But out of all men I\u2019ve ever met who wanted to date me or who I was in a relationship with, I wouldn\u2019t be able to make one decent guy. <\/p>\n
Que raio se passa aqui?<\/b><\/p>\n
Where have all of the “good men” disappeared to?<\/b><\/p>\n
Bem, acho que o problema \u00e9 que os homens mudaram.<\/p>\n
They\u2019ve evolved into worse versions instead of better ones.<\/p>\n
Rather than keeping some old school moves and charm, they\u2019ve become lazy and self-absorbed. <\/p>\n
Bem, talvez n\u00e3o pregui\u00e7osos em geral, mas pregui\u00e7osos na forma como abordam as mulheres e as rela\u00e7\u00f5es.<\/p>\n
Most of them aren\u2019t ready to make any effort.<\/p>\n
Fazem tudo a seu bel-prazer. <\/p>\n
Eles esperam que esteja sempre pronto a entrar enquanto mant\u00eam as suas op\u00e7\u00f5es em aberto. <\/b><\/p>\n
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Some of them are intimidated by women because they\u2019ve become more powerful.<\/p>\n
Women today are independent and ambitious, and they don\u2019t need a man to take care of them. <\/p>\n
Then again, men don\u2019t like women who are codependent either.<\/p>\n
Chamam-lhes pegajosos e carentes e perdem o interesse. <\/p>\n
Parece que as melhores mulheres s\u00e3o aquelas que sabem manter o equil\u00edbrio entre o forte e o carente.<\/p>\n
But even that isn\u2019t enough when they stumble upon someone who is emotionally unavailable. <\/p>\n
Atualmente, a maioria dos homens tem mais medo do compromisso do que do monstro que t\u00eam debaixo da cama quando s\u00e3o pequenos. <\/b><\/p>\n
So they like to keep things \u201ccasual.\u201d<\/p>\n
Querem benef\u00edcios de uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o, mas n\u00e3o uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/p>\n
They simply don\u2019t want to make even the slightest commitment. <\/p>\n
Os \"fuckboys\" est\u00e3o acima dos \"commitment-phobes\" e podem ser encontrados em qualquer esquina. <\/b><\/p>\n
These guys share the same fear of being \u201ctied down\u201d in a relationship, but they\u2019re masters at playing games with female hearts. <\/p>\n
Desaparecem durante dias e depois voltam como se nada tivesse acontecido.<\/p>\n
Utilizam as mensagens de texto como uma t\u00e9cnica de manipula\u00e7\u00e3o e n\u00e3o como uma ferramenta de comunica\u00e7\u00e3o. <\/p>\n
Tipos como este quase nunca nos deixam saber qual \u00e9 a nossa posi\u00e7\u00e3o desde o in\u00edcio.<\/p>\n
Dizem exatamente o que pensam que queremos ouvir. <\/p>\n
They sweet-talk you into thinking that there\u2019s potential for something more, but sooner or later you find out that they\u2019re only interested in how to get into your pants. <\/b><\/p>\n
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Os \"fuckboys\" e outros falhados anseiam pela sua aten\u00e7\u00e3o e pela aten\u00e7\u00e3o de todas as outras raparigas que conhecem.<\/p>\n
So they\u2019ll beg you to send nudes they can add to their collection. <\/p>\n
S\u00e3o mal-educados, desrespeitosos e sentem-se no direito de ocupar o seu tempo e espa\u00e7o.<\/p>\n
Os homens t\u00f3xicos, manipuladores e narcisistas s\u00e3o tamb\u00e9m a nossa realidade. <\/b><\/p>\n
There are so many red flags we need to watch out for that we can\u2019t relax and enjoy dating anymore. <\/p>\n
These types of men are not so easy to spot, so we usually recognize them when we\u2019ve already developed feelings for them and it\u2019s become harder to let them go. <\/p>\n
Some of us who had the misfortune of dating some of these worst men ended up with relationship PTSD \u2013 emotionally broken, low self-esteem, and fear of relationships are just some side effects. <\/p>\n
This is just scratching the surface, but it\u2019s pretty obvious it\u2019s not easy for women today to find someone who deserves to be their boyfriend.<\/b><\/p>\n
It\u2019s gruelling to find someone trustworthy, genuine, and normal.<\/p>\n
![\"casal](\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/shutterstock_10516005261.jpg\")
<\/p>\n
Todos os outros tons escuros de homens s\u00e3o f\u00e1ceis de encontrar.<\/p>\n
Parece que s\u00e3o a maioria. <\/p>\n
However, I strongly believe that good men still exist \u2013 they\u2019re just an endangered species.<\/p>\n
It\u2019s no piece of cake finding them, but it\u2019s also not impossible.<\/p>\n
S\u00f3 que demora um pouco mais do que qualquer um de n\u00f3s desejaria. <\/p>\n
That\u2019s why it\u2019s better to stay single until someone worthy comes along.<\/p>\n
It\u2019s better to have peace in your soul and happiness you yourself created than being in a relationship with just anybody.<\/p>\n
So the next time someone asks you why you\u2019re still single, be sure to tell them you still haven\u2019t found someone worthy of the title.<\/p>\n
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