa forma.<\/span><\/p>\n<h2>5. He\u2019ll be sorry<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-47059\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/shutterstock_105196565.jpg\" alt=\"Retrato de um jovem de fato sentado num caminho de ferro\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/shutterstock_105196565.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/shutterstock_105196565-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/shutterstock_105196565-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Trust me when I tell you one thing: this guy will regret all he\u2019s done to you. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Sooner or later, he\u2019ll try to come crawling back into your life, begging for your forgiveness and asking fora second chance.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">It doesn\u2019t matter if you\u2019re into revenge or not, I bet it is nice to know that one day, someone who broke your heart will feel everything you felt. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">That he\u2019ll cry the same tears you cried because of him and <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/mensagens\/letters-for-him\/one-day-will-sorry-letting-go\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">he\u2019ll be sorry<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> once he sees that he can\u2019t have you back.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Because he\u2019s the one who needed you. He\u2019s the one who lost a lot while losing you.<\/span><\/p>\n<h2>6. Sobreviver\u00e1s<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-47060\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/shutterstock_1504312505.jpg\" alt=\"mulher sorridente e atraente com cabelo comprido a caminhar num dia de sol numa cidade de outono, vestindo um fato azul sexy, estilo moda de rua\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/shutterstock_1504312505.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/shutterstock_1504312505-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/shutterstock_1504312505-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">No matter the hell you\u2019re going through right now, tomorrow morning, the sun will shine \u2013 I can guarantee you that. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">No matter the despair you\u2019re feeling, the light at the end of the tunnel always exists, even if you don\u2019t see it.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Basically, what I\u2019m trying to tell you is that you will survive. This will pass and you\u2019ll make it on your own.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">You will move on from your previous relationship, you will get over your toxic ex, you will stop loving him, you will forgive him for all the harm he\u2019s done, and you will forget him.<\/span><\/p>\n<h2>7. E ser mais forte do que nunca<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-47061\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/shutterstock_1504312514.jpg\" alt=\"mulher rica e luxuosa, vestida com um elegante fato azul, a passear na cidade num dia solarengo de outono, segurando uma mala, tend\u00eancia da moda \" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/shutterstock_1504312514.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/shutterstock_1504312514-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/shutterstock_1504312514-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Not only that \u2013 this experience will change you forever and in a good way. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">You\u2019ll never again be the weak, vulnerable girl who got hurt so easily, and your heart will no longer be as fragile as it used to be.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">After learning some painful yet valuable lessons, you\u2019ll grow to become a strong woman who isn\u2019t afraid of anything. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">E essa ser\u00e1 a vossa maior vit\u00f3ria.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-large wp-image-47063\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/herway.net-6-683x1024.jpg\" alt=\"7 Lembretes de poder para uma rapariga que est\u00e1 a curar-se de uma separa\u00e7\u00e3o t\u00f3xica\" width=\"683\" height=\"1024\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/herway.net-6-683x1024.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/herway.net-6-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/herway.net-6.jpg 735w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 683px) 100vw, 683px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Have you ended an unhealthy relationship any time in the recent past? Are you in the middle of the recovery process? In the middle of an emotional crisis from which you think you\u2019ll never manage to get out? 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