{"id":47353,"date":"2019-11-13T12:47:43","date_gmt":"2019-11-13T12:47:43","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=47353"},"modified":"2021-08-11T08:53:44","modified_gmt":"2021-08-11T08:53:44","slug":"a-lista-de-controlo-do-casal-que-pode-fazer-a-diferenca-na-sua-relacao","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/a-lista-de-controlo-do-casal-que-pode-fazer-a-diferenca-na-sua-relacao\/","title":{"rendered":"A lista de verifica\u00e7\u00e3o do casal que pode fazer ou desfazer a sua rela\u00e7\u00e3o"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>I\u2019ve got a really cool thing over here for all couples who\u2019d like to assess their relationship and see how much they actually &#8220;click&#8221;!<\/p>\n<p>\u00c9 certo que todos os casais s\u00e3o diferentes, mas a ess\u00eancia \u00e9 a mesma!<\/p>\n<p>H\u00e1 certas coisas e aspectos de uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o em que \u00e9 preciso estar em sintonia para que ela funcione.<\/p>\n<p>There\u2019s no going around it.<\/p>\n<p>And isn\u2019t it actually so cool being able to check all of these things off your list and figure out how compatible you two really are?<\/p>\n<p>Esta lista de verifica\u00e7\u00e3o de rela\u00e7\u00f5es tem honestamente o poder de fazer ou <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/fake-love\/relacao-toxica\/7-frases-que-os-psicopatas-e-manipuladores-usam-para-o-quebrar-numa-relacao\/\">quebrar-te<\/a>!<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-47358\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/shutterstock_12538901141.jpg\" alt=\"homem a pedir a namorada em casamento\" width=\"800\" height=\"450\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/shutterstock_12538901141.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/shutterstock_12538901141-300x169.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/shutterstock_12538901141-768x432.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>After carefully going through all these points, you\u2019ll either realize how great you and <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/relationship\/esta-realmente-a-ouvir-o-seu-parceiro\/\">o seu parceiro <\/a>est\u00e3o realmente juntos ou chegam \u00e0 conclus\u00e3o de que h\u00e1 certas coisas que precisam REALMENTE de ser trabalhadas na vossa rela\u00e7\u00e3o...<\/p>\n<p>Be warned \u2013 you\u2019re reading at your own risk!<\/p>\n<p>I\u2019m just joking\u2026 but honestly, what you find here might honestly affect your entire relationship.<\/p>\n<p>So be willing to work on it if that\u2019s what it takes. After all, that\u2019s the whole point!<\/p>\n<p><b>So\u2026 are you ready to see what you\u2019re made of?<\/b><\/p>\n<p><b> Three, two, one\u2026 let\u2019s go!<\/b><\/p>\n<h2>1. <i>Neither of you ever tries to change the other, but you\u2019re also completely comfortable voicing your strong opinions, no matter the outcome.<\/i><\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-47364\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/shutterstock_5209519481.jpg\" alt=\"mulher no cargo\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/shutterstock_5209519481.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/shutterstock_5209519481-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/shutterstock_5209519481-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Esta \u00e9 uma coisa muito importante a assinalar na vossa lista, porque mostra o vosso respeito m\u00fatuo, o vosso cuidado e a vossa capacidade de serem abertos, honestos e sinceros um com o outro.<\/p>\n<p>There\u2019s no walking on eggshells and speaking half-truths.<\/p>\n<p>You respect each other and wouldn\u2019t dream of changing anything about your partner.<\/p>\n<p>But when the need comes, you\u2019ll put your foot down and it won\u2019t be weird.<\/p>\n<h2><i>2.<\/i> <i>A vossa comunica\u00e7\u00e3o na rela\u00e7\u00e3o \u00e9 saud\u00e1vel, aberta e de confian\u00e7a, sem agressividade passiva e sem ataques subtis um ao outro.<\/i><\/h2>\n<p>Por vezes, a comunica\u00e7\u00e3o pode ser um verdadeiro desafio.<\/p>\n<p>Feelings get hurt and having strong urges to be passive-aggressive about it aren\u2019t uncommon.<\/p>\n<p>But with you two, it\u2019s not like that at all.<\/p>\n<p>Pode ser aberto, honesto e n\u00e3o se sentir constrangido em dizer as verdades mais duras.<\/p>\n<p>You don\u2019t try to diminish each other and you never take subtle digs.<\/p>\n<p>You say it like it is and you don\u2019t go to bed angry.<\/p>\n<p>What\u2019s bothering you is worked out on the same day and life truly is peaceful because of it.<\/p>\n<h2><em>3. Voc\u00eas lutam, tal como qualquer outro casal, mas com uma diferen\u00e7a vital. N\u00e3o h\u00e1 golpes baixos. Voc\u00eas lutam sempre de forma justa, com todas as cartas na mesa.<\/em><\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-47367\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/shutterstock_5308038761.jpg\" alt=\"casal a discutir\" width=\"800\" height=\"532\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/shutterstock_5308038761.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/shutterstock_5308038761-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/shutterstock_5308038761-768x511.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>There\u2019s no denying that fighting on occasion is inevitable in any relationship.<\/p>\n<p>Nobody agrees on everything at all times, so it\u2019s really okay \u2013 as long as the fight is fair and nobody tries to resort to low blows.<\/p>\n<p>E voc\u00eas os dois nunca o fazem. Gostam demasiado um do outro para lutarem de forma desagrad\u00e1vel e suja.<\/p>\n<p>You never hold your partner\u2019s past mistakes against them.<\/p>\n<p>Trabalha-se sobre as quest\u00f5es em causa e nunca se tenta desviar delas.<\/p>\n<p>A honestidade e a transpar\u00eancia s\u00e3o a cola que nos mant\u00e9m fortes!<\/p>\n<h2>4. <i>H\u00e1 sempre altos e baixos na nossa rela\u00e7\u00e3o, mas com voc\u00eas os dois, os altos superam os baixos de longe!<\/i><\/h2>\n<p>You\u2019ve been through your fair share of trials and tribulations.<\/p>\n<p>You\u2019ve weathered some harsh storms and moved past all the previous issues.<\/p>\n<p>And now, you can honestly say that you\u2019ve been having a wonderful time with each other where the good days are much more frequent than bad ones.<\/p>\n<p>Nobody says it\u2019s always going to be sunshine and rainbows, but you know that for any bad day, there are a hundred good ones.<\/p>\n<p>E os teus dias bons compensam os maus <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/true-love\/finding-the-one\/eu-sei-que-apaixonar-se-e-assustador-mas-o-homem-certo-fara-com-que-valha-a-pena\/\">vale a pena<\/a>e muito mais!<\/p>\n<h2>5. <i>You laugh with each other more than with anyone else in your life. Laughter is your favourite pastime and you\u2019re never lacking in that department!<\/i><\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-47368\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/shutterstock_7417593311.jpg\" alt=\"casal a rir e a abra\u00e7ar-se\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/shutterstock_7417593311.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/shutterstock_7417593311-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/shutterstock_7417593311-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Este deveria ser o caso de todos os casais que querem realmente resistir ao teste do tempo.<\/p>\n<p>Rir com o seu parceiro faz-nos sentir t\u00e3o bem, sem stress e apaixonados!<\/p>\n<p>And you two can\u2019t contain yourselves most of the time.<\/p>\n<p>You\u2019ve got your private jokes and your sense of humor is on the same level, so laughter is truly ever so present in your lives!<\/p>\n<p>And you wouldn\u2019t have it any other way.<\/p>\n<h2>6. <i>Os vossos planos para o futuro est\u00e3o alinhados e ambos sabem o que o outro quer a longo prazo, porque voc\u00eas tamb\u00e9m o querem!<\/i><\/h2>\n<p>There are no worries that you might realize your partner doesn\u2019t share the same goals and dreams as you.<\/p>\n<p>You\u2019ve already discussed all of these important issues and you\u2019re on the same page.<\/p>\n<p>Sabe exatamente qual \u00e9 a posi\u00e7\u00e3o do seu parceiro em rela\u00e7\u00e3o ao casamento, aos filhos e \u00e0 situa\u00e7\u00e3o de vida.<\/p>\n<p>Conhece o seu plano a 5 anos e vice-versa.<\/p>\n<p>You\u2019ve discussed it all and your goal is to make it all happen in the years to come, and most importantly \u2013 do it with each other and nobody else.<\/p>\n<h2><i>7. O seu parceiro \u00e9 o seu porto seguro e a sua casa. Com ele, o mundo deixa de existir, as suas preocupa\u00e7\u00f5es desaparecem e uma sensa\u00e7\u00e3o de tranquilidade invade todo o seu ser.<\/i><\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-47369\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/shutterstock_10713800541.jpg\" alt=\"casal a beber vinho\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/shutterstock_10713800541.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/shutterstock_10713800541-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/shutterstock_10713800541-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>O seu parceiro \u00e9 a sua casa.<\/p>\n<p>There\u2019s nowhere else you\u2019d go when you need to feel safe.<\/p>\n<p>There\u2019s no one else you\u2019d turn to when in crisis.<\/p>\n<p>They\u2019re your person and your rock.<\/p>\n<p>When you\u2019re with them, everything becomes okay for that moment.<\/p>\n<p>Whatever\u2019s going on in your life, it stops bothering you when they\u2019re near.&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s all peace, security, and tranquillity.<\/p>\n<p>E, nesses momentos, apercebemo-nos de como essa pessoa \u00e9 incrivelmente rara, especial e \u00fanica.<\/p>\n<p>Sem eles, nada \u00e9 igual.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-large wp-image-47365\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/organized-by-St.-Jude-Chapel115-724x1024.jpg\" alt=\"A lista de verifica\u00e7\u00e3o do casal que pode fazer ou desfazer a sua rela\u00e7\u00e3o\" width=\"724\" height=\"1024\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/organized-by-St.-Jude-Chapel115-724x1024.jpg 724w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/organized-by-St.-Jude-Chapel115-212x300.jpg 212w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/organized-by-St.-Jude-Chapel115-768x1086.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/organized-by-St.-Jude-Chapel115.jpg 1414w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 724px) 100vw, 724px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I\u2019ve got a really cool thing over here for all couples who\u2019d like to assess their relationship and see how much they actually &#8220;click&#8221;! Sure, all couples are different, but the gist is the same! There are certain things and aspects of a relationship where you simply need to be in sync in order for&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":53,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29614],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-47353","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-love-talks"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29614,"label":"love talks"}]},"featured_image_src_large":false,"author_info":{"display_name":"Ariel Quinn","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/ariel\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29614,"name":"love talks","slug":"love-talks","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29614,"taxonomy":"category","description":"What is love? 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