{"id":47253,"date":"2019-11-12T21:51:25","date_gmt":"2019-11-12T21:51:25","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=47253"},"modified":"2021-08-11T08:58:14","modified_gmt":"2021-08-11T08:58:14","slug":"um-gajo-que-faz-estas-5-coisas-nao-merece-uma-segunda-oportunidade","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/um-gajo-que-faz-estas-5-coisas-nao-merece-uma-segunda-oportunidade\/","title":{"rendered":"Um homem que faz estas 5 coisas n\u00e3o merece uma segunda oportunidade"},"content":{"rendered":"

As merdas acontecem, as rela\u00e7\u00f5es passam por prova\u00e7\u00f5es dolorosas e as pessoas cometem erros. <\/span><\/p>\n

That\u2019s the course of life. So it\u2019s really not the end of the world if your man has made a mistake or hurt you completely involuntarily.<\/span><\/p>\n

Estas coisas acontecem na vida, e aprender a esquecer e a seguir em frente \u00e9 a chave para uma vida bem sucedida, feliz e saud\u00e1vel.<\/span><\/p>\n

Quantas vezes j\u00e1 lhe aconteceu fazer algo de que se arrependeu completamente pouco tempo depois? <\/span><\/p>\n

How many times did you wish you could turn back time and not do a certain thing, but couldn\u2019t?<\/span><\/p>\n

That\u2019s what I\u2019m talking about here. <\/span><\/p>\n

H\u00e1 pessoas que cometem erros e sentem remorsos genu\u00ednos, o que significa que t\u00eam consci\u00eancia de como o magoaram profundamente e de como est\u00e3o genuinamente arrependidas.<\/span><\/p>\n

E essas pessoas s\u00e3o merecedoras de <\/span>uma segunda oportunidade<\/span><\/a>.<\/span><\/p>\n

But there are some people in this world who are the exact opposite. People who\u2019ll do you wrong and not feel sorry.<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n

Pessoas que nos magoam profundamente e que nos fazem sentir como se tiv\u00e9ssemos merecido. <\/span><\/i><\/p>\n

Pessoas que nos fazem sentir culpados pelo seu comportamento merdoso e egoc\u00eantrico.<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n

Those people are toxic, manipulative sociopaths, and they for sure don\u2019t deserve a second chance to ruin your life.<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n

Watch out for these assholes in disguise. Learn to read between the lines. Don\u2019t buy into their \u2018\u2019sorry\u2019\u2019, knowing they actually don\u2019t give a shit about what they did.<\/span><\/p>\n

If you\u2019ve got a guy who keeps doing these 5 things, be sure that he doesn\u2019t deserve a second chance. <\/span><\/p>\n

A \u00fanica coisa que ele deve receber de ti s\u00e3o as direc\u00e7\u00f5es para a tua porta e um adeus para toda a vida!<\/span><\/p>\n

1. Nunca assume a responsabilidade pelos seus actos<\/span><\/h2>\n

\"Mulher<\/p>\n

This guy refuses to own up to any of his shit. In his mind he\u2019s faultless, and any shit he\u2019s ever done to you \u2013 you had it coming.<\/span><\/p>\n

He has a justification for every misdoing, and his charming, convincing personality actually makes you feel like what he\u2019s saying is true\u2014like you DID bring it upon yourself.<\/span><\/p>\n

But guess what? No, you didn\u2019t. If you were at fault in any way, you\u2019d know it and own up to it. <\/span><\/p>\n

Ele \u00e9 <\/span>um manipulador t\u00f3xico<\/span><\/a>e tu devias abrir os olhos e ver atrav\u00e9s das suas mentiras!<\/span><\/p>\n

2. He NEVER says he\u2019s sorry<\/span><\/h2>\n

\"homem<\/p>\n

This is a red flag you can see from a mile away. Being able to say you\u2019re sorry is necessary to function properly in society, let alone in a committed relationship!<\/span><\/p>\n

Se ele nunca diz isso, sabes o qu\u00e3o narcisista isso o torna? Quem \u00e9 que neste mundo nunca cometeu um erro? <\/span><\/p>\n

Who in this world never did anything wrong? Yeah, there\u2019s no such thing!<\/span><\/p>\n

So if your guy can\u2019t apologize when an apology is due, cut him loose! <\/span><\/p>\n

It\u2019s difficult to comprehend the level of narcissism one must reach to think of oneself as flawless, but one thing\u2019s for sure. You don\u2019t want to be anywhere near that.<\/span><\/p>\n

3. Ele nunca deixa de mencionar todos os teus defeitos<\/span><\/h2>\n

\"Casal<\/p>\n

A guy who keeps pointing out your flaws whenever he\u2019s caught red-handed is the ULTIMATE scumbag. Steer clear.<\/span><\/p>\n

Don\u2019t be near a man who so selfishly turns it all back to you once he has no escape plan. <\/span><\/p>\n

Don\u2019t be near a man who can stoop so low and hurt you as if you were nothing to him.<\/span><\/p>\n

You\u2019re human. You have feelings. Don\u2019t let him walk all over you. <\/span><\/p>\n

Isto \u00e9 uma indica\u00e7\u00e3o clara de qu\u00e3o baixo ele est\u00e1 disposto a descer e de qu\u00e3o pouco te aprecia, por isso retribui o favor e <\/span>deix\u00e1-lo ir.<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n

4. He doesn\u2019t make you feel good in your own skin<\/span><\/h2>\n

\"Em<\/p>\n

When you\u2019re near him\u2026 you just can\u2019t relax. You don\u2019t feel like your authentic self. <\/span><\/p>\n

He doesn\u2019t let you be <\/span>quem \u00e9s<\/span><\/a>, and if you even thought about just being your true, unedited self, you know he\u2019d scold you.<\/span><\/p>\n

He\u2019s not supportive of your actions. He doesn\u2019t make you want to be a better person. He makes you want to hide a part of yourself.<\/span><\/p>\n

All he does is diminish you as a human being, disses you when you speak your mind, and tries to mold you into who he wants you to be. It\u2019s uncomfortable, unnatural, and you don\u2019t like it.<\/span><\/p>\n

So don\u2019t even think about giving this ass of a human being a second chance to stomp all over you. <\/span><\/p>\n

You know you deserve much better, and you\u2019ll sure as hell find it!<\/span><\/p>\n

5. Ele invalida os seus sentimentos<\/span><\/h2>\n

\"Casal<\/p>\n

Qu\u00e3o doentio \u00e9 isto? Fazer uma pessoa sentir-se errada por ter certos sentimentos. <\/span><\/p>\n

Fazer com que a mulher dele se sinta inferior e in\u00fatil por exprimir os seus pensamentos e problemas. O que \u00e9 que ele lhe diz com isto?<\/span><\/p>\n

He tells you that your feelings don\u2019t matter. He tells you that you should keep whatever it is you feel to yourself, and let HIM take care of your needs. <\/span><\/p>\n

It\u2019s not enough that he\u2019s a narcissistic manipulator, now you can\u2019t even have feelings?<\/span><\/p>\n

Honey, don\u2019t let a guy tell you how to feel at any point in your life. <\/span><\/p>\n

Your emotions are your own, and you\u2019re NEVER wrong for feeling any type of way!<\/span><\/p>\n

Only a weak, insecure man would make you feel this way because it\u2019s his only way to control you. <\/span><\/p>\n

And I KNOW you\u2019re not the type of woman who will let this fly. <\/span><\/p>\n

Sente o que sentes e d\u00e1-lhe um pontap\u00e9 onde sabes, depois de lhe mostrares a porta. Adeus, rapaz!<\/span><\/p>\n

\"Um<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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