{"id":47391,"date":"2020-06-13T14:17:10","date_gmt":"2020-06-13T14:17:10","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=47391"},"modified":"2022-02-17T17:34:07","modified_gmt":"2022-02-17T17:34:07","slug":"8-sinais-claros-de-que-esta-a-ser-enganado-por-um-jogador","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/8-sinais-claros-de-que-esta-a-ser-enganado-por-um-jogador\/","title":{"rendered":"8 Sinais claros de que est\u00e1 a ser enganado por um jogador"},"content":{"rendered":"

So, you’ve been seeing this guy for a while now and you’ve learned a lot about each other’s habits, wishes, dreams, and lifestyle.<\/p>\n

Perhaps you even met his friends and family, and he’s told you all of his secrets and let you “explore his world.” <\/p>\n

Provavelmente, ele gosta de todas as suas publica\u00e7\u00f5es nas redes sociais e passar tempo consigo \u00e9 a sua prioridade n\u00famero um.<\/p>\n

It’s evident that you’re in love with each other and he’s the one for you. Ou talvez n\u00e3o?<\/b><\/p>\n

Quando se olha para o seu comportamento mais de perto e de uma perspetiva mais aprofundada, percebe-se que as coisas n\u00e3o s\u00e3o o que parecem.<\/p>\n

He might be texting you regularly and never missing any of your phone calls, yet still be playing a cruel dating game \u2013 stringing you along. <\/p>\n

Portanto, a quest\u00e3o \u00e9: Est\u00e1 a ser enganada por um jogador, apesar de ele lhe parecer realmente um bom rapaz e de a ter convencido do contr\u00e1rio? <\/b><\/p>\n

\"casal<\/p>\n

You probably think that there\u2019s no point in asking him anything about what you two have because if you do, you might appear too pushy, insecure, or childish. And you definitely don’t want that. <\/p>\n

Por isso, ignora todas as bandeiras vermelhas e sinais de aviso e convence-se de que s\u00f3 precisa de mais tempo para desenvolver uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o s\u00e9ria, ou que ele s\u00f3 precisa de mais tempo para ver as coisas com mais clareza e come\u00e7ar a fazer corresponder as suas palavras \u00e0s suas ac\u00e7\u00f5es.<\/p>\n

Pensas e fazes tudo isto porque ele te fez pensar assim.<\/p>\n

His every action has the specific purpose of making you believe that things are perfect, even though they\u2019re actually far from it.<\/p>\n

And by doing this, he’s just buying more time to keep stringing you along.<\/p>\n

It’s time to open your eyes and see things as they are. If any of the following signs sound familiar to you, you’re being strung along by a player!<\/p>\n

Ele evita falar sobre o futuro<\/h2>\n

\"Mulher<\/p>\n

You hang out, you laugh, you talk for hours on every topic under the sun, but there’s simply no mention about the future.<\/p>\n

And whenever you try to take things to the next level, he’s simply not willing to participate and say what he really means. <\/p>\n

You have no problems answering his every question, but you know that if you asked him about your future together, he wouldn’t be that pleased.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s evident that all he’s doing is applying the double standards rule and using you for an ego boost.<\/p>\n

The more you’re scared of asking him questions about the future and where things are going, the more he’ll feel powerful and the one in control.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s clear that he’s a narcissist in disguise who is not interested in uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o duradoura e saud\u00e1vel<\/a>.<\/p>\n

Instead, the only thing he’s really keen on is taking you for granted and treating you like a choice instead of a priority, all the while patiently waiting for someone new to enter his life and replace you. <\/p>\n

That\u2019s the only reason why he’s neither willing to let you go nor to treat you the way you deserve.<\/p>\n

By making you feel like you\u2019re in limbo, he’s just buying time to keep treating you like shit and boost his self-esteem and egocentric nature.<\/p>\n

He’s ghosting you<\/a> and then popping back up only when it’s convenient <\/h2>\n

\"Homem<\/p>\n

According to relationship experts, ghosting is one of the most frequent methods used by players, narcissists, and other “toxic crew.” Now, let me explain the concept of ghosting.<\/p>\n

He’s planning dates, texting you back frequently, always calling you and then, all of a sudden, he stops planning anything (let alone dates), there\u2019s silence on the texting front, and he backs out last minute and disappears into the unknown.<\/p>\n

You don’t see him or hear from him for days, weeks, or even months.<\/p>\n

During this period, you start losing your mind and revising everything you’ve ever said or done, thinking that the problem lies in you.<\/p>\n

You convince yourself that you did something wrong and that\u2019s the only reason for his sudden disappearance from your life.<\/p>\n

E depois, ap\u00f3s o per\u00edodo sem contacto, ele entra na sua vida com uma desculpa perfeita, como se nada tivesse acontecido.<\/p>\n

He even makes you feel sorry for him and his “misfortunes,” and if you start questioning his intentions, he’s even ready to accuse you of overreacting.<\/p>\n

After ghosting you, he pops back up into your life only when it’s convenient for him \u2013 or put simply, when he has no one else to replace you.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s just how a player’s mind functions. If any of this sound familiar to you, you know that you’re being strung along, and it’s time to set new rules and save yourself!<\/p>\n

He doesn’t accept you for who you are<\/h2>\n

\"Uma<\/p>\n

Ele faz-nos sentir culpados pelos nossos defeitos, h\u00e1bitos e todas as pequenas coisas que fazem de n\u00f3s quem somos.<\/p>\n

Ele faz-nos sentir menos dignos e lembra-nos constantemente apenas as coisas negativas.<\/p>\n

He’s not only unwilling to accept you for who you really are, he’s also comparing you with other women or an imaginary “perfect woman” that you should become.<\/p>\n

He’s doing all of this because he’s frustrated and dissatisfied with himself in the first place.<\/p>\n

Also, he doesn’t accept you for who you are in order to keep making you feel less worthy.<\/p>\n

Esta \u00e9 uma das estrat\u00e9gias mais poderosas quando se trata de enganar e manipular.<\/p>\n

By making you feel like shit and stringing you along, he’s making you more attached to himself, which is his main goal.<\/p>\n

He needs to know that you’ll keep fighting for him and accepting him whenever he decides to come back into your life, no matter how bad he treated you.<\/p>\n

It’s the only way for him to keep playing his dirty game and preserve the status of “an innocent man.”<\/p>\n

Falta de comunica\u00e7\u00e3o significativa<\/h2>\n

\"Casal<\/p>\n

You no longer have eye-to-eye, inspiring, meaningful conversations with each other because he doesn’t even bother sharing anything with you about his life.<\/p>\n

Tudo o que fazem \u00e9 cumprimentarem-se e continuarem com a vossa rotina. <\/p>\n

There\u2019s no deep connection, cuddling, or anything related to intimacy. Also, you go out of your way to ask him questions about his hobbies, friends, job, and other things only to make him talk and finally get some feedback.<\/p>\n

Mas isso nunca acontece. Quanto mais tentamos chegar a ele, mais ele se afasta, certo?<\/p>\n

The more you text him, the more he’s unwilling to text you back. The same goes with calls and everything else.<\/p>\n

Then you start making excuses for his shitty behavior, thinking that this is how a relationship develops in the modern dating world. But deep down in your heart, you know that this isn’t true.<\/p>\n

After that, you start looking for dating advice from your friends or online in order to find out what the hell\u2019s actually going on.<\/p>\n

And that is when you realize that you’re being strung along by a player who is not willing to lift a finger, let alone have a meaningful conversation with you or treat you with respect and dignity.<\/p>\n

Ver tamb\u00e9m: Ele \u00e9 um jogador? 13 sinais de alerta de que um homem n\u00e3o est\u00e1 a falar a s\u00e9rio contigo<\/a><\/p>\n

He doesn’t bother introducing you to his friends and family<\/h2>\n

\"Mulher<\/p>\n

He never mentions his friends or any single member of his family, as if they don’t even exist.<\/p>\n

E sempre que lhe pedimos para nos falar mais sobre eles, ele evita-o como a peste e fica visivelmente confuso ou irritado. <\/p>\n

You can’t think of any valid reason why he\u2019d dodge introducing you to his friends and family because you’ve been having a good time together and everything seems perfect.<\/p>\n

You expected that your relationship would flourish, that you\u2019d finally include your friends and family into the story as well, but unfortunately that’s the last thing on his mind at the moment. <\/p>\n

Porqu\u00ea?<\/p>\n

Porque apresentar-te aos amigos e \u00e0 fam\u00edlia dele significa entrar na zona das rela\u00e7\u00f5es s\u00e9rias<\/a>, which is a big no-no for him, given that all he really wants is to continue treating you like an option \u2013 like someone that he\u2019ll likely replace someday with someone else.<\/p>\n

If this is happening to you, I’m sorry to tell you, but you’re being strung along by a player who doesn’t want anything serious with you and isn\u2019t ready to show you proudly to his friends and family!<\/p>\n

Trust me on this, a guy who\u2019s ready to make you his, respect you, fight for you, and genuinely make an effort would never bypass introducing you to the people who matter to him.<\/p>\n

He’s constantly disrespecting you<\/h2>\n

\"jovem<\/p>\n

Ser enganado equivale a ser constantemente desrespeitado e for\u00e7ado a sentir-se menos digno e sem import\u00e2ncia.<\/p>\n

There are many forms of disrespect and if he exhibits any of the following, you know that you’re being strung along for sure.<\/p>\n

You know that it’s time to work a little bit more on self-love and appreciating yourself more:<\/p>\n