{"id":47313,"date":"2020-04-13T12:11:47","date_gmt":"2020-04-13T12:11:47","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=47313"},"modified":"2021-08-12T10:44:00","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T10:44:00","slug":"marido-dominante-10-maneiras-de-ser-o-alfa-no-seu-casamento","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/marido-dominante-10-maneiras-de-ser-o-alfa-no-seu-casamento\/","title":{"rendered":"Marido dominante: 10 maneiras de ser o alfa no seu casamento"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Quando se pesquisa no Google as palavras rela\u00e7\u00e3o D\/S (que significa <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/relationship\/regras-para-uma-relacao-dominante-submissa\/\">rela\u00e7\u00e3o dominante-submissa<\/a>), a primeira associa\u00e7\u00e3o que lhe ocorre \u00e9 provavelmente a de uma pessoa a dominar a outra no quarto.<\/p>\n<p>No entanto, o dom\u00ednio no casamento \u00e9 muito mais do que o dom\u00ednio debaixo dos len\u00e7\u00f3is.<\/p>\n<p>Na verdade, isso significa muitas coisas, mas o mais importante \u00e9 que uma pessoa na rela\u00e7\u00e3o tem mais controlo do que a outra.<\/p>\n<p>When we\u2019re talking about the dominant husband, it means that he is the one who is in charge, the one who makes all the decisions, and the one who is listened to.<\/p>\n<p>It means the husband wears the pants and is the head of the household\u2014just like it was in the old days; that his attitudes and points of view are respected and obeyed, without further questioning.<\/p>\n<p>However, a D\/S relationship is in no way an abusive relationship, and it doesn\u2019t mean that men get all the privileges.<\/p>\n<p>Em vez disso, \u00e9 um trabalho a tempo inteiro que acarreta mais responsabilidades do que se possa pensar.<\/p>\n<p>It means that the man is the provider, the protector, the one who takes care of the woman and of the entire family, and that he is the one who carries all the life\u2019s weight on his shoulders alone.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-82313 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/couple-in-love.jpg\" alt=\"casal apaixonado\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/couple-in-love.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/couple-in-love-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/couple-in-love-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>One of the famous dominant husband quotes says: \u201cA truly submissive woman is to be treasured, cherished, and protected for it is only she who can give a man the gift of dominance.\u201d\u2014Anne Decals.<\/p>\n<p>Contrary to feminist point of views, even today, more women than you might imagine would like to be submissive and dream of paying attention to their husband&#8217;s needs and making sure he is satisfied.<\/p>\n<p>Muitos procuram um parceiro de vida que tenha o que \u00e9 preciso para os dominar e que lhes permita ser um <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/relationship\/steps-to-becoming-a-submissive-wife\/\">esposa submissa<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>However, finding a dominant husband isn\u2019t all that easy because most modern men don\u2019t have the initiative and strength to take over the leadership position in their relationship.<\/p>\n<p>That is why numerous women ask themselves: \u201cHow to encourage my husband to be more dominant?<\/p>\n<p>Como \u00e9 que posso inspirar o meu homem a tornar-se no macho alfa de que preciso?<\/p>\n<p>What can I do to become a submissive wife and to make my man the dominant one?\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Bem, a resposta a estas perguntas encontra-se abaixo.<\/p>\n<p>If you\u2019re a woman who is looking for ways to transform her man into a strong, power figure, just push him into following this step-by-step guide to building a dominant personality.<\/p>\n<p><em><strong><span style=\"font-size: 18pt;\">Como se tornar um marido dominante<\/span><\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n<p>If you\u2019re a man looking for ways to gain control and dominance in your marriage, we have a solution for you!<\/p>\n<p>All you have to do is follow this beginner&#8217;s guide for becoming the alpha in your relationship.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Trabalhar a sua autoestima<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-82306 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/man-wearing-suit-standing-on-the-road.jpg\" alt=\"homem de fato parado na estrada\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/man-wearing-suit-standing-on-the-road.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/man-wearing-suit-standing-on-the-road-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/man-wearing-suit-standing-on-the-road-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/> &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp;&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>Ser um marido dominante significa muito mais do que ser o l\u00edder no seu casamento.<\/p>\n<p>\u00c9 muito mais do que ter um parceiro numa posi\u00e7\u00e3o submissa que faz o que voc\u00ea diz e segue todas as suas ordens.<\/p>\n<p>Em vez disso, este processo de se tornar um homem dominante inclui muitas coisas e a primeira delas \u00e9 a alta <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/life\/50-citacoes-inspiradoras-sobre-a-autoestima-para-aumentar-a-confianca-no-dia-a-dia\/\">autoestima<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>No, this doesn\u2019t mean that you necessarily have to turn into an egocentric, selfish asshole in order to take over the dominant role in your marriage.<\/p>\n<p>However, you can\u2019t expect your wife to admire you, trust you, and put her life into your hands if you\u2019re a guy who has no or little confidence.<\/p>\n<p>You can\u2019t expect her to believe in your skills and abilities if you don\u2019t have faith in yourself in the first place.<\/p>\n<p>Most importantly , you can\u2019t expect her to respect you until you start respecting yourself,, and you can\u2019t wait for her to start seeing you as an alpha male before you perceive yourself in that way.<\/p>\n<p>N\u00e3o vale a pena tentar construir uma personalidade dominante se deixar que as suas inseguran\u00e7as e medos levem a melhor sobre si.<\/p>\n<p>For example, if you are constantly worried that your wife might leave you for a younger and more handsome guy who earns more than you do, you\u2019ll project your fears on her, and she\u2019ll notice that you see yourself as not enough.<\/p>\n<p>Consequently, once she sees that you don\u2019t value yourself, she\u2019ll start questioning your worth, as well.<\/p>\n<p>After a while, you\u2019ll unwillingly convince her that she can really do better, and she\u2019ll go and look for that better.<\/p>\n<p>\u00c9 por isso que tem de come\u00e7ar a trabalhar a sua autoimagem antes de tudo o resto.<\/p>\n<p>You have to reprogram your brain into thinking that you\u2019re the strongest, most capable, and most valuable man in this world.<\/p>\n<p>Sim, se for necess\u00e1rio, tornar-se um pouco arrogante e convencido.<\/p>\n<p>Apesar de este n\u00e3o ser o tra\u00e7o de personalidade mais desej\u00e1vel, a verdade \u00e9 que a maioria das mulheres cai nessa armadilha, quer gostem de o admitir ou n\u00e3o.<\/p>\n<p>This is especially important when you\u2019re meeting a new girl. Show her that you have no doubt you\u2019ll win her over but that you won\u2019t humiliate yourself by begging her to be yours.<\/p>\n<p>When you go out, act like you own the room. Make her realize that you\u2019re perfectly aware of your numerous qualities and that there is nothing she could ever do to destroy your self-esteem.<\/p>\n<p>I won\u2019t lie to you\u2014not a single person is at the peak of their confidence at all times.<\/p>\n<p>However, the key is to pretend that you have faith in yourself, even when you don\u2019t.<\/p>\n<p>This doesn\u2019t mean you should invent another personality just to be more likeable to the girls.<\/p>\n<p>I\u2019m just advising you to mask your insecurities. Do your best to act like they don\u2019t exist when talking to the opposite sex, and with time, I assure you that they will really fade away.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Don\u2019t let her change you<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-82301 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/couple-lying-in-bed.jpg\" alt=\"casal deitado na cama\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/couple-lying-in-bed.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/couple-lying-in-bed-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/couple-lying-in-bed-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Let\u2019s face it\u2014when a woman enters a new relationship or gets married, she is likely to see it as a fresh project.<\/p>\n<p>Provavelmente, ela v\u00ea-o como um filho que deve educar: ensina-o a comportar-se e ajuda-o a tornar-se o homem dos seus sonhos.<\/p>\n<p>A maior parte dos homens aceita estas mudan\u00e7as sem sequer ter consci\u00eancia delas.<\/p>\n<p>After all, they\u2019re so crazy in love with their wives that they\u2019re ready to do whatever it takes just to make them happy.<\/p>\n<p>In fact, most husbands are convinced that the way to earning their better half\u2019s respect and love is through meeting her every demand.<\/p>\n<p>Nevertheless, what they don\u2019t know is that they\u2019re probably making the mistake of their lives and that behaving like this will never make them an <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/amor\/11-maneiras-de-conquistar-um-coracao-macho-alfa\/\">macho alfa<\/a>.&nbsp;&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>However, when you\u2019re a dominant man, you know who you are, and you\u2019re not ready to change your ways to please your woman (because that would mean that you\u2019re the submissive one).<\/p>\n<p>You make it very clear to her that you are not an immature boy she can play with and that you don\u2019t need a mother because you already have one.<\/p>\n<p>You show her that you\u2019re a fully formed individual who won\u2019t allow anyone reshaping him.<\/p>\n<p>N\u00e3o est\u00e1 disposto a mudar a sua maneira de ser e a fazer quaisquer diferen\u00e7as cruciais no \u00e2mago da sua personalidade s\u00f3 para ser mais simp\u00e1tico e am\u00e1vel para ela.<\/p>\n<p>After all, she always has the choice of accepting you for who you are or to leave if she thinks you\u2019re too much to handle.<\/p>\n<p>Ela tem a op\u00e7\u00e3o de amar o seu verdadeiro eu ou de sair por a\u00ed e encontrar um rapaz que se encaixe nos seus padr\u00f5es.<\/p>\n<p>Sei que, \u00e0 partida, esta abordagem parece demasiado arriscada.<\/p>\n<p>You might be scared that your wife will really walk away on you if you don\u2019t do as she tells you.<\/p>\n<p>However, I assure you that your fears don\u2019t have any solid ground.<\/p>\n<p>Not only won\u2019t she dump you, she will be impressed by the strength of your character and proud that she has a real man by her side.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Ser fisicamente mais forte<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-82312 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/young-successful-man.jpg\" alt=\"jovem bem sucedido\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/young-successful-man.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/young-successful-man-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/young-successful-man-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Let\u2019s face it\u2014physical appearance is the first thing we notice about everyone.<\/p>\n<p>Sabes como \u00e9 preciso sentirmo-nos atra\u00eddos por uma mulher antes de decidirmos avan\u00e7ar para ela?<\/p>\n<p>Bem, o sexo oposto \u00e9 o mesmo. E isto aplica-se especialmente quando se trata de dom\u00ednio.<\/p>\n<p>For a woman to see you as a dominant man, you have to show her that you\u2019re able to physically dominate her.<\/p>\n<p>I\u2019m not saying that you should ever think of having an <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/relationship\/5-maneiras-como-ela-mudou-depois-de-uma-relacao-emocionalmente-abusiva\/\">rela\u00e7\u00e3o abusiva<\/a> para mostrar a sua superioridade, porque isso \u00e9, sem d\u00favida, a coisa mais cobarde que um homem pode fazer.<\/p>\n<p>I\u2019m just telling you that you need to be physically stronger than her, so she can be able to perceive you as emotionally and mentally stronger as well.<\/p>\n<p>Of course, the best case scenario would be if you\u2019re already taller and physically bigger than your woman.<\/p>\n<p>Desta forma, os seus instintos prim\u00e1rios enviar-lhe-\u00e3o um sinal de que pode proteg\u00ea-la e de que ela pode confiar em si.<\/p>\n<p>However, if this is not already the case and if you\u2019re shorter than your wife (which is something you can\u2019t work on), there is still hope that one day, you will become a dominant man.<\/p>\n<p>Ainda assim, pode ser melhor e melhorar a sua apar\u00eancia. Antes de mais, v\u00e1 ao gin\u00e1sio e trabalhe os seus m\u00fasculos.<\/p>\n<p>Fa\u00e7a o seu melhor para desenvolver a sua for\u00e7a e certifique-se de que ela tamb\u00e9m se apercebe disso.<\/p>\n<p>Start with the little things: open a jar for her, always carry the bags when you\u2019re going grocery shopping, change her tire, and do other things which require physical strength.<\/p>\n<p>No in\u00edcio, ela pode sentir-se ofendida pelo facto de a considerar incapaz e pode at\u00e9 tentar fazer tudo isto sozinha, s\u00f3 para lhe mostrar que \u00e9 uma mulher independente e autossuficiente. <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/relationship\/nao-preciso-de-um-homem-para-resolver-os-meus-problemas-preciso-de-um-homem-que-nao-se-torne-um-problema\/\">doesn\u2019t need a man<\/a> para a ajudar.<\/p>\n<p>No entanto, isso n\u00e3o \u00e9 sinal de que deva desistir.<\/p>\n<p>Trust me\u2014before you know it, she\u2019ll slowly start perceiving you as a dominant man, and she\u2019ll subconsciously start taking over the submissive position and give you the dominant role in your marriage.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Ser dominante no quarto<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-82311 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/young-sexy-couple-cuddling-on-bed.jpg\" alt=\"jovem casal sexy a abra\u00e7ar-se na cama\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/young-sexy-couple-cuddling-on-bed.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/young-sexy-couple-cuddling-on-bed-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/young-sexy-couple-cuddling-on-bed-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>When they hear words like submissiveness, dominance,&nbsp; submissive positions, and D\/S relationship, alot of people connect it an abusive relationship where the man hits the woman and where she doesn\u2019t have a say in any decision making process or they connect it only with sex.<\/p>\n<p>Imaginam um casal casado a praticar BDSM, <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/life\/frases-de-conversa-porca\/\">conversa fiada<\/a>, other kinky stuff and remember the movie \u201cFifty Shades of Grey\u201d.<\/p>\n<p>Afinal de contas, \u00e9 para isto que aponta a maioria dos resultados no Google: BDSM e domina\u00e7\u00e3o debaixo dos len\u00e7\u00f3is.<\/p>\n<p>Even though this is in no way true\u2014because dominant relationship is much more than one person being subordinate in the bedroom\u2014sex is a crucial part of this type of arrangement as well.<\/p>\n<p>Por isso, se tenciona assumir um papel dominante no seu casamento, tem de assumir tamb\u00e9m um papel dominante na sua vida sexual.<\/p>\n<p>Tem de ser o parceiro ativo, aquele que dita as regras e que dita o ritmo.<\/p>\n<p>However, this is in no way a green light for you to do anything your submissive wife is not OK with because submissiveness doesn\u2019t equal rape.<\/p>\n<p>The fact that you\u2019re husband and wife is irrelevant, and just because you\u2019re a married couple, it doesn\u2019t mean that you have the right to do anything she doesn\u2019t feel like doing or that you are entitled to force her into having sex with you.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/relationship\/top-30-kinky-sex-ideas-for-reaching-ultimate-pleasure\/\">Ideias para sexo pervertido<\/a> s\u00e3o uma coisa, mas o abuso sexual \u00e9 algo completamente diferente, e deve ter sempre em mente que n\u00e3o deve ultrapassar essa linha.<\/p>\n<p>Remember that consent is always crucial and that you can\u2019t start doing anything without that.<\/p>\n<p>Having a dominant-submissive sex doesn\u2019t only mean BDSM and being cruel.<\/p>\n<p>It doesn\u2019t mean one side being a sadist and the other being a masochist, like you\u2019ve seen it in \u201c50 Shades Of Grey\u201d.<\/p>\n<p>O que significa ser dominante no quarto \u00e9 assumir o controlo.<\/p>\n<p>It means that you shouldn\u2019t ask your submissive wife if she wants to have sex, can you have a blowjob or even can you kiss her because that is a huge turn off.<\/p>\n<p>Em vez disso, pode incluir muita conversa porca antes da a\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/p>\n<p>You can tell her things like: \u201cI want you to wait for me in the bed completely naked; Prepare to be wetter than ever before; Come here and suck my dick right now!; You are not allowed to cum until I say so.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Naturalmente, o contacto visual e o tom de voz s\u00e3o importantes neste caso.<\/p>\n<p>You can\u2019t show her that you\u2019re scared of her rejection, and you need to act like you won\u2019t accept \u2018no\u2019 for an answer.<\/p>\n<p>Antes de mais, seja ele a iniciar o sexo. Al\u00e9m disso, se lhe apetecer mudar de posi\u00e7\u00e3o debaixo dos len\u00e7\u00f3is, fa\u00e7a-o de forma a vir\u00e1-la para o lado que quiser.<\/p>\n<p>N\u00e3o h\u00e1 nada de errado em puxar-lhe o cabelo ou bater-lhe.<\/p>\n<p>You can also put her hand behind her back or above her head, so she feels like you\u2019re in total control of everything that is about to happen.<\/p>\n<p>Nenhum destes conselhos deve causar qualquer tipo de dor f\u00edsica ao seu parceiro.<\/p>\n<p>Instead, they have a psychological effect which\u2014besides helping you <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/relationship\/10-regras-de-quarto-para-apimentar-a-sua-vida-sexual\/\">apimente a sua vida sexual<\/a>\u2014will help you become the dominant man you are.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Ser financeiramente est\u00e1vel<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-82309 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/smiling-man-wearing-blue-shirt-and-typing-on-laptop-in-office.jpg\" alt=\"homem sorridente com camisa azul e a escrever no computador port\u00e1til num escrit\u00f3rio\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/smiling-man-wearing-blue-shirt-and-typing-on-laptop-in-office.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/smiling-man-wearing-blue-shirt-and-typing-on-laptop-in-office-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/smiling-man-wearing-blue-shirt-and-typing-on-laptop-in-office-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Se quer ter uma mulher submissa, tem de a sustentar e isso inclui mostrar-lhe que pode confiar em si no que diz respeito a finan\u00e7as.<\/p>\n<p>It doesn\u2019t mean that a submissive wife has to necessarily quit her job or that she can&#8217;t work, but she needs to feel in the heart like you could maintain her if she ever decides to be a stay-at-home mum.<\/p>\n<p>This way, if she doesn&#8217;t have to worry about the money, she&#8217;ll spend more time paying attention to your needs and finding ways to please you.&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>Once a woman sees that you have a full-time job and that you\u2019re capable of keeping her fed and dressed, she\u2019ll be more willing to take over the submissive role which belongs to her.<\/p>\n<p>Don\u2019t get me wrong\u2014this doesn\u2019t mean you should <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/horoscope\/will-marry-according-zodiac-sign\/\">casar<\/a> um garimpeiro que s\u00f3 est\u00e1 interessado no seu dinheiro.<\/p>\n<p>On the contrary, girls don\u2019t actually look for a sugar daddy (despite what many people might think).<\/p>\n<p>They look for a mature man who invests in his career and who doesn\u2019t expect his woman to solve his financial problems.<\/p>\n<p>You don\u2019t have to even be a businessman or extremely successful in what you do.<\/p>\n<p>Just show her that you have a work ethic, that you\u2019re not lazy, and that you\u2019re capable of being the breadwinner of your family.<\/p>\n<p>Show her that you\u2019re not afraid of taking an extra job for example if it happens that you two run out of cash.<\/p>\n<p>Acima de tudo, mostre-lhe que pode dormir tranquilamente, sabendo que tudo ser\u00e1 tratado e que ela nunca acabar\u00e1 na rua enquanto o tiver a si.<\/p>\n<p>Comece por pagar sempre a conta quando sai, como um <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/relationship\/se-o-seu-homem-faz-estas-10-coisas-ele-e-um-verdadeiro-cavalheiro\/\">verdadeiro cavalheiro<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>Continue a organizar as finan\u00e7as da sua casa e a assumir a responsabilidade de fazer face \u00e0s despesas at\u00e9 ao fim do m\u00eas.<\/p>\n<p>Trust me\u2014this is not about the money.<\/p>\n<p>Trata-se de que a tua mulher submissa se sinta s\u00e3 e salva ao teu lado.<\/p>\n<p>It is about her listening to you when you say that you need to cut costs this month because she knows you\u2019re saying it for the good of both of you and because she knows you\u2019ve taken financial responsibility.<\/p>\n<p>Trata-se de ela o ver como uma figura dominante que est\u00e1 no comando de todos os aspectos da vida.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Ser respons\u00e1vel<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-82305 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/man-wearing-shirt-typing-on-laptop.jpg\" alt=\"homem de camisa a escrever no port\u00e1til\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/man-wearing-shirt-typing-on-laptop.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/man-wearing-shirt-typing-on-laptop-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/man-wearing-shirt-typing-on-laptop-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Outro aspeto crucial: nunca se pode tornar dominante sem assumir responsabilidades e ter capacidade de decis\u00e3o.<\/p>\n<p>You can\u2019t expect your wife to be a submissive woman if she sees you as an immature brat who needs her hand to guide him through life.<\/p>\n<p>No entanto, o que \u00e9 que significa realmente ser respons\u00e1vel? Significa que o seu <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/relationship\/pay-attention-to-his-deeds-not-to-his-words\/\">os actos t\u00eam de corresponder \u00e0s suas palavras<\/a>. Significa cumprir as suas promessas.<\/p>\n<p>Significa ter um car\u00e1cter firme. Significa n\u00e3o arranjar desculpas para os seus erros e n\u00e3o se justificar em todas as ocasi\u00f5es poss\u00edveis.<\/p>\n<p>Being responsible means standing behind everything you preach. It means taking responsibility for all the things you\u2019ve done wrong and trying to make them right.<\/p>\n<p>It means having a plan for the future and always knowing what you\u2019re doing.<\/p>\n<p>Significa atingir os seus objectivos e trabalhar arduamente para melhorar a sua vida.<\/p>\n<p>Significa saber empenhar-se e dedicar-se \u00e0s coisas que tem em mente.<\/p>\n<p>Significa aceitar todas as consequ\u00eancias dos seus actos. Significa ser um empres\u00e1rio respons\u00e1vel, um filho respons\u00e1vel, um pai respons\u00e1vel, um amigo respons\u00e1vel e um marido respons\u00e1vel.<\/p>\n<p>Significa ser um homem respons\u00e1vel e um ser humano respons\u00e1vel.<\/p>\n<p>Trust me\u2014these are all the qualities every woman admires and the things they look for in a life partner.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Ser decisivo<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-82307 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/mature-bearded-man.jpg\" alt=\"homem maduro com barba\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/mature-bearded-man.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/mature-bearded-man-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/mature-bearded-man-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Ao tentar reinventar-se como um homem dominante, as suas capacidades de tomada de decis\u00e3o s\u00e3o uma das primeiras coisas em que tem de trabalhar.<\/p>\n<p>Antes de mais, \u00e9 preciso saber o que se quer e n\u00e3o ter medo de o conseguir.<\/p>\n<p>Al\u00e9m disso, a tua mulher submissa tamb\u00e9m tem de estar plenamente consciente disso.<\/p>\n<p>She has to see that your decisions are always thoroughly thought through, that you\u2019re a wise and intelligent man who is not just led by the heart or by his impulse,s and that she\u2019ll never go wrong when she listens to you.<\/p>\n<p>She needs to know that your decisions are never spontaneous and that you know what you\u2019re doing at every given moment.<\/p>\n<p>That your point of view is rarely wrong and even if you make a mistake-that you\u2019ll be better and make things right, without her having to suffer any consequences whatsoever.<\/p>\n<p>Al\u00e9m disso, o que tamb\u00e9m \u00e9 importante \u00e9 que deixe claro que todas as suas decis\u00f5es s\u00e3o definitivas e que n\u00e3o h\u00e1 margem para as alterar.<\/p>\n<p>Whatever you\u2019re doing you\u2019re doing it for the good of the both of you, and your submissive wife shouldn\u2019t even try changing your mind or manipulating you to make a different decision regarding anything.<\/p>\n<p>Isto pode parecer cruel, mas tens de lhe mostrar que sabes o que \u00e9 melhor.<\/p>\n<p>Yes, at first you\u2019ll probably have to explain your moves to her, and she won\u2019t accept the fact that you\u2019re making all the decisions regarding your marriage.<\/p>\n<p>No entanto, quando ela vir que tem o que \u00e9 preciso e que tem a capacidade de <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/entertainment\/pode-dizer-que-o-lider-se-assemelha\/\">ser um l\u00edder<\/a>, she will be more than happy to not have to \u2018crack open her mind\u2019 about every little detail.&nbsp;&nbsp;<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Tornar-se o seu her\u00f3i<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-82310 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/wife-hand-husband-hugging-outside.jpg\" alt=\"mulher m\u00e3o marido abra\u00e7ando-se no exterior\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/wife-hand-husband-hugging-outside.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/wife-hand-husband-hugging-outside-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/wife-hand-husband-hugging-outside-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Quer gostem de o admitir ou n\u00e3o, a verdade \u00e9 que a maioria das mulheres tem necessidade de ser salva e que os homens t\u00eam necessidade de ser os seus salvadores, de uma forma ou de outra.<\/p>\n<p>Ever since they were little girls, they\u2019ve dreamt of their Prince Charming, coming on his white horse to their rescue.<\/p>\n<p>They\u2019ve dreamt of being Princesses who have a handsome and rich warrior next to them.<\/p>\n<p>Passavam dias a tentar p\u00f4r-se o mais bonitas poss\u00edvel para ele e esperavam pacientemente que ele voltasse para casa.<\/p>\n<p>Sim, isto \u00e9 um <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/amor\/nao-quero-um-conto-de-fadas-quero-a-realidade\/\">conto de fadas<\/a> e muitas coisas s\u00e3o diferentes quando se trata de encontros e casamentos modernos, mas ser\u00e1 que tudo isto est\u00e1 assim t\u00e3o longe da realidade?<\/p>\n<p>Aren\u2019t the Prince and Princess a married couple? Isn\u2019t it true that the Prince is the breadwinner?<\/p>\n<p>Isn\u2019t the Princess a submissive wife who waits for him to make the first move, to win her over.<\/p>\n<p>And to rescue her from all the evil? Don\u2019t the two of them become husband and wife and isn\u2019t the husband the alpha in their marriage?<\/p>\n<p>Isn\u2019t this ancient fabrication actually mirrored in today\u2019s dominant man?<\/p>\n<p>So, that is actually what you need to become in your wife\u2019s eyes if you want to be an alpha man: her hero.<\/p>\n<p>The one who will help her get out of all troubles life throws at her, the one who will be there to hold her hand while she\u2019s overcoming all her challenges and difficulties, and the one who will not only wipe away her tears but also make sure she never cries.<\/p>\n<p>Seja o seu her\u00f3i em todos os sentidos da palavra: a primeira pessoa a quem ela recorre quando precisa de prote\u00e7\u00e3o f\u00edsica, a pessoa a quem ela pede sempre conselhos e algu\u00e9m que, de alguma forma, consegue sempre aparecer no momento exato com uma varinha m\u00e1gica para resolver todos os seus problemas.<\/p>\n<p>Fa\u00e7a com que ela se sinta cuidada, seja a sua rocha e a sua for\u00e7a, e garanto-lhe que ela o deixar\u00e1 assumir a sua posi\u00e7\u00e3o dominante num instante.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\"> Mostre-lhe que pode confiar em si<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-82308 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/smiling-couple-looking-each-other-in-cafe.jpg\" alt=\"casal sorridente a olhar um para o outro num caf\u00e9\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/smiling-couple-looking-each-other-in-cafe.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/smiling-couple-looking-each-other-in-cafe-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/smiling-couple-looking-each-other-in-cafe-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Se uma pessoa \u00e9 o alfa de uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o, a outra tem de ter uma confian\u00e7a ilimitada nela.<\/p>\n<p>Isso significa que a sua mulher tem de acreditar em si e acreditar em si. Ela tem de ter a certeza da sua compet\u00eancia para ser o l\u00edder das vossas vidas.<\/p>\n<p>She can\u2019t doubt whether you\u2019ll make the right choice or whether you\u2019ll abandon her when she needs you the most.<\/p>\n<p>She has to know that you\u2019re trustworthy at all times and no matter what happens.<\/p>\n<p>That you don\u2019t chicken out at the first sign of trouble and that you won\u2019t turn your back on her.<\/p>\n<p>She has to see you as more than a lover\u2014you have to be this woman\u2019s <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/amor\/tudo-o-que-eu-realmente-quero-e-um-amante-que-seja-tambem-o-meu-melhor-amigo\/\">melhor amigo<\/a>anjo da guarda e protetor.<\/p>\n<p>However, you can\u2019t accomplish all of this by just asking her to trust you and put her life in your hand.<\/p>\n<p>Instead, you have to prove that you\u2019re worthy of this limitless trust you\u2019re demanding, and that is a process which takes time and doesn\u2019t happen overnight.<\/p>\n<p>Over time, you have to show your wife that you really are there for her, that you\u2019ll never do anything that might harm her, and that you would never, under no circumstances violate her trust.<\/p>\n<p>She needs to feel comfortable around you; she has to know that you won\u2019t ever judge her and that you\u2019ll always stand by her side in front of others.<\/p>\n<p>Ela precisa de ter a certeza de que pode revelar-lhe os seus segredos mais profundos sem receio de que os partilhe com mais algu\u00e9m.<\/p>\n<p>That you\u2019ll be honest about her errors in the privacy of your own home but that you\u2019ll always defend her in front of the world, no matter how powerful a force you have to stand up against.<\/p>\n<p>You have to show her you meant everything you said in your wedding wows: that you\u2019ll have her back through thick and thin, through sickness and health, and through good and bad days.<\/p>\n<p>Quando o conseguir, ela ver\u00e1 que merece realmente o papel de macho dominante.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Assumir o controlo<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-82360 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/couple-talking-in-living-room-1.jpg\" alt=\"casal a conversar na sala de estar\" width=\"800\" height=\"548\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/couple-talking-in-living-room-1.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/couple-talking-in-living-room-1-300x206.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/couple-talking-in-living-room-1-768x526.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>All of the steps mentioned above are of no use for you if you don\u2019t learn how to take charge in every moment of your marriage.<\/p>\n<p>\u00c9 claro que o mais importante \u00e9 desenvolver a capacidade de tomar decis\u00f5es r\u00e1pidas e inteligentes em momentos de risco, mas h\u00e1 centenas de outras situa\u00e7\u00f5es em que o facto de estar no comando tamb\u00e9m \u00e9 importante.<\/p>\n<p>For example, when you two are deciding about what to eat, don\u2019t wait an hour for her to pick what she feels like having. Instead, suggest something right away.<\/p>\n<p>However, don\u2019t tell her: \u201cWhat do you think about having pizza?\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Instead, just tell her \u201cWe\u2019ll have pizza.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Don\u2019t worry\u2014you\u2019re not endangering her in any way with this because she\u2019ll surely protest if that is something she doesn\u2019t like.<\/p>\n<p>Instead, you\u2019re just helping her decide and showing her that you\u2019re in control.<\/p>\n<p>When you\u2019re taking her out or buying her a birthday present, don\u2019t wait for her to tell you where she\u2019d like to go or what she\u2019d like to get.<\/p>\n<p>Em vez disso, surpreenda-a com uma mesa j\u00e1 reservada e com a compra de algo que sabe que ela gostaria de ter.<\/p>\n<p>O mesmo se aplica ao planeamento das suas f\u00e9rias, dos seus passatempos ou do seu tempo livre.<\/p>\n<p>Whatever you do, make sure she knows you&#8217;re serious about it and that your decisions are final.<\/p>\n<p>Seja sempre firme quando falar com ela e mantenha-se firme <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/amor\/o-que-significa-o-contacto-visual-prolongado-de-um-homem-para-uma-mulher\/\">contacto visual<\/a> because that will show her you\u2019re confident and secure.<\/p>\n<p>Ao fim de algum tempo, a sua mulher ver\u00e1 que \u00e9 voc\u00ea quem realmente usa as cal\u00e7as em casa.<\/p>\n<p>And guess what: she\u2019ll like it more than anything!<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-82303 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/Dominant-Husband-10-Ways-To-Be-The-Alpha-In-Your-Marriage-PInterest.jpg\" alt=\"Marido dominante: 10 maneiras de ser o alfa no seu casamento\" width=\"724\" height=\"1024\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/Dominant-Husband-10-Ways-To-Be-The-Alpha-In-Your-Marriage-PInterest.jpg 724w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/Dominant-Husband-10-Ways-To-Be-The-Alpha-In-Your-Marriage-PInterest-212x300.jpg 212w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 724px) 100vw, 724px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>When you google the words D\/S relationship (meaning dominant-submissive relationship), the first association you have is probably one person dominating the other in the bedroom. However, dominance in the marriage is much more than dominance under the sheets. It actually means a lot of things, but most importantly, that one person in the relationship has&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":25,"featured_media":82304,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29623],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-47313","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-marriage"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29623,"label":"marriage"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/Dominant-Husband-10-Ways-To-Be-The-Alpha-In-Your-Marriage.jpg",800,533,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Amy Nicholson","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/amy\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29623,"name":"marriage","slug":"marriage","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29623,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Establishing a happy marriage is not an easy task. 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