{"id":47239,"date":"2020-10-12T21:34:28","date_gmt":"2020-10-12T21:34:28","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=47239"},"modified":"2021-08-11T11:35:34","modified_gmt":"2021-08-11T11:35:34","slug":"nunca-implores-a-um-homem-por-estas-10-coisas-que-mereces","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/nunca-implores-a-um-homem-por-estas-10-coisas-que-mereces\/","title":{"rendered":"Nunca implores a um homem por estas 10 coisas que mereces"},"content":{"rendered":"

J\u00e1 reparou que vivemos num mundo de pap\u00e9is invertidos? <\/span><\/p>\n

Os homens est\u00e3o a tornar-se cada vez mais passivos, apenas interessados em fazer-se de dif\u00edceis, enquanto n\u00f3s, mulheres, nos esfor\u00e7amos por manter viva a chama.<\/span><\/p>\n

As mulheres tornaram-se perseguidoras, iniciadoras, reparadoras e amantes, tudo num s\u00f3. <\/span><\/p>\n

We women often go out of our ways to meet selfish men’s needs without even questioning it. <\/span><\/p>\n

We do it because we’re too compassionate and too sensitive to other people’s pain and distress.<\/span><\/p>\n

And that is when we discover that we’ve gone too far in the journey of neglecting ourselves, our own needs and desires. <\/span><\/p>\n

That\u2019s when we realize that we should receive the same treatment in return without begging or asking for the things that we sure as hell deserve.<\/span><\/p>\n

We\u2019ve forgotten that we\u2019re the one who should be pursued and not the other way around. <\/span><\/p>\n

We\u2019ve turned a blind eye to the fact that it\u2019s neither normal nor ladylike to beg a man for something that should be a norm.<\/span><\/p>\n

We\u2019ve forsaken appreciation and respect for ourselves by tolerating other people\u2019s shitty behaviors.<\/span><\/p>\n

Nesse sentido, fa\u00e7a um favor a si pr\u00f3pria e nunca implore a um homem por estas 10 coisas que de certeza merece:<\/span><\/p>\n

Respeito<\/h2>\n

\"Est\u00e1<\/p>\n

 <\/p>\n

Antes de mais nada: <\/span>Nunca, mas nunca, implores a um homem que te trate com respeito!<\/b> Porqu\u00ea? <\/span><\/p>\n

Because by tolerating his shitty behavior, you\u2019re letting him know that you\u2019re okay with him <\/span>n\u00e3o o tratar bem<\/span><\/a> and appearing only when it\u2019s convenient.<\/span><\/p>\n

Mereces ser respeitada por seres quem \u00e9s e a tua opini\u00e3o \u00e9 importante! <\/span><\/p>\n

Mereces ser tratado da mesma forma que tratas os outros.<\/span><\/p>\n

Textos de reflex\u00e3o<\/h2>\n

\"Retrato<\/p>\n

 <\/p>\n

If he\u2019s not capable of constructing two to three meaningful sentences, you should never even reply to his texts. <\/span><\/p>\n

If he\u2019s not capable of remembering to send you good morning and <\/span>textos de boa noite<\/span><\/a>, then you know he\u2019s not worth a second of your time, let alone you begging for him to change.<\/span><\/p>\n

Cumprimentos<\/h2>\n

\"Jovem<\/p>\n

 <\/p>\n

Um verdadeiro homem presta muita aten\u00e7\u00e3o aos pormenores e faz um esfor\u00e7o para elogiar todas as pequenas e grandes mudan\u00e7as na sua mulher.<\/span><\/p>\n

Um verdadeiro homem d\u00e1 um elogio significativo e comovente porque sabe o quanto isso significa para a mulher que ama.<\/span><\/p>\n

That\u2019s why you should never beg for a man to do such a thing. <\/span><\/p>\n

If he\u2019s not interested in being your biggest support and a part of your life, you\u2019re better off without him anyway.<\/span><\/p>\n

Fazer de ti a sua prioridade<\/h2>\n

\"Casal<\/p>\n

 <\/p>\n

You should never let yourself be in a situation where you\u2019ve given all of your body and soul for a man who still has no decency to choose you and make you his priority. <\/span><\/p>\n

E nunca deves implorar a um homem assim para que mude ou comece a tratar-te como mereces.<\/span><\/p>\n

If he\u2019s not ready to make you his priority and show you how much you mean to him, it means he\u2019s not ready to be with you. <\/span><\/p>\n

E tu tens coisas mais importantes para fazer na vida do que lidar com rapazes imaturos que ainda t\u00eam de crescer.<\/span><\/p>\n

Cortar a ex da sua vida<\/h2>\n

\"um<\/p>\n

 <\/p>\n

If he has chosen you and is doing his best to prove to you that he\u2019s still not willing to let go of his past and cut his ex out of his life, you know you deserve better. <\/span><\/p>\n

You know you shouldn\u2019t wait a second more in letting him disrespect you and make you feel less worthy, because you didn\u2019t sign up for any of it.<\/span><\/p>\n

Ser fiel<\/h2>\n

\"um<\/p>\n

 <\/p>\n

Para um homem que se preocupa genuinamente com os seus sentimentos, manter-se fiel nunca ser\u00e1 question\u00e1vel. <\/span><\/p>\n

Ser fiel ser\u00e1 natural para um homem que a ama com todo o seu ser.<\/span><\/p>\n

Fidelity has become an expensive gift in today\u2019s modern world and you should never expect such a gift from cheap people. <\/span><\/p>\n

To be more exact, you should never beg cheap people to give you something so valuable because they\u2019re simply not capable of doing so.<\/span><\/p>\n

Aten\u00e7\u00e3o<\/h2>\n

\"um<\/p>\n

 <\/p>\n

Quando chega a casa do trabalho, ou quando acontece algo terr\u00edvel, nunca deve ter de implorar a um homem que a ou\u00e7a se ele pr\u00f3prio n\u00e3o estiver interessado em faz\u00ea-lo. <\/span><\/p>\n

He should be eager to pay close attention to you when you\u2019re upset, excited, sad, and happy. And if he\u2019s not, then you know he\u2019s a lost cause to you.<\/span><\/p>\n

Honestidade<\/h2>\n

\"um<\/p>\n

 <\/p>\n

Tal como a fidelidade, a honestidade \u00e9 outro presente caro que nunca se deve esperar de pessoas baratas. <\/span><\/p>\n

Nunca espere que um homem que \u00e9 ego\u00edsta, egoc\u00eantrico e t\u00f3xico por natureza seja honesto consigo. <\/span><\/p>\n

Never make excuses for such a man, because if he really cared about you, he\u2019d make damn sure to show it to you.<\/span><\/p>\n

Ver tamb\u00e9m: <\/span>N\u00e3o quero mais palavras doces e promessas vazias - quero honestidade e esfor\u00e7o<\/a><\/span><\/p>\n

Datas de planeamento<\/h2>\n

\"um<\/p>\n

 <\/p>\n

\u201cIt takes two to tango.\u201d \u201cIt takes two to fight for a relationship.\u201d Planning dates and keeping things exciting is not something only you should be worried about. <\/span><\/p>\n

If he\u2019s not even trying to arrange a romantic date and take you somewhere nice, then the only thing you should worry about is leaving him ASAP.<\/span><\/p>\n

Esfor\u00e7o<\/h2>\n

\"o<\/p>\n

 <\/p>\n

Real men don\u2019t make excuses because they\u2019re too busy with making efforts instead. <\/span><\/p>\n

S\u00f3 os verdadeiros homens sabem que fazer uma mulher sentir-se especial atrav\u00e9s de pequenos gestos rom\u00e2nticos e palavras doces vale um milh\u00e3o.<\/span><\/p>\n

And if he\u2019s not ready to lift a finger to make you feel respected, appreciated, loved, and secure \u2013without you telling him to do so \u2013 then you know he doesn\u2019t deserve anything from you.<\/span><\/p>\n

Ver tamb\u00e9m: <\/span>N\u00e3o te apaixones por ele a n\u00e3o ser que ele te trate exatamente assim<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n

 <\/p>\n

\"Nunca<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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