{"id":47078,"date":"2019-11-11T20:59:59","date_gmt":"2019-11-11T20:59:59","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=47078"},"modified":"2021-08-11T08:59:36","modified_gmt":"2021-08-11T08:59:36","slug":"ao-homem-que-apareceu-quando-eu-nao-estava-a-olhar","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/ao-homem-que-apareceu-quando-eu-nao-estava-a-olhar\/","title":{"rendered":"Para o homem que apareceu quando eu n\u00e3o estava a olhar"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">My walls were up, I wasn\u2019t about to let anyone in ever again. I was so hurt and so broken in the past that I swear I couldn\u2019t handle one more crappy relationship.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Por vezes, a solid\u00e3o afectava-me, mas no fundo eu sabia que estava melhor sozinha. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">I rebuilt my life brick by brick. In my mind, a new relationship was out of the question. It didn\u2019t fit in with my new and improved life.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><b>Because of my exes, the idea of being in a relationship was connected with hurt. They really did a number on me, didn\u2019t they?&nbsp;<\/b><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">But that\u2019s beside the point now. What matters is that you knew how to approach me. You found the way to get close to me, to my heart and soul.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">We started out as friends. Hanging out, sharing stories of each other\u2019s lives; we bragged about our accomplishments and laughed through our embarrassments.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">You were always there, you always wanted to spend time with me. If we hadn\u2019t <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/amor\/romantic-love-messages-for-him-and-her\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">ouviram falar uns dos outros<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> durante todo o dia, algo parecia estranho.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Nem nos meus sonhos mais loucos pensei que algo resultaria disso. Eras meu amigo, um dos melhores.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><b>Entraste na minha vida, contornando em bicos de p\u00e9s as paredes do meu cora\u00e7\u00e3o, e elas come\u00e7aram a cair, lenta mas seguramente.&nbsp;<\/b><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-47079\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/shutterstock_755719375.jpg\" alt=\"Casal rom\u00e2ntico apaixonado, de camisola, passa algum tempo juntos em casa antes do Ano Novo. Casal terno abra\u00e7ado no fundo de uma grinalda brilhante.\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/shutterstock_755719375.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/shutterstock_755719375-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/shutterstock_755719375-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Estava a apaixonar-me por ti quando n\u00e3o tinha inten\u00e7\u00e3o de me apaixonar por ningu\u00e9m. Aconteceu naturalmente, sem esfor\u00e7o. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Como sempre disseram que o amor deveria ser. Diferente de tudo o que eu j\u00e1 tive antes.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Because of you, I started believing in that clich\u00e9, that \u2018love finds you when you aren\u2019t looking\u2019. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Eu costumava revirar os olhos quando o ouvia e essa era sempre a \u00fanica verdade.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><b>Parece que enquanto eu estava ocupada a descobrir-me a mim pr\u00f3pria, o amor encontrou-me.&nbsp;<\/b><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Enquanto eu estava concentrado nos meus amigos, fam\u00edlia, vida, trabalho, interesses e em tornar-me uma pessoa melhor, Deus decidiu que era o momento certo para me enviar algu\u00e9m como tu.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Algu\u00e9m genuinamente bom, digno de confian\u00e7a e leal. Algu\u00e9m verdadeiro depois de tudo o que \u00e9 falso na minha vida. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Algu\u00e9m que sabia o que queria e o que tu querias era eu.&nbsp;&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><b>Apagaste todas as cicatrizes que eu tinha do passado e que pensava serem permanentes.&nbsp;<\/b><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">You taught me that you don\u2019t have to beg anyone to be in your life. When someone cares, they make an effort. Like you did.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">You made more effort than was necessary and it seemed like you didn&#8217;t have to think twice about it.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-47080\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/shutterstock_1021844050.jpg\" alt=\"Amor verdadeiro. Um belo e jovem casal a unir-se e a sorrir enquanto est\u00e1 sentado no quarto\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/shutterstock_1021844050.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/shutterstock_1021844050-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/shutterstock_1021844050-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Fizeste-me sentir segura e protegida. Fizeste-me sentir tua.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Estou verdadeiramente grato e compreendo agora porque \u00e9 que tudo teve de acontecer desta forma. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">I understand why it didn\u2019t work out with anyone before you came into my life.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><b>S\u00f3 h\u00e1 uma pessoa que pode ser a tua eternidade e s\u00f3 Deus a pode colocar na tua vida. S\u00f3 me apercebi disso quando Ele nos colocou juntos.&nbsp;<\/b><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">I could have saved myself a lot of heartache and pain if I had known that earlier. But I guess if we had met each other earlier, we wouldn\u2019t be ready for what we have now.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> We simply weren&#8217;t the same people. I know I wasn\u2019t the same a year ago, heck, even a few months ago.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Eu devia saber que <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/life\/confia-em-mim-deus-tem-sempre-um-plano\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Deus tem um plano<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> for me and that it\u2019s better than anything I could have imagined. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">I just want you to know how glad I am that you were His plan for me. I\u2019ll be grateful forever.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-large wp-image-47084\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/www.earworm.se_-683x1024.jpg\" alt=\"Para o homem que apareceu quando eu n\u00e3o estava a olhar\" width=\"683\" height=\"1024\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/www.earworm.se_-683x1024.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/www.earworm.se_-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/www.earworm.se_.jpg 735w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 683px) 100vw, 683px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>My walls were up, I wasn\u2019t about to let anyone in ever again. I was so hurt and so broken in the past that I swear I couldn\u2019t handle one more crappy relationship. The loneliness would get to me at times but I knew deep down that I was better off on my own. 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